Canadian Centre for Men and FamiliesCameron Gibson describes the surprising reaction he got when opening a counselling and coaching program geared specifically towards men.
Cameron Gibson is a Registered Clinical Counsellor and Program Director at Manifest Counselling for Men in Vancouver, British Columbia.
Opening a mental health clinic for men - the surprising reactionCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-07-16 | Cameron Gibson describes the surprising reaction he got when opening a counselling and coaching program geared specifically towards men.
Cameron Gibson is a Registered Clinical Counsellor and Program Director at Manifest Counselling for Men in Vancouver, British Columbia.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donateParental alienation awareness dayCanadian Centre for Men and Families2023-04-25 | Tuesday April 25, 2023, marks Parental Alienation Awareness Day. Kristen Lewis, Executive Director of CCMF branches in Vancouver and Ottawa, shares a message of hope to parents afflicted by this phenomenon and the need for greater action to address the problem.
Canadian Equal Parenting Council canadianepc.orgRaising awareness about male victimization - join us in VancouverCanadian Centre for Men and Families2023-03-15 | Join us for a free event with Mason Shell, Executive Director of the BC Society for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse.
Monday, March 20, 2023 6-7pm PST The Gathering Place Community Centre 609 Helmcken St., Vancouver
Support CCMF on Patreon: patreon.com/ccmfvancouverPoM #20 - John Ogrodniczuk on Mental Health and Suicide PreventionCanadian Centre for Men and Families2023-02-11 | John Ogrodniczuk is a Professor of Psychiatry and Director of the Psychotherapy Program at the University of British Columbia, as well as founder of the HeadsUpGuys program.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donatePoM #19 - Jim Nuzzo on Strength Training and Mens HealthCanadian Centre for Men and Families2022-12-27 | Dr. Jim Nuzzo is Adjunct Senior Lecturer in Exercise Science at Edith Cowan University in Perth, Australia.
(N.B. we had some technical difficulties during the recording process; please forgive the inconsistent audio quality!)
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donateHelping men and boys in British Columbia - hear from a CCMF volunteerCanadian Centre for Men and Families2022-12-09 | Sue is a volunteer with the Vancouver branch of the Canadian Centre for Men and Families (CCMF), a national non-profit focused on the well-being of men and boys across Canada.
So it seemed like a good opportunity to celebrate the progress you've helped us achieve, to lay a vision for the next decade and to renew our joint commitment to the monumental work that remains to be done for boys and men.
Let me start by telling you about some of our accomplishments.
- We opened the very first Family Shelter for abused men and children, which has welcomed over 60 families to date! Each month an average of 75 families seek access to our emergency facility; that's many many more than we can accommodate.
- We were Lead Sponsor of the groundbreaking 2022 International Conference on Men and Families, which featured delegates from 21 countries.
- We intervened in the Supreme Court case R v Langan, arguing before the highest court that male stereotypes lead to wrongful convictions.
- We co-produced the 2019 documentary Erasing Family, which led directly to global efforts to reform divorce and family law.
- We are interviewed regularly on national radio such as Global News and NewsTalk1010 and we've been featured in the international press, in The New York Times, the Associated Press, The Guardian and others.
- We launched the Perspectives on Men Podcast, now on its 18th episode.
- We completed a federal government funded research project, entitled "Studying Male Homelessness as a Consequence of Domestic Violence."
- We ran three billboard awareness campaigns, focusing on suicide prevention and parental alienation.
And meanwhile, we built and operate first-of-their-kind Canadian Centres for Men and Families in Toronto, Ottawa, Calgary, Vancouver, York Region and St. Thomas. These Centres offer counselling, support groups, legal clinics, fathering after separation groups, mentorship and coaching for male youth, and programs that help male victims recover from domestic violence.
We have even bigger plans for 2023 and beyond.
- Justin Trottier, Founder and CEO, Canadian Centre for Men and Families
We want to build on our momentum and push a National Agenda for Boys and Men. We have a series of initiatives that will target all sectors of society: media, government, corporate, and the general public.
Not only that, but after a full year operating Canada’s first shelter for abused fathers and children, we're making progress laying the groundwork for future family shelters in Alberta and BC!
