Clinical Psychologist: Why Everyday Emotions Aren’t Disorders | Dr. Alison Greco | EP 37 Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-07-01 | In this heartfelt conversation, clinical psychologist Dr. Alison Greco challenges modern assumptions about emotional distress, uncovering why our everyday struggles with grief, anxiety, and life transitions shouldn’t be hastily labeled as disorders. Drawing on her experiences from prisons to college counseling and community mental health, Alison reveals an overlooked truth: not every emotional struggle is a pathology needing therapy. She shares eye-opening insights about how our current healthcare system forces therapists into diagnosing individuals simply to secure insurance coverage, and how this creates false narratives about our mental health.In this episode you’ll learn:- Why OVER-PATHOLOGIZING emotions like grief, stress, and exhaustion is BAD.- How emotionally IMMATURE parents NEGATIVELY influence their children’s development.- Practical ways to GENUINELY support someone during difficult life transitions without ASSUMING their emotional state.- The untold risks of MISLABELING CHILDREN with disorders such as AUTISM or ADHD due to misunderstanding their true needs.- How finding a MENTOR with a BIGGER VISION for you than you have for yourself can transform your life and career.This conversation sheds much-needed light on understanding human emotions authentically, while redefining how we seek and offer emotional support.Thank you for listening.*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Reddit: reddit.com/r/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG*OUTLINE:*00:00 Introduction01:08 Alison’s Background08:10 Are We Over-Pathologizing Feelings?13:17 Grief, Gender & Emotional Expression22:18 Clean vs Dirty Pain24:38 Helping Loved Ones in Crisis33:28 Diagnoses, DSM-5 & Autism48:01 Parenting, Misdiagnosis & Medication01:04:51 People-Pleasing & Immature Parents01:14:09 Psychologist vs Psychoanalyst01:30:36 Women, Mentorship & Workplace Power01:45:30 Victimhood, Power & Safety02:09:36 Men’s Reactions to Female Leaders02:14:45 Visionary Mentorship & Personal Growth02:25:13 Final Thoughts & Outro*ALISON GRECO LINKS:*Parathera Website: para-thera.comParathera Instagram: instagram.com/tryparatheraAlison's LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/alisongreco*CONTACT LINKS:*To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contactThis episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.
FBI Sleep Expert: How to Get Better Sleep & Beat Insomnia and Sleep Apnea | Dr. Leah Kaylor | EP 47 Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-10-07 | Drowsy driving is deadlier than drunk driving. In this episode, Dr. Leah Kaylor explains why your sleep is a safety issue, not just a lifestyle choice. She is a licensed clinical and prescribing psychologist, the FBI’s in-house sleep expert with a specialty in sleep and trauma, and a relentless educator on evidence-based fixes. 1. Reset your clock: keep a consistent wake time and get outside within an hour of waking. Morning light signals the suprachiasmatic nucleus, shuts off lingering melatonin, and jump-starts alertness. 2. Master evenings: dim overheads, use lamps or warm smart bulbs, and let your space darken with sunset. Keep bedrooms cool in the low 60s. 3. If you work nights: use a sunrise alarm and timed bright-light therapy to shift rhythm; front-load a healthy meal; sip caffeine little and often with a hard cutoff 6–8 hours before bed; no sunglasses while commuting home if you are driving; sleep in a dark, quiet, truly blackout room. 4. Safety first: learn the “nappuccino” (espresso, then a 20-minute nap). It outperforms either alone when fatigue hits mid-commute. Microsleeps make you stop steering and braking entirely. Pull over. 5. Insomnia or apnea: insomnia shows up as trouble falling, staying asleep, or waking unrefreshed; obstructive sleep apnea often hides behind loud snoring, morning headaches, and crushing daytime fatigue. Get a sleep study. 6. Habits that help: avoid long or late naps; reserve the bed for the three S’s only—sleep, sex, sickness; set boundaries with screens and games; watch caffeine’s 4–6 hour half-life; skip alcohol as a “sleep aid” since it fragments sleep and suppresses REM. Thank you for listening.*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Reddit: reddit.com/r/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG*OUTLINE:*00:00 What a Sleep Psychologist Does01:53 Why the FBI Needs Sleep Science04:51 Three High-Impact Sleep Habits10:18 Consistent Schedule, Sunrise Alarms, and Light15:40 What Is Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)17:18 Shift-Work Survival: Strategies and Support23:10 Drowsy Driving and the Nappuccino30:41 Night Shifts and Cancer Risk39:33 Are You Actually Sleep Deprived44:32 Wired but Tired; Does Creatine Help48:35 Screens, Gaming, and Bedtime Procrastination57:05 Train Your Brain: The Three S’s1:06:26 Insomnia vs Sleep Apnea1:21:26 Naps, Sleep Inertia, and Timing1:28:25 The Effect of Alcohol on Sleep1:30:26 The Myth of 4-Hour Sleep1:38:54 Final Thoughts & Outro*LEAH KAYLOR LINKS:*Leah Kaylor's Website & Book: drleahkaylor.comLeah Kaylor on YouTube: youtube.com/@DrLeahKaylorLeah Kaylor on Instagram: instagram.com/drleahkaylorLeah Kaylor on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drleahkaylor*CONTACT LINKS:*To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contact
Psychotherapist: Rethinking Autism, Education, and Mindfulness | Michael Ostrolenk | EP 46 Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-09-09 | At nine, Michael Ostrolenk refused a psychiatrist’s quick-fix, walked out, and followed a different map: guided imagery, biofeedback, meditation, and martial arts. That choice shaped everything. Years later, a brutal one-two of loss during an MBA program forced a pivot into transpersonal and somatic psychology, coaching, and a decade building programs with SEALFIT. In this conversation, Michael traces the line from a mislabeled “learning disabled” kid to a clinician and coach who helps people regulate their nervous systems, deepen relationships, and live with agency.We talk about:- Why the industrial school model rewards compliance, and how unschooling or democratic free schools can cultivate curiosity.- When to consider sleep, nutrition, movement, family dynamics, and environment before reaching for Ritalin or Concerta, plus the limited, tactical role stimulants might play for adults.- AM and PM rituals that work: sleep hygiene, 5-7 breathing to calm, box breathing to focus, light movement, gratitude.- How somatic work unfreezes anger or sadness, and how to measure change using first, second, and third person feedback.- What mindfulness actually is: the trained witness that turns reactivity into choice.Thank you for listening.*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Reddit: reddit.com/r/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG*OUTLINE:*00:00 Introduction01:43 Who Is Michael Ostrolenk?04:45 Questioning Education and Early Struggles08:47 Alternative Healing and Martial Arts at Age Nine11:12 Rethinking Education for Children17:07 Holistic Approaches for Parents20:51 Parenting, Pressure, and the 80/20 Rule23:34 Perspectives on Ritalin and Concerta29:26 Creativity, School, and Medication33:36 Origins of the Industrial Education System42:02 Turning Point: From MBA to Psychology47:06 Exploring Transpersonal Psychology52:46 Psychedelics, Therapy, and Consciousness54:07 Understanding Mind–Body Connection01:00:06 Working With Couples and Emotions01:11:59 Practical Habits for Sleep, Diet, and Movement01:17:45 Breathing and Guided Meditation for Sleep01:23:56 Morning Rituals and Preparation Practices01:28:50 Tracking Progress and Measuring Change01:33:59 Mindfulness vs. Consciousness01:39:01 What Lack of Mindfulness Looks Like01:45:40 Does Mindfulness Make Life More Frustrating?01:48:09 Agreements, Relationships, and Appreciation01:58:40 Final Thoughts*MICHAEL OSTROLENK LINKS:*Michael's Youtube Channel: youtube.com/@michaeldostrolenk/videosMichael's LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/michael-ostrolenk-ma-mft-324665Michael's Instagram: instagram.com/mostrolenkMichael's X: https://x.com/mostrolenk*CONTACT LINKS:*To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contactThis episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.
