EPISODE 55 - Who Gets to Decide Whats Normal: A Conversation w/ Lisa Selin-Davis Gender: A Wider Lens 2026-09-18 | EPISODE 55 - Who Gets to Decide Whats Normal: A Conversation w/ Lisa Selin-Davis
Dont Miss This - Join our Parent Retreat in Austin, TX! Gender: A Wider Lens 2025-09-25 | Sasha here! I'm happy to share some news about our final in-person Wider Lens retreat in Austin, Texas. This is a unique opportunity for parents who have trans identified teens, young adults, or even estranged children to nurture their own emotional wellbeing and find connection among likeminded others. This intimate 3-day event, facilitated by therapists Sasha Ayad and Lisa Marchiano, will help you feel more anchored amidst the chaos and give you a chance to deepen your understanding and capacity during this challenging parental experience. Register Here: eventbrite.com/e/wider-lens-parent-retreat-nov-2-5-2025-tickets-1317056765239?aff=oddtdtcreator
Join Stella OMalley & Sasha Ayad for Live & Unfiltered Shows, or Watch Our Archive of Episodes Now! Gender: A Wider Lens 2025-02-25 | Stella O’Malley and Sasha Ayad are two therapists interested in how the concept of gender is impacting our culture and shaping our society. For nearly a decade, we've been exploring sex and gender and helping patients and families impacted by gender issues. As we've dug into the shifting concepts of identity, gender, and transition, we felt unsatisfied by clichés, mental health platitudes, and modern gender jargon.Have you ever thought there's got to be more to all this trans stuff than political slogans? Well, we're right there with you. Since 2020, on our podcast, Gender: A Wider Lens, we've discussed all things trans with brilliant guests, including academic philosophers, journalists, doctors, therapists, trans people, detrans people, parents, and many others. In hundreds of conversations, we've tried to hold a spirit of honesty and compassion while staying grounded in reality and sanity.After four years of creating this podcast, we're shifting gears into our Substack only Live and Unfiltered events. Once a month, you can now join us on Substack (www.widerlenspod.com) for discussions about current events in the gender world and analysis of your favorite episodes of Gender: A Wider Lens. Grab your coffee or cocktail and hang out with us in our new live and unrecorded private sessions.Don't worry, our entire huge archive of episodes isn't going anywhere. You can still find us on all major podcast platforms, and you can watch us on YouTube and look at helpful playlists that organize past episodes so you can find exactly what you're looking for. But our main hub continues to be Substack (www.widerlenspod.com), where you can listen to four years’ worth of free episodes, or become a paid subscriber to join our new monthly, Live and Unfiltered events.Our paid Substack membership is also the only place to access over 100 premium episodes featuring answers to listener questions and bonus content with our guests. We'd love for you to come and say hi, drop us a question, or tell us what episodes you'd like us to analyze. So join us on Substack. As we look at gender, from a wider lens.For more details on our four years of podcasting, plus the new Substack Live events, check out this episode:youtu.be/_Zn7lOZ51PA?si=GPj_9z0sdUJtWxZR
Whats Next for Sasha Ayad, Stella OMalley, and the Gender A Wider Lens Podcast? | Episode 205 Gender: A Wider Lens 2025-02-14 | Sasha and Stella come together for the finale episode of Gender: a Wider Lens, reflecting on four years of sharing conversations, psychological analysis, and interviews centered around the exploration of gender identity, the evolving cultural landscape, and the trans discourse. Together, they have produced over 200 episodes providing informative insights and practical approaches for listeners, whether they have loved ones questioning their gender, are professionals encountering or supporting gender-questioning youth, or individuals grappling with their own gender identity.In this final conversation, Sasha and Stella reflect on some of their most memorable episodes and pivotal discussions, marking significant progressions in the evolving understanding of identity development and gender transition. They also share details about each of their new resources in development, as well as the new live and unfiltered sessions they will be hosting each month together.It's been a remarkable progression - from early observations of unusual patterns with gender-questioning teens inspiring the opening episode of the show exploring identity vs. dysphoria, to interviews with professional pioneers in gender medicine, to conversations with parents, trans individuals, school professionals, clinicians, journalists, authors, researchers, doctors, lawyers, politicians, activists, whistleblowers, spouses of trans people, children of trans people, and a growing list of detransitioners each with their own unique story and insights - a wide lens of different perspectives, offering reflections on gender and the shifting public consciousness around social and medical transition.For links to resources and episodes mentioned in this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-205 - - -Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist
Clementine Breen Sues Famous Gender Doctor, After Rushed Medical Transition | EP 204 Gender: A Wider Lens 2025-02-07 | Sasha and Stella welcome Clementine Breen, a 20-year-old young woman who detransitioned after undergoing rapid medicalization as a child. Clementine was a patient of Dr. Johanna Olson-Kennedy, one of the most prominent advocates for pediatric gender medicine. Beginning at age 12, she was placed on puberty blockers, prescribed testosterone, and underwent a double mastectomy—all by the age of 14.In this episode, she shares her story, shedding light on the devastating consequences of fast-tracked gender-affirming care. Clementine discusses how following her surgery, she experienced severe mental health struggles, including dissociation, self-harm, and a suicide attempt, yet clinicians remained focused solely on continuing her transition despite her worsening mental status. Clementine shares how, years later, proper therapy allowed her to uncover deeper psychological and childhood issues, exposing the failure of superficial gender-affirming care to address underlying trauma.This conversation exposes the dangerous flaws in the gender medicine model and the lack of psychological evaluation for vulnerable youth. Clementine’s experience underscores the failures of the pediatric gender medical establishment, and the urgent need for accountability in a system that prioritizes affirmation over comprehensive care.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-204 Sasha's 2-part series on Johanna Olson-Kennedy and Clementine's lawsuit: Part 1: youtu.be/33iiKK1rhCo?si=Oeot3rNGIgPhvmRIPart 2: youtu.be/uTWXkMD55Xw?si=lxNNwDsddZTqSxUo - - -@clementine_fb on X: https://x.com/clementine_fb - - -Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org- - -If you liked this episode, here's another you might find interesting:Gender: A Wider Lens, Live from Denver with Chloe Cole | EP 140youtube.com/watch?v=5uxqeEDrZgY
Gender Clinicians Should Take the Familys Input Into Account, with Marieke den Ouden | Episode 203 Gender: A Wider Lens 2025-01-31 | Sasha and Stella welcome Dr. Marieke den Ouden, a medical biologist and psychologist, about pediatric gender medicine in the Netherlands. While the Dutch Protocol is believed to ensure thorough mental health evaluations, Marieke reveals inconsistencies in its application. She discusses a new survey gathering input from extended family on a child’s mental health and gender identity, raising questions about bias in reporting. The conversation also explores the clinical foundations of gender medicine, examining how early researchers with backgrounds in disorders of sexual development (DSDs) shaped the field. Their search for a biological basis of gender identity—whether in hormones, chromosomes, or brain structures—led to a medicalized approach to gender distress. This framing has contributed to the widespread push for medical interventions, fast-tracking youth into irreversible treatments despite a lack of clear biological justification.This episode presents fresh debates and critical insights into the ethical dilemmas surrounding pediatric gender transition and the protocols involved.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-203 - - -@DrMariekedOuden on X: https://x.com/DrMariekedOuden - - -Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org
Detransitioned After Three Decades as a Trans Man, with Jessi | Episode 202 Gender: A Wider Lens 2025-01-24 | Sasha and Stella welcome Jessi, a 69-year-old detransitioned butch lesbian, who shares her extraordinary life story. Jessi’s journey challenges misconceptions about detransitioners, confronting the common assumption that they are predominantly young people who transitioned in adolescence. Instead, her experiences shine a light on older individuals who made these life-altering decisions in vastly different cultural and social contexts. Her life as a gay rights advocate, shaped by threats and hardships, reveals the complexities behind her decision to transition during a time when living openly as a gender non-conforming lesbian carried significant risks.This episode offers a compelling exploration of the varied paths of detransitioners, and provides a thoughtful reflection on the broader social and psychological complexities of navigating life outside traditional gender norms.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-202 - - -Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org- - -If you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting include:Episode 8 - TransGenerational Wisdom: a Conversation with Buck Angelyoutube.com/watch?v=-Io6fzguR_wEpisode 15 - One Detrans Voice: a Conversation with Carolyoutu.be/EYFUz7wbKqI?Episode 169 - Growing Up with a Trans Parent with Emma Thomas, from Children of Transitionersyoutu.be/vQRf5V98ibg?