If that’s not enough, in 2023 we will be taking focused action to address the crisis of false allegations. False allegations are abuse and they have devastating consequences for many men, fathers and their families. Each year, hundreds of men reach out to us with excruciatingly painful stories. Many will never again see their children again because of false allegations of domestic violence, child abuse or sexual assault. These men may lose jobs, end up with a criminal record and face debilitating mental health effects. Tragically, but not surprisingly, some will take their own lives.
Surveys conducted in the US have found that 20 million Americans have been victims of false accusations. At 11% of the population, that is more than twice the number of victims of all other forms of domestic abuse combined. No such survey is conducted in Canada - and we want to change that. We have asked Statistics Canada to add a question on false allegations to their General Social Survey on Victimization. Armed with the results of such surveys, we will have ammunition to demand action by the Attorney General to recognize false allegations as a serious crime and to take action to have it prosecuted fairly and consistently.
In addition to our own achievements and future plans, we’re noticing some encouraging trends on social media, with a growing community of content creators sharing positive messages about men and masculinity, while raising awareness of the challenges boys and men continue to face in their lives.
Here at the Canadian Centre for Men and Families, we want to take full advantage of these encouraging developments within and beyond our agency. That's why we're announcing the 2023 MOMENTUM Fund aimed at finally putting these life and death issues into the spotlight through our National Agenda for Boys and Men.
Up until December 31st, all your donations will be matched, and new monthly gifts will be matched six times over. All contributions receive a tax receipt for income tax purposes.
There is no other organization in Canada like ours. We uncompromisingly champion the cause of men and boys - and we're successful. We've built life-saving programs and we're changing the conversation around men and gender, but we cannot do this without you.
Join us to advocate - boldly and effectively - for boys and men. Thank you very much.Help us open a domestic violence shelter for men in British ColumbiaCanadian Centre for Men and Families2022-11-27 | Carol Metz Murray is working with the Canadian Centre for Men and Families (CCMF) to establish a shelter in British Columbia for male victims of domestic violence. Carol worked from 2005-2022 for the Tri-City Transitions Society, a registered charity providing emergency shelter and social support for women and children fleeing family violence and abuse. In her role as Executive Director, she improved operations and governance, and strengthened relationships with local authorities, service providers and the local community.
Contact our Executive Director in Vancouver, Kristen Lewis at: klewis@menandfamilies.orgInternational Mens Day 2022 - A message from CCMFCanadian Centre for Men and Families2022-11-19 | Kristen Lewis, Executive Director of the Canadian Centre for Men and Families in Vancouver, shares her thoughts on International Men's Day 2022.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donateDebunking the gender paradigm in domestic violenceCanadian Centre for Men and Families2022-10-03 | John Hamel describes the problems with the Duluth Model and the gender paradigm in the field of domestic violence, and how some people come to believe that it a one-way problem, with women as victims and men as perpetrators.
John Hamel, LCSW, has a Masters in Social Welfare from U.C.L.A. and a PhD from University of Central Lancashire Psychology Department, U.K. He has conducted batterer intervention and parent programs in the San Francisco Bay Area since 1992.
John is the Founder and Executive Director of the Association of Domestic Violence Intervention Programs, a non-profit international organization of domestic violence treatment providers and domestic violence researchers.
He is the author, editor or co-editor of several books on family violence, and is Editor-in-Chief of the peer-reviewed professional journal, Partner Abuse, published quarterly by Springer Publishing. He regularly speaks at conferences on domestic violence theory, research and practice, and has provided consultation and training to mental health professionals, victim advocates and shelter workers, social service organizations, teachers, attorneys, judges and law enforcement officers. He also provides case consultation and expert witness testimony.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donateDomestic violence in an international contextCanadian Centre for Men and Families2022-10-03 | John Hamel explains the (approximately equal) rates of domestic violence between men and women around the world, and the near-universal disapproval of it by people in countries with vastly different cultures, values and political systems.
John Hamel, LCSW, has a Masters in Social Welfare from U.C.L.A. and a PhD from University of Central Lancashire Psychology Department, U.K. He has conducted batterer intervention and parent programs in the San Francisco Bay Area since 1992.
John is the Founder and Executive Director of the Association of Domestic Violence Intervention Programs, a non-profit international organization of domestic violence treatment providers and domestic violence researchers.
