Uploaded August 2012 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Billy Sunday Mars, orphaned as a teen, dove into boxing,spiritual seeker, and dance in his search for meaning, love, purpose, and spiritual fulfillment. As an athlete, artist, and spiritual seeker, he became an erotic dancer and instructor in Japan and China, where he also studied martial arts and healing massage. After moving back to the United States, he studied Tantric disciplines and worked as a fitness trainer and erotic dance teacher. Now a sought-after "Emotional & Intimate Fitness" expert, Billy has combined his understanding of spirituality, sexuality, science and fitness into his proprietary Fit for Love program. He currently teaches classes and workshops in the Bay Area of California, where he lives.
After beating bulimia, family tragedy and terrible genetics, at almost 47 years old and having been in the training industry for almost 35 years, I can tell you, the work goes far deeper than the body. It is humbly accepting our flaws then working in and out- both Innercise & Exercise!
I don't train people to exercise. I train people to "be the kind of person" who practices a productive process & lifestyle of resolve, resilience & reverence!
I want to know what God knows, all else are details! Furthermore, God does not play dice! Einstein.
Try another way of seeing- Try seeing as the universe sees! Rumi
It is my life's quest- to think as God thinks- to see as the universe sees...
I realize I can make progress or excuses but not both....for..
"In nature there are neither rewards nor punishments but consequences!"
The opposite of a great truth isn't a great lie but another great truth! ~Niels Bohr
Science doesn't negate the Existence of God- it reveals God, Nature, Truth...Spirituality is where we develop the why to live by those truths! Passion is where we develop the how! ~Billy Sunday Mars
I am "very" religious in the true sense of the word meaning to re-link back to our Collective & Universal Source. My life, like Einstein with the Universe- though directed towards humanity, is a quest to know what Source knows, to think how Source thinks. I believe the Source of all existence is being releaved to those of us, willing to seek and accept, through science and consequence. I also believe religion is a quest to be in harmony and balance with an often unseen (being revealed by science) order of things. (Softly called spirituality).
After having lost most of my family (but not my faith) to various preventable diseases, I have been on a quest to dicipher the causes of those diseases- including, cancer, diabetes, kidney failure, heart fauilure, alcohol and drug addiction, that led to their demise. I myself am a former bulimic. For over 20 years, (9 of which I psychologically blocked out), I suffered helplessly under this disease, self-destructively distracting myself from the pain of helplessly losing so many family members to what I now know were preventable problems. I have been in the health & fitness industry, relentlessly researching for over 30 years for reasons why!?!? Most of which solving my own emotional issues ...and as a result being a driven spiritual seeker equally as long. I don't consider myself a guru or a master...rather more of a tour guide who has found a few very effective ways out of pain and suffering to incredible health, joy and love....and still searching for more and better!
In reguards to sexuality, I teach about it in service and support of health and spiritual growth of which it is an integral & irrefutable aspect of both if longevity & quality of life are your quest.
Consciousness & Libido are pre-requisites for quality & longevity of life.
I am committed to living as a blessing in service to Love!
I am not here to be good but to be real-very, very real!
We, none of us are called to be good. We are called to be Great!
That said, I feel it is important to point out the people that played incredibly important roles in my life as examples.
they are MY PERSONAL HEROES and BLESSINGS.
It's not about genetics as you'll see.
It's about heart, soul, mind & spirit!
Thank you so very much,
Billy Sunday Mars
Amenamaste'
I am not a Body Builder-
The Body is a Barometer, a Medium to train the Being (Spirit) & Brain
(that supports & sustains it.)
Improve your life and love life!
