Uploaded August 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Three years ago this week, I was being induced to have my daughter.
Now I'm folding laundry, decorating for her third birthday, trying to find a Maleficent cake topper... and overthinking whether everyone is secretly mad at me.
Some habits are harder to outgrow than others.
In this vlog, I'm talking about people-pleasing, learning to set boundaries, advocating for my daughter, and the strange realization that after three years of motherhood, I'm finally starting to feel like myself again.
Thanks for hanging out with me while I tackle laundry, birthday prep, and all the thoughts that come with both.
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Watch my Aerie haul:
youtu.be/nYKr3YoT1pU
If you've ever found yourself wondering, "Are they mad at me?"... you're definitely not alone.
♡
Come say hi!
Instagram: instagram.com/lisaschwartz
Substack: substack.com/@lisbug
TikTok: i'm too old. sorry.
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And if you’re new here — I’m Lisa. I make videos about motherhood, identity, internet culture, and whatever else I’m trying to figure out in real time.
Three years ago this week, I was being induced to have my daughter.
Now I'm folding laundry, decorating for her third birthday, trying to find a Maleficent cake topper... and overthinking whether everyone is secretly mad at me.
Some habits are harder to outgrow than others.
In this vlog, I'm talking about people-pleasing, learning to set boundaries, advocating for my daughter, and the strange realization that after three years of motherhood, I'm finally starting to feel like myself again.
Thanks for hanging out with me while I tackle laundry, birthday prep, and all the thoughts that come with both.
Mentioned in this video:
Multi-Purpose Scraper:
amzn.to/4q0KyVa
Watch my Aerie haul:
youtu.be/nYKr3YoT1pU
If you've ever found yourself wondering, "Are they mad at me?"... you're definitely not alone.
♡
Come say hi!
Instagram: instagram.com/lisaschwartz
Substack: substack.com/@lisbug
TikTok: i'm too old. sorry.
—
And if you’re new here — I’m Lisa. I make videos about motherhood, identity, internet culture, and whatever else I’m trying to figure out in real time.
