Sydney Zarlengo | A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep! Part 69 - Luca @disabled.autistic.lesbian | Uploaded April 2024 | Updated October 2024, 6 hours ago.
A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep!
Part 69 -
Luca
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A Disabled Person Reviews Disabled Media Rep!
Part 69 -
Luca
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![A Beginners Guide to Managing Disability & Economizing Energy [CC]](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/RWzhpe00Y6U/hqdefault.jpg "A Beginners Guide to Managing Disability & Economizing Energy [CC]
(this is not medical advice, more like... what I wish I couldve told my younger self)
Sources & Resources (further autism resources below!):
Im Not A Warrior - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PmEZDPQiUAA&ab_channel=JessicaKellgren-Fozard
Chris McCarrells TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@chrismzcarrell/video/7148556697466834218
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Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/disabled.autistic.lesbian/
Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@disabledautisticlesbian
The Web - https://www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Sydney-Zarlengo-110498164188464/
Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/artist/3bGoCcP3Ovo2ZifM8Z7TSu?si=KhyUdYa3Q_63z3HjlwjWow
Bandcamp - https://sydneyzarlengo.bandcamp.com/music
If you want to support me financially - https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/sydneyzarlengo
Check out my work! - https://www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/curious-incident
Autism Resources:
Ultimate resource guide - https://www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/resource-guide
How to support an autistic person - https://www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/im-the-parent-of-an-autistic-kid
Help! I think I’m autistic - https://www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/help-i-think-im-autistic
Unmasking/How to Start Over - https://www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/i-want-to-start-over
My Music:
Fearlessly Different (Single) - https://ditto.fm/fearlessly-different
Bold (EP) - https://youtu.be/6pGSdJWO7Bs
Rewrite History (Album) - https://ditto.fm/rewrite_history_0d14daa964
Alive (Single) - https://li.sten.to/alive
Start Over (Album) - https://li.sten.to/start-over
The Confused Linguist (Album) - https://li.sten.to/the-confused-linguist
Check out my #ActuallyAutistic playlist made of entirely autistic artists!
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3gIiA3ZPsZlx8lZXWdJv6U?si=0mU6TSvXRcmDpn-ff6aq9Q
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![A Nuanced & Neurodiverse Look at Parasocial Relationships [CC]](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/TOGZWLuGuIk/hqdefault.jpg "A Nuanced & Neurodiverse Look at Parasocial Relationships [CC]
All of the internet breakdowns of parasocial relationships usually just say theyre bad and dont look at the research or the reality that, in many cases, the people most positively and negatively impacted by these relationships are neurodivergent people who struggle with face to face interaction. They also usually ignore the steps of how can I protect myself? and how can I protect my favorite creators?. So today were going to talk about all of that.
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Sources & Resources (further autism resources below!):
An Auties Guide to Neurotypical Social Skills - https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvsi-cBrFY4C9JW7YB4bCmHoMIEjEOt_O
My video on boundaries - https://youtu.be/qgjmCUnGEEU
Can Creators Be Friends With Their Fans? - SimplyPodLogical - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RTC3MyVcjgQ&ab_channel=SimplyPodLogical
Imaginary friends and real-world consequences: parasocial relationships - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=22yoaiLYb7M&ab_channel=TEDxTalks
Ludwig “I Am Not Your Friend” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WzyQbfh4t_8&ab_channel=Ludwig
Deranged DMs with Gabi Belle & Abelina Sabrina - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D07fARVAvq0&ab_channel=DerangedDMs
Are Parasocial Relationships Healthy...or Harmful? - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OdcEyj8s0h8&ab_channel=AboveTheNoise
In defense of parasocial relationships - https://www.browndailyherald.com/article/2022/10/slusarewicz-23-in-defense-of-parasocial-relationships#:~:text=Parasocial%20relationships%20with%20fictional%20characters,skills%20and%20cope%20with%20challenges
Attachment theory - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/standard-deviations/201608/why-attachment-theory-is-all-sizzle-and-no-steak
Follow me on...