The “Bait Question” Investigators Use to Expose Lies Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-09-03 | Former United States Secret Service agent Brad Beeler explains how detectives use bait questions to catch inconsistencies in a suspect’s story, illustrated with a chilling real-life homicide case. The difference between a firm “no” and a hesitant “I hope not” can reveal everything.
The Lasting Impact of Emotionally Immature Parenting Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-09-01 | Dr. Alison Greco explains how emotionally immature parents see children as extensions of themselves, forcing kids to adapt by becoming people pleasers. This dynamic creates long-term challenges, leaving many adults navigating the world with deep-rooted patterns of self-sacrifice and trauma.
How to Support Someone in Crisis the Right Way Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-08-31 | Dr. Alison Greco explains that the first step is always ensuring safety — but beyond that, people in crisis often don’t know what they need. By offering clear, concrete options instead of vague questions, you lighten their cognitive load and truly show up for them.
The Narcissist’s Cycle of Envy and Projection Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-08-28 | Dr. Sterlin Mosley explains how narcissists track who has what, envy others, and then siphon value, whether it’s wealth, talent, or ideas. Their insecurity fuels projection, making them believe everyone else is trying to take from them too.
High-Conflict Divorce Coach: How to Fight Legal Abuse & Coercive Control | Lisa Johnson | EP 45 Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-08-26 | Is family court protecting you or enabling abuse? In this episode, high-conflict divorce coach Lisa Johnson of Been There Got Out breaks down how “legal abuse” and coercive control play out in real cases, and why smart strategy (and not just righteousness) wins in court. Drawing from her own litigation (including arguing an appeal herself that resulted in a published decision in the Connecticut Law Journal), Lisa shows how to navigate a system that often rewards gamesmanship over truth.We talk about:1. What legal abuse and “legal gaslighting” look like day-to-day—and how to keep your footing when the other side twists facts.2. The discipline of “writing for the invisible audience”: turning every message into admissible evidence, building a clean paper trail, and avoiding reactive traps.3. Going pro se: when it’s viable, preparation pitfalls, and how courts actually perceive self-represented litigants.4. Enforcement that works: why “orders with teeth” (deadlines and consequences) matter more than ideal rulings—and how to push for them.5. Jennifer’s Law and the shift toward recognizing coercive control, expanding the legal lens beyond physical violence.6. A hard-earned case study: college-education obligations, repeated contempt findings, and the grind of appeals—plus the practical mindset that gets results without losing yourself.If you’re facing a high-conflict ex, custody battles, or a court process that feels endless, Lisa’s playbook offers clarity, language, and leverage you can use immediately.Thank you for listening.*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Reddit: reddit.com/r/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG*OUTLINE:*00:00 Introduction01:33 Lisa's Background04:14 Early Red Flags06:42 The Discovery and Denial11:03 Telling the Kids12:31 Betrayal Trauma & Identity Shock20:15 Couples Counseling Gone Wrong25:39 Why He Fought to Keep Control33:14 Filing for Divorce & His Exit41:23 Fighting for College Support & Enforcement50:38 Going Pro Se & Facing Retaliation57:32 How to Persuade a Court: Logos, Pathos, Ethos1:10:05 Legal Gaslighting & Getting Help1:16:21 Strategic Communication: Build Your Paper Trail1:20:02 Proving You’re a Good Parent1:24:44 Shielding Kids From Court Conflict1:27:18 Jennifer’s Law, Coercive Control & Orders With Teeth1:35:43 From Survivor to Coach1:45:02 Key Advice for Listeners1:47:00 Final Thoughts & Outro*LISA JOHNSON LINKS:*Been There Got Out Website: beentheregotout.comBeen There Got Out on Instagram: instagram.com/been_there_got_outBeen There Got Out on X: https://x.com/BeenThereGotOut*CONTACT LINKS:*To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contactThis episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.
The True Meaning of Intimacy Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-08-26 | Dr. Bruce Chalmer explains that intimacy isn’t just about sex. It’s about honesty, presence, and feeling alive with another person. When we prioritize stability over truth, we often sacrifice the very intimacy that makes relationships meaningful.
Are Some People Truly Evil? Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-08-21 | Former Secret Service Agent Brad Beeler shares chilling real-life stories of killers and predators, explaining the difference between crimes driven by circumstance and those committed by people who seem born to do evil.
Body Language Hacks That Build Instant Trust Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-08-20 | Former Secret Service Agent Brad Beeler reveals how subtle cues—like leaning forward, eyebrow flashes, and a confident handshake—can shape first impressions and create positive bias in any interaction.
Christian Apologist: Morality, Meaning, and the Case for God | Joshua Spatha | EP 44 Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-08-19 | Joshua Spatha majored in anthropology with a minor in Old Testament studies and has served in full-time missions since 2006, primarily across the Middle East and Asia. An ordained minister and disciple‑maker with Youth With A Mission (YWAM), Joshua blends frontline ministry with academic insight, as he prepares for long-term ministry in Central Asia.In our conversation, you'll hear how Western culture’s reliance on materialism and humanism has fueled a deep meaning crisis, and why happiness alone no longer sustains us. Joshua shares compelling analogies to illustrate how adopting a self‑centered framework inevitably leads to emptiness and incoherence. He challenges the question, “What’s in it for me?” as the wrong foundation.This episode is not just about morality: it’s about how reason and spiritual depth intertwine, why faith isn’t a blind leap, and how a rational embrace of the supernatural reclaims meaning.Thank you for listening.*VIDEO ISSUE:*There’s currently a stuttering issue with the video feed on my side. I’m not sure how this happened, and it seems to have carried over into some future conversations that have already been recorded. We’re working on resolving it as quickly as possible. Thank you for listening regardless, and my sincere apologies for the issue.*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Reddit: reddit.com/r/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG*OUTLINE:*00:00 Introduction01:44 The Modern Meaning Crisis07:48 Enlightenment’s Impact on Faith11:23 From Religion to Self-Focus14:55 Science, Truth & Worldviews20:02 Personal Meaning vs Objective Reality31:45 Christianity’s Case for Human Flourishing36:49 Secular Morality Under the Microscope44:42 Chaos, Materialism & Ethics01:07:16 Implicit Spirituality & Cognitive Dissonance01:16:29 The Universal Conscience01:19:29 Free Will and Belief Change01:53:39 Miracles: Chance or Design?02:22:05 Practicing and Testing Faith02:32:47 Final Thoughts & Outro*JOSHUA SPATHA LINKS:*Joshua's Website & Book: mperspective.org*CONTACT LINKS:*To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contactThis episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.
