Uploaded November 2025 | Updated September 2026, 4 hours ago
Could you imagine a world where everyone feels content to be exactly the way they are? It sounds beautiful, doesn’t it? It does sound great, but keep in mind that your favorite brand would most likely go out of business.
Capitalism is fueled by self-hatred. From the moment you exit the womb, you’ve been fed messages encouraging you to hate yourself. How else would they sell you the car note, the consumer credit, and the student debt?
In this episode of Feelings You Can Trust, we discuss the history of eugenics and the “one superior race” theory. We also discuss how to unlearn all this self-hate garbage so that we can get rid of those useless thoughts and make room for new loving thoughts to take their place.
Chapters:
00:00 Intro
01:14 Identity
09:40 - How social constructs teach you to hate yourself
12:36 Eugenics
15:55 Most of us are programmed to hate ourselves
31:25 How to love yourself
Disclaimer: The content shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It reflects my personal experience and perspective and should not be taken as professional mental health advice. Please consult a licensed therapist or healthcare provider for support specific to your individual needs.
Host and Producer: Dominique Davis
Email: Feelingsyoucantrust@gmail.com
Could you imagine a world where everyone feels content to be exactly the way they are? It sounds beautiful, doesn’t it? It does sound great, but keep in mind that your favorite brand would most likely go out of business.
Capitalism is fueled by self-hatred. From the moment you exit the womb, you’ve been fed messages encouraging you to hate yourself. How else would they sell you the car note, the consumer credit, and the student debt?
In this episode of Feelings You Can Trust, we discuss the history of eugenics and the “one superior race” theory. We also discuss how to unlearn all this self-hate garbage so that we can get rid of those useless thoughts and make room for new loving thoughts to take their place.
Chapters:
00:00 Intro
01:14 Identity
09:40 - How social constructs teach you to hate yourself
12:36 Eugenics
15:55 Most of us are programmed to hate ourselves
31:25 How to love yourself
Disclaimer: The content shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It reflects my personal experience and perspective and should not be taken as professional mental health advice. Please consult a licensed therapist or healthcare provider for support specific to your individual needs.
Host and Producer: Dominique Davis
Email: Feelingsyoucantrust@gmail.com





![8. Cant Stand a Mean Girl - Finding Peace in Community w/ Yogi Tochi (Part 1)
More Peace (Please!) Episode 8 – Finding Peace in Community (with Yogi Tochi)
How do *you* define friendship?
Who are you building with?
And what does your ideal community *really* look like?
In this episode of *More Peace (Please!)*, I’m joined by the radiant and thoughtful @yogi.tochi (https://instagram.com/yogi.tochi) for a heartfelt conversation on connection, belonging, and what it truly means to find peace in community.
Together, we explore:
✨ The unexpected beauty that can be found inside fear
✨ The difference between friendship and community—and why both matter
✨ Why we’re not here for gossip, cliques, or mean girl energy
✨ How to invite more depth and safety into your relationships
So text your bestie, light a candle, and let this be your invitation to reflect on who’s in your corner—and how you’re showing up for them, too.
Let’s build peace, together. 💛
Download Climbing Back Up to the Watch Tower on my Substack and stay connected:
🌿 **Climbing Back Up to the Watch Tower** https://substack.com/home/post/p-160155855
💻**Website:** https://www.brownandbendy.com/newsletter
📲 **Instagram:** [@BrownandBendy]https://www.brownandbendy.com/
🎥**YouTube:** [Brown and Bendy] https://www.youtube.com/c/brownandbendy
💌**Substack:** https://substack.com/@brownandbendy 8. Cant Stand a Mean Girl - Finding Peace in Community w/ Yogi Tochi (Part 1)](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/TR93uwpnOB8/mqdefault.jpg)




