AI relationships and my work as a therapist @estherperel

Uploaded March 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 hours ago

Yesterday's podcast featured a man and his AI partner. I was asked: What does this mean for my work?

Here are my thoughts, and I'm curious to know what you think in the comments.

AI relationships and my work as a therapist

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