He is the author, editor or co-editor of several books on family violence, and is Editor-in-Chief of the peer-reviewed professional journal, Partner Abuse, published quarterly by Springer Publishing. He regularly speaks at conferences on domestic violence theory, research and practice, and has provided consultation and training to mental health professionals, victim advocates and shelter workers, social service organizations, teachers, attorneys, judges and law enforcement officers. He also provides case consultation and expert witness testimony.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donatePoM #18 - John Hamel on the Realities of Domestic ViolenceCanadian Centre for Men and Families2022-10-03 | John Hamel, LCSW, has a Masters in Social Welfare from U.C.L.A. and a PhD from University of Central Lancashire Psychology Department, U.K. He has conducted batterer intervention and parent programs in the San Francisco Bay Area since 1992.
John is the Founder and Executive Director of the Association of Domestic Violence Intervention Programs, a non-profit international organization of domestic violence treatment providers and domestic violence researchers.
He is the author, editor or co-editor of several books on family violence, and is Editor-in-Chief of the peer-reviewed professional journal, Partner Abuse, published quarterly by Springer Publishing. He regularly speaks at conferences on domestic violence theory, research and practice, and has provided consultation and training to mental health professionals, victim advocates and shelter workers, social service organizations, teachers, attorneys, judges and law enforcement officers. He also provides case consultation and expert witness testimony.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donateThe Partner Abuse State of Knowledge (PASK) projectCanadian Centre for Men and Families2022-10-03 | John Hamel describes the Partner Abuse State of Knowledge (PASK) project, which was published in the journal Partner Abuse in 2012-2013.
The online database summarizes all major research since 1990, organized into 17 topics: * Physical Abuse Victimization * Physical Abuse Perpetration * Context: Unilateral and Bilateral Abuse * Risk Factors * Emotional Abuse and Control * Abuse in Ethnic Minority and LGBT Populations * Impact of Parental Violence on Children * Impact of Parental Conflict on Children * Impact of Abuse on Partners * Motives for Abuse Perpetration * Effectiveness of Criminal Justice Sanctions * The Criminal Justice Response in the Context of Gender and Ethnicity * Restraining Orders * Partner Abuse Worldwide * Risk Assessment * Prevention * Victim Services and Perpetrator Treatment
John Hamel, LCSW, has a Masters in Social Welfare from U.C.L.A. and a PhD from University of Central Lancashire Psychology Department, U.K. He has conducted batterer intervention and parent programs in the San Francisco Bay Area since 1992.
John is the Founder and Executive Director of the Association of Domestic Violence Intervention Programs, a non-profit international organization of domestic violence treatment providers and domestic violence researchers.
He is the author, editor or co-editor of several books on family violence, and is Editor-in-Chief of the peer-reviewed professional journal, Partner Abuse, published quarterly by Springer Publishing. He regularly speaks at conferences on domestic violence theory, research and practice, and has provided consultation and training to mental health professionals, victim advocates and shelter workers, social service organizations, teachers, attorneys, judges and law enforcement officers. He also provides case consultation and expert witness testimony.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donatePaternity fraud affects everyoneCanadian Centre for Men and Families2022-08-12 | Carnell Smith is a consultant and founder of Citizens Against Paternity Fraud, a grass-roots organization that increases public awareness and mobilizes voters around paternity, family law and DNA testing issues. His work led to the creation of Georgia’s first paternity fraud legislation, and he wrote the book “Trapped by Law”.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donateHow to avoid getting trapped by lawCanadian Centre for Men and Families2022-08-10 | Carnell Smith is a consultant and founder of Citizens Against Paternity Fraud, a grass-roots organization that increases public awareness and mobilizes voters around paternity, family law and DNA testing issues. His work led to the creation of Georgia’s first paternity fraud legislation, and he wrote the book “Trapped by Law”.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donatePoM #17 - Carnell Smith on Paternity FraudCanadian Centre for Men and Families2022-08-08 | Carnell Smith is a consultant and founder of Citizens Against Paternity Fraud, a grass-roots organization that increases public awareness and mobilizes voters around paternity, family law and DNA testing issues. His work led to the creation of Georgia’s first paternity fraud legislation, and he wrote the book “Trapped by Law”.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donateCCMF Speaks with Phil MitchellCanadian Centre for Men and Families2022-07-09 | Phil Mitchell is a brave and compassionate supporter of boys and men who have survived sexual abuse. He is Counselor and Psychotherapist with over 17 years of experience.
