A Lot of Women THINK They’ve Decentered Men… But Haven’t. @yv

Uploaded March 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago

A lot of women say they’ve decentered men. But decentering men isn’t just about saying the right things online or performing a certain kind of attitude. It’s about doing the inner work required to stop seeking male validation altogether, and that’s much harder than people think.

Let's talk about the difference between actually decentering men and simply adopting the language of it. Because some women still build their sense of worth around men whether that shows up as trying to impress them, trying to fix them, or even trying to make them hate you.

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