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CHURCH LEADERS’ LETTER TO PM DEFENDS REAL MARRIAGE SUPPORT
Dear marriage supporter,
I spoke to Revd Dr Tom Brand about his decision to spearhead a letter to the Prime Minister, representing over 1,300 churches. The letter voiced concerns over the Government’s plans to ban so-called conversion therapy and the impact this could have on supporters of real marriage. You can listen to our discussion here.
Tom, Ministry Director of the Evangelical Fellowship of Congregational Churches, shares why he felt the need to send this letter. He emphasises that the proposed legislation could criminalise the expression of traditional Christian beliefs, particularly those surrounding the lifelong union of one man and one woman.
Tom highlights the troubling use of the term ‘conversion therapy’ by activists. He says the term is now being repurposed to cast ordinary religious practice in a negative light. He points out that activists have been unable to identify coercive behaviours that aren’t already illegal, but instead seem to target those upholding man-woman marriage. This selective application threatens freedoms, potentially penalising ministers and parents for advocating conventional teachings around marriage.
Our discussion also touches on the substantial evidence supporting real marriage, as outlined in Brad Wilcox’s book, Get Married. Wilcox’s research indicates that those in lifelong, monogamous man-woman marriages experience significantly better life outcomes, from financial stability to overall happiness. The evidence emphasises the societal benefits of promoting real marriage as a public good.
C4M supports real marriage because evidence shows it leads to the best outcomes for adults and fosters the strongest foundation for the next generation. Rather than yielding to activists who seek to undermine marriage, any government truly committed to the well-being of its people should prioritise promoting real marriage as the cornerstone of a thriving society.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so via the donate button at c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
facebook.com/coalition4marriage
CHURCH LEADERS’ LETTER TO PM DEFENDS REAL MARRIAGE SUPPORT
Dear marriage supporter,
I spoke to Revd Dr Tom Brand about his decision to spearhead a letter to the Prime Minister, representing over 1,300 churches. The letter voiced concerns over the Government’s plans to ban so-called conversion therapy and the impact this could have on supporters of real marriage. You can listen to our discussion here.
Tom, Ministry Director of the Evangelical Fellowship of Congregational Churches, shares why he felt the need to send this letter. He emphasises that the proposed legislation could criminalise the expression of traditional Christian beliefs, particularly those surrounding the lifelong union of one man and one woman.
Tom highlights the troubling use of the term ‘conversion therapy’ by activists. He says the term is now being repurposed to cast ordinary religious practice in a negative light. He points out that activists have been unable to identify coercive behaviours that aren’t already illegal, but instead seem to target those upholding man-woman marriage. This selective application threatens freedoms, potentially penalising ministers and parents for advocating conventional teachings around marriage.
Our discussion also touches on the substantial evidence supporting real marriage, as outlined in Brad Wilcox’s book, Get Married. Wilcox’s research indicates that those in lifelong, monogamous man-woman marriages experience significantly better life outcomes, from financial stability to overall happiness. The evidence emphasises the societal benefits of promoting real marriage as a public good.
C4M supports real marriage because evidence shows it leads to the best outcomes for adults and fosters the strongest foundation for the next generation. Rather than yielding to activists who seek to undermine marriage, any government truly committed to the well-being of its people should prioritise promoting real marriage as the cornerstone of a thriving society.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so via the donate button at c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
facebook.com/coalition4marriage








![Courage in the Classroom: Standing for Marriage- Eddie and Daniel Mihet Interview with Tony Rucinski
COURAGE IN THE CLASSROOM: EDDIE’S STAND FOR REAL MARRIAGE
Dear marriage supporter,
Eddie was just 14 when he made a stand in school for beliefs around man-woman marriage. This would lead to him having to leave the school after severe intimidation. His school’s initial response? He should simply ‘toughen up’. Eddie’s compelling account is both distressing and inspiring. You can watch my full interview with Eddie (now 17) and his father here.
Eddie’s refusal to endorse the notion that “a four-year-old” can “change their sex” marked the onset of his trials. What ensued was more than theoretical disagreements. Confrontations were fanned by school initiatives to “tackle homophobia”, turning so aggressive they “extended to my own [front] door”, recalls Eddie.
Reporting these events to the school produced little relief. Eddie was essentially advised to ‘toughen up’. Given the absence of support, and facing alarming threats to his safety, Eddie felt compelled to leave the educational institution.
Eddie’s story is more than a tale of persecution; it is a testament to the fortitude that family and faith can offer. It is a call to uphold our values around real marriage in a climate that is increasingly hostile to them. Eddie’s resilience serves as a reminder that, with conviction and family support, it is possible to stand against the tide. And it shows why it’s so important that C4M exists, to speak up for man-woman marriage.
Supporters of C4M understand that advocating for real marriage is not a matter of simple preference, ideology, or prejudice. Rather, it is grounded in empirical evidence as the cornerstone of a thriving society.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so using the Donate button on our website at http://www.c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
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