Mercilessly Attacked for NOT Wanting to Transition Children, with Rep. Shawn Thierry | Episode 201 Gender: A Wider Lens 2025-01-17 | In this episode, former Democratic State Representative Shawn Thierry reflects on her role in advocating for Texas Senate Bill 14 (TX SB14), which raised the minimum age for gender transition procedures to 18. Despite sharing concerns about the medicalization of minors with her fellow Democratic colleagues, Shawn was warned that her seat would be at stake for going on the record with her position and voting in favor of the bill. Her steadfast commitment to integrity led her to take a stand, even though it ultimately cost her re-election. Shawn discusses the two-year research process that shaped her decision, the personal risks she faced, and the pressures she encountered from within her own party. Throughout the conversation, she highlights the importance of principled leadership, unwavering dedication to doing what is right, and standing firm in the face of political and social pressures.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-201 - - -@repshawnthierry on X: https://x.com/repshawnthierry - - -Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org- - -If you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting include:Breaking News: The Latest WPATH Scandal, with Lisa Selin Davis | Ep 171youtu.be/LX8REnmfACkAre Puberty Blockers the Next Consumer Fraud Scandal? with Glenna Goldis | EP 196youtu.be/Z1qVrBFMCeA
ROGD Boys Exist! with Lydia | Episode 200 Gender: A Wider Lens 2025-01-10 | Sasha and Stella welcome mother and advocate, Lydia, to the show for an insightful discussion about the emotional and relational dynamics impacting boys experiencing gender dysphoria. They reflect on the critical work of ROGDBoys.org, a website dedicated to raising awareness and providing vital information about the impact of medical interventions on boys and men with gender identity confusion. (ROGD stands for Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria and is a term first coined by Lisa Littman. You can learn more about it in our Episode 2 youtu.be/OpbDO1Qod-o?si=Cl3jZdx5DhRpby-t)Many families face distinct challenges rooted in the intersection of social expectations, emotional needs, and emerging gender identity beliefs. Boys, unlike their female counterparts, often struggle with expressing vulnerability or gentleness, leading some to seek alternative paths to connection, such as through gender identity beliefs. For many deeply sensitive boys, adopting a female identity offers them access to intimacy and belonging, particularly within female friend groups, where tenderness and acceptance are more easily found.In this episode, Lydia reflects on her family’s experiences around her son’s ROGD and how her own upbringing in a high-control religious environment shaped her understanding of the complex control tactics at play. She shares insights into the profile of boys drawn to gender identity beliefs, often marked by intelligence, black-and-white thinking, and an affinity for structured systems. Lydia emphasizes the dissonance between scientific reasoning and oversimplified views of gender transformation, revealing how cultural narratives amplify this confusion. She also highlights the nuanced complexities of sexuality and identity, and cautions against reducing AGP to a simplistic conclusion, framing it instead as a complex experience rooted in integration and shame. Finally, she stresses the importance of recognizing the diversity of families affected by gender dysphoria and challenges the misconception that parenting style alone dictates a child’s experiences and outcomes.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-200 - - -ROGD Boys Website: rogdboys.org @rogd_boys_exist on X: https://x.com/rogd_boys_exist - - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org
Life After Mumford & Sons with Winston Marshall Gender: A Wider Lens 2025-01-03 | Stella and Sasha welcome Winston Marshall, former banjoist for Mumford & Sons, to discuss the personal and professional fallout following his tweet about Andy Ngo's book Unmasked. He opens up about navigating censorship, conformity, and the immense power of social media in shaping public discourse. Winston reflects on the pressure artists face when balancing personal beliefs with industry expectations, and how political events influence cultural movements.In this conversation, Winston shares his experience being thrust into an online firestorm and the deeply personal decision to step away from the band he cherished for over a decade. His choice emerges as an act of integrity, demonstrating the courage it takes to embrace authenticity and stand against the tide of groupthink.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-199 - - -@winston_marshall on YouTube: youtube.com/@winston_marshall@MrWinMarshall on X: https://x.com/MrWinMarshall - - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org
The Trans Inclusion Controversy That Took Over La Leche League w/Helen Joyce & Marian Tompson | 198 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-12-20 | In this special episode, Sasha and Stella pass the mic to honorary guest host, journalist, author, and feminist campaigner, Helen Joyce, who interviews Marian Tompson, in connection with Joyce’s recent article about Marian in The Times, "Why I Quit the Breastfeeding Charity I Founded Over Trans Ideology".Marian Tompson, along with six other mothers, founded the global breastfeeding support network, La Leche League, in 1956. In November 2024, Tompson resigned from both the organization and its Board of Directors, believing it had strayed from its original mission to support biological mothers in breastfeeding.Helen’s conversation with Marian touches on the physiological intricacies of breastfeeding, the historical challenges women faced to maintain breastfeeding practices, and the broader implications of integrating transgender individuals into traditionally female-centered spaces like La Leche League. Together, they share a candid discussion exploring how biological realities, societal shifts, and ideological debates converge in today’s discourse on gender, motherhood, and breastfeeding.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-198 - - -Join to get access to additional bonus content, including episodes like:Premium: What Happens to Mothers and Babies When You Put Cross-Sex Hormones in the Mix? with Elaine Milleryoutu.be/LqSOWTgNXN8 Premium: Evolutionary Perspectives on Parenting, Breastfeeding & "Chestfeeding" with/Heather Heyingyoutu.be/ab7qfhsfhu0- - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org
We Have a BIG Announcement! | Episode 197 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-12-13 | Nearing the podcast’s 200th episode just around the corner, Stella and Sasha mark the 4-year milestone of Gender: A Wider Lens! Together, they reflect on the show’s remarkable evolution and its impact on their respective professional journeys. With a vast catalog of episodes filled with profound insights, transformative stories, intriguing interviews, and relentless curiosity, the show has progressed alongside the ever-shifting landscape of gender and the ripple effects of the medicalization of youth.In this episode, they share insights into both the psychological and societal shifts surrounding gender identity and reveal a BIG announcement for what listeners can expect in 2025. Looking back on the development of the podcast, they express gratitude for their listeners and the incredible community that has grown around them.Don’t miss this exclusive preview of what’s to come from Sasha & Stella in 2025! We’d love to hear your thoughts, ideas, and feedback — your input is invaluable as we shape all that’s ahead. Share your insights by leaving a comment on Substack, YouTube, or Spotify, reach out directly via X @widerlenspod, or email hello@widerlenspod.com.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-197 - - -@widerlenspod on X: https://x.com/widerlenspod- - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org- - -Other episodes to explore:Episode 79 - Gender Identity: Literally False, Metaphorically True w/ Dr. Bret Aldermanyoutu.be/sz-sW8FVUmc?feature=shared Episode 156 - "WPATH Has No Respect for Medical Ethics" with Mia Hughesyoutu.be/ikM6ziYLb4c?feature=shared
Are Puberty Blockers the Next Consumer Fraud Scandal? with Glenna Goldis | EP 196 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-12-06 | Sasha & Stella welcome seasoned attorney Glenna Goldis to the show, offering invaluable perspectives into the legal developments in gender medicine.With extensive knowledge of gender medicine and consumer fraud, Glenna provides a comprehensive analysis of pivotal legal cases and controversies in the U.S., breaking down complex legal language into accessible insights. She brings her expertise and unique perspective on the evolution of gender medicine. She also examines consumer fraud allegations against the American Academy of Pediatrics, using her legal expertise to shed light on the broader societal and legal implications of these claims. Glenna further explores the policy proposals and political impact surrounding pediatric gender medicine, particularly focusing on statements from political leaders, including president-elect Donald Trump, and the potential effects of such policies on real-world practices and legislation.This is a fascinating conversation, outfitting listeners with essential clarity on the legal and societal dimensions of gender-affirming care, offering both a historical overview and practical takeaways for understanding this evolving landscape.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-196 - - -@unyieldingbicyc on X: https://x.com/unyieldingbicyc Bad Facts on Substack: badfacts.substack.com - - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org- - -If you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting include:Episode 171 - Breaking News: The Latest WPATH Scandal, with Lisa Selin Davisyoutube.com/watch?v=LX8REnmfACk
The Autogynephilia Controversy, with Phil Illy | Ep 195 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-11-29 | Stella and Sasha welcome author and podcaster, Phil Illy, to the show for a thought-provoking conversation on sexuality, identity, and self-understanding. They engage with Phil’s concept of auto-heterosexuality, explore his interpretation of "erotic target identity inversion," and examine how these theories relate to broader discussions around sexuality and identity. As the discussion evolves, Stella and Sasha offer their critiques and challenge Phil's framework, pushing for a deeper understanding of these complex concepts.Phil Illy is the author of Autoheterosexual: Attracted to Being the Other Sex, a provocative exploration of sexuality, identity, and gender. In his book, Phil introduces the concept of auto-heterosexuality, describing an attraction to oneself as the opposite sex, and expands upon theories such as "erotic target identity inversion," originally coined by Dr. Ray Blanchard. With a focus on unconventional sexual interests and their psychological underpinnings, Phil's work challenges conventional frameworks and evokes critical examination into the complexities of desire, identity, and human behavior. In addition to his book, Phil is also the host of the Autohetero Files podcast, where he platforms personal stories and discussions that resonate with the ideas and concepts explored in his work.In this episode, listeners can expect to hear a dynamic and often intense conversation, with Stella and Sasha asking difficult questions and exploring the psychological and relational implications of the ideas Phil presents. They dig into both the intellectual and emotional dimensions of the topics at hand. Whether you agree or disagree with the perspectives shared, this episode will leave you with plenty to consider, exploring the deeper questions surrounding identity, desire, and the psychological aspects of sexual behavior.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-195 - - -@autogynephil on X: https://x.com/autogynephil @phililly on YouTube: youtube.com/@phililly - - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org