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/disabled.autistic.lesbian/
Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@disabledautisticlesbian
The Web - https://www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Sydney-Zarlengo-110498164188464/
Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/artist/3bGoCcP3Ovo2ZifM8Z7TSu?si=KhyUdYa3Q_63z3HjlwjWow
Bandcamp - https://sydneyzarlengo.bandcamp.com/music
If you want to support me financially - https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/sydneyzarlengo
Check out my work! - https://www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/curious-incident
Autism Resources:
Ultimate resource guide - https://www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/resource-guide
How to support an autistic person - https://www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/im-the-parent-of-an-autistic-kid
Help! I think I’m autistic - https://www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/help-i-think-im-autistic
Unmasking/How to Start Over - https://www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/i-want-to-start-over
My Music:
Fearlessly Different (Single) - https://ditto.fm/fearlessly-different
Bold (EP) - https://youtu.be/6pGSdJWO7Bs
Rewrite History (Album) - https://ditto.fm/rewrite_history_0d14daa964
Alive (Single) - https://li.sten.to/alive
Start Over (Album) - https://li.sten.to/start-over
The Confused Linguist (Album) - https://li.sten.to/the-confused-linguist
Check out my #ActuallyAutistic playlist made of entirely autistic artists!
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3gIiA3ZPsZlx8lZXWdJv6U?si=0mU6TSvXRcmDpn-ff6aq9Q
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![Reality TV v. IRB Human Research Guidelines [CC]](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/TzYXZ3Nhh20/hqdefault.jpg "Reality TV v. IRB Human Research Guidelines [CC]
Sources & Resources (further autism resources below!):
Destroying relationships in science’s name: how reality TV ‘experiments’ wreck lives - https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2022/apr/14/destroying-relationships-in-sciences-name-how-reality-tv-experiments-wreck-lives
Reality TV and Real Ethics: Love Island and the Ethics of Relationships - https://liberalarts.utexas.edu/ethicsproject/teaching-resources/reality-tv-and-real-ethics-love-island-and-the-ethics-of-relationships.html
Ethics, Sadism And Survivor - https://supreme.findlaw.com/legal-commentary/ethics-sadism-and-survivor.html
The Ethics of Survivor - https://andphilosophy.com/2020/05/07/the-ethics-of-survivor/
Big Brother damages our health - https://www.theguardian.com/media/2005/aug/13/bigbrother.comment
Big Brother is back - but can it be ethical and entertaining? - https://news.sky.com/story/big-brother-is-back-but-can-it-be-ethical-and-entertaining-12977607
‘The Rehearsal’ and Its Murky Ethics - https://www.prindleinstitute.org/2022/08/the-rehearsal-and-its-murky-ethics/
Love Is Blind is what happens when television loses its ethics - https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2020/mar/22/love-is-blind-reality-tv-loses-ethics-netflix
Jury Duty director explains the time the show went too far with non-actor Ronald Gladden - https://www.cbc.ca/arts/commotion/jury-duty-director-explains-the-time-the-show-went-too-far-with-non-actor-ronald-gladden-1.6870245
The Dark Side of Reality TV: Professional Ethics and the Treatment of Reality Show Participants - Jelle Mast, Vrije Universiteit Brussel, Belgium
“Love Is Blind” Is Offensive to Human Dignity, Which Is Key to Its Success - https://www.newyorker.com/culture/on-television/love-is-blind-is-offensive-to-human-dignity-which-is-key-to-its-success
Netflix’s The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On Offers a Sadistic Twist on Reality Romance - https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2022/04/netflix-the-ultimatum-marry-move-on-dating-show-review
The ugliness of Netflix’s The Ultimatum - https://www.newstatesman.com/culture/tv/2022/04/the-ugliness-of-netflixs-the-ultimatum
the deaths on love island reflect our society & we don’t like that. - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KYR8HIgjQto&ab_channel=thoughtbug
Love is Blind/The Ultimatum - Kennie JD - https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFnM_Fkl5JVGRP7uFz_mb-CDLai5hlNNK
Jury Duty: A Real Life Truman Show - Nikki Carreon - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TLVtmFDgQio