Former Cult Insider: Inside the Dark World of “Love Has Won” | Andrew-Ryan Profaci | EP 43 Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-08-12 | Andrew-Ryan Profaci thought he found spiritual truth, but instead became entangled in the bizarre world of a modern cult known as “Love Has Won.” Driven by curiosity and a deep desire for meaning, Andrew-Ryan quickly rose from outsider to insider, witnessing firsthand the manipulation tactics of cult leader Amy Carlson, referred to by members as “Mother God,” whom he once cared for deeply.In this raw and honest conversation, we talk about: - What initially drew Andrew to the cult known as "Love Has Won."- A vivid portrayal of daily life within the cult.- The leadership’s layered control tactics and massive financial exploitation.- An individual who secretly orchestrated and controlled the cult behind the scenes.- What really happened before and directly after Amy Carlson’s death, and why Andrew now speaks out.Thank you for listening.*VIDEO ISSUE:*There’s currently a stuttering issue with the video feed on my side. I’m not sure how this happened, and it seems to have carried over into some future conversations that have already been recorded. We’re working on resolving it as quickly as possible. Thank you for listening regardless, and my sincere apologies for the issue.*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Reddit: reddit.com/r/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG*OUTLINE:*00:00 Introduction02:26 What Is “Love Has Won”?04:09 From Community to Cult06:11 The Origins: Amy Carlson’s Intentions09:47 Andrew’s Journey Begins11:08 Searching for Meaning: Why People Join15:41 Missing Self-Love and Authenticity17:42 Manipulation & Control Tactics18:57 Patterns in Cult Dynamics23:51 Daily Life Inside the Cult27:46 Recruitment and Indoctrination Process30:26 Cult Hierarchy33:10 Andrew’s Inner Conflict: Amy vs. “Mother God”40:51 How Media Portrayed Amy Carlson43:16 Behind the Persona: Why Amy Became “Mother God”48:19 Miguel Lamboy: The "Hidden Hand"56:03 Andrew vs. Miguel: The Proxy War58:06 Challenging Amy’s Delusions01:05:37 Descent into Darkness: Cult’s Final Days01:13:23 Did Resistance Make Things Worse?01:16:29 The Consequences of Leaving “Love Has Won”01:23:34 Redefining Love and Trust01:28:18 Amy’s Death: Tragedy & Questions Unanswered01:42:48 Amy: Victim or Perpetrator?01:47:36 Final Words to Amy01:49:00 Why Andrew Speaks Out01:55:59 Final Thoughts*ANDREW-RYAN PROFACI LINKS:*Andrew's Website & Book: thewaronlove.comAndrew's Instagram: instagram.com/andrew_ryan_profaciAndrew's LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/andrewrprofaci*CONTACT LINKS:*To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contactThis episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.
Narcissism: Armor Against Vulnerability Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-08-08 | Dr. Sterlin Mosley describes narcissism as emotional armor that blocks vulnerability and self-reflection. Even when confronted with their own traits, narcissists often deflect by projecting those traits onto others.
Knowledge Is Useless If It Serves No One Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-08-06 | Anthony David Vernon cautions against being overly academic or tied to abstract models, urging a shift toward knowledge with real-world impact. He emphasizes using what you know to serve others—your community, friends, and family—not just to accumulate facts.
Couples Therapist: How to Feel Truly Alive in Your Relationship | Dr. Bruce Chalmer | EP 42 Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-08-05 | After decades of guiding couples through their most challenging moments, Dr. Bruce Chalmer understands what truly brings relationships to life. With a deeply personal journey from statistics to psychology, Bruce discovered that helping couples navigate intimacy, stability, and the complexities of forgiveness wasn’t just a profession. It was a calling.In our conversation, Bruce explores profound insights on what makes relationships thrive or fail. He thoughtfully challenges common assumptions, offering the provocative question: “Do you feel alive in your relationship?” Bruce delves into why many couples drift apart, becoming roommates instead of romantic partners, and how they can rekindle lost connections. We also explore how infidelity, while deeply traumatic, can paradoxically create opportunities for renewed intimacy and trust.This episode is a meditation on the meaning of commitment, why marriage matters very deeply, and how embracing the discomfort of honesty can lead couples toward genuine fulfillment and emotional closeness.Thank you for listening.*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Reddit: reddit.com/r/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG*OUTLINE:*00:00 Introduction01:55 Discovering a Calling in Relationship Therapy04:13 Career Transitions and Finding Purpose06:04 Couples Therapy vs. Relationship Therapy: Clarifying Terms07:55 Coaching vs. Therapy: The Real Differences09:46 How Couples Therapy Actually Works12:34 Marriage as a Path to Growth17:28 Why Marriage Rates Are Declining21:53 Cultural and Economic Reasons Behind Fewer Marriages29:22 Why We Still Romanticize Marriage31:52 Stability vs. Intimacy in Relationships39:02 Emotional Bank Accounts in Marriage41:20 Why Being Annoyed is Actually Good45:10 Understanding the True Value of Marriage51:16 The Difference Between a Contract and a Covenant56:33 The Psychological Damage of Infidelity01:00:06 Forgiveness, Trust, and Moving Forward01:09:35 Why Faith is Essential in Relationships01:12:03 Are Humans Biologically Monogamous?01:20:41 How Do I Know if I’m a Good Partner?01:32:45 How Can You Tell if a Marriage is Fundamentally Healthy?01:34:43 When Relationships Feel Like Roommates01:40:36 Reaching Heaven by Passing Through Hell01:51:31 When to Seek Couples Therapy01:58:09 What Relationships Truly Represent02:05:44 Final Thoughts*BRUCE CHALMER LINKS:*Bruce's Website & Books: brucechalmer.comCouples Therapy in Seven Words Podcast (Apple): podcasts.apple.com/nl/podcast/couples-therapy-in-seven-words/id1517231158?l=en-GBCouples Therapy in Seven Words Podcast (Spotify): open.spotify.com/show/5oobSIkSXSCVaTAITMTTa7?si=b77adaf04c22495c*CONTACT LINKS:*To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contactThis episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.
