Order of Man
Control the Controllable with Kyle Thompson
updated
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
1. Recognize that our dads are not superhuman
2. Be realistic about what elements you want to take from your own father
3. Review the work that we are doing
4. Think about what your kids need
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(2:50) Is there a point where you decide that your objective is not working and it should be adjusted or is that an individual decision?
(6:20) Can you share your thoughts on building and following through on a first-time Battle Plan?
(8:20) Is there a difference between doing the Battle Plan on the app or in the journal vs. just keeping track in a journal?
(12:00) Is it best to build your objectives on the previous quarter, or should you bounce around, as long as it moves you toward your vision?
(15:00) What does your battle plan look like for Q3?
(19:00) How can I incorporate a side hustle into my battle plan, while having a full time career?
(21:00) Any advice for a new Iron Council member?
(23:00) Can “nutrition” alone be an objective for the condition quadrant?
(27:40) How do you reconcile with a fear of failure?
(33:20) Do you have any tips on going after multiple goals at once?
(37:40) Why is it hard to see your dad, who was once a strong and able-bodied man, deteriorate?
(42:00) How is your BJJ journey going now that you are back in Utah?
(43:10) How much do you involved your girlfriend in discussing your own goals and plans for the future?
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Combat Rescue Helicopter Pilot, Lt. Colonel Brian Slade joins me on today to talk about strategies he’s learned and developed for overcoming some of the worst scenarios he and others have overcome in their lives. We discuss the concept of “chair flying” as a method for anticipating and preparing for traumatic events, the difference between those who adapt to challenge and those who don’t, why we as men need to wrap our heads around “operating in the ugly,” overcoming festering emotional wounds, and how to triumph over trauma.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:
* “Just get over it” its not great advice
* Stress inoculation and “chair flying”
* Gratitude and perspective
* Don’t mistake the gunfight (finite) for the mountains (infinite)
* Perspective creates your reality
* Always have an honorable mission
* The only way out is through
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
1. Eat right
2. Move your body
3. Self reflect (Journaling)
4. Connecting with a purpose
5. Serve other people
6. Be smart with your money
7. Find joy
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(11:50) As a father whom has lost 4 children to miscarriage since 2015, is it acceptable to be bothered by people not including me into fathers day thoughts? Or is that just projecting as I can't expect them to remember as my kids are not standing next to me?
(26:00) I’m a step dad to a 14-year-old daughter. I’ve been in her life for 8 years, but still haven’t found that connection. What are your thoughts on helping to build that bond?
(34:40) What can I do to repair the relationship with my older children?
(43:20) How do you balance or navigate being a new business owner and your family?
(47:30) How do you navigate being a father that is present in your kids life’s while spending the time necessary to grow a business, volunteer, be there for them men in your battle team, and all the things we need to do to be good men?
(57:00) I can’t get the voice of my abusive father out of my head and I’m afraid that I am showing signs of behaving in a similar way toward my own children. What advice would you offer to help me and guys like me in similar circumstances?
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My guest today is built different. His name is Tim Ballard and he is the founder of Operation Underground Railroad which exists to rescue children from dangerous and despicable sex rings. Today, we talk about what a truly compassionate border policy would look like, the hyper-sexualization of the world and the degeneracy it leads to, how unintended policy incentives often make problems worse, why evil lurks behind the concept of tolerance, and his latest film uncovering the underground child sex trade, Sound of Freedom.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:
* The U.S. is one of the top consumers of child sexual material
* Open borders are contributing to the problem
* Its not easy to profile child sexual predators
* Pornography is a gateway
* Sex work is the antithesis of feminism
* When is government intervention appropriate
* Media standing in the way of fighting child trafficking
* The process of finding traffickers
* The Sound of Freedom
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
1. Take inventory of where you are in life
2. Foster and empower positive thoughts and eradicate negatives thoughts
3. Go where producers are
4. Be vigilant of the input going into your mind
5. Gratitude and service
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(7:05) How do I encourage my son to overcome apprehension about moving to a new town and even embrace the move?
(17:30) Can you provide some help with crafting my vision?
(32:00) How did you grow the Iron Council from 20 men to 100?
(41:00) What advice can you provide on balancing time with my fiancé and child and my own personal growth and fitness after recently having our first child?
(45:30) What have you learned from the process of building a home and how can you apply this to your life in the future?
(54:50) Any tips on public speaking?
(1:06:00) When are you reopening the Iron Council again?