William Collins, writer of The Empathy Gap amazon.ca/Empathy-Gap-Disadvantages-Mechanisms-Neglect/dp/0957168888 http://empathygap.ukThe best interests of the childCanadian Centre for Men and Families2022-06-29 | In family law, judges often issue decisions purportedly based on “the best interests of the child” when establishing custody following divorce. But what does it really mean? Who gets to decide? What are the consequences on children and families of these decisions? Author and professor Stephen Baskerville explains the workings of the family court system in the United States and Canada.
Dr. Stephen Baskerville is professor of state studies at the Collegium Intermarium, in Warsaw, Poland, and author of several books on sexual politics, including Taken Into Custody, The New Politics of Sex, and most recently, The Gentleman’s Guide to Manners, Sex, and Ruling the World. He is past president of the American Coalition for Fathers and Children, and his recent writing is available at www.stephenbaskerville.com.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donatePoM #16 - Stephen Baskerville on Fatherlessness, Child Custody and Sexual PoliticsCanadian Centre for Men and Families2022-06-27 | Dr. Stephen Baskerville is professor of state studies at the Collegium Intermarium, in Warsaw, Poland, and author of several books on sexual politics, including Taken Into Custody, The New Politics of Sex, and most recently, The Gentleman’s Guide to Manners, Sex, and Ruling the World. He is past president of the American Coalition for Fathers and Children, and his recent writing is available at stephenbaskerville.com/.
Tom Golden is a therapist and speaker who has given workshops on the masculine side of healing in the US, Australia, Canada and Europe. His work has been featured in the NY Times, the Washington Post, on CNN, CBS Evening News, ESPN, the NFL Channel and others. Tom served as vice chairman on the Maryland Commission for Men’s Health and is the author of several books, including Swallowed by a Snake, The Way Men Heal, and Helping Mothers be Closer to Their Sons.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donatePoM #15 - Tom Golden on The Way Men HealCanadian Centre for Men and Families2022-06-13 | Tom Golden is a therapist and speaker who has given workshops on the masculine side of healing in the US, Australia, Canada and Europe. His work has been featured in the NY Times, the Washington Post, on CNN, CBS Evening News, ESPN, the NFL Channel and others. Tom served as vice chairman on the Maryland Commission for Men’s Health and is the author of several books, including Swallowed by a Snake, The Way Men Heal, and Helping Mothers be Closer to Their Sons.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donateCCMF Vancouver 2022 - Thank You Volunteers/Donors! [Song]Canadian Centre for Men and Families2022-01-03 | CCMF Vancouver has grown in 2021 thanks to the support of our dedicated volunteers and generous donors. Thank you so much for all you do and for helping us to accomplish our mission of helping men and boys in need.Momentum 2021 Recording FULLCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-12-20 | ...PoM #14 - Brian Ludmer on Shared Parenting, Family Therapy and Parental AlienationCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-12-13 | This video was recorded during MOMENTUM 2021, The Canadian National Men’s Issues Conference on December 11, 2021.
Brian Ludmer is the owner of a law practice in Toronto focused on family law and parental alienation as well as corporate law. He is an advisory board member to the Parental Alienation Awareness Organization and the International Support Network for Alienated Families, as well as a co-founder of Lawyers for Shared Parenting. Brian was one of the drafters of Canada's proposed equal shared parenting amendment, Bill C-560. He also co-authored the book “The High-Conflict Custody Battle”.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donatePoM #13 - David Shackleton on Feminism and Balance in Gender IssuesCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-11-22 | David Shackleton is the author of several books, including The Hand That Rocks The World, and Daughters of Feminism. He also edited the magazine ‘Everyman’ from 1994 to 2006.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donate
MOMENTUM 2021 The 2021 Canadian National Men’s Issues Conference will be hosted virtually via Zoom video on Saturday, December 11, 2021. MOMENTUM provides a platform to address a range of critical issues and timely current events, while working together to chart a path forward, building on the tremendous progress that has been made.Kentucky: A shared parenting success storyCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-11-17 | In 2017-2018, Kentucky reformed its child custody laws to create a presumption of equal shared parenting time following divorce. The laws have been very popular among the citizens of Kentucky, and have led to a reduction in the family court caseload and domestic violence filings in the state.