How the Gender Agenda Captured Iceland, with Eldur Smári Kristinsson | Ep 194 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-11-22 | Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/joinStella and Sasha welcome freelance writer, free-thinker, and current chairman of the Lesbian and Gay Alliance in Iceland, Eldur Smári Kristinsson, offering a revealing overview of Iceland’s rapid societal transformation into what he describes as a "gender-crazed dystopia”. In this episode, Eldur describes how over the last 25 years, Iceland has transitioned from a nation advancing progressive gay rights to one where gender ideology has infiltrated institutions, including government, education, and even the Church of Iceland. This change, Eldur argues, has been driven by ideological activists and well-funded interest groups seeking to perpetuate their influence.His testimony underscores the deep societal shifts underway in Iceland and the challenges of addressing contentious gender issues amid institutional complicity and media narratives.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-194 - - -@justgayice on X: https://x.com/justgayice- - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org
Frauds, Fetishes, and Frameworks in Todays Trans Movement, with Dr. Az Hakeem | Ep 193 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-11-15 | Stella & Sasha welcome author, psychiatrist, and psychotherapist Dr. Az Hakeem to the show, sharing his experience and insights from his extensive career spanning over two decades in the field of gender dysphoria. He reflects how he initially recognized the growing confusion around the issue and noted that the real "madness" was not in the individuals struggling with gender identity, but in society's response to them.In this episode, not only does he revisit his poignant and popular “goth mock-5” analysis as referenced in his previous appearance on Gender: A Wider Lens, but Dr. Hakeem also outlines his four distinct categories of individuals within the broad trans identity label, offering insights into their psychological and sociological distinctions based on his extensive clinical experience with gender dysphoric individuals. He emphasizes that understanding these distinctions is crucial for addressing the needs and motivations of each group more accurately.Other key ideas explored in this conversation include the intriguing intersection of autistic thinking and queer theory; Dr. Hakeem’s perspective as a UK clinician on the future of GIDS (the Gender Identity Development Service at the NHS Tavistock Clinic); as well as the concept of the “overvalued idea” and how understanding it can provide greater insight into gender dysphoria and trans ideation.Additionally, Dr. Hakeem shares valuable advice for parents navigating conversations with their trans-identified children, emphasizing a curious, non-confrontational approach that encourages young people to reflect on how they arrived at their conclusions, rather than simply focusing on the conclusions themselves.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-193 - - -Learn more about Dr. Az Hakeem at http://www.drazhakeem.com Buy DETRANS: When Transition is not the Solution at amazon.co.uk/dp/B0CKWJS83V?ref_=cm_sw_r_apin_dp_6FBFQ2HJHY3TRZGZDAJJ_1 - - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org- - -If you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting include:EPISODE 64 - Pioneers Series - Psychotherapy Pre- and Post-Transition with Az Hakeemyoutube.com/watch?v=yjxszfhgLcc
Paving a Way Back for Detrans Lesbians, with Aaron Kimberly | Episode 192 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-11-08 | Sasha and Stella welcome Aaron Kimberly back to the show, nearly a year after her first appearance on the podcast. Aaron has undergone a remarkable transformation, returning to her female identity and embracing a new understanding and acceptance of herself. This episode delves into Aaron’s complex journey of self-discovery, shaped by her unique experiences with a rare ovotesticular disorder of sex development (DSD), her longstanding identity as a butch lesbian, and the medical, professional, and social experiences that have shaped her path.In this episode, Aaron examines the role of the butch lesbian community that once fostered a vital sense of belonging—a community that, as she remarks, has largely faded, leaving young butch lesbians with limited support. She suggests that this shift might be contributing to the increased rates of medical transition among younger lesbians today. Her deep commitment to understanding the diverse reasons for sex non-conformity, coupled with her involvement in lesbian communities, has cultivated her interest in the cultural contexts of gender and atypical bodies, often pathologized or medicalized in society.This is an incredibly compelling conversation reflecting on the evolving relationship between lesbian identity, butch identity, and the implications of a medicalized appearance.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-192 - - -@Aaron_GDAC on X: https://x.com/Aaron_GDAC Learn more about Aaron at aaronkimberly.com The Bearded Lesbian, Substack publication at: aaronkimberly.substack.com Intersex, Identity & Ideology with Aaron Kimberly | Episode 135 (Aaron's prior appearance on the podcast)youtube.com/watch?v=TfVwd6cnZtM- - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org
Holding the Line on Liberal Values with Helen Pluckrose and Carrie Clark Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-11-01 | Sasha and Stella welcome writers Carrie Clark and Helen Pluckrose to the show for thoughtful and provocative dialogue, critically examining the intersections of identity, sex-based rights, mental health, and societal influences. Drawing from both personal experiences and professional insights, they explore complex and sensitive ideas around self-expression, feminism, and gender, encouraging a nuanced and reflective perspective. The conversation also delves into the controversy following Genspect’s 2023 Bigger Picture Conference in Denver, known as "Blue Dress Gate," unpacking the cultural and social tensions surrounding the event.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-191 - - -@cwestonclark on X: https://x.com/cwestonclark@HPluckrose on X: https://x.com/HPluckrose Helen Pluckrose on Substack at: hpluckrose.com Carrie Clark on Substack at: substack.com/@cwestonclark - - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org
Women’s Sports Should NOT Include Male People, with April Hutchinson | Ep 190 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-10-25 | Sasha & Stella welcome April Hutchinson (@aprilhutchinson5801) — former team Canada powerlifter, North American deadlift record holder, fairness for women in sports advocate and grateful recovering alcoholic — where they discuss her incredible journey from battling alcohol addiction to becoming a world-class powerlifter. During COVID, she turned to powerlifting as part of her recovery, and within a short period, she achieved record-breaking lifts, catapulting her to elite status in the sport holding national records, an extraordinary feat given her short time in the sport. However, her career took a dramatic turn.In this episode, April recounts the controversy she faced in the powerlifting world. After discovering that a male-to-female transgender athlete was competing against women, she felt compelled to speak out driven by her commitment to truth and fairness. What followed was a tumultuous battle with the Canadian Powerlifting Union that led to her suspension, highlighting the tension between truth-telling, fairness in sports, and the broader societal debates around gender.April shares the personal and professional consequences she faced, the courage it took to stand by her convictions, and her fight for fairness in women’s sports. Her story is a powerful testament to resilience, truth-telling, and standing up for what’s right, no matter the cost.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-190 - - -Support Let’s Change Lives — Auction for Westover Treatment Centre: aprilhutchinson.com/auction-for-westover Learn more about April Hutchinson at aprilhutchinson.comShop Her Merch: aprilhutchinson.com/shop@aprilhutchinson5801 on YouTube@Lea_Christina4 on X at https://x.com/Lea_Christina4?s=09 @april.hutchinson on Instagram at instagram.com/april.hutchinson - - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org- - -If you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting include:Episode 139 - Sex, Politics, and Double-Standards:Trans Athletes in Women's Sports w/ Coach Linda Bladeyoutu.be/XN0WKGUor_U
What Happened at the Genspect Conference in Lisbon | Episode 189 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-10-18 | EPISODE In this episode, Sasha and Stella reflect on the Bigger Picture Conference in Lisbon, discussing notable takeaways from various speakers. A key theme explored is how the gender debate has expanded into a multidisciplinary conversation, no longer just confined to therapists or concerned parents but drawing in academics, sociologists, and political thinkers worldwide.Their discussion covers a range of topics, including institutional capture, mass formation theory, societal movements, the roles of parents—particularly mothers—in navigating gender questioning, the ethics within the field of gender medicine, and the power of truth in countering ideological extremism.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-189 - - -Be sure to check out @Genspect's YouTube channel to watch all of the speakers’ presentations. Check back often for new releases!- - -Several of the speakers have also been featured as guests on Gender: A Wider Lens. Check out their episodes linked below!EPISODE 27 - Behind the Curtain: Psychotherapy for Gender Dysphoria with Sue and Marcus Evans youtu.be/zaC6xqriU3Q?feature=sharedEPISODE 29 - Conversion Therapy: A Conversation with Bob Withersyoutu.be/Sqk9YgspWcI?feature=sharedEPISODE 41 - Trans: A Conversation with Helen Joyceyoutu.be/ziFItCUnWz4?feature=sharedEPISODE 114 - The Dutch Protocol: A Deprivation of Sexual Development with Julia Mason and Stephen Levineyoutu.be/QEiE_porazM?feature=sharedEPISODE 124 - A Culture of Desistance: Schools and Gender w/ Alex Capoyoutu.be/6U75Nh917Es?feature=sharedEPISODE 132 - How To Have Impossible Conversations About Gender with Peter Boghossianyoutu.be/RnPmG0pcXAc?feature=sharedEPISODE 156 - "WPATH Has No Respect for Medical Ethics" with Mia Hughesyoutu.be/ikM6ziYLb4c?feature=sharedEPISODE 169 - Growing Up with a Trans Parent with Emma Thomas, from Children of Transitionersyoutu.be/vQRf5V98ibg?feature=sharedEPISODE 177 - When Gender Ideology Came to Denmark with Jesper Rasmussenyoutu.be/m85WDpA2TTw?feature=shared- - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org
