Uploaded March 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
A few people noticed I wasn’t wearing my wedding ring in some recent videos, and whenever that happens, it tends to bring out a whole wave of theories.
Sometimes it’s the ring.
Sometimes it’s because I haven’t posted Poul in a minute.
Sometimes the internet just really loves a potential storyline.
But real life is usually a lot less dramatic than people imagine.
There are a lot of parts of my life I share online, and there are also parts I protect a little more carefully.
My marriage is one of the most precious things in my life, so I don’t always feel the need to showcase it for the internet in order for it to be real.
That said, I do understand why people notice little things!
So here’s the very unexciting truth.
I love my ring. I really do. But I’ve lost enough weight since Poul gave it to me that it falls off, and when I’m working with my hands, with the horses, with the dog, or doing anything where it could slip or catch, I take it off. That’s it.
I have an irrational fear of degloving.
So I take it off except for fancy events.
And since we’re here, I’ll say this too.
Poul is one of the most consistent people I have ever known. Steady, thoughtful, grounded, deeply talented, and the kind of person who does not need an audience to be extraordinary. Some of the best parts of our life happen off camera anyway.
So no, I do not post every moment.
And no, I do not always wear my ring while working.
But I am very loved, very grateful, and very glad I married him fast. ❤️
#marriedlife #realmarriage #relationshipchat #husbandappreciation #lovestory
A few people noticed I wasn’t wearing my wedding ring in some recent videos, and whenever that happens, it tends to bring out a whole wave of theories.
Sometimes it’s the ring.
Sometimes it’s because I haven’t posted Poul in a minute.
Sometimes the internet just really loves a potential storyline.
But real life is usually a lot less dramatic than people imagine.
There are a lot of parts of my life I share online, and there are also parts I protect a little more carefully.
My marriage is one of the most precious things in my life, so I don’t always feel the need to showcase it for the internet in order for it to be real.
That said, I do understand why people notice little things!
So here’s the very unexciting truth.
I love my ring. I really do. But I’ve lost enough weight since Poul gave it to me that it falls off, and when I’m working with my hands, with the horses, with the dog, or doing anything where it could slip or catch, I take it off. That’s it.
I have an irrational fear of degloving.
So I take it off except for fancy events.
And since we’re here, I’ll say this too.
Poul is one of the most consistent people I have ever known. Steady, thoughtful, grounded, deeply talented, and the kind of person who does not need an audience to be extraordinary. Some of the best parts of our life happen off camera anyway.
So no, I do not post every moment.
And no, I do not always wear my ring while working.
But I am very loved, very grateful, and very glad I married him fast. ❤️
#marriedlife #realmarriage #relationshipchat #husbandappreciation #lovestory