My guest today is Dr. Henry Cloud, author of his latest book, Trust: Knowing When to Give It, When to Withhold It, How to Earn It, and How to Fix It When It Gets Broken. We talk about trust being a learned skill, the process for repairing trust, 5 factors that drive the trust system, trust as a long game vs. a short game, and how trust fuels every single aspect of life.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:
* The importance of having in-person conversations
* Creating a safe environment for those around us
* Five steps to building trust
* We need to know that people have our back
* The way we say things matters
* We need to become good at something
* Behave your way back into trust
* Breaking down trust barriers
* Building trust can take longer than we want it to
* Life is giving us a 360 review all the time…if we’re listening
* Be intentional with the patterns we develop
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
1. You have to live YOUR life
2. Develop and create systems for everything that you repeatedly do
3. Establish and communicate boundaries
4. Have some margin in the middle
5. Anticipate changes
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(4:10) How do you control anger before it becomes rage?
(15:30) With all that is going on in the world today, why are people not talking about generational riptide?
(21:50) How do I deal with my wife after giving birth when she is mad at me for losing weight but isn’t making the best choices around fitness and nutrition for herself?
(30:30) Does taking a family vacation stress you out?
(33:30) How do you handle people who want to take your place in a leadership position, but they are not as capable as you are?
(40:00) What can one do to develop a stronger self-worth and self-esteem?
(46:20) How do I help my wife and children through the trauma of being in a major car accident?
(51:20) What practical things do you start doing every day to move you closer to the person that you want to be?
(55:00) How do you deal with the negative people who constantly tell you that you cant do what you need to do?
(58:30) What did you learn from a recent failure?
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My guest today, Mike Glover, formerly in the Special Forces and CIA contractor, joins me today to talk about ensuring we are prepared should we encounter one of these moments. We discuss his latest book, Prepared, increasing risk tolerance, fortifying your home and equipping your vehicle, the importance of self-discipline, paranoia and the Law of Diminishing Returns, peacocking for safety, policing each other, and surviving worst case scenarios.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:
* Building a resilient mindset
* Using statistical probably to be prepared
* Preparedness through exposure
* Things will not always go according to plan
* How much preparation is too much
* Telegraphing your intent through your body language
* If you are going to carry a weapon, be trained
* Politics affecting the supply chain
* With supply chain issues comes a security threat
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
1. We have to be humble
2. Must accept the weight of leadership
3. Evaluate your own performance
4. Leadership requires an “us” mentality
5. Continual improvement
6. Effective communication
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(3:20) When you have a lot on your plate, how do you keep your sanity and your family in tact?
(8:20) Will I ever see you again on the mats in Maine?
(9:20) Is there a book you would recommend, along with the Bible, to help with your walk as a Christian?
(10:25) How is sobriety and how can I support your journey?
(13:30) How do you think people build community when people tend to keep opposing views as far away as possible?
(19:00) How do you start a t-shirt printing business without using amazon or bulk ordering?
(23:40) How are you dealing with losing your marriage at this early stage?
(32:50) How do I allow myself grace when trying to start something new?
(40:00) Do you ever find it hard to find motivation? Do you ever want to quit doing your podcast?
(42:00) How did you get your son into lifting?
(46:00) How do you cope with the “I’m to old to start over” thoughts?
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My guest today, Nate Feathers, makes the case against “babysitting our children,” and, instead, shows fathers a better way to approach the relationship between father and son or daughter. Today, we talk about kids mimicking our behavior, the changes in culture with regards to fatherhood, how to bond effectively with newborns, toddlers, and teens, learning to let go of your children, how to keep the relationship (and sex life) with your wife thriving, and why it’s not accurate to assume that you’re ever “babysitting” your children.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:
* Fathers can be disciplined AND kind
* The biological connection between mothers and children
* How fathers can bond with newborn babies
* Skin to skin contact with your kids
* Women take what we give them and make it better
* Enjoying your kids through the years
* Most guys should provide less structure, not more
* Focus on the moment, with your kids and with your wife
* Advice for single fathers
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
* Learn to be as efficient and effective as possible in other areas of life
* Learn how to set boundaries
* Eliminate distractions
* Don’t let thoughts bounce around in your head (write it down)
* Pruning and weeding our lives
Bonus tip: Let go of the hidden agenda
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(10:40) How do you get through letting the woman you love and the mother of your children go?
(25:15) Would you say God is in favor of divorce? And if not, how did you feel, getting a divorce, knowing that it was going against God’s wishes?
(32:10) Is it normal to feel guilty when trying to level up and reach for your dreams?
(40:40) how do you help a loved one who feels like they are letting you down, when you feel like they are doing the best they can in the grand scheme of things?
(42:20) How do you handle when your beset isn’t good enough?
(47:30) How would you deal with an overbearing mother-in-law, particularly regarding the kids?
(51:40) How, as a man, do you deal with feeling inadequate?
(54:50) How do you get involved with a new community when moving to a new city and you don’t know anyone?
(57:00) In what places is stoicism necessary and in what places should men be more open?
