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If you’re out there frustrated because you can’t find love, maybe rather than searching for love outside of yourself... you should start with loving yourself. Start with the man (or woman) in the mirror. :)
Do you like yourself? How can you like yourself more? Would you bang you? Would you fall in love with yourself? How can you live your life where you’d be the most proud of yourself? Are you becoming more and more, day in and day out, the person you want to be?
Do you come at girls with a "full cup", and can overflow love and happiness onto them? Or do you come at girls with a cup half full and try to have them fill your cup?
Maybe it's time to start trying to love yourself and love life on your own more, and then come at girls with a more "full cup" in the future. :)
Never beat yourself up. Self-acceptance is the most important thing. Life has ups and downs. Sometimes we will fail. We must accept ourselves. Being your best self and "self-love" is just an ideal to hold. Baby steps forward every day.
This is not about anything external. Such as how you look. This is 100% about HOW you live your life. Are you living a life that would make you proud?
Being in love with yourself is falling in love with HOW you live your life. Are you doing the best with what life has given you?
But seriously, doing your best creates "self-love". Girls are madly attracted to guys with self-love.
Improve your character and your life -- and live life in a way that makes you feel good and proud of how you are living. Wouldn't you want your girl to be doing that too? You want a girl with strong character and who lives life in an awesome, positive, and healthy way right? This is just the intelligent way to live life.
You feel the best when you are sincerely doing your best to be your best self.
Want your Dream Girl? BECOME your Dream Guy. Become YOUR best self. The best version of YOU you can be.
Go work on your self love! That's what your dream girl wishes!
The next two videos you should watch:
►Video I made on "The Slight Edge" book: youtu.be/xdtGLe3FjPI
(This is the book I talked about in the video. An AMAZING book that drastically improved my life and mindset. HIGHLY recommended!)
►"My Best Tool For Creating Self-Love": youtu.be/pVbT0anDAEw
(best thing for you to do is get off the computer and go be your best self ;) )
BTW, If the term "self-love" doesn't jive with you, substitute the language "self-esteem" or "self respect" for self-love. I personally like "self-love", but perhaps "developing one's self-esteem in healthy ways" is better universal language to convey the message I am trying to deliver. :)
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Regarding all the messages I have ever given, I ask you guys to take nothing on my word, but to test the principles and the methods for yourselves and to always think critically. Everyone has their own individualization process. You may be an "outlier". Also, there appears to be a yin and a yang for everything (except God maybe?) that go together. Maybe you'll find some concept that will work awesome for you now, and then in the future you'll find that the polar opposite of that concept is what feels true for you! What matters is are you afraid of truth? Are you being real? And are you coming from a truly good place?
Sometimes I'll watch some of my videos that I made a year ago for example, and disagree with what I talked about back then. My views keep evolving it seems. Always question what you "get" from my channel!
"The shoe that fits one person pinches another; there is no recipe for living that suits all cases." -- Carl Jung
Outro song: Dinnerdate - Time
youtube.com/watch?v=4LNv3nv7SLw
►I hope you enjoyed / benefited from the video!
I'd appreciate it if you: LIKE, COMMENT, SHARE, SUBSCRIBE, & check out my other videos! :)
SIGN UP FOR MY EMAILS!!! ► goldjacketluke.com
If you’re out there frustrated because you can’t find love, maybe rather than searching for love outside of yourself... you should start with loving yourself. Start with the man (or woman) in the mirror. :)
Do you like yourself? How can you like yourself more? Would you bang you? Would you fall in love with yourself? How can you live your life where you’d be the most proud of yourself? Are you becoming more and more, day in and day out, the person you want to be?
Do you come at girls with a "full cup", and can overflow love and happiness onto them? Or do you come at girls with a cup half full and try to have them fill your cup?
Maybe it's time to start trying to love yourself and love life on your own more, and then come at girls with a more "full cup" in the future. :)
Never beat yourself up. Self-acceptance is the most important thing. Life has ups and downs. Sometimes we will fail. We must accept ourselves. Being your best self and "self-love" is just an ideal to hold. Baby steps forward every day.
This is not about anything external. Such as how you look. This is 100% about HOW you live your life. Are you living a life that would make you proud?
Being in love with yourself is falling in love with HOW you live your life. Are you doing the best with what life has given you?
But seriously, doing your best creates "self-love". Girls are madly attracted to guys with self-love.
Improve your character and your life -- and live life in a way that makes you feel good and proud of how you are living. Wouldn't you want your girl to be doing that too? You want a girl with strong character and who lives life in an awesome, positive, and healthy way right? This is just the intelligent way to live life.
You feel the best when you are sincerely doing your best to be your best self.
Want your Dream Girl? BECOME your Dream Guy. Become YOUR best self. The best version of YOU you can be.
Go work on your self love! That's what your dream girl wishes!
The next two videos you should watch:
►Video I made on "The Slight Edge" book: youtu.be/xdtGLe3FjPI
(This is the book I talked about in the video. An AMAZING book that drastically improved my life and mindset. HIGHLY recommended!)
►"My Best Tool For Creating Self-Love": youtu.be/pVbT0anDAEw
(best thing for you to do is get off the computer and go be your best self ;) )
BTW, If the term "self-love" doesn't jive with you, substitute the language "self-esteem" or "self respect" for self-love. I personally like "self-love", but perhaps "developing one's self-esteem in healthy ways" is better universal language to convey the message I am trying to deliver. :)
►►SUBSCRIBE!: youtube.com/user/GoldJacketLuke?sub_confirmation=1
→ Website: GoldJacketLuke.com
→ Follow Me On Instagram! instagram.com/goldjacketluke
→ Like on Facebook: facebook.com/LukeEilers
(I frequently share lots of random and personal thoughts, insightful quotes, awesome videos from other people, cool articles, etc. on FB)
→ Follow on Twitter: twitter.com/EilersLuke
Regarding all the messages I have ever given, I ask you guys to take nothing on my word, but to test the principles and the methods for yourselves and to always think critically. Everyone has their own individualization process. You may be an "outlier". Also, there appears to be a yin and a yang for everything (except God maybe?) that go together. Maybe you'll find some concept that will work awesome for you now, and then in the future you'll find that the polar opposite of that concept is what feels true for you! What matters is are you afraid of truth? Are you being real? And are you coming from a truly good place?
Sometimes I'll watch some of my videos that I made a year ago for example, and disagree with what I talked about back then. My views keep evolving it seems. Always question what you "get" from my channel!
"The shoe that fits one person pinches another; there is no recipe for living that suits all cases." -- Carl Jung
Outro song: Dinnerdate - Time
youtube.com/watch?v=4LNv3nv7SLw
►I hope you enjoyed / benefited from the video!
I'd appreciate it if you: LIKE, COMMENT, SHARE, SUBSCRIBE, & check out my other videos! :)