Why Do People Double Down in the Face of Contrary Evidence? | Episode 188 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-10-11 | This conversation connects cognitive dissonance surrounding gender identity to cultural and institutional dynamics, including developments in gender medicine and resistance to emerging evidence that challenges prevailing medical practices — illustrating how deeply held beliefs become difficult to abandon even in the face of contradictory evidence. The core idea is that just because something cannot be proven false doesn’t mean we should accept it as true. Stella and Sasha imply that trying to "research a way out" of this issue isn't the answer, as many are emotionally invested in their decisions regarding medicalization, especially parents of trans-identified children. This episode underscores the value of self-forgiveness and cognitive flexibility, emphasizing the importance of remaining open to re-evaluating one's path and advocating that winning "hearts and minds" is key to changing perspectives rather than relying solely on evidence. While systemic changes and broader public awareness could help shift the conversation, ultimately, the cultural "war" over gender identity will not be resolved easily or quickly, with some people doubling down on their decisions for life.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-188 - - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org
Gender: A Wider Lens – Live from Lisbon with Billboard Chris | Episode 187 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-10-04 | Sasha and Stella speak live from the Genspect Conference in Lisbon, Portugal, with special guest Billboard Chris, a Canadian activist dedicated to challenging gender ideology through public engagement and thought-provoking messages. In this conversation, Chris explores the psychological and cultural forces influencing social changes around gender, sharing his motivations for activism and the journey that led him to raise awareness about the implications of puberty blockers for children. He also discusses strategies for facilitating constructive dialogues with those who hold differing views, emphasizing the significance of calm, rational discourse in controversial discussions. This episode examines the complex interplay of gender ideology in our culture, focusing on ongoing debates over children’s medical treatments, freedom of speech, educational content in schools, and the critical need to address the mental health challenges surrounding gender dysphoria.Chris shares personal anecdotes from his activism, including experiences at the United Nations and community engagement, emphasizing the importance of parental involvement and informed consent in children's healthcare decisions. Listeners will be confronted with a compelling exploration of the current landscape surrounding gender issues and the potential for meaningful change through open dialogue.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-187 Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.com/ Join Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join the conversation on YouTube at www.youtube.com/@widerlenspod For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.widerlenspod.com/subscribe
Courage is Contagious, with Whistleblower Vanessa Sivadge | Episode 186 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-09-27 | If you work in pediatric gender medicine and have concerns about the safety of practice, you are not alone. Contact the LGBT Courage Coalition (www.lgbtcourage.org/whistleblowers) for guidance and support (including finding legal counsel and connecting you with media contacts).- - -In this episode, Stella & Sasha sit down with Vanessa Sivadge, a former pediatric nurse at Texas Children's Hospital, who courageously exposed the illegal use of federally funded insurance programs to cover sex hormones and transgender treatments for minors. Initially coming forward anonymously as a whistleblower, Vanessa believed her concerns would incite meaningful change, only to face repercussions from the government. After disclosing the hospital’s concealed practices, she was met with an unexpected visit from FBI agents—an act she interprets as intimidation.Vanessa recounts her journey, reflecting on her decision to publicly come forward in June 2024. She shares how she faced almost immediate backlash, being placed under investigation, put on leave, and ultimately terminated, prompting her to pursue legal action for wrongful termination.This conversation examines the evolving 'groupthink' culture within hospitals, exacerbated by the pandemic, which has discouraged open dialogue and questioning among medical professionals. Vanessa’s story underscores the complexities of healthcare practices, specifically surrounding gender-affirming care, the ethical implications of medical documentation, and the critical importance of safeguarding patient welfare. It also emphasizes the value of whistleblowers as empowering and necessary for fostering accountability and promoting a culture of transparency. Drawing from her experiences, Vanessa offers up three essential strategies for individuals contemplating speaking out about their concerns.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-186 - - -Legal Defense Fund for Nurse Whistleblower (Vanessa’s GiveSendGo): givesendgo.com/nurse_whistleblower- - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org- - -If you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting include:Episode 27 — Behind the Curtain: Psychotherapy for Gender Dysphoria with Sue and Marcus Evansyoutube.com/watch?v=zaC6xqriU3Q&t=0s Episode 31 - Silencing Thought: A Conversation with Heather Brunskell-Evans youtube.com/watch?v=UzrTWOAQcR4&t=0s Episode 91 — Uncovering the GIDS Disaster: Dr. Dave Bell youtube.com/watch?v=wGjDmEYat2w&t=0s Episode 112 — Jamie Reed: “Every Ethical Line I Drew Was Walked On… We Are Hurting People”youtube.com/watch?v=QafpwKrz-lw&t=0s Episode 125 — From Gender Expert to Skeptical Dissenter with Sara Stocktonyoutube.com/watch?v=fRoGVXPycEI&t=0s Episode 151 - "These Doctors Have Forgotten the Meaning of Medicine" with Dr. Eithan Haimyoutube.com/watch?v=DgbWy2ntwqY&t=0sEpisode 161 - The Unlikely Whistleblower with Tamara Pietzkeyoutube.com/watch?v=afuodzjH8y4
Tales From Genderland, with Julie Bindel | Episode 185 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-09-20 | Sasha & Stella invite renowned feminist and author Julie Bindel to reflect on her decades-long advocacy for women and girls, in-particular her recent work investigating gender ideology. Julie shares her motivation behind her new podcast series, Julie in Genderland, which amplifies the voices of parents grappling with their children being caught in the gender identity craze.In this episode, Julie discusses her undercover work exposing gay conversion therapy, drawing parallels to what she calls modern "gay conversion therapy" through transgender ideology impacting gender-nonconforming youth. She explores evolving narratives around sexuality, the weaponization of female empathy in trans activism, and the systemic failures in supporting marginalized groups, particularly vulnerable girls, as seen in the Rochdale child abuse scandal. Julie also examines the trust placed in medical professionals and the societal influences shaping parents' decisions, spotlighting her podcast series, Julie in Genderland, and its focus on the impact of gender ideology on families and the challenges they encounter.With insights into radical gender politics, parental trauma, and the complexities of lesbian identity, this episode offers listeners an enlightening exploration of gender issues, feminism, child safeguarding, and activism. It sheds light on the intricate intersections of identity, politics, and personal experiences in today's sociopolitical climate.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-185 - - -Julie Bindel’s Writing & Podcasts | Misogyny: what is it and why won't it die?: juliebindel.substack.com@bindelj on X at https://x.com/bindeljJulie in Genderland (podcast feed): juliebindel.substack.com/s/julie-in-genderland- - -We're honored to have had the pleasure of hosting many of the experts lined up to present at Genspect's upcoming Bigger Picture Conference in Lisbon, Portugal. With a focus on "Reframing the Future," Genspect is dedicated to shifting the conversation from identifying problems to exploring solutions. Presentations, panel discussions, debates, and a live-stream interview ensure that all sides of this complex issue are addressed in a compelling manner. Reserve your livestream tickets today to save your spot for a powerfully engaging event, challenging the evidence base for gender medicine and addressing the widespread damage of gender identity ideology. genspect.org/the-bigger-picture-lisbon - - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org- - -If you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting include:Episode 152 - Trapped in a Language Cul-De-Sac with Kathleen Stockyoutube.com/watch?v=7xIX1JF6hcQ Episode 172 - Arielle Isaac Norman Knows More Than Dave Chappelleyoutube.com/watch?v=ysz2mhD-bkE Episode 173 - Why Are Trans Activists Rewriting History? with N3VLYNNNyoutube.com/watch?v=MykidQJJvdw
Chanting, Humming, and Silencing–The Attack on Free Speech in NYC Schools with Maud Maron | Ep 184 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-09-13 | Stella & Sasha welcome former public defender and education advocate, Maud Maron to the show for a fascinating conversation examining the intersection of education and politics. Maud reflects on the troubling shifts within schools, where merit and academic standards are being overshadowed by ideological pressures.In this episode, Maud discusses the evolving landscape of education, where traditional academic standards are increasingly being influenced or overshadowed by ideological pressures from social and political agendas. She highlights the impact of identity politics, gender ideology, and equity measures on core educational values. Drawing from her personal experiences from pushing for enhanced math standards, to becoming embroiled in a heated debate over gender guidelines in New York City's public schools, Maud recounts the tactics used to silence her dissent. Despite her efforts to initiate a respectful dialogue on the impact of gender policies on female athletes, Maud faced significant backlash, raising broader concerns about free speech and the pressures of ideological conformity within educational and public forums.This episode offers invaluable insights for parents, educators, political followers, free speech advocates, and those curious about how the politicization of education and ideological pressures are diluting the emphasis on academic performance, sparking concerns about the long-term impact on students' education.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-184 - - -@MaudMaron on X at https://x.com/MaudMaronExplore more from Maud Maron: maudmaron.com- - -We're honored to have had the pleasure of hosting many of the experts lined up to present at Genspect's upcoming Bigger Picture Conference in Lisbon, Portugal. With a focus on "Reframing the Future," Genspect is dedicated to shifting the conversation from identifying problems to exploring solutions. Presentations, panel discussions, debates, and a live-stream interview ensure that all sides of this complex issue are addressed in a compelling manner. Reserve your tickets today to save your spot for a powerfully engaging event, challenging the evidence base for gender medicine and addressing the widespread damage of gender identity ideology. We hope to see you there! (Livestream tickets are also available.)genspect.org/the-bigger-picture-lisbon - - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org
