jon atack, family & friends | accountability and transformation with Hoyt Richards @jonatackfamilyfriends6176 | Uploaded October 2023 | Updated October 2024, 9 hours ago.
It can be very hard to take responsibility for your actions if you blame the manipulations of a cult for them. As Hoyt says, it is vital to take responsibility for your own story: it is a lot easier to fool someone than to persuade them they've been fooled. Some people blame themselves entirely for their negative behavior and others shrug it off because of 'mind control'. To recover from a cult experience, we have to weigh up the balance between the manipulation of the cult and our own agency.
Links:
Alan Scheflin's Social Influence Model:
jonatack.co.uk/professor-alan-scheflins-social-influence-model
Jon's spiffy new site: jonatack.co.uk
Jon's old site (with all his art and poems and things): jonatack.com
________________
help support our channel!
paypal (for one-time donations) : paypal.com/paypalme/jonatackandfriends
patreon (for a monthly subscription - also for goodies like early access and a monthly Q&A with Jon!): patreon.com/jonatack
follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/atack_jon
and Instagram: instagram.com/openmindstoday
for respectful, insightful, and engaging discussion on coercive control, manipulation, abusive groups and individuals, and more, join our facebook group: facebook.com/groups/803202686721445 (for faster acceptance to the group, please answer the “prove you’re not a ‘bot” questions)
It can be very hard to take responsibility for your actions if you blame the manipulations of a cult for them. As Hoyt says, it is vital to take responsibility for your own story: it is a lot easier to fool someone than to persuade them they've been fooled. Some people blame themselves entirely for their negative behavior and others shrug it off because of 'mind control'. To recover from a cult experience, we have to weigh up the balance between the manipulation of the cult and our own agency.
Links:
Alan Scheflin's Social Influence Model:
jonatack.co.uk/professor-alan-scheflins-social-influence-model
Jon's spiffy new site: jonatack.co.uk
Jon's old site (with all his art and poems and things): jonatack.com
________________
help support our channel!
paypal (for one-time donations) : paypal.com/paypalme/jonatackandfriends
patreon (for a monthly subscription - also for goodies like early access and a monthly Q&A with Jon!): patreon.com/jonatack
follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/atack_jon
and Instagram: instagram.com/openmindstoday
for respectful, insightful, and engaging discussion on coercive control, manipulation, abusive groups and individuals, and more, join our facebook group: facebook.com/groups/803202686721445 (for faster acceptance to the group, please answer the “prove you’re not a ‘bot” questions)