(1:05:20) How can young sons with weak, tyrant fathers reconcile that relationship?
(1:08:10) How can you filter out what we read and watch?
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Today, I’m joined by Greg Scheinman to talk about how to make that happen. We talk about overcoming trauma and victimization, what he calls “over-indexing” in certain aspects of your life, six “f’s” of life to focus on, the power of purpose, process, and payoff, and how to successfully navigate the midlife crisis.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:
* Is the word “trauma” overused?
* Determine what you need to be doing
* The 6 F’s: Family, fitness, finance, food, fashion, fun
* Causes of the midlife crisis
* What can you do to turn things around?
* You have to have an action plan
* We need to schedule our fun
* Lead your family by example
* Defining the line of what is acceptable in society
* “Authenticity” is not an excuse to be a jerk
* Finding the positive in the midlife “crisis”
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Check out Ryan's full break down of the importance of tracking progress and strategies to implement this is your life: youtu.be/cqVs6Eqz_4c
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
* Achieving success without using systems and measurement is non-duplicatable
* Progress toward some goals is hard to track, but we can still design metrics
* Men are delusional: we think we are better and more productive than we are - If we are not tracking, we will continue to delude ourselves
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(10:30) Is it important to understand what hope is and where it comes from? What is your source of hope?
(18:00) What steps would you take when entering a step-father role for an 8-year-old girl?
(26:00) How do you balance being disciplined with your Battle Plan when you are on a trip for the holidays?
(33:30) How can we understand the difference between motivation and discipline?
(36:40) How do I deal with regrets of lost time? I feel like I have wasted my 20s.
(43:20) Is self-respect internal or a learned trait?
(51:50) What is your advice for when we need to choose between two difficult decisions in life?
(54:20) How can I help my wife when she is feeling disconnected and stressed?
(1:01:30) How do I lead up the chain of command when my superior seems clueless and disinterested in what is going on in my area of responsibility?
(1:05:00) I feel like I am doing all the right things but my heart is still broken. How do I begin to find joy and happiness?
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My guest today is Steve Chou, the author of The Family First Entrepreneur. Today, Steve and I talk about not being a stranger to your kids, practical strategies for avoiding burnout and unnecessary stress, whether you should stay at your current employment or “burn the boats” when starting a side business, and how side-hustles boost confidence! A lot of these things I wish I would have learned a whole lot sooner.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:
* The line between helping your kids and making them figure things out
* Building a business while not sacrificing the relationship with loved ones
* Being driven by ego vs being driven by service
* Knowing your purpose
* Ignorance contributing to Asian hate
* Everyone should have a side hustle
* Staying focused on one thing at a time
* Different approaches to outsourcing
* Weighing business opportunities against family time
* Getting your kids involved with the business
* Opportunities and drawbacks with AI
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
Factors that contribute to isolation as men
1. The myth of the “lone wolf”
2. The world has become overly feminized
3. People believe there is a lack of other high caliber men
Strategies to help men overcome loneliness
1. Be an initiator
2. Do the right activities
3. Always save one spot
4. Always be in the networking mindset
5. Be hyper consistent
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(0:00) Episode kick-off⠀
(13:45) How can I encourage my wife to be more intentional and strategic with her actions when dealing with a challenging situation at work?
(25:30) Do you have any experience with or have you interviewed anyone regarding mindfulness meditations?
(26:50) Are you and Brecken going to continue recording the Man in the Making podcast?
(29:50) What do you do when a group outgrows its weakest member?
(38:00) If you could pay for three skills, what would they be and why?
(49:00) Would you recommend getting married and why?
(51:40) How do I deal with emotions or opinions that I cant understand or pinpoint?
(1:05:50) How impactful do you feel that therapy has been?
Today, we have an extremely fascinating discussion on so many different topics including several we don’t see eye to eye on. Specifically, we talk about the scarcity vs. abundant mindset, the value of hate and love, the dangers in the “hedonic treadmill,” connecting with others as a powerful motive for overcoming destructive behavior, and the immense liberty found in becoming completely aware of yourself.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:
* Hating yourself vs. loving yourself
* We don’t pick our starting point
* Pleasure vs. fulfillment and the hedonic treadmill
* Appreciating the ability to choose our passions
* People are the solution and the problem
* Shared responsibility in understanding communication
* Using and understanding psychedelics
* Knowing how to use substances as tools to serve you
* Need to program time to relax
* Body dysmorphia and transgenderism
* We need to be able to question things
* We are responsible for what we expose ourselves to
* We need to be intentional with how we spend our energy
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
1. Make a plan
2. Make a bigger deal out of things that you should
3. Don’t tie your worth to the outcome of your actions
4. Surround yourself with courageous people
5. Practice being courageous
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