Don Hubin of the National Parents Organization explains the process by which they were able to achieve this, by making use of a group of dedicated citizens and expert witnesses willing to talk to legislators.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donate
MOMENTUM 2021 The 2021 Canadian National Men’s Issues Conference will be hosted virtually via Zoom video on Saturday, December 11, 2021. MOMENTUM provides a platform to address a range of critical issues and timely current events, while working together to chart a path forward, building on the tremendous progress that has been made.Why dont laws reflect public opinion and scientific research on shared parenting?Canadian Centre for Men and Families2021-11-16 | Public opinion polls across the US show very strong support (around 90%) for equal shared parenting. Americans overwhelmingly believe that equal shared parenting is in children’s best interest and that there should be a legal presumption that this is so. Unlike the polarized opinion seen on many other political issues, this view is shared across demographic divides of race, ethnicity, income, educational level, and gender. A one-page summary of some of the recent polling results is available here: sharedparenting.org/s/NPO-Nationwide-Polling-Report.pdf
Furthermore, there is a large body of scientific research that confirms that children raised under equal shared parenting have better outcomes than those raised under sole physical custody. (See our previous episode with Linda Nielsen for more details: youtu.be/t04rGz1haEs)
And yet, according to the National Parents Organization, most US states do not have a presumption of equal shared parenting reflected in law.
So why aren’t the laws keeping up with both the science and public opinion?
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donate
MOMENTUM 2021 The 2021 Canadian National Men’s Issues Conference will be hosted virtually via Zoom video on Saturday, December 11, 2021. MOMENTUM provides a platform to address a range of critical issues and timely current events, while working together to chart a path forward, building on the tremendous progress that has been made.PoM #12 - Don Hubin on Advocacy for Shared Parenting in the United StatesCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-11-15 | Don Hubin is Chair of the National Parents Organization. He holds a PhD from the University of Arizona, and is a retired professor of philosophy.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donate
MOMENTUM 2021 The 2021 Canadian National Men’s Issues Conference will be hosted virtually via Zoom video on Saturday, December 11, 2021. MOMENTUM provides a platform to address a range of critical issues and timely current events, while working together to chart a path forward, building on the tremendous progress that has been made.Peer to Peer Fundraising TipsCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-09-16 | Peer to peer fundraising events like walk-a-thon's are the number one way that Canadians give, and the average amount given is $50. In this video I'll go over tips to help you in your fundraising efforts.
If you're feeling discouraged and need motivation watch this video that has stories of men who have benefited from CCMF's services.
We offer a safe, spacious, temporary living opportunity for single men as well as fathers with children. This unique facility is dedicated to men and families who have experienced any form of domestic abuse. To register for access, visit menandfamilies.org/familyshelter-registration or call 647479-9611 x 5 or email shelter@menandfamilies.org
In this video, the first father to live in our residence speaks about his experiences.
In addition to residential support, we provide a variety of services:
Emergency case management Emergency trauma counselling Male survivors of domestic abuse support group Food, clothing and additional in-house resources Legal Clinic for family and criminal law matters Fathering After Separation or Divorce Drop-in peer support group Assisting with housing applications Outreach and advocacy on behalf of men and their children Referrals to additional external servicesThe First Family Shelter Resident SpeaksCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-09-15 | We offer a safe, spacious, temporary living opportunity for single men as well as fathers with children. This unique facility is dedicated to men and families who have experienced any form of domestic abuse. To register for access, visit menandfamilies.org/familyshelter-registration or call 647479-9611 x 5 or email shelter@menandfamilies.org
In this video, the first father to live in our residence speaks about his experiences.
In addition to residential support, we provide a variety of services:
Emergency case management Emergency trauma counselling Male survivors of domestic abuse support group Food, clothing and additional in-house resources Legal Clinic for family and criminal law matters Fathering After Separation or Divorce Drop-in peer support group Assisting with housing applications Outreach and advocacy on behalf of men and their children Referrals to additional external servicesYoung Mens Support GroupCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-09-13 | We are now accepting applications to our young men's support group. This is a space for young men aged 13-18 to receive and give peer support with trained adult mentors and facilitators.