Running from Rockets and Walking Toward Womanhood, with Maia Poet | Episode 183 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-09-10 | Another special mid-week episode release! Sasha will be back for our next episode, but don’t miss this deeply moving conversation between Stella and guest, Maia Poet, who shares her powerful story of self-discovery through the lenses of gender identity, conflict, and societal expectations. Maia recounts the emotional and psychological conflict she faced living as a trans man in a religious society, and how war—especially the harrowing events of October 7th—shifted her entire perspective on her body and identity.In this conversation, Maia opens up about the transformative power of community, particularly her encounters with detransitioners, and the critical role they played in her journey toward desistance. Maia also delves into the complex moral dilemmas of discussing gender identity with children, and how surviving war solidified her understanding of the strength and resilience of her natural female body.Listeners will gain unique insight into the profound complexities of gender nonconformity in a society that, under the false pretense of “authenticity,” is failing to accommodate such experiences. The lack of space for nonconformity is paving a destructive path towards body dysmorphia, crisis of self-identity, and harmful medical transition — a broken and twisted journey towards self-love and acceptance.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-183 - - -@thepeacepoet99 on X at https://x.com/thepeacepoet99 @MaiaPoet on YouTube at youtube.com/@MaiaPoet - - -We're honored to have had the pleasure of hosting many of the experts lined up to present at Genspect's upcoming Bigger Picture Conference in Lisbon, Portugal. With a focus on "Reframing the Future," Genspect is dedicated to shifting the conversation from identifying problems to exploring solutions. Presentations, panel discussions, debates, and a live-stream interview ensure that all sides of this complex issue are addressed in a compelling manner. Reserve your tickets today to save your spot for a powerfully engaging event, challenging the evidence base for gender medicine and addressing the widespread damage of gender identity ideology. We hope to see you there! (Livestream tickets are also available.)genspect.org/the-bigger-picture-lisbon - - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org
What Exactly is a Transcendent Sense of Gender? with Alex Byrne Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-09-06 | In this episode, Sasha and Stella welcome Alex Byrne, philosopher and author of Trouble with Gender, to explore the evolving concept of gender, its historical roots, and the myths that shape modern discourse. Byrne offers an erudite yet accessible analysis of the term "gender," reflections about how much the term has changed and the far-reaching implications of those changes, and insights on influential figures like Jack Turban and John Money.Expect a thought-provoking conversation exploring; the complexities and confusion surrounding the different meanings and uses of the terms 'sex' and 'gender', the concept of gender identity and its relationship to sex and gender dysphoria, the work of Jack Turban and his book 'Free to Be', and the misunderstood and misrepresented nature of DSDs and the need for more attention and understanding.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-182 - - -Explore more from Alex Byrne at http://www.alexbyrne.org@byrne_a on X at https://x.com/byrne_a- - -We're honored to have had the pleasure of hosting many of the experts lined up to present at Genspect's upcoming Bigger Picture Conference in Lisbon, Portugal. With a focus on "Reframing the Future," Genspect is dedicated to shifting the conversation from identifying problems to exploring solutions. Presentations, panel discussions, debates, and a live-stream interview ensure that all sides of this complex issue are addressed in a compelling manner. Reserve your tickets today to save your spot for a powerfully engaging event, challenging the evidence base for gender medicine and addressing the widespread damage of gender identity ideology. We hope to see you there! (Livestream tickets are also available.)genspect.org/the-bigger-picture-lisbon - - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org
From Activist to Apostate–A Twisty-Turny Gender Journey, with Tali | Episode 181 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-08-30 | Tali shares her journey from an ardent activist deeply immersed in gender and identity politics to someone questioning and ultimately walking away from the dogmatic beliefs she once held. Her story is a roller coaster of conviction, self-discovery, and transformation, particularly as she navigates the complexities of having encouraged her wife towards a trans identity of her own.Listeners will gain insight into the mindset of passionate activists, the impact of societal pressures on personal identity, and the challenges of disentangling oneself from groupthink. This episode offers a glimpse into the delicate process of questioning deeply held beliefs and the reflection and critical thought essential for shifting perspectives.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-181 - - -Check out The Navel Gays Podcast at youtube.com/@TheNavelGays- - -We're honored to have had the pleasure of hosting many of the experts lined up to present at Genspect's upcoming Bigger Picture Conference in Lisbon, Portugal. With a focus on "Reframing the Future," Genspect is dedicated to shifting the conversation from identifying problems to exploring solutions. Presentations, panel discussions, debates, and a live-stream interview ensure that all sides of this complex issue are addressed in a compelling manner. Reserve your tickets today to save your spot for a powerfully engaging event, challenging the evidence base for gender medicine and addressing the widespread damage of gender identity ideology. We hope to see you there! (Livestream tickets are also available.)genspect.org/the-bigger-picture-lisbon - - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org- - -If you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting include:Episode 71 - Gender: The American State of Affairs w Jesse Singalyoutu.be/hskOPKKuX9E Episode 130 - Katie Herzog: Unblocked & Recordedyoutu.be/3vaI4NDcd4A Episode 152 - Trapped in a Language Cul-De-Sac with Kathleen Stockyoutu.be/7xIX1JF6hcQ?feature=shared Episode 172 - Arielle Isaac Norman Knows More Than Dave Chappelleyoutube.com/watch?v=ysz2mhD-bkEExtremism in All of Its Forms Is a Pathway to Hell - Jamie Reed (presentation from Genspect’s The Bigger Picture Conference, November 2023, Denver, USA) youtube.com/watch?v=LVGvy2UbgPA
The Many Roots and Presentations of Gender Dysphoria in Males | Episode 180 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-08-28 | This episode is a special mid-week release! No special guest for this conversation, just an important and thoughtful exchange between hosts, Sasha and Stella, exploring some of the common and yet intensely complex manifestations of gender dysphoria in males. This discussion offers a careful examination of the broad psychological, developmental, and sexual dynamics shaping male identity, the effects of testosterone, and perceptions around gender roles.Stella and Sasha guide listeners through several frameworks for understanding different experiences of gender dysphoria in males, including autogynephilia (AGP), homosexual transsexual (HSTS), and rapid onset gender dysphoria (ROGD). It’s crucial to recognize that while diagnostic frameworks offer insight, they can oversimplify the complexities of human identity and behavior. Traits associated with AGP, HSTS, ROGD, or even neurodiversity, like autism, may overlap and interact in ways that are not fully understood, underscoring the need for a more integrated understanding that avoids overly simplistic categorizations and fosters more nuanced and optimized support.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-180 - - -We're honored to have had the pleasure of hosting many of the experts lined up to present at Genspect's upcoming Bigger Picture Conference in Lisbon, Portugal. With a focus on "Reframing the Future," Genspect is dedicated to shifting the conversation from identifying problems to exploring solutions. Presentations, panel discussions, debates, and a live-stream interview ensure that all sides of this complex issue are addressed in a compelling manner. Reserve your tickets today to save your spot for a powerfully engaging event, challenging the evidence base for gender medicine and addressing the widespread damage of gender identity ideology. We hope to see you there! (Livestream tickets are also available.)genspect.org/the-bigger-picture-lisbon - - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org- - -Explore other Gender: A Wider Lens Discussions Referenced in this Episode:Episode 61 - Pioneers Series: Autogynephilia: Myth and Meaning with Ray Blanchardyoutube.com/watch?v=LmXk_keKYbw Episode 58 - Pioneers Series: Male Sexuality with Michael J. Baileyyoutu.be/2spjAUZyIRY?feature=shared Episode 67 - Pioneers Series: Men Trapped in Men’s Bodies, with Anne Lawrenceyoutu.be/9_1wXsYdzMI?feature=shared Episode 36 - Talking Testosterone with Carole Hoovenyoutu.be/zny2VTKyqB8 Episode 51 - Clearing of the Pink Mist: A Conversation w/ Debbie Haytonyoutu.be/PTwl_FtnHls Episode 45 - Helena Part 1: Social Justice, Fandoms & FtM Gay Boysyoutube.com/watch?v=0NSr_ac9b3k widerlenspod.com/p/45-helena-part-1-social-justice-fandoms-5caEpisode 46 - Helena Part II: Advice for Parents from a Former Trans Kidyoutube.com/watch?v=Ho7f1-puP0k widerlenspod.com/p/46-helena-part-ii-advice-for-parents-095