The Hidden Side of Negative Narcissism Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-08-04 | Dr. Sterlin Mosley explains that narcissism isn’t always grandiose—it can also show up as self-pity and self-blame, rooted in the same fear of vulnerability. He argues that all forms of narcissism, whether inflated or deflated, are survival strategies driven by ego.
How to Handle Stubborn Negotiators Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-08-03 | Jeffrey van Leeuwen and George van Houtem explore how to navigate negotiations with inflexible leaders who block progress. George emphasizes assessing the power dynamic and, when appropriate, calling their bluff to regain leverage.
Feel to Heal: Emotions Don’t Always Break You Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-08-01 | Alison Greco challenges the belief that deeply feeling emotions impairs our ability to function. She explains that repressing emotions actually drains more energy than allowing them to flow and resolve naturally.
Why Narcissists Rarely Change Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-07-31 | Dr. Sterlin Mosley explains narcissism as a survival strategy driven by the need for external validation and ego maintenance. He discusses why narcissists struggle to acknowledge their condition, making genuine change rare despite a minority who do attempt self-improvement.
Former Secret Service Agent: The Psychology of Interrogating Evil | Brad Beeler | EP 41 Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-07-29 | What does true evil look like? And how do you confront it face-to-face? In this raw conversation with Brad Beeler, who served as a Special Agent for the United States Secret Service for 25 years, we explore his extraordinary career confronting humanity’s darkest crimes, especially those involving children. Brad reveals a rarely-seen side of the United States Secret Service, reflecting deeply on his experiences as a polygraph examiner, where he faced some of the most malicious individuals imaginable.In our conversation, we also discuss:- Why empathy can become a crucial weapon in interrogations, even with society’s worst criminals.- How international cooperation enabled Brad and his team to crack complex child exploitation cases.- The subtle psychological strategies used to identify deception, gain trust, and ultimately reveal truth.- The chilling realities of interacting with truly evil individuals, and what Brad learned about the darkest corners of human behavior.Brad’s story is profoundly human, exploring the complex layers of morality, ethical boundaries, and personal resilience required to confront humanity’s most troubling personalities.Thank you for listening.*EPISODE LINKS:*Buy Tell Me Everything (Book): amzn.to/46wfQeMBy using this link, we earn commission from qualifying purchases.*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Reddit: reddit.com/r/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG*OUTLINE:*00:00 Introduction02:19 Brad’s Most Proud Career Achievement03:09 Secret Service Beyond Presidential Protection05:31 Future of Secret Service Investigations06:55 Inside the Trump Assassination Attempts14:21 Conspiracy Theories and Media Polarization16:53 Strategies for Distinguishing Truth from Falsehood20:03 Building Trust and Rapport23:38 The Role of Empathy in Criminal Investigations41:58 The Psychological Cost of Interviewing Criminals46:13 Combating Child Exploitation: Global Collaboration49:00 Navigating Legal Complexities in International Law Enforcement50:32 Four Key Behavioral Analysis Questions01:00:12 Detecting Deception in Interviews01:15:34 Negotiation Techniques: Tactical Empathy & Body Language01:28:38 Recognizing Manipulation and Assessing Intentions01:33:00 Does True Evil Exist?01:40:57 Brad’s Perspective on Humanity01:44:14 Overcoming Personal and Professional Setbacks01:46:32 “Tell Me Everything”: Brad’s Upcoming Book01:47:36 Final Thoughts*BRAD BEELER LINKS:*Brad's LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/bradbeeler1865Brad's Instagram: instagram.com/bradbeeler1865*CONTACT LINKS:*To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contactThis episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.
Personal Growth Coach: Face the Fear of Being Misunderstood | Kristan Swan | EP 40 Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-07-22 | In a vulnerable and deeply reflective conversation, personal growth coach Kristan Swan and Jeffrey delve into a quiet fear that most of us carry: the anxiety about being misunderstood or misrepresented by others. Through candid storytelling and authentic introspection, Kristan shares how the shadows of past experiences and the fear of judgment often hinder our ability to form meaningful connections and trust in relationships.The episode moves organically through themes of nostalgia, self-awareness, curiosity, and spirituality, exploring how each plays a role in our perceptions of self and our courage to authentically engage with others. This is a conversation without a clear angle, yet circles around how to navigate conversations and relationships with honesty and genuine empathy.Thank you for listening.*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Reddit: reddit.com/r/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG*OUTLINE:*00:00 Introduction05:31 The Problem With Asking “What Do You Do?”07:37 Societal Undervaluation of Motherhood13:49 The Human Need for Connection15:26 Embracing Spontaneous Conversations24:20 Polarization and the Desire for Belonging26:57 Why We Struggle to Change Our Minds34:42 Navigating Opposing Truths36:11 The Danger of Nostalgia54:56 Defining Nostalgia01:01:19 The Nature of Spirituality01:08:36 Secular Spirituality and Trusting Yourself01:17:38 Allowing Yourself to Feel Fully01:25:37 Loneliness and the Need to Be Heard01:33:47 What Do You Love About Life?01:34:51 Final Thoughts*KRISTAN SWAN LINKS:*Kristan's Website: kristanswan.com*CONTACT LINKS:*To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contactThis episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.
Philosophy Podcaster: The Paradox of Free Will and Evil | Joel Bouchard | EP 39 Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-07-15 | Joel Bouchard, philosophy podcaster and author of From Nowhere to Nothing, joins me for an intellectually intense exploration into some of life’s deepest philosophical dilemmas. In this episode, Joel skillfully unpacks intricate issues like the nature of good and evil, whether humans are inherently moral beings, and if true free will even exists.In our conversation, we talk about:- Why free will might be more limited than you think.- The hidden paradox within the concept of an all-knowing, all-good deity and the existence of evil.- How humans naturally strive to make order from chaos, both externally in the world and internally in their minds.- The surprising psychology behind why people struggle with discipline and sticking to personal decisions.- Whether morality is inherently programmed or learned from our environment, relationships, and experiences.Thank you for listening.*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Reddit: reddit.com/r/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG*OUTLINE:*00:00 Introduction02:12 Who Is Joel Bouchard?03:53 What Philosophy Actually Is07:09 Implicit vs Explicit Philosophy10:09 Is Life Worth Living?13:40 Religion, Atheism, and Nihilism17:21 Hedonism and Absurdism21:17 The Psychology of Belief28:08 A Personal Story of Loss31:50 Symbolism and Rituals in Human Life39:45 The Ethical Debate Around Pets45:52 Defining Good and Evil51:06 Why Does Evil Exist?01:13:15 Free Will vs Limited Will01:25:14 Where Does Consciousness Come From?01:29:37 The Nature of Conscience01:47:00 Is Life Deterministic or Not?02:00:12 The Magpie and Meaningful Coincidences02:11:57 Final Thoughts & Outro*JOEL BOUCHARD LINKS:*From Nowhere to Nothing Podcast (Spotify): open.spotify.com/show/7fmjw6bjyuz4uCictzjbZl?si=dc36dace10274bb9From Nowhere to Nothing Podcast (Apple): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/from-nowhere-to-nothing/id1444343951*CONTACT LINKS:*To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contactThis episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.