Check out the program webpage for more details below:
If you know of a young person who might benefit from this please contact the program coordinator David Minor at dminor@menandfamilies.org.PoM #11 - Linda Nielsen on The Benefits of Equal Shared Parenting for ChildrenCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-09-13 | Dr. Linda Nielsen is Professor of Adolescent & Educational Psychology at Wake Forest University in North Carolina. Her research and courses are focused on shared physical custody for children with separated parents and father-daughter relationships, with a special emphasis on divorced fathers.
Dr. Nielsen has reviewed 60 studies on shared parenting - published over several decades in North America, Europe and elsewhere - and found that children under joint physical custody (JPC) had better outcomes on measures of well-being as compared to those under sole physical custody (SPC). These benefits occur independent of family income or the level of parental conflict, and are enjoyed by children of all ages, even those under 4 years old.
The benefits of shared parenting include: 1. better academic achievement or cognitive development, 2. better emotional or psychological health (anxiety, depression, self-esteem, life satisfaction), 3. fewer behavioral problems (delinquency, school misbehavior, bullying, drugs, alcohol, smoking) 4. better physical health and fewer stress-related illnesses 5. better relationships with parents, stepparents, and grandparents.
Dr. Nielsen's contact information and research can be found here: https://nielsen.sites.wfu.edu/
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donateMemoirs from Canadas Leading Mens Issues Reporter (Douglas Todd)Canadian Centre for Men and Families2021-09-03 | This event was hosted on August 26, 2021 by the Canadian Centre for Men and Families. Learn more at https://www.menandfamilies.org. To register for future webinar events, email info@menandfamilies.org.
Douglas Todd has been a columnist with the Vancouver Sun and Postmedia News for 38 years.
He is one of Canada's most prolific reporters covering men's issues. His work has appeared in the National Post, Toronto Sun, Calgary Herald, Ottawa Citizen, Windsor Star, Edmonton Journal, and Montreal Gazette.
Douglas Todd has received 33 national and international journalism prizes. He is a two-time winner of the Templeton Religion Reporter of the Year Award, winner of a Canadian National Newspaper Award and has been given the top prizes for commentary from the American Academy of Religion. He is18 times finalist, 6 times winner of the Jack Webster Foundation award for excellence in BC journalism
His interests include cultural and gender issues, diversity, spirituality and migration. He is the Chair of the International Association of Religion Journalists and a long-time correspondent for Religion News Service, based in New York.
He is the author of two books and editor of Cascadia: The Elusive Utopia – Exploring the Spirit of the Pacific Northwest.Footsteps for FathersCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-09-01 | I'm excited to announce our first big fundraiser for the Canadian Centre for Men and Families in Vancouver!
Thank you for supporting men and families!PoM #10 - Paul Nathanson on Misandry, Wokeism and Ideological FeminismCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-08-31 | Dr. Paul Nathanson, PhD, is a Canadian religious studies academic. He holds degrees in art history, theology and religious studies. Together with Katherine K. Young, Nathanson has published a series of works on the subject of misandry, which is a form of prejudice and discrimination against men and boys. This series includes: * Spreading Misandry: The Teaching of Contempt for Men in Popular Culture (2001) * Legalizing Misandry: From Public Shame to Systemic Discrimination Against Men (2006) * Sanctifying Misandry: Goddess Ideology and the Fall of Man (2010) * Replacing Misandry: A Revolutionary History of Men (2015)
TIMESTAMPS 2:13 the ideological origins of misandry and feminism 7:50 feminism and wokeism as secular religions 13:41 Spreading Misandry - examples 17:32 identity harassment - hostility and resentment towards boys and men 26:23 the challenge of forming a healthy and distinctive collective male identity 31:35 Replacing Misandry - the conspiracy theory of history 40:40 Legalizing Misandry - examples 47:47 the woke & feminist attack on reason, logic and due process 1:05:29 Sanctifying Misandry - feminist utopian visions and the goddess cult 1:14:28 healing male-female relations through intersexual dialogue - 10 key principles 1:21:04 identity politics and the contest for victimization / competitive suffering 1:23:49 the pushback against wokeism and feminist ideology