Healing From Sissy Porn and Gender Dysphoria with Shane Cole | Ep 179 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-08-23 | Sasha and Stella welcome Shane Cole to the show for a riveting exploration of the intricate layers of male gender dysphoria. Shane's journey offers a powerful narrative of recovery, highlighting the unpredictable pathways of healing and the integration of both masculine and feminine aspects of identity. This important conversation uncovers the intricate and often misunderstood dimensions of gender dysphoria in males and the complex psychological impact of unhealthy porn use.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-179 - - -Shane on YouTube @shanecole4373youtube.com/@shanecole4373/videos Shane on Instagram @breathingwithshane instagram.com/breathingwithshane Awaken Your Purpose with Inspiratus Breathwork at inspiratusbreathwork.com - - -We're honored to have had the pleasure of hosting many of the experts lined up to present at Genspect's upcoming Bigger Picture Conference in Lisbon, Portugal. With a focus on "Reframing the Future," Genspect is dedicated to shifting the conversation from identifying problems to exploring solutions. Presentations, panel discussions, debates, and a live-stream interview ensure that all sides of this complex issue are addressed in a compelling manner. Reserve your tickets today to save your spot for a powerfully engaging event, challenging the evidence base for gender medicine and addressing the widespread damage of gender identity ideology. We hope to see you there! (Livestream tickets are also available.)genspect.org/the-bigger-picture-lisbon - - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org- - -If you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting include:Episode 20 - Gender Dysphoria in Boys: Part 1youtu.be/OruMEMgxhY8Episode 21 - Gender Dysphoria in Boys: Part 2 — A Conversation with Angus Foxyoutu.be/J8VdySAopgsEpisode 61 - Pioneers Series: Autogynephilia: Myth and Meaning with Ray Blanchardyoutube.com/watch?v=LmXk_keKYbwEpisode 174 - How Porn Can Influence the Desire to Transition, with Forrestyoutube.com/watch?v=s7Z9BlvvaXo
How Brands Influence Culture (For Better or Worse) with Jennifer Sey | Episode 178 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-08-16 | Former big brand marketing powerhouse and national gymnastics champion, Jennifer Sey, joins Sasha and Stella to dissect trans-themed ads, corporate HR's influence, and the impacts of the adjustments to Title IX. This is a bold conversation about the evolution of corporate messaging, the rise of woke capitalism, and the growing influence of HR and DEI initiatives in shaping corporate culture.Whether you’re in marketing, leadership, athletics or simply interested in the intersection of business and social change, this conversation will challenge your perspectives and provide valuable insights into the profound shifts within corporate America, the advertising world, and female sports.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-178 **Correction: In this episode Sasha, Stella and Jennifer discuss an ad that initially appeared to be a Calvin Klein ad. This was actually an ad produced by a company called "Both& Apparel" as an "homage to Calvin Klein." We apologize for the error. Calvin Klein has created controversial ads with trans themes, the one we showed in the episode just wasn't one of them.- - -@JenniferSey on X - https://x.com/JenniferSey Sey Everything, Jennifer’s Substack Newsletter - jennifersey.substack.com XX-XY Athletics - xx-xyathletics.com - - -We're honored to have had the pleasure of hosting many of the experts lined up to present at Genspect's upcoming Bigger Picture Conference in Lisbon, Portugal. With a focus on "Reframing the Future," Genspect is dedicated to shifting the conversation from identifying problems to exploring solutions. Presentations, panel discussions, debates, and a live-stream interview ensure that all sides of this complex issue are addressed in a compelling manner. Reserve your tickets today to save your spot for a powerfully engaging event, challenging the evidence base for gender medicine and addressing the widespread damage of gender identity ideology. We hope to see you there! (Livestream tickets are also available.)genspect.org/the-bigger-picture-lisbon - - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org
When Gender Ideology Came to Denmark with Jesper Rasmussen | Ep 177 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-08-09 | Sasha and Stella welcome Jesper Rasmussen, a Danish filmmaker, teacher, and head of the Rainbow Council, to the show, offering a critical look at pediatric gender medicine and the broader impact of gender ideology in Denmark.A key moment emerges when Jesper introduces three essential “yes/no” questions that that anyone can use to critically evaluate the issue and guide the debates around gender affirming medical interventions for minors. This episode vital for those attempting conversations about the medical and ethical aspects of pediatric gender transition.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-177 - - -@JesPerfekt on X - https://x.com/jesperfekt The Danish Rainbow Council - https://www.danskregnbueraad.dk/international - - -We're honored to have had the pleasure of hosting Jesper and many of the other experts lined up to present at Genspect's upcoming Bigger Picture Conference in Lisbon, Portugal. With a focus on "Reframing the Future," Genspect is dedicated to shifting the conversation from identifying problems to exploring solutions. Presentations, panel discussions, debates, and a live-stream interview ensure that all sides of this complex issue are addressed in a compelling manner. Reserve your tickets today to save your spot for a powerfully engaging event, challenging the evidence base for gender medicine and addressing the widespread damage of gender identity ideology. We hope to see you there! (Livestream tickets are also available.)genspect.org/the-bigger-picture-lisbon - - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.orgChapters00:00 Show Open04:44 Conversation Begins08:48 What is the Danish Rainbow Council15:00 The Inflection Point23:24 "Danes are very shy of conflict."28:00 The Impact of the Swedish Doc, The Trans Train44:00 The threat beneath the "be kind" mantra56:30 "Copenhagen Pride was a disaster"
Funding Lawsuits for Detransitioners with Lynn Chadwick | Episode 176 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-08-02 | As the mother of two trans-identified children, Lynn Chadwick has navigated the pain of estrangement and now channels her experiences into her work with Themis Resource Fund, an independent, nonprofit, and nonpartisan organization providing financial resource aimed at connecting detransitioned plaintiffs in the United States with attorneys interested in representing their cases.Lynn expresses her deep concern about the potential for re-traumatization among detransitioned individuals who engage in legal battles. She emphasizes the harsh and uncertain nature of these legal processes, where plaintiffs often face aggressive questioning and blame. Lynn’s work with Themis advocates for the dignity and justice of these individuals, underscoring the importance of their narratives and the need for respectful treatment. For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-176 - - -DONATE to The Themis Resource Fund at themisresourcefund.org/donate- - -We're honored to have had the pleasure of hosting Lynn and many of the other experts lined up to present at Genspect's upcoming Bigger Picture Conference in Lisbon, Portugal. With a focus on "Reframing the Future," Genspect is dedicated to shifting the conversation from identifying problems to exploring solutions. Presentations, panel discussions, debates, and a live-stream interview ensure that all sides of this complex issue are addressed in a compelling manner. Reserve your tickets today to save your spot for a powerfully engaging event, challenging the evidence base for gender medicine and addressing the widespread damage of gender identity ideology. We hope to see you there! (Livestream tickets are also available.)genspect.org/the-bigger-picture-lisbon - - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.orgChapters00:00 Show Open00:30 Intro to Lynn Chadwick05:00 Conversation begins06:50 The initial devastation: “The only thing I could see was the emergency of gender.”13:46 The early days of parent groups: “It was crazy how secret it was.”20:00 Estrangement is such a complicated type of grief25:42 "There was a collective change in the air when Trump got elected."30:00 The trip to Baja that changed everything37:32 The creation of Themis Resource Fund—Detransition Litigation Assistance47:12 A summary of the cases Themis is involved in
How Gender Medicine Impacts Female Bodies, with Elaine Miller | Episode 175 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-07-26 | Sasha & Stella welcome Elaine Miller, a physiotherapist specializing in pelvic health and award-winning comedian to join them for a riveting conversation unpacking the effects of testosterone on the female body, with particular attention to the pelvic area. This conversation uncovers shocking insights about incontinence and other physiological changes as the result of putting a female system on disproportionately high levels of testosterone. A must-watch for therapists, parents, individuals considering testosterone therapy, and healthcare professionals who want to understand the real, often overlooked, consequences of cross-sex hormones on female bodies.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-175 - - -For more from Elaine Miller, visit: www.venusenvy.co.ukOn Instagram @gusset_grippers - instagram.com/gusset_grippers On X @gussiegrips - https://x.com/GussieGrips- - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org- - -If you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting include:Episode 36 - Talking Testosterone with Carole Hoovenyoutu.be/zny2VTKyqB8 Episode 62 - Pioneers Series - Adolescent Identity: Riittakerttu Kaltialayoutube.com/watch?v=2aWCm6CTdfUEpisode 104 — No Time to Think with Hannah Barnes: The Downfall of GIDS at the Tavistockyoutu.be/ftaeHf2_V8YEpisode 105 — From Rejecting the Body to Finding Female w/ Victoria Smithyoutu.be/Re8hoOYTLWY?feature=shared
How Porn Can Influence the Desire to Transition, with Forrest | Episode 174 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-07-19 | Sasha and Stella sit down with Forrest, a young man whose journey through gender identity, pornography, and societal expectations lends a profound and complex quest for self-acceptance. A compelling conversation about Forrest's journey through transition and detransition, revealing how an innocent curiosity for cartoons spiraled into a full-scale porn addiction, leading to unhealthy behaviors and regrettable surgeries. Explore Forrest’s experiences with intense shame, his complicated relationship with sexual drives, and his time living with the ‘radical fairies’ in a trans commune.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-174 - - -Explore Forrest’s Substack - Through the Trees : arboles.substack.com - - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@stellaomalleypsychotherapist - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org
Why Are Trans Activists Rewriting History? with N3VLYNNN | Episode 173 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-07-12 | Sasha & Stella sit down with the creatively multifaceted and dynamically articulate artist N3VLYNNN, exploring the intersections of identity, creativity, expression and activism. Nevline's nuanced perspective on the trans movement's impact on black lesbians and the women's movement highlights the often overlooked and broader implications for identity and representation within the movement, and how these dynamics have evolved over time.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-173 - - -Visit @N3VLYNNN’s blog at blog.n3vlynnn.com - - -SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT FROM OUR SPONSOR: @TherapyFirst is hosting a webinar July 29th at 12pm EDT. “The Comprehensive Psychiatric Evaluation of Minors with Gender Dysphoria: Key Concepts” with Dr. Stephen B. Levine. Learn more at therapyfirst.org/webinars*Therapy First has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider,ACEP No. 7505. This webinar provides 1.5 hours of CE credits.- - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching @SashaLPC Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching@beyondgenderpodcast - - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org