Billy Sunday Mars is the author of the book, FIT FOR LOVE,
" Fit for Love is the antidote to humdrum sex—your complete guide to:
Exercising like a lover (not a fighter)
Warming up for amazing sex with stretches and massages
Finding your own and your partners pleasure points
Revitalizing the age-old positions by moving together for maximum pleasure
How to make the best of what you have (why skill, not size, matters)
How to have better and better experiences (every time)
How to train and tone your muscles for maximum pleasure
How to prepare mentally and emotionally for improved intimacy
Billy Sunday Mars, orphaned as a teen, dove into boxing,spiritual seeker, and dance in his search for meaning, love, purpose, and spiritual fulfillment. As an athlete, artist, and spiritual seeker, he became an erotic dancer and instructor in Japan and China, where he also studied martial arts and healing massage. After moving back to the United States, he studied Tantric disciplines and worked as a fitness trainer and erotic dance teacher. Now a sought-after "Emotional & Intimate Fitness" expert, Billy has combined his understanding of spirituality, sexuality, science and fitness into his proprietary Fit for Love program. He currently teaches classes and workshops in the Bay Area of California, where he lives.
After beating bulimia, family tragedy and terrible genetics, at almost 47 years old and having been in the training industry for almost 35 years, I can tell you, the work goes far deeper than the body. It is humbly accepting our flaws then working in and out- both Innercise & Exercise!
I don't train people to exercise. I train people to "be the kind of person" who practices a productive process & lifestyle of resolve, resilience & reverence!
I want to know what God knows, all else are details! Furthermore, God does not play dice! Einstein.
Try another way of seeing- Try seeing as the universe sees! Rumi
It is my life's quest- to think as God thinks- to see as the universe sees...
I realize I can make progress or excuses but not both....for..
"In nature there are neither rewards nor punishments but consequences!"
The opposite of a great truth isn't a great lie but another great truth! ~Niels Bohr
Science doesn't negate the Existence of God- it reveals God, Nature, Truth...Spirituality is where we develop the why to live by those truths! Passion is where we develop the how! ~Billy Sunday Mars
I am "very" religious in the true sense of the word meaning to re-link back to our Collective & Universal Source. My life, like Einstein with the Universe- though directed towards humanity, is a quest to know what Source knows, to think how Source thinks. I believe the Source of all existence is being releaved to those of us, willing to seek and accept, through science and consequence. I also believe religion is a quest to be in harmony and balance with an often unseen (being revealed by science) order of things. (Softly called spirituality).
After having lost most of my family (but not my faith) to various preventable diseases, I have been on a quest to dicipher the causes of those diseases- including, cancer, diabetes, kidney failure, heart fauilure, alcohol and drug addiction, that led to their demise. I myself am a former bulimic. For over 20 years, (9 of which I psychologically blocked out), I suffered helplessly under this disease, self-destructively distracting myself from the pain of helplessly losing so many family members to what I now know were preventable problems. I have been in the health & fitness industry, relentlessly researching for over 30 years for reasons why!?!? Most of which solving my own emotional issues ...and as a result being a driven spiritual seeker equally as long. I don't consider myself a guru or a master...rather more of a tour guide who has found a few very effective ways out of pain and suffering to incredible health, joy and love....and still searching for more and better!
In reguards to sexuality, I teach about it in service and support of health and spiritual growth of which it is an integral & irrefutable aspect of both if longevity & quality of life are your quest.
Consciousness & Libido are pre-requisites for quality & longevity of life.
I am committed to living as a blessing in service to Love!
I am not here to be good but to be real-very, very real!
We, none of us are called to be good. We are called to be Great!
That said, I feel it is important to point out the people that played incredibly important roles in my life as examples.
they are MY PERSONAL HEROES and BLESSINGS.
It's not about genetics as you'll see.
It's about heart, soul, mind & spirit!
Thank you so very much,
Billy Sunday Mars
Amenamaste'
I am not a Body Builder-
The Body is a Barometer, a Medium to train the Being (Spirit) & Brain
(that supports & sustains it.)
Improve your life and love life!
Billy Sunday Mars is the author of the book, FIT FOR LOVE,
" Fit for Love is the antidote to humdrum sex—your complete guide to:
Exercising like a lover (not a fighter)
Warming up for amazing sex with stretches and massages
Finding your own and your partners pleasure points
Revitalizing the age-old positions by moving together for maximum pleasure
How to make the best of what you have (why skill, not size, matters)
How to have better and better experiences (every time)
How to train and tone your muscles for maximum pleasure
How to prepare mentally and emotionally for improved intimacy