All views expressed are those of the guests, and do not necessarily reflect those of the Canadian Centre for Men and Families.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donateSociety needs masculine valuesCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-08-20 | Emergency responders such as firefighters often put themselves in danger to protect families and communities, embodying traditional male qualities such as courage and self-sacrifice. In the view of Dr. Dan Bilsker, society should honour and respect these qualities on which it heavily depends.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donateWhy toxic masculinity is not a useful labelCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-08-18 | Dr. Dan Bilsker explains why attempts to shame men into better behaviour via the use of poorly defined terms like ‘toxic masculinity’ are not helpful, and advocates for a different approach based on respectful discourse.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donatePoM #9 - Dan Bilsker on Mens Mental HealthCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-08-16 | Dr. Dan Bilsker, PhD, is a psychologist with a focus on men’s mental health. He is a Clinical Assistant Professor at the University of British Columbia and an Adjunct Professor at Simon Fraser University. In addition to his published academic research, he has produced several mental health self-management tools, including the Antidepressant Skills Workbook (2005), which is available in numerous languages.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donateSupport for men at the bottomCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-08-06 | Much attention is given to the fact that men dominate the upper echelons of society, whether in business or politics, yet very little is paid to the many more men at the bottom of the ladder. Michael Ronin shares his sympathy for these men, many of whom have suffered unemployment and its ensuing consequences.
Michael Ronin is an interdisciplinary cultural commentator, pulling together the threads of an unraveling world to provide clarity amidst all the Crazy. He is the author of a new book, Modern Masculinity for the Conscious Man: Making Sense in Troubled Times, which details the obstacles and opportunities facing the conscious man and the world in which he operates.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donatePoM #8 - Michael Ronin on Modern Masculinity for the Conscious ManCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-08-02 | Michael Ronin is an interdisciplinary cultural commentator, pulling together the threads of an unraveling world to provide clarity amidst all the Crazy. He is the author of a new book, Modern Masculinity for the Conscious Man: Making Sense in Troubled Times, which details the obstacles and opportunities facing the conscious man and the world in which he operates.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donateWhy its better to go slowly when choosing a partnerCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-07-28 | Dr. Shawn T. Smith, psychologist and author from Colorado, describes why it's better to go slowly when choosing a partner rather than rushing into a serious long-term commitment, and describes the kinds of information you want to pay attention to.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donateNice Guys, A**holes and the Manosphere - A Psychologists PerspectiveCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-07-26 | Dr. Shawn T. Smith, psychologist and author from Colorado, shares his views on: - nice guys vs. a**holes - the manosphere, and men's diverse reactions to 'the red pill' - what women are really attracted to in men, vs. what the media (e.g. TV, film, advertising) tells men that women are attracted to
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donateOur commitment to menCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-07-23 | We want to remind everyone of our commitment to serving men with dignity, respect, and without ideological bias. We as an agency have a responsibility to reach out and form connections with other agencies performing similar work in our communities, and some of these agencies will likely have slightly differing views from our own, but this does not mean that we have to change our views or our message.
PoM #4 - Cameron Gibson on Opening a Men's Counselling Practice youtube.com/watch?v=2O3A0jm2jxERecruiting Men as Early Childhood Educators (Jeff Sagara)Canadian Centre for Men and Families2021-07-23 | This event was hosted on July 22, 2021 by the Canadian Association for Equality. Learn more at https://www.equalitycanada.com. To register for future webinar events, email info@equalitycanada.com.
Jeff Sagara is Registered Early Childhood Educator and Co-Supervisor at Friends Day Care in Toronto.
Research is clear that children do best with both male and female role models. With 40% of marriages ending in divorce, and 80% of lone-parent families being led by mothers, many children's only opportunity for a positive male role model will be found in school.
Yet men account for a mere 3% of Early Childhood Educators, and there are no major efforts to change that.
It is essential that programs target male individuals for recruitment into the ECE profession. Children aged 0-5 are at a critical developmental age.
This presentation will explore challenges and barriers faced by men in entering the ECE profession and strategies to improve recruitment and retention.
Jeff has worked in the ECE profession for over 20 years. Friend Day Care is unique in that three of its four staff are male
Our agency is interested in bringing down barriers and encouraging both men and women to seek out professions outside those domains conventionally dominated by one or the other gender.Why Women Should Support MenCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-07-21 | Tanis Moore (The Prim Reaper) explains why women should support men if they support gender equality.
