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Why do we turn against ourselves? From the ancient Stoics to modern existentialists, philosophers have wrestled with the question of self-hatred — what it is, where it comes from, and whether we can ever escape it. In this video, I explore the philosophy behind our inner critic and offer a reflective guide for living with (and perhaps softening) that voice in your head.
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Hey there, I’m Cinzia DuBois On this channel, I talk about dark and ancient history, literature and folklore.
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Why do we turn against ourselves? From the ancient Stoics to modern existentialists, philosophers have wrestled with the question of self-hatred — what it is, where it comes from, and whether we can ever escape it. In this video, I explore the philosophy behind our inner critic and offer a reflective guide for living with (and perhaps softening) that voice in your head.
GET MORE FROM ME:
✨ Support me on Patreon: patreon.com/Cinzia
💌 Sign up for my newsletter: ladyofthelibrary.com/sign-up
🎥 Nerdy Self-Help Channel: @TheAnnotatedMind
🎙️The Annotated Mind Podcast: tinyurl.com/mr3k4w4m
➡️🎙️Listen to The Annotated Mind on YouTube: tinyurl.com/2rxpjsdv
📩 Video Request form: https://forms.gle/zF6HjhJGZPR2hVx69
🌍 My website/blog: ladyofthelibrary.com
SOCIALS:
📚 Bookish Insta: instagram.com/lady.of.the.library
🦋 BlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/cinzia-dubois.bsky.social
🎓 PhD Insta: instagram.com/the.literary.academic
📱 TikTok: tiktok.com/@lady.of.the.library
📚 Goodreads: goodreads.com/user/show/6341226-c-dubois
WHO AM I?
Hey there, I’m Cinzia DuBois On this channel, I talk about dark and ancient history, literature and folklore.
❗️DISCLAIMER
I'm very dyslexic, so I apologise for any mispronunciations that occur when I'm reading scripts for videos. Additionally, whilst flattered, I'm only a PhD student and not a professional educator. As such, I would advise against ever citing my videos or using them as an academic resource: please instead cite references for papers I list in the description box.
🔗 Sources and references below.