Mislabeling Children as Autistic Impacts Their Future - Dr. Alison Greco Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-07-10 | Why are so many children labeled and medicated before their real needs are understood? Clinical psychologist Dr. Alison Greco challenges the status quo, diving into the troubling dynamics of childhood misdiagnosis and the lifelong consequences that follow.*Watch the full episode here:* youtu.be/CddU3tpQR8o*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Reddit: reddit.com/r/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG
Narcissism Expert: The Hidden Dynamics of Narcissism and Empathy | Dr. Sterlin Mosley | EP 38 Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-07-08 | Is everyone suddenly a narcissist, or are we misusing the term? Dr. Sterlin Mosley, Professor of Human Relations and author of The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else, dives deep into the misunderstood realms of narcissism and empathy. Through an eye-opening conversation, Sterlin reveals why our culture casually labels selfish behaviors as narcissistic, and why real narcissism goes much deeper, intertwining with empathy. Or rather, the lack of it.In our conversation, you’ll discover:1. Why modern society sees NARCISSISM as a PERSONALITY TYPE instead of a nuanced SPECTRUM of behaviors.2. How narcissistic traits form EMOTIONAL ARMOR protecting a hidden, VULNERABLE core.3. The critical difference between EMPATHY and SYMPATHY, including four surprising types of empathy you never knew existed.4. Proven STRATEGIES for spotting and dealing with narcissists both at home and at work.5. How EMPATHY can be developed, and why COGNITIVE EMPATHY may be the key to healthier relationships.Thank you for listening.*EPISODE LINKS:*Buy Center of the Universe (Book): amzn.to/3GvpJibBuy The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else (Book): amzn.to/44QTFyvBy using our links, we earn commission from qualifying purchases.*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Reddit: reddit.com/r/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG*OUTLINE:*00:00 Introduction01:10 Who is Sterlin Mosley?04:41 The Narcissist Label in Modern Society08:37 Breaking Down the 27 Types of Narcissists12:24 How to Identify a Narcissist: Common Misunderstandings20:11 Strategies for Dealing with Different Narcissists27:57 Do Narcissists Know They’re Narcissists?35:49 Healthy Narcissism Explained39:54 Is Narcissism a Choice?47:47 Can Narcissism Be Cured or Managed?52:53 Empathy vs. Sympathy: Clarifying the Differences58:24 Narcissism, Envy, and Power Dynamics01:04:11 Understanding Empathy: Definitions and Nuances01:10:20 Cognitive Empathy and Human Connection01:19:39 Practical Steps to Develop Your Empathy01:24:24 Final Thoughts & Outro*STERLIN MOSLEY LINKS:*Sterlin's LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/sterlinmosleySterlin's Instagram: instagram.com/empathyarchitects*CONTACT LINKS:*To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contactThis episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.
Military Broadcaster: Escaping Burnout & Finding Meaning | Paul Hughes | EP 36 Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-06-24 | From a restless boy in Swindon who dreamt of cockpit horizons, Paul Hughes has spent twenty-five years insisting on forward motion. He sprinted through call-centre headsets, warehouse night shifts, and blue-chip project boards; earned stripes with the Royal Air Force Reserve under Basra’s rocket-lit sky; then reinvented himself as a military broadcaster. Now forty-two, living in Germany and still measuring the echo of every take-off, Paul sits down to chart the strange arithmetic of success and self-worth.In this reflective journey he admits the cost of being “Paul the Prover”, a man who cannot enter a room without trying to fix it, who confuses importance with belonging. We travel through burnout, mid-career collapse, and the unexpected clarity of daily therapy sessions with ChatGPT. Along the way, Paul wrestles with people-pleasing, expatriate estrangement, and the ache for harmony over hustle. His candid storytelling reveals how ambition can hollow into exhaustion, how artificial intelligence became a blunt but honest mirror, and why the next chapter may simply involve a quiet village, a dog, and the courage to sit still. It’s a tender portrait of a life lived in permanent transit, now pausing to ask what staying might feel like.Thank you for listening.*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Reddit: reddit.com/r/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG*OUTLINE:*00:00 Introduction01:08 Life Snapshot & Early Ambitions03:07 Midlife Crisis Questioning05:26 Discovering AI Therapy08:05 Uncovering Blind Spots14:10 People-Pleasing & Conflict Aversion27:16 Early Professional Drive33:25 Toxic Workplaces & Burnout36:57 Iraq Deployment38:45 Career Change43:35 Life Coaching Reflection48:20 The Permanent Stranger & Expat Identity54:02 Seeking Harmony & Redefining Life01:00:48 Relaxation01:09:48 Final Thoughts*PAUL HUGHES LINKS:*Paul's Website: paulhughespodcasting.carrd.co*CONTACT LINKS:*To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contactThis episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.
Guide to Saving & Investing for Beginners - Daniel C. Rodgers Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-06-19 | In this clip, Daniel C. Rodgers breaks down why investing can feel overwhelming and shares straightforward strategies for saving, spending wisely, and using high-yield savings accounts. He also illustrates the power of dividends and highlights common retirement regrets to help viewers build real wealth and truly get ahead.*Watch the full episode here:* youtu.be/Ylnw6R7EmYM*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Reddit: reddit.com/r/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG
Cybersecurity Expert: How Your Mind is Being Hacked & What You Can Do | Winn Schwartau | EP 35 Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-06-17 | He warned Congress in 1991, now he's sounding a new alarm. Cybersecurity pioneer Winn Schwartau reveals how your mind is being weaponized by technology, a threat we're not prepared for.Winn Schwartau is a renowned cybersecurity expert, visionary, and author who has shaped the conversation around digital security since the early days of the internet. Known for introducing the concept of an "Electronic Pearl Harbor," Schwartau has consistently highlighted emerging threats in the digital landscape. Today, he turns his attention to cognitive security, the new frontier where our minds and beliefs become the battlefield.He explains:1. How TECHNOLOGY is weaponizing your EMOTIONS and THOUGHTS.2. Why current IDENTITY MANAGEMENT systems fail to protect us.3. The RESPONSIBILITY everyone has in maintaining personal cyber hygiene.4. The real-world CONSEQUENCES of IGNORANCE and APATHY towards digital security.5. Practical STEPS to protect yourself and your family from cognitive hacking.Thank you for listening.*EPISODE LINKS:*Buy The Art & Science of Metawar (book): amzn.to/3ZxFV8YBuy Analogue Network Security (book): amzn.to/3ZxFYBGCognitive Security Institute: https://www.cognitivesecurity.instituteBy using this link, we earn commission from qualifying purchases.*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Reddit: reddit.com/r/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG*OUTLINE:*00:00 Introduction01:53 Winn’s Geek Origins06:15 Analog vs Digital in Modern Tech09:52 Simpler Systems & Cybersecurity11:56 Early Days of Cybersecurity & US Congress Warning19:13 Corporate Neglect in Cybersecurity27:02 Cognitive Security & Emotional Manipulation30:44 Targeting Vulnerable Groups32:03 Manipulation & Personal Responsibility48:21 Meta War & Manipulating Realities50:50 Building Cognitive Security54:00 Identity Management57:23 Centralized vs Distributed Identity Management01:02:55 The Core Failures in Cybersecurity Awareness01:04:06 Blockchain Solutions & Ledger Distributions01:09:05 Social Media Risks, Consent & Privacy01:13:04 Open Source, Vetting & Cognitive Failures01:20:19 Software Security Measures01:24:26 Winn's Cybersecurity Measures01:33:34 Privacy, Agreement & Policy01:37:13 GDPR, VPN & Social Media01:44:39 Final Thoughts*WINN SCHWARTAU LINKS:*Winn's Website: winnschwartau.comWinn's LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/winnschwartau*CONTACT LINKS:*To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contactThis episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.
