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Human beings are undeniably complex, and what motivates us can often be a mystery, even to ourselves. So, how do we go about gathering and analyzing the data that will help us answer the most fundamental questions about our lives and our purpose? The answers may lie in an unexpectedly rich source of knowledge, our regrets. While regret is likely to have a decidedly negative connotation for most of us, it is also extremely powerful and can teach us a great deal about ourselves and what we value. It is an emotion that is present in all of us, and social scientists (like anthropologists and sociologists) have been fascinated by the subject for decades. Today on the show, we are joined by one such expert, Daniel Pink, author of the book The Power of Regret: How Looking Backward Moves Us Forward. In our conversation, Daniel shares details about the research he conducted for his book, how he determined the four main categories of regret, and what we can learn from our regrets by confronting them head-on. We also discuss Daniel’s 2011 New York Times Bestselling title, Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us, and what he thinks about working from home in light of the COVID-19 pandemic. Daniel is an exceptional storyteller and is highly knowledgeable on the subjects of regret, motivation, and the important role they play in our lives. To learn more about the many facets of regret and how it can help you thrive, be sure to tune in today!
Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
3:48 Daniel describes the emotion of regret
5:03 Daniel differentiates regret from disappointment
8:59 The core regrets that encompass most peoples' regrets
11:41 The "Core Four" regrets
25:38 The benefits of having regrets
29:10 How people should respond to regret
37:39 What motivates people
45:30 Motivating team members in a "Work from home" environment
47:13 Common misconceptions when using Daniel's model
58:04 Daniel defines success in his life
Participate in our Community Discussion about this Episode:
community.rationalreminder.ca/t/episode-246-daniel-h-pink-how-to-use-regret-episode-discussion/22775
Books From Today’s Episode:
The Power of Regret — amzn.to/42HArID
Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us — amzn.to/40jDpl7
To Sell Is Human — amzn.to/3K9M2ci
Free Agent Nation — amzn.to/40knovb
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Rational Reminder on iTunes — itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-rational-reminder-podcast/id1426530582.
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Join the Community — community.rationalreminder.ca
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Daniel H. Pink — danpink.com
Human beings are undeniably complex, and what motivates us can often be a mystery, even to ourselves. So, how do we go about gathering and analyzing the data that will help us answer the most fundamental questions about our lives and our purpose? The answers may lie in an unexpectedly rich source of knowledge, our regrets. While regret is likely to have a decidedly negative connotation for most of us, it is also extremely powerful and can teach us a great deal about ourselves and what we value. It is an emotion that is present in all of us, and social scientists (like anthropologists and sociologists) have been fascinated by the subject for decades. Today on the show, we are joined by one such expert, Daniel Pink, author of the book The Power of Regret: How Looking Backward Moves Us Forward. In our conversation, Daniel shares details about the research he conducted for his book, how he determined the four main categories of regret, and what we can learn from our regrets by confronting them head-on. We also discuss Daniel’s 2011 New York Times Bestselling title, Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us, and what he thinks about working from home in light of the COVID-19 pandemic. Daniel is an exceptional storyteller and is highly knowledgeable on the subjects of regret, motivation, and the important role they play in our lives. To learn more about the many facets of regret and how it can help you thrive, be sure to tune in today!
Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
3:48 Daniel describes the emotion of regret
5:03 Daniel differentiates regret from disappointment
8:59 The core regrets that encompass most peoples' regrets
11:41 The "Core Four" regrets
25:38 The benefits of having regrets
29:10 How people should respond to regret
37:39 What motivates people
45:30 Motivating team members in a "Work from home" environment
47:13 Common misconceptions when using Daniel's model
58:04 Daniel defines success in his life
Participate in our Community Discussion about this Episode:
community.rationalreminder.ca/t/episode-246-daniel-h-pink-how-to-use-regret-episode-discussion/22775
Books From Today’s Episode:
The Power of Regret — amzn.to/42HArID
Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us — amzn.to/40jDpl7
To Sell Is Human — amzn.to/3K9M2ci
Free Agent Nation — amzn.to/40knovb
Links From Today’s Episode:
Rational Reminder on iTunes — itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-rational-reminder-podcast/id1426530582.
Rational Reminder Website — rationalreminder.ca
Shop Merch — shop.rationalreminder.ca
Join the Community — community.rationalreminder.ca
Follow us on Twitter — twitter.com/RationalRemind
Follow us on Instagram — @rationalreminder
Benjamin on Twitter — twitter.com/benjaminwfelix
Cameron on Twitter — twitter.com/CameronPassmore
Daniel H. Pink on Twitter — twitter.com/danielpink
Daniel H. Pink — danpink.com