Tanis Moore hosts The Prim Reaper channel on YouTube, which explores a range of topics such as men's issues, the media, language and psychology. She is a Master of Counselling graduate and an aspiring men's counsellor and psychologist. Tanis is also a volunteer for CCMF Calgary and a member of the provincial and national boards of CCMF.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donateBuilding the First Shelter for Abused Fathers and ChildrenCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-07-19 | The first dedicated residential facility for abused fathers and children opened in Toronto, Canada on March 21, 2021. Make a charitable gift to sustain this critical new facility, a first-of-its-kind. equalitycanada.com/donation
To commemorate this milestone for boys and men, the Canadian Association for Equality has produced a short video to document the building of our amazing new home. Help us celebrate the culmination of this three year initiative and of a dream we've all held for many years.
We are now accepting referrals and registrations. Email: shelter@menandfamilies.org Call: 647-479-9611 extension 5
We offer a safe, spacious, temporary living opportunity for single men as well as fathers with children. This unique facility is dedicated to men and families who have experienced any form of domestic abuse.
In addition to residential support, we provide a variety of services:
• Emergency case management • Emergency trauma counselling • Male survivors of domestic abuse support group • Food, clothing and additional in-house resources • Legal Clinic for family and criminal law matters • Fathering After Separation or Divorce • Drop-in peer support group • Assisting with housing applications • Outreach and advocacy on behalf of men and their children • Referrals to additional external servicesPoM #7 - Dr. Shawn T. Smith on Choosing the Right PartnerCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-07-19 | Dr. Shawn T. Smith is a psychologist and author from Colorado. In 2006 he earned a doctorate in clinical psychology from the University of Denver, and he has worked in private practice since then, offering therapy and coaching with a focus on male clients. Many men come seeking clarity on the role of women in their lives.
He is the author of several books including “The Tactical Guide to Women: How Men Can Manage Risk in Dating and Marriage” and “The Practical Guide to Men: How To Spot the Hidden Traits of Good Men and Great Relationships”.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donateEqual shared parenting - how Gene Colman came to support itCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-07-14 | Family lawyer Gene C. Colman tells his story of how he became convinced to support a rebuttable presumption of equal shared parenting in the divorce process.
Gene is an Advisory Fellow for the Canadian Centre for Men and Families., and a donor for many years to our cause.
DONATE We’re fundraising! Please consider donating to help us open a centre for men and families in Vancouver: menandfamilies.org/vancouver-donateStaying Healthy During Relationship Break-Down: 2021 Healthy Fathers. Healthy Families Week EventCanadian Centre for Men and Families2021-06-25 | This event was hosted on June 17, 2021 by the Canadian Centre for Men and Families. Learn more at https://www.menandfamilies.org.To register for future webinar events, email info@menandfamilies.org
This webinar provides strategies for parents and children to stay healthy and positive during high conflict separation or divorce.
This is the 2021 "Healthy Fathers. Healthy Families" Week signature event. We invite you to learn and engage with our stellar panel, featuring:
Susan S. Chuang, PhD, is Associate Professor of Family Relations & Applied Nutrition at the University of Guelph. She is Associate Editor, Journal of Family Psychology, and Associate Editor, Journal of Adolescent Research. She is Series Editor for Advances in Immigrant Family Research, Springer
Brian Ludmer is a prominent Toronto family law lawyer and founder of LudmerLaw. He is a Canadian authority on parental alienation. He is one of the drafters of Bill C-560, which would have enshrined equal shared parenting in law. Brian is a founder of Lawyers for Shared Parenting, an advisory board member to the Parental Alienation Awareness Organization and the International Support Network for Alienated Families
Dr. Robert Whitley is the Principal Investigator of the Social Psychiatry Research and Interest Group at the Douglas Hospital Research Center. He is also an Assistant Professor in the Department of Psychiatry at McGill University. He has conducted considerable research on topics including homelessness, substance abuse, suicide, stigma, and media representations of mental illness. He has published over 100 papers in the field of social psychiatry, and he is currently leading research projects funded by the Canadian Institutes of Health Research and the Mental Health Commission of Canada.
We are very grateful to Canada Life for sponsoring this event.