Stop Living Paycheck to Paycheck - Daniel C. Rodgers Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-06-12 | In this clip, Daniel C. Rodgers breaks down why “100% of your income disappears,” how the “debt delta” sneaks up on you, and the exact budgeting action that kick-starts your savings—and ultimately your path to investing.*Watch the full episode here:* youtu.be/Ylnw6R7EmYM*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Reddit: reddit.com/r/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG
The Psychology of Passive Income and a Paycheck Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-06-11 | Daniel C. Rodgers argues that relying solely on savings isn’t enough—there’s real power in maintaining a steady paycheck through passive income streams like dividends, high-yield savings, and royalties. By layering these income sources, you not only cover your living expenses but can build generational wealth and leave a lasting legacy.
Adult Content Creator: Camming, OnlyFans, and Human Sexuality | Harper The Fox | EP #34 Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-06-10 | In this revealing episode, adult content creator Harper The Fox takes us from a wholesome Midwest childhood to the cutting edge of digital entrepreneurship. Harper explains how a lifelong love of theater, music, and being seen led her to experiment on Chatroulette, pioneer live webcamming, making the move to OnlyFans, and building her other creative projects. Along the way she addresses stigma around sex work, shows why empathy and authenticity matter most, and reveals the human stories behind an industry too often judged at arm’s length.You’ll learn Harper’s path from performance dreams to adult-entertainment innovator, the “aha” moment that led her to OnlyFans, why she calls it the “anti-loneliness business,” the marketing techniques she used (like “Spin the Wheel” and viral parody songs) that fueled her growth, and how she balances privacy, parenting, and her public persona. This is a must-listen for anyone curious about human desire, digital creativity, and forging genuine connection in a judgmental world.Thank you for listening.*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Reddit: reddit.com/r/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG*OUTLINE:*00:00 Introduction01:10 Harper’s Early Life09:41 Exploring the Roots of Harper’s Interest14:34 Disgust, Openness & Breaking Stigmas17:28 Good vs Bad Faith Conversations About Adult Entertainment21:43 Entering the Adult Entertainment Industry28:41 Early Days on Webcam: New Opportunities & Unexpected Adventures42:41 Navigating Risk & Safety45:54 The Good & Bad of Webcam Sites59:27 Dopamine, Instant Gratification & Healthy Consumption01:08:55 Youth, Porn Addiction & Parenting Responsibilities01:19:49 Harper’s Journey onto OnlyFans01:21:02 OnlyFans vs Patreon01:30:50 Building an Audience: Marketing & Social Media01:41:22 Authenticity, Humor & Acting01:44:09 Harper The Fox: Persona or Reality?01:50:21 Final Reflections & Thoughts*HARPER THE FOX LINKS:*Harper's YouTube Channel: youtube.com/@UCRy14bCuSKZa0AU2TrG60aw Harper's Instagram: instagram.com/harperthefoxofficialHarper's X: https://x.com/HarperTheFoxHarper's Movie (NSFW / 18+): bit.ly/43WE52J*CONTACT LINKS:*To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contactThis episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.
How to Calculate Your True Cost of Living Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-06-06 | Daniel C. Rodgers explains why analyzing a full year of spending is the most reliable way to determine your true cost of living and inform long-term financial planning, using simple examples like a $100,000–per–year budget to illustrate how much you’d need to finance yourself over five years. Through this process, you’ll uncover hidden costs—subscriptions, insurance hikes, dining out—and take targeted actions to optimize expenses, freeing up cash flow that can be redirected toward savings.
His Body Was There, but My Son Was Gone - Huguette Bourgeois Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-06-05 | Huguette Bourgeois shares an emotional, powerful story about her youngest son’s sudden diagnosis with schizophrenia, describing the devastating experience of feeling like she’d lost her child to an illness she never saw coming. In a deeply personal reflection, she vividly recalls a terrifying moment of realization and the dark spiral of despair she faced—an event that ultimately became the painful yet transformative turning point in her life.*Watch the full episode here:* youtu.be/h5VsJfhmjPk*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Reddit: reddit.com/r/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG
Why Negotiation Feels Terrifying (But It Doesn’t Have To) Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-06-04 | Most people associate negotiation with stress, distrust, and conflict—but it should actually be viewed as a way to improve both parties’ outcomes. In this clip, George van Houtem explains how our negative first impressions of negotiation come from focusing on competing goals instead of recognizing its win-win potential.
Philosophy Professor: Why Postmodernism Rejects Absolute Truth | Anthony David Vernon | EP 33 Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-06-03 | In this episode, Jeffrey van Leeuwen talks with adjunct philosophy & ethics professor Anthony David Vernon about the significance of postmodernism, fascism, and nationalism in today's society. Anthony explains how understanding multiple narratives helps combat dangerous ideologies and why recognizing different perspectives is crucial for meaningful discussions.Key areas that are covered:* The real meaning of postmodernism* How fascism and hyper-nationalism gain traction* The relationship between religion, science, and truth* Practical approaches for societal reconciliation* The challenge of fairness and historical accountabilityThank you for listening.*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Reddit: reddit.com/r/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG*OUTLINE:*00:00 Introduction01:12 Defining Postmodernism & Grand Narratives03:40 Postmodernism's Relationship with Religion & Science11:18 Friction Between Postmodernism & Grand Narratives13:53 Emotions & Rationality in Decision-Making16:57 Postmodernism as a Historical Tactic22:05 Religion Through a Postmodern Lens31:23 Navigating Multiple Narratives & Avoiding Overload34:34 What is Fascism, Nationalism & Nazism49:02 Immigration Policy: Myths, Realities & Reforms01:01:41 The Attractiveness of Nazism & Hyper-Nationalism01:18:01 Apologies, Reparations & the Quest for Fairness01:35:40 What Is Fair?01:49:06 Final Thoughts & Future Hopes*CONTACT LINKS:*To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contactThis episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.