Arielle Isaac Norman Knows More Than Dave Chappelle | Episode 172 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-07-05 | Sasha and Stella welcome comedian Arielle Isaac Norman to the show for a refreshing critique of identity, comedy, and societal norms. They talk talk pronouns, reality, the impact of Trump's win in 2016, and what it means to be politically non-binary. The discussion emphasizes Arielle's skill in using humor to address evolving dynamics within the queer community, particularly in response to today's political landscape, delivering profound insights with a comedic twist. Arielle brings an informed critique that resonates across the political spectrum, ensuring that her audience finds both laughter and moments of introspection. Sasha affectionally describes Arielle as an “equal opportunity offender”, promising that this episode delivers a mix of both humor and discomfort certain to spark both conversation and reflection.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-172 - - -Go see Arielle Isaac Norman: LIVE IN FORT WORTH - July 25th fortworth.blcomedy.com/events/arielle-isaac-norman-live-in-fort-worth Watch Arielle Isaac Norman: Ellen DeGenderless (2024) | Full Comedy Special youtube.com/watch?v=3RUn-TzcVms&t=2sSubscribe to Arielle’s YouTube here: youtube.com/@AIMormon- - -Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join - - -For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching- - -To learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org
Breaking News: The Latest WPATH Scandal, with Lisa Selin Davis | Ep 171 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-07-01 | In this episode, Sasha and Stella sit down with journalist Lisa Selin Davis to discuss “the endless upside down somersaulting of reality.”The latest controversy not only questions the integrity of guideline creation but also exposes collaboration among federal authorities, advocacy groups, and academic institutions to suppress evidence-based research.Mainstream media responses (or lack there of) highlight how prominent journalism groups align with activists, perpetuate narratives, and compromise objectivity by succumbing to advocacy pressures and biased reporting practices.This episode emphasizes how the prioritization of empirical evidence in both media reporting and policy-making is crucial for ensuring that decisions affecting youth and healthcare are based on accurate, transparent information.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-171 Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coachingTo learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.orgJoin this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join
The Tragic Consequences of Secret Social Transition w/Vernadette Broyles | Ep 170 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-06-28 | Donate to the Child and Parental Rights Campaign here: childparentrights.org/donateStella and Sasha welcome distinguished attorney Vernadette Broyles to the show offering a rich and informative discussion for anyone interested in the evolving dynamics between schools, families, and the legal system around issues of gender identity and parental rights; valuable resources for parents and concerned adults; and practical recommendations on how parents can be proactive and better equipped to protect their children, empowering them to navigate these challenging situations with confidence and clarity.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-170 Visit childparentrights.org to learn more.Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coachingTo learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.orgIf you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting include:Episode 40 - Social Transition: A Powerful Psychosocial Interventionyoutu.be/qB44LFQ8WjQ Episode 88 — Gender: Philosophy, Institutions, and Policy w/ Leor Sapiryoutu.be/emB9V-jyySk Episode 117 — Gender, Parents, and Public Schools with Kate Parkeryoutu.be/b1mDcu6P620 Episode 127 - Help! Gender Is a Mess at My School: For Teachers, Counselors, & Administratorsyoutu.be/fySyH99h024 Episode 149 - Walking My ROGD Daughter Through Desistance with January Littlejohnyoutu.be/CbNRzkpZ1Wg?feature=shared Episode 167 - Dawn of the Detransitioner Lawsuits, with Josh Payneyoutu.be/ZuYjpGsr4ow?feature=shared
Growing Up with a Trans Parent with Emma Thomas, from Children of Transitioners | Episode 169 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-06-21 | Sasha and Stella warmly welcome Emma Thomas to the show highlighting her significant role as an advocate for children of transitioners. Emma talks about growing up with an AGP dad, the importance of safeguarding children, the misinformation around chestfeeding, and her hope that autogynephilia is treatable or preventable.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-169 Visit childrenoftransitioners.org to learn more.@childrenoftrans on X https://x.com/ChildrenOfTrans Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coachingTo learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org
Bad Therapy and Irreversible Damage with Abigail Shrier | Episode 168 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-06-14 | Sasha and Stella welcome author and journalist Abigail Shrier to the show, and what a remarkable conversation exploring the impact of mental health culture on young people and families, how therapeutic attitudes are shaping schools and parenting practices, and the adverse effects of specific social and psychological interventions on youth.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-168 To learn more, visit abigailshrier.com@AbigailShrier on X https://x.com/AbigailShrierThe Truth Fairy on Substackthetruthfairy.info Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coachingTo learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.orgIf you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting include:Episode 110 — Pathologizing Normal: The Lure of Identity Labels & Diagnosesyoutu.be/dwZBRIvDHik?feature=shared Episode 136 - Gender as a Communication, It's Not What You Think with Maggie Goldsmithyoutu.be/Vy_aY2pb8is Episode 154: "My Entire Childhood Was Medicalized" with Scarletyoutu.be/s96WlMza2f0Episode 160 - A Look at the Overlap Between Autism and Gender Dysphoria, with Christina Buttonsyoutube.com/watch?v=jh4bvghOn2o Episode 162 - The Over-treatment of Young Peopleyoutube.com/watch?v=9cneXPyPQpo Episode 164 - Gen Z and the Agony of a Screen-based Life with Freya India youtu.be/kihu2YJ6BPI?feature=shared
Dawn of the Detransitioner Lawsuits, with Josh Payne | EP 167 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-06-07 | In this episode, Sasha and Stella welcome lawyer, Josh Payne, co-founder of Campbell Miller Payne, a law firm dedicated to representing individuals who were misled and abused – many as children – into psychological and physical harm through a false promise of “gender-affirming care.” Campbell Miller Payne is committed to its mission to speak up for these victims, assert their rights, and pursue justice.This is a conversation about various legal challenges faced by detransitioners, such as issues with informed consent, systemic healthcare problems, and the experimental nature of many treatments. The discussion emphasizes the vulnerability of clients, the lack of comprehensive care addressing underlying mental health issues, and the need for cautious medical practices, underscoring the importance of seeking justice for those affected and advocating for more responsible treatment alternatives to gender-affirming care.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-167 Visit cmppllc.com to learn more about Josh Payne and the Campbell Miller Payne firm.Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.comJoin Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coachingTo learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.orgIf you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting include:Episode 94 — WPATH’s Bizarre 8th Standards of Careyoutu.be/aMrCTlp2-Io Episode 99 — Detransitioned & Damaged by the Dutch Protocol: Teiresiasyoutu.be/Xjl6-GcGzwU Episode 112 — Jamie Reed: “Every Ethical Line I Drew Was Walked On… We Are Hurting People”youtu.be/QafpwKrz-lw Episode 118 - Prioritizing Expensive & Invasive Interventions: American Healthcare w/ Zhenya Abbruzzeseyoutu.be/YhLA02Dtupc?feature=sharedEpisode 131 - Facing Futility: You Can’t Actually Change Sex, with Corinna Cohnyoutu.be/-nSUAqdT0fw?si=cSC0slo2-4m_PI1C Episode 151 - "These Doctors Have Forgotten the Meaning of Medicine" with Dr. Eithan Haimyoutu.be/DgbWy2ntwqY?feature=shared Episode 160 - A Look at the Overlap Between Autism and Gender Dysphoria, with Christina Buttonsyoutube.com/watch?v=jh4bvghOn2o Episode 161 - The Unlikely Whistleblower with Tamara Pietzkeyoutube.com/watch?v=afuodzjH8y4
Dr. Joshua Coleman and How Parents Can Heal or Prevent Estrangement | Episode 166 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-05-31 | In this episode, Sasha and Stella delve into the intricate world of family estrangement with psychologist and author, Dr. Joshua Coleman. Coleman's insights highlight the complexity and emotional strain of estrangement, emphasizing empathy, responsibility, and strategic communication as essential tools for parents navigating these challenging dynamics. This episode offers valuable insights and practical strategies for families coping with the heartache of alienation.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-166 Learn more about Joshua Coleman, Ph.D.: drjoshuacoleman.comFind @drjcoleman on X: https://x.com/drjcolemanBuy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.com/ Join Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coachingTo learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org
Meghan Daum Wants Women to Stop Silencing Themselves | Episode 165 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-05-24 | Sasha and Stella sit down with the multifaceted Meghan Daum, distinguished author, cultural commentator, and fellow podcast host, for a compelling exploration of societal change, the complexities of modern life, and coping through humor. Known for her incisive commentary and fearless exploration of complex topics, Meghan shares her personal reflections on identity and the central and contentious nature of gender in modern culture.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-165 @meghan_daum on X: https://x.com/meghan_daumThe Unspeakable with Meghan Daum : meghandaum.substack.comBuy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.com/ Join Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coachingTo learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.org
