Uploaded March 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
In this video, I break down 10 real reasons you may not be attracting the right type of man and what you can start doing differently. These are lessons about standards, boundaries, self respect, and emotional awareness that many women only learn after years of dating.
This conversation is not about blaming yourself. It is about becoming more intentional so you can attract relationships that are aligned, respectful, and emotionally healthy.
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0:48 The type of men I date
1:38 Reason 1
3:25 Reason 2
4:38 Reason 3
6:13 Reason 4
10:02 Reason 5
11:35 Reason 6
14:45 Reason 7
15:39 Reason 8
16:55 Reason 9
19:09 Reason 10
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✨ About Me
I’m Jhánneu, a New York City based lifestyle creator, speaker, and host. My work centers on designing a soft, intentional life through wellness, beauty, mindful routines, and conscious living. Through storytelling rooted in clarity and ease, I share my journey of starting over, building sustainable systems, and creating a life that feels both grounded and expansive. My content is for women who want to live well, move with intention, and build lives that feel as good as they look.
I’ve partnered with brands like Hotels.com, Marriott, Dell, and Volvo, bringing an conscious perspective to every collaboration. My work has been featured in Vogue, CNN, and Vox, and I’ve also appeared on The Drew Barrymore Show.
In this video, I break down 10 real reasons you may not be attracting the right type of man and what you can start doing differently. These are lessons about standards, boundaries, self respect, and emotional awareness that many women only learn after years of dating.
This conversation is not about blaming yourself. It is about becoming more intentional so you can attract relationships that are aligned, respectful, and emotionally healthy.
Time stamps
0:48 The type of men I date
1:38 Reason 1
3:25 Reason 2
4:38 Reason 3
6:13 Reason 4
10:02 Reason 5
11:35 Reason 6
14:45 Reason 7
15:39 Reason 8
16:55 Reason 9
19:09 Reason 10
Join my Soft CEO newsletter: substack.com/@jhanneu
My Soft CEO Notion Dashboard: collaborate30.gumroad.com/l/wemfcv
Follow the podcast on Instagram instagram.com/softceodiaries
.....................................................
☀️SAY HI ON SOCIAL:
Instagram: instagram.com/jhanneu
TikTok: tiktok.com/@jhanneu
.....................................................
✨Home | Beauty | Wellness | Tech Faves✨ shopmy.us/jhanneu/shelves
✈️ Travel safe & browse privately with NordVPN: go.nordvpn.net/aff_c?offer_id=15&aff_id=124636&url_id=902
.....................................................
☀️ For business inquires contact me at partnerships@jhanneu.com
.....................................................
✨ About Me
I’m Jhánneu, a New York City based lifestyle creator, speaker, and host. My work centers on designing a soft, intentional life through wellness, beauty, mindful routines, and conscious living. Through storytelling rooted in clarity and ease, I share my journey of starting over, building sustainable systems, and creating a life that feels both grounded and expansive. My content is for women who want to live well, move with intention, and build lives that feel as good as they look.
I’ve partnered with brands like Hotels.com, Marriott, Dell, and Volvo, bringing an conscious perspective to every collaboration. My work has been featured in Vogue, CNN, and Vox, and I’ve also appeared on The Drew Barrymore Show.