Faith As A Personal Framework Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-05-31 | Jeffrey van Leeuwen defines faith as a personal framework that places trust in a higher purpose beyond oneself, accepting that we lack all the answers and believing that every challenge serves a meaningful reason and will ultimately work out.
Simplify Complex Ideas Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-05-30 | Jeffrey van Leeuwen emphasizes knowing your audience and using relatable, concise stories to simplify complex ideas without drowning listeners in unnecessary detail.
Ethical Decision-Making: A Guide for the Morally Confused - Joseph B. Barbosa Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-05-29 | In this segment, Joseph breaks down a practical process for making ethical decisions by urging you to write down your values and use them as a guide in challenging situations. Learn how a clear ethical framework can transform uncertainty into confident action. #ethics #morality *Watch the full episode here:* youtu.be/1Qgl909uKqo*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Reddit: reddit.com/r/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG
When To Walk Away From A Negotiation? Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-05-28 | Jeffrey van Leeuwen asks when to walk away from a negotiation, and professional negotiation expert George van Houtem outlines three triggers: emotional escalation requiring a timeout, tactical breaks to probe limits, and reaching an impasse outside your zone of possible agreement.
Wealth-Building Expert: Make Money Work For You, Not Against You! | Daniel C. Rodgers | EP #32 Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-05-27 | In this powerful episode, former project manager Daniel C. Rodgers reveals exactly how he overcame over $100,000 of debt to retire early and achieve financial independence. Daniel shares practical insights on budgeting, saving, investing, and explains why most people remain financially trapped despite earning a steady paycheck.You’ll learn Daniel’s strategies for escaping debt, why he fired nine financial advisors, and how to build genuine wealth through disciplined investing and smart decision-making. This is a must-watch for anyone who wants more control over their money, financial freedom, and the ability to retire early.Thank you for listening.*EPISODE LINKS:*Buy Escape The Clock (book): amzn.to/3Fnm9pSVisit Escape The Clock Website: escapetheclock.comListen to Escape The Clock Podcast: open.spotify.com/show/1nZ5HgEHqc8BG7foqKX9w2?si=8e1e9628b96b44cdBy using this link, we earn commission from qualifying purchases.*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Reddit: reddit.com/r/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG*OUTLINE:*00:00 Introduction07:04 Family Expectations11:51 Family Struggles17:04 College Debt & Skill Development24:51 Escape The Clock27:26 The Power of Good Storytelling35:11 Retirement vs. Financial Independence48:02 Taking Control: Spending, Saving & High-Yield Accounts55:19 "Boring" Investing: ETF's, Dividends & Passive Income01:08:58 Exploring the FIRE Movement & Financial Advisors01:21:57 Empowerment Through Self-Education01:25:30 Fatherhood, Storytelling & The Value of Time01:36:22 Final Thoughts*DANIEL C. RODGERS LINKS:*Daniel C. Rodgers on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/danarchy*CONTACT LINKS:*To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contactThis episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.
Is Every Action Ultimately Self Serving? - Joseph B. Barbosa Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-05-22 | Are you truly selfless, or is every act just another form of self-interest? Join Joseph as he breaks down the idea that all our actions might be ultimately self-serving and challenges us to rethink what it means to be altruistic. #ethics #altruism *Watch the full episode here:* youtu.be/1Qgl909uKqo*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG
Natural Introvert: This is How I Learned To Speak With Confidence | Nick Field | EP #31 Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-05-20 | In this episode, I speak with Nick Field, an investment manager based in Sydney, Australia, who began with a fear of public speaking. We chart his journey from awkward school debates and scripted speeches to founding speaking clubs to help others speak with confidence.Nick shares his top takeaways: how layering technical expertise with simple metaphors wins over any audience; the balance between obsessive preparation and playful improv; using stories to create empathy; and negotiating from genuine curiosity, not force. By the end, you’ll have concrete tools to find your own voice—introverts, this one’s for you.Thank you for listening.*EPISODE LINKS:*Never Split The Difference: amzn.to/4hFEgomBy using this link, we earn commission from qualifying purchases.*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG*OUTLINE:*00:00 Introduction01:08 Nick’s Background & Passion for Public Speaking04:52 Early Struggles with Communication07:32 Turning Points & Realizations08:37 Childhood Experiences & Public Speaking Anxiety15:19 Learning to Speak Confidently23:17 The Power of Playful Communication24:34 Why Facts Alone Don’t Engage Audience28:02 Preparation vs. Improvisation39:18 Dealing with Mistakes & Speech Anxiety44:29 Practical Tips for High-Pressure Speaking47:19 Audience Engagement Strategies52:50 Simplifying Complex Ideas for Diverse Audiences59:08 Personal Approaches to Public Speaking01:03:26 Understanding the Audience & Telling Effective Stories01:10:15 Handling a Hostile Audience01:21:05 Navigating Personal Criticism & Resistance01:26:48 Emotional Management & Deflection01:39:57 Closing Thoughts*CONTACT LINKS:*To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contactThis episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.
