Uploaded June 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Most men never receive training for fatherhood - but that doesn’t make the role any less important.
In this week’s Friday Field Notes, Ryan shares 7 strategies to become a better father and explains why your presence, discipline, standards, and personal growth matter more than you think.
Your kids are watching how you lead, how you respond to adversity, and how you show up every day. Whether your children are young, grown, or somewhere in between, these principles will help you become the father they remember and respect.
This isn’t about perfection. It’s about intentional fatherhood.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 Why Fatherhood Matters
02:58 Be Present, Not Just Around
04:50 Model the Man You Want Them to Become
07:09 Discipline Without Losing the Relationship
10:28 Let Your Kids Struggle
13:28 Tell Them Who They Are
17:56 Build Something Together
19:48 Father From a Full Tank
28:55 Iron Council & Final Challenge
29:36 Final Father’s Day Message & Outro
If one of these principles hits home, choose one and apply it this weekend.
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Most men never receive training for fatherhood - but that doesn’t make the role any less important.
In this week’s Friday Field Notes, Ryan shares 7 strategies to become a better father and explains why your presence, discipline, standards, and personal growth matter more than you think.
Your kids are watching how you lead, how you respond to adversity, and how you show up every day. Whether your children are young, grown, or somewhere in between, these principles will help you become the father they remember and respect.
This isn’t about perfection. It’s about intentional fatherhood.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 Why Fatherhood Matters
02:58 Be Present, Not Just Around
04:50 Model the Man You Want Them to Become
07:09 Discipline Without Losing the Relationship
10:28 Let Your Kids Struggle
13:28 Tell Them Who They Are
17:56 Build Something Together
19:48 Father From a Full Tank
28:55 Iron Council & Final Challenge
29:36 Final Father’s Day Message & Outro
If one of these principles hits home, choose one and apply it this weekend.
Join Iron Council:
orderofman.com/ironcouncil
Order Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto on Amazon:
amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316
Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready.
orderofman.link/battle-ready
Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. orderofman.link/12-week-planner-app
Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise:
orderofman.link/support-the-mission
Connect with us on the socials:
Instagram orderofman.link/instagram
Facebook orderofman.link/facebook-page
Twitter orderofman.link/twitter-ryan
Join the Order of Man Facebook group:
orderofman.link/facebook-group