Therapist Reacts: Communication Issues on Married at First Sight - Mickey Atkins - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RjVXEi-V9Z4&ab_channel=MickeyAtkins
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Check out my work! - https://www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/curious-incident
Autism Resources:
Ultimate resource guide - https://www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/resource-guide
How to support an autistic person - https://www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/im-the-parent-of-an-autistic-kid
Help! I think I’m autistic - https://www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/help-i-think-im-autistic
Unmasking/How to Start Over - https://www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/i-want-to-start-over
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![Unpacking the “Cult of Trauma” [CC]](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/UKHB08B1iTE/hqdefault.jpg "Unpacking the “Cult of Trauma” [CC]
I keep seeing people complain about how the concept of trauma has gone too far which is obviously DEEPLY complicated. So were going to attempt to break down this mess together
Sources & Resources (further autism resources below!):
Autism & Trauma - https://youtu.be/kZ5Fp0bbBe0 POTS - https://youtu.be/WpAW5DJWcwE
DSM History - https://youtu.be/anfsIs6Ex3M Gaslighting/False Memories - https://youtu.be/5FCBsyM5X_8
Mental Illness TikTok - https://youtu.be/6EIFgskHSOU
Capitalism & Therapy - https://youtu.be/WEefExkoXt4
Confidence - https://youtu.be/ggV1Y4j8wVY
A Beginner’s Guide to Trauma-Informed Practices - https://youtu.be/vV5luoygKno
Why the cult of emotional fragility is devaluing real trauma - iNews - https://inews.co.uk/inews-lifestyle/moment-realised-self-care-taken-too-far-2425151
The neuroscience of trauma - Lisa Feldman Barrett with Big Think - https://bigthink.com/the-well/neuroscience-of-trauma/
‘The Body Keeps the Score’ offers uncertain science in the name of self-help. It’s not alone. - Washington Post - https://www.washingtonpost.com/books/2023/08/02/body-keeps-score-grieving-brain-bessel-van-der-kolk-neuroscience-self-help/
What Counts as Trauma? | Therapist Unpacks the Try Guys Situation - Mickey Atkins - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qNzLscacsEo&ab_channel=MickeyAtkins
Trauma Dumping Culture On TikTok Has Gone Too Far… - Salem Tovar - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PHIGwE9noys&ab_channel=SalemTovar
Overusing The Word Trauma & Critique Of The Body Keeps The Score - Doctor Mike & Professor George Bonanno - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vR2hWXlzaCw&ab_channel=DoctorMike
The Self-Help That No One Needs Right Now - The Atlantic - https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2021/10/trauma-books-wont-save-you/620421/
The Body Keeps the Score: how a bestselling book helps us understand trauma – but inflates the definition of it - The Conversation - https://theconversation.com/the-body-keeps-the-score-how-a-bestselling-book-helps-us-understand-trauma-but-inflates-the-definition-of-it-184735
How America Became Addicted to Therapy - The Atlantic - https://www.theatlantic.com/podcasts/archive/2024/02/how-we-became-addicted-therapy/677532/?utm_source=pocket-newtab-en-us
Does the body really “keep the score” of trauma? - Big Think - https://bigthink.com/neuropsych/body-keeps-score-trauma/
Are We Throwing Around The Word “Trauma” Too Much? - Mind Help - https://mind.help/news/cult-of-trauma-normalization-of-traumatic-disorders/
Why TikTok Is So Obsessed With Labeling Everything a Trauma Response - Slate - https://slate.com/technology/2021/10/tiktok-trauma-response-why.html
How the cult of trauma took over mental health - The Spectator - https://www.spectator.co.uk/article/how-the-cult-of-trauma-took-over-mental-health/
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Check out my work! - https://www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/curious-incident
Autism Resources:
Ultimate resource guide - https://www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/resource-guide
How to support an autistic person - https://www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/im-the-parent-of-an-autistic-kid
Help! I think I’m autistic - https://www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/help-i-think-im-autistic
Unmasking/How to Start Over - https://www.disabledautisticlesbian.com/i-want-to-start-over
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