Uploaded November 2023 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago

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Are you a people pleaser? Or do you know someone who is? This video explores the pernicious act of people pleasing, why we shouldn’t do it, and some thoughts on how to stop it.

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00:00 - Intro
02:32 - The anatomy of the pleaser
06:00 - The dangers of pleasing
09:40 - People are overrated
12:18 - Kindness versus pleasing
13:24 - What about you?