Uploaded July 2026 | Updated September 2026, 1 week ago
You can't think your way out of chronic stress.
I've spent years working on myself through meditation and every therapeutic modality I could find. All of it helped. But one realization changed everything: I had to work with my nervous system, not just my mind.
Sometimes your body just needs help remembering that it's safe.
Looking back, I can see there were long stretches where my nervous system was running on old programming—always alert, always bracing for the next thing. That's why I became fascinated with the vagus nerve and how much influence it has over our ability to relax, recover, and regulate.
Pulsetto (@pulsetto.device) is one of the tools I use when I feel wound up or after one of those days that just keeps stacking stress on top of stress. Within a few minutes of starting a session, I notice my breath slows down, my shoulders soften, and my mind gets noticeably quieter.
It's not about zoning out. It's about giving my nervous system a gentle nudge back toward the state it was designed to exist in.
If you're looking for a practical tool to support stress resilience and nervous system regulation, Pulsetto is worth a look.
🔗 Visit lukestorey.com/getpulsetto and use code LUKESTOREY for 10% off.
Pulsetto is a general wellness product intended to support a healthy lifestyle. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease or medical condition.
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You can't think your way out of chronic stress.
I've spent years working on myself through meditation and every therapeutic modality I could find. All of it helped. But one realization changed everything: I had to work with my nervous system, not just my mind.
Sometimes your body just needs help remembering that it's safe.
Looking back, I can see there were long stretches where my nervous system was running on old programming—always alert, always bracing for the next thing. That's why I became fascinated with the vagus nerve and how much influence it has over our ability to relax, recover, and regulate.
Pulsetto (@pulsetto.device) is one of the tools I use when I feel wound up or after one of those days that just keeps stacking stress on top of stress. Within a few minutes of starting a session, I notice my breath slows down, my shoulders soften, and my mind gets noticeably quieter.
It's not about zoning out. It's about giving my nervous system a gentle nudge back toward the state it was designed to exist in.
If you're looking for a practical tool to support stress resilience and nervous system regulation, Pulsetto is worth a look.
🔗 Visit lukestorey.com/getpulsetto and use code LUKESTOREY for 10% off.
Pulsetto is a general wellness product intended to support a healthy lifestyle. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease or medical condition.
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![The Best Way to Heal Your Childhood Trauma
Reparenting the inner child sounds like pop psychology until you understand how the nervous system stores what happened to you.
Dr. Nicole LePera (@TheHolisticPsychologist) is a holistic psychologist and New York Times bestselling author, and her return conversation goes into why insight alone rarely changes anything. She lays out the two-step process for real change and what it takes to interrupt the reactive patterns most of us live in without noticing.
Epigenetics gets a grounded, non-woo explanation here. Trauma isnt only what happened to you; its also what your lineage carried into your body before you took your first breath.
If youve been circling the same patterns despite years of doing the work, this one hits deep.
Youll learn:
🎙 [0:00] Introduction
🎙 [7:59] Feeling your way through trauma when insight alone isnt enough
🎙 [19:02] Bilateral stimulation and safety matter more than any single therapy
🎙 [23:32] Epigenetics rewrites the story of who we inherited our brains from
🎙 [36:18] The generational awakening happening alongside a louder kind of darkness
🎙 [43:43] Nicole navigates writing publicly about her family
🎙 [55:20] The shadow side of living out loud and mistaking reactivity for authenticity
🎙 [1:11:14] The inner child isnt a metaphor, its a biological reality wired into your body
🎙 [1:23:01] Grief hijacks you on a random Tuesday, and the West gets it wrong
🔗 lukestorey.com/holistic2
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![How to Find Your Soulmate
Alyson (@alysonstorey) reads the first-ever Field Reveal Report, a kind of consciousness weather forecast that hit me harder than I expected.
We also dive into how we found each other in Joshua Tree, why interdependence beats codependence, and the running amends list Ive been keeping over 20 years into sobriety.
Plus, I share a fresh batch of “Lukes Latest”, including a laser helmet and wearable glass sculptures tuned to specific frequencies.
🔗 Casting now: Match with The Field Reveal, an unscripted love series for spiritually-minded/conscious singles who are ready to finally have their match revealed! Email match@thefieldreveal.com with your full name, age, city/state, gender, preferred gender for partner, three to five images (one full body/lifestyle), and your three main interests/passions/hobbies by October 1, 2026.
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Youll learn:
[0:00] Introduction
[10:56] What the objective eye caught that every copy editor missed
[17:09] Introducing Match with The Field Reveal for conscious spiritual singles
[28:23] The Joshua Tree weekend where we both saw the match and said yes
[39:48] Reading the first Field Reveal Report as a divine weather forecast
[43:32] Protecting your coherence from doomscrolling, and finding purpose through service
[59:33] The running list of people I still owe amends to after over 20 years sober
[1:06:17] Why theres no hierarchy over being human, and the trouble with the word mistake
[1:19:31] The messy, unglamorous moments that make you fall in love with being human
[1:31:31] My latest health obsessions, from marine phytoplankton to a brain helmet
🔗 lukestorey.com/680
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