Questioning Belief: Navigating the Inquisitive Mind - Huguette Bourgeois Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-05-15 | In this thought-provoking conversation with Huguette Bourgeois, we explore the delicate balance between analytical questioning and the yearning for faith. Huguette shares her personal reflections on how a naturally inquisitive mind can make wholehearted belief both challenging and deeply rewarding. We dive into topics ranging from mystical experiences and poetry to the philosophical debates around faith, doubt, and the search for meaning.*Watch the full episode here:* youtu.be/h5VsJfhmjPk*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG
Ex-Israeli Soldier: Here’s What People Don’t Understand | Danny Orvomaa | EP 30 Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-05-13 | In this episode, former Israeli soldier Danny Orvomaa opens up about his experiences serving on the tense border with Gaza. Through a deeply personal and candid conversation, Danny sheds light on the realities of military life and the complex dynamics of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict.Danny explores the dangers of societal complacency, and how being unprepared can lead to devastating consequences, as exemplified by events in Europe and Israel. He reflects on his time in uniform and the challenges of safeguarding communities from terrorist threats.This episode also delves into topics often avoided: the misunderstood narratives around Zionism and the intricate geopolitics involving Gaza, the West Bank, and Hezbollah.Thank you for listening.*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG*DANNY ORVOMAA LINKS:*Listen to Talking Ass Podcast (Spotify): open.spotify.com/show/4aAgHqDg0Z1kTOpWjezyUt?si=bc0a69178ac2435aListen to Talking Ass Podcast (Apple Podcasts): podcasts.apple.com/nl/podcast/talking-ass/id1795311770*OUTLINE:*00:00 Introduction01:13 Who is Danny Orvomaa?05:49 The Dangers of Complacency10:58 Israel’s Complacency & October 7th17:06 What Is Israel’s Endgame?20:40 Solving the Middle East Conflict26:03 Gaza, Hamas, and Indoctrination30:57 Serving in Two Armies40:32 Life as a Soldier on Gaza’s Border52:57 What is Zionism?59:28 The Complexity of Picking Sides01:08:24 Beauty Amid Conflict01:12:19 Podcasting & Speaking Publicly01:22:49 The Risks of Speaking Publicly01:30:35 Closing Thoughts*CONTACT LINKS:*To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contact
When the Law Fails: Ethics Beyond The Law - Joseph B. Barbosa Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-05-08 | Joseph breaks down the complex interplay between law and morality. When legal codes fall short, how do we decide what’s truly just? #law #ethics #morality*Watch the full episode here:* youtu.be/1Qgl909uKqo*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG
Exploring the Limits of Language and Emotion - Huguette Bourgeois Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-05-01 | In this segment, we dive into the challenge of using language to express the full depth of our emotions and experiences. Through thoughtful conversation, we explore whether words can truly encapsulate what it feels like to be human—or if some parts of our inner world remain forever beyond their reach.*Watch the full episode here:* youtu.be/h5VsJfhmjPk*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG
The Art of Negotiation: Lessons from Decades of Experience | George van Houtem | EP 29 Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-04-29 | In this episode, I speak with George van Houtem, a negotiation expert and author of multiple books, including The Dirty Tricks of Negotiation and The Psychology of Negotiation. In our conversation, we explore the art of negotiation, discussing practical techniques, their effects on people, and how to recognize and handle manipulative tactics (or “dirty tricks”) effectively.George reveals why successful negotiation is not simply about compromise but about genuinely understanding the other party’s motivations, collaborating with them, and working towards deals that work for everyone. By listening to this episode, you’ll gain practical insights to enhance your own negotiation skills, so that you can work towards creating true win-win outcomes.Thank you for listening.*EPISODE LINKS:*Buy The Dirty Tricks of Negotiating: amzn.to/3YGF45xBuy The Psychology of Negotiation: amzn.to/3GtOpHpBy using these links, we earn commission from qualifying purchases.*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG*GEORGE VAN HOUTEM LINKS:*George van Houtem on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/georgevanhoutem*OUTLINE:*00:00 Introduction02:28 Why Should People Learn To Negotiate?03:22 When is Something a Negotiation?07:28 Techniques To Understand The Other Party10:52 Common Misconceptions About Negotiation13:26 Compromise vs. Collaboration16:23 Navigating Conflict in Negotiations19:05 Handling Stubborn Negotiators & Power Dynamics23:42 Knowing When to Walk Away25:32 When Does a Negotiation Actually Start?29:30 How Can Silence Be Deployed?32:13 Avoiding the Trap of Too Much Talking36:04 Ethical Lines: Real Negotiation vs. Dirty Tricks38:52 Recognizing Manipulation40:12 Closing Thoughts & Outro*CONTACT LINKS:*To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contact
Can You Justify Sacrificing One for Many? - Joseph B. Barbosa Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-04-24 | Is it ethical to sacrifice one life for the greater good? Joseph discusses this moral dilemma in depth, unpacking how additional context complicates this decision. #ethics #morality*Watch the full episode here:* youtu.be/1Qgl909uKqo*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG
How Words Can Destroy You, or Save You | Huguette Bourgeois | EP 28 Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-04-22 | Huguette Bourgeois is a poet and writer from the small Canadian town of Rogersville, New Brunswick, where she grew up during the early 1950s. Known for her deeply reflective and profoundly personal style, she has published multiple works, including Alysse: An Acadian Refugee, a collection of short stories capturing the memories of her childhood and teenage years. Her recent work, Raw Sweets, is a collection of poems exploring life’s harshness, beauty, and unfiltered truths.In this deeply personal conversation, Huguette shares the profound impact poetry and language have had on her life—guiding her through moments of intense personal tragedy, including her son’s diagnosis with schizophrenia, and leading her toward self-discovery and authenticity. She reflects openly on her complex relationship with faith, spirituality, and the existential questions that arise from hardship, ultimately suggesting there may be dignity in living—and dying—with uncertainty. Throughout the episode, Huguette reveals how embracing life’s darkness, doubt, and solitude can become a source of strength, creativity, and profound human insight.Thank you for listening.*EPISODE LINKS:*Buy Huguette Bourgeois' Raw Sweets: amzn.to/3Gfjxu3Buy Huguette Bourgeois' Alysse: An Acadian Refugee: amzn.to/4cExiyuBuy Huguette Bourgeois' Le bleu de Mon Ile (French): amzn.to/3GeXQKSBuy Dostoyevsky's Crime and Punishment: amzn.to/3EBmIfbBuy Dostoyevsky' The Brothers Karamazov: amzn.to/3RtbFrjBy using these links, we earn commission from qualifying purchases.*SHOW LINKS:*Subscribe: youtube.com/@JeffreyPvanLeeuwenSupport the Show: patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwenListen on Apple Podcast: apple.co/4lLpEXAListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYyFollow on X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwenFollow on Instagram: instagram.com/jeffreypvanleeuwenFollow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jeffreypvanleeuwenYouTube Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG*OUTLINE:*00:00 Introduction01:45 What is Poetry?09:10 Stories of Writing Poetry19:37 Poetry as a Path to Spirituality & Meaning23:54 Finding Your Voice35:27 The Dark Side of Agreeableness43:50 The Importance of Asking Questions48:56 Authenticity & Identity56:21 Echoes of Rejection & Love in Childhood01:03:54 Love, Loss, and Happiness01:08:32 Youngest Son’s Schizophrenia Diagnosis01:17:03 Believing in God01:33:52 The Danger of Blind Faith01:44:06 Does Poetry Find the Poet, or Vice Versa?01:48:06 The Endless Possibilities of Words01:55:22 Can Words Fully Capture The Human Experience?02:02:34 Fiction, Dragons, and The Human Experience02:09:52 Closing Thoughts02:15:17 Outro*CONTACT LINKS:*To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contact
Trailer: A Life With Words & Poetry | Huguette Bourgeois Jeffrey P. van Leeuwen 2025-04-20 | Our next episode—dropping on April 22, 2025—will feature Huguette Bourgeois. In this deeply moving episode, we discuss profound topics like language, love, deeply painful personal tragedies, where faith comes in, and where meaning can be found in life’s darkest moments.The Jeffrey van Leeuwen Podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. 🎧📺