Gen Z and the Agony of a Screen-Based Life with Freya India | Episode 164 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-05-17 | Stella and Sasha welcome writer and columnist Freya India to the show this week, offering deep insights about the impact of screens and technology on young people and practical advice for balanced living in the digital age. They explore Gen Z's relationship with Instagram and dating apps, the fixation on mental illness and identity, and the misleading notion that you can buy your authentic self.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-164 Freya India on X: twitter.com/freyaindiaaGIRLS on Substack: freyaindia.co.uk Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.com/ Join Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coachingTo learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.orgGenspect at genspect.orgIf you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting include:Episode 33 - Beyond the 'Gifted' Label: A Conversation with Jessie Mannistoyoutu.be/IOiwWBBnNLU Episode 105 — From Rejecting the Body to Finding Female w/ Victoria Smithyoutu.be/Re8hoOYTLWY?feature=sharedEpisode 107 — What Your Teen is Trying to Tell You youtu.be/jwUZUdJ_tzM Episode 110 — Pathologizing Normal: The Lure of Identity Labels & Diagnosesyoutu.be/dwZBRIvDHik?feature=sharedEpisode 162 - The Over-treatment of Young Peopleyoutube.com/watch?v=9cneXPyPQpo
Trans Ideology is a Restriction of Freedom, Not an Expansion of It, w/ Heather Heying | EPISODE 163 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-05-10 | Evolutionary biology, gender dynamics, societal norms, chemicals, technology…there is no denying the intricate interplay between biological, psychological, technological and cultural factors in shaping human behavior and identity. Sasha and Stella welcome guest, Heather Heying to the show for a grounding conversation exploring the complexity of human behavior, the inevitability of making mistakes, the anxieties and fears prevalent among the younger generation, and the importance of understanding risk thresholds in navigating life's uncertainties.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-163 Learn more about about Heather Heying and her work:heatherheying.comNatural Selections - Heather Heying’s publication on Substack:naturalselections.substack.com Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.com/ Join Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coachingTo learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org (formerly GETA)Genspect at genspect.orgIf you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting include:Episode 36 - Talking Testosterone with Carole Hoovenyoutu.be/zny2VTKyqB8 Episode 37 - Womanhood: A Conversation with Milli Hillyoutu.be/i9WDU0SYvjk Episode 115 — How Online Communities Shape Thought, Desire, and Doubt about Transition: with Eliza Mondegreenyoutu.be/3tAvRWq7wOA?feature=shared Episode 131 - Facing Futility: You Can’t Actually Change Sex, with Corinna Cohnyoutu.be/-nSUAqdT0fw?si=cSC0slo2-4m_PI1C Episode 139 - Sex, Politics, and Double-Standards in Women's Sports with Coach Linda Bladeyoutu.be/XN0WKGUor_U?feature=shared Episode 155 - Loop de Loops and Deepities of Sex and Gender with Colin Wrightyoutu.be/2L5HyJxKDW8
The Over-treatment of Young People | Episode 162 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-05-03 | This episode covers a lot of ground, emphasizing the complexities of therapy, the necessity for critical examination of conventional wisdom, and the importance of nurturing authentic relationships both inside the family and social circles (but more specifically, outside of the clinical setting).For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-162 Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.com/ Join Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coachingTo learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org (formerly GETA)Genspect at genspect.orgIf you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting include:Episode 107 — What Your Teen is Trying to Tell You youtu.be/jwUZUdJ_tzM Episode 110 — Pathologizing Normal: The Lure of Identity Labels & Diagnosesyoutu.be/dwZBRIvDHik?feature=shared Episode 122 - We Wrote a Book: When Kids Say They're Trans | A Guide for Thoughtful Parentsyoutu.be/f4LL2hI-qjs
The Unlikely Whistleblower with Tamara Pietzke | Episode 161 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-04-26 | If you work in pediatric gender medicine and have concerns about the safety of practice, you are not alone. Contact the LGBT Courage Coalition (www.lgbtcourage.org/whistleblowers) for guidance and support (including finding legal counsel and connecting you with media contacts).Stella and Sasha welcome whistleblower, Tamara Pietzke for an important conversation highlighting the valuable role that clinicians who are able to speak openly play in revealing insights from ‘behind the gender affirming care curtain’.Tamara’s story highlights the challenges and ethical dilemmas involved in providing gender-affirming care to children and the difficulties whistleblowers are facing in speaking out against harmful practices and the lack of informed consent.Support Tamara Pietzke - givesendgo.com/whistleblowerTamara For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-161 Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.com/ Join Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coachingTo learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org Genspect at genspect.orgIf you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting include:Episode 27 — Behind the Curtain: Psychotherapy for Gender Dysphoria with Sue and Marcus Evansyoutu.be/zaC6xqriU3Q Episode 31 - Silencing Thought: A Conversation with Heather Brunskell-Evans youtu.be/UzrTWOAQcR4 Episode 91 — Uncovering the GIDS Disaster: Dr. Dave Bellyoutu.be/wGjDmEYat2w Episode 112 — Jamie Reed: “Every Ethical Line I Drew Was Walked On… We Are Hurting People”youtu.be/QafpwKrz-lw Episode 125 — From Gender Expert to Skeptical Dissenter with Sara Stocktonyoutu.be/fRoGVXPycEI Episode 151 - "These Doctors Have Forgotten the Meaning of Medicine" with Dr. Eithan Haimyoutu.be/DgbWy2ntwqY?feature=shared
A Look at the Overlap Between Autism and Gender Dysphoria, with Christina Buttons | EP 160 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-04-19 | This episode opens with an extended introduction exploring the recent release of The Cass Review - Final Report, as this is a massive development in the world of gender medicalization. The guest feature begins at the 00:10:30 timestamp, so please feel free to skip ahead if you’d like.Sasha and Stella welcome guest, Christina Buttons, for a special conversation covering everything from her personal experiences with autism, her troubled adolescence, and her work as an investigative journalist, to her awakening to gender issues and her extensive research efforts. The episode gets into the concept of stress perception and resilience, the intersection of autism and gender dysphoria, and the lack of informed consent in medical interventions for trans identified individuals.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-160 For more about Christina Buttons: buttonslives.comBuy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.com/ Join Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coachingTo learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org (formerly GETA)Genspect at genspect.orgIf you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting include:Episode 17 - Autism and Gender Dysphoriayoutu.be/8VGDWkuy_l4 Episode 21 - Gender Dysphoria in Boys: Part 2 — A Conversation with Angus Foxyoutu.be/J8VdySAopgsEpisode 64 - Pioneers Series: Psychotherapy Pre- and Post-Transition with Az Hakeemyoutu.be/yjxszfhgLcc?feature=shared Episode 65 - Pioneers Series: Gender - The Big Picture with Susan Bradleyyoutu.be/ln7GOYNiDdY?feature=shared Episode 82 - ASD & Gender: Who am I? with Dr. Tony Attwoodyoutu.be/J_fmzySfHLY?feature=shared Episode 101 - Michael Biggs on Puberty Blockers: From Curiosity to Exposéyoutu.be/MrvbIXI4psc Episode 153 - Why Smart, Quirky, Artistic Girls Take Up the Transition Fantasy w/Laura Beckeryoutu.be/WlaZa6_RfyI?feature=shared
Sasha and Stellas Initial Reflections on The Cass Review Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-04-18 | As part of our upcoming episode with Christina Buttons, we recorded an extended intro inspired by the much-anticipated Cass Review that was released last week. We thought our listeners and viewers would appreciate having this clip as a stand-alone video, so we are releasing this part of the episode early.If you would like to read the full report led by Hilary Cass, you can find it here: cass.independent-review.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/CassReview_Final.pdfThe impact of this report is sure to be huge and far-reaching. We will be covering it in more detail in future episodes. For now, here are some of our initial thoughts.
Parallels Between the Opioid Epidemic and a Gender Medicine Crisis with Dr. Carrie Mendoza | Ep 159 Gender: A Wider Lens 2024-04-12 | Sasha and Stella welcome Dr. Carrie Mendoza back to the show for her second appearance with the Wider Lens duo. Together, they dive into crucial topics surrounding medical practice, healthcare education, ethical healthcare standards and policy implementation in healthcare administration. Carrie’s insights draw from her experience with the opioid epidemic, highlighting the lessons learned about its origin, scale, and mitigation, shedding light on how these insights can inform our understanding of medicalizing radical gender ideology and preventing its harm.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at widerlenspod.com/p/episode-159 Bigger Picture Denver: How Bad Ideas Scale and Unwind in US Healthcare with Carrie Mendozayoutu.be/e8q6eTwJiWw?feature=sharedThe Bigger Picture Conference: Gender Healthcare Issues Primary Care Providers Need to Know Aboutyoutu.be/uI6xG2e9sTQ?feature=sharedBuy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at whenkidssaytheyretrans.com/ Join Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join this channel to get access to additional bonus content:youtube.com/channel/UCP62aWWtlZV1oVnbMhTRBcg/join For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coachingTo learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at therapyfirst.org (formerly GETA)Genspect at genspect.orgIf you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting include:Leaked WPATH Files – Breaking News with Gender: A Wider Lens (Live)youtube.com/live/-_IITJ9ZtGw?feature=shared Episode 94 — WPATH’s Bizarre 8th Standards of Careyoutu.be/aMrCTlp2-Io Episode 87 — Medical Technology & Ethics w Jennifer Lahlyoutu.be/hGnsIGjLLTo Episode 112 — Jamie Reed: “Every Ethical Line I Drew Was Walked On… We Are Hurting People”youtu.be/QafpwKrz-lw Episode 118 - Prioritizing Expensive & Invasive Interventions: American Healthcare w/ Zhenya Abbruzzeseyoutu.be/YhLA02Dtupc?feature=sharedEpisode 150 - The Consumerism of Gender-Affirming Care with Leor Sapiryoutu.be/i1_fjn90hKo?feature=shared Episode 151 - "These Doctors Have Forgotten the Meaning of Medicine" with Dr. Eithan Haimyoutu.be/DgbWy2ntwqY?feature=shared Episode 156 - "WPATH Has No Respect for Medical Ethics" with Mia Hughesyoutu.be/ikM6ziYLb4c?feature=shared
