2024 Was NOT My Year, Heres What Im Doing Different in 2025 Oh! Stephco 2025-01-03 | Like many people, the beginning of the year is time for reflection and resolution. Taking an honest look at different parts of your life and your journey is SO NECESSARY. Especially if you want to experience change and new frontiers in the year to come. In this video, I discuss my obstacles and disappointments from the year 2024 when it came to content creation, love and health and what I plan to do to fix these things in 2025. Time stamps below!0:00 Intro10:31 What Happened With My Career?25:30 Why Don't I Do MORE Storytime Content?50:00 What Happened With Love (Nothing lol)53:41 What Happened With My Health?? 54:41 What Will Be Different in 2025??Selected Media Mentioned/Featured In This Video:youtu.be/0TFRa1a-PHQ?si=IW5Wfu_I1pYC-qKK (avoiding Black Trauma)youtu.be/D5FT99cwJH0?si=GET47NLDFwsJrS8x (Kiki Chanel vs Influencers)youtu.be/hCdUWCmGKXk?si=UJ0gMPABpG3Pdzvm (Hannah Alonzo vs Influencers)demetriallucas.comhelenaandrews.comBlack Influencers vs. Relatability https://passionfru.it/impossible-expectations-black-influencers-and-the-limitations-of-relatability-1281/
Lazy Girl Vlogmas Season 2 (The Season FINALE!!) Oh! Stephco 2024-12-26 | Fact: Vlogmas is supposed to be all 24 days of the Christmas season. Also a fact: In order for me to participate it had to be MUCH SHORTER. And so, Lazy Girl Vlogmas was born. I call it that not because I put no work into it, or just lay around for days, but because I am not doing this for 24 days, I'm taking the LAZY way out. But the gag is, it doesn't feel lazy lol. Anyway, here's the first episode in my take on a long honored youtube tradition.Thanks for watching :)
I Too, Was Insecure AF (Stories From My Life Inspired By The TV Show Insecure) Oh! Stephco 2024-12-24 | In 2023, I did a Storytime series on my Patreon titled "Inspired By".In this series, I would tell stories "Inspired By" media events, tiktok trends, and on occasion TV series and Films I watched. In that summer, I just so happened to watch Insecure for the first time EVER and I was BLOWN AWAY (Im so dramatic) by how many events and situations I could relate to from the show.From being left out of planning an important baby shower, to being ghosted by a guy named Nathan...it was honestly a spooky yet, cathartic experience.I recorded a lot of "Inspired By" epsidoes, but I wanted to share this one with my main youtube audience.Thanks for watching :)0:00 Intro/Explanation of 2023 WGA Strike/Effects On Content2:00 Story #1 Inspired By Tiffany Dubois Baby Shower Planning12:46 Story #2 Inspired By Children Mocking Natural Hair16:31 Story #3 Inspired By Nathan The Ghost21:11 Story #4 Inspired By Hollywood Forever
Lazy Girl Vlogmas Season 2 Episode 1: Mommys Here, New Hair, & WTF Happened To Blake Lively? Oh! Stephco 2024-12-23 | Fact: Vlogmas is supposed to be all 24 days of the Christmas season. Also a fact: In order for me to participate it had to be MUCH SHORTER. And so, Lazy Girl Vlogmas was born. I call it that not because I put no work into it, or just lay around for days, but because I am not doing this for 24 days, I'm taking the LAZY way out. But the gag is, it doesn't feel lazy lol. Anyway, here's the first episode in my take on a long honored youtube tradition.Thanks for watching :)
Im Dreaming of A Sexy Christmas (Just Like The One Chloe Bailey Is Coming To Know) Oh! Stephco 2024-12-20 | The recent sightings of singers Chloe Bailey and Burna Boy enjoying each other's company in his native Nigeria for Detty December have caused me to reflect on the sexy Christmas season I THOUGHT I'd be having this year. I also comment on the importance of experiences that might serve no other purpose in life other than to enforce a positive sense of self and provide you with some sweet memories. Short video, so no time stamps. Thanks for watching :)My terrible 2024 in Love Summarized: youtu.be/YEAEVMZa8tE
December 2024...Ho, Is You Cool? (The Answer Is No) Oh! Stephco 2024-12-18 | Seriously guys, wtf is happening this month? December 2024 is the craziest December that has ever December(ed) AND ITS NOT OVER YET. In this, my longest video ever, I attempt to explain a few things I've seen happen so far from my perspective. This is definitely a yap fest so...time stamps below!0:00 Intro 2:27: UHC CEO Assasination/Thoughts On Terrible American Healthcare System11:04 Jay-Z Allegations/Denial14:13 Blu Ivy Premiere Dress Uproar20:40 Disney Influencer Domonique Brown Dies26:07 The Tik Tok Ban Is Ridiculous And Shouldn't Happen41:50 Morgan Bailey FINALLY Escapes The RMFA50:52 Jackie Aina, The "Super 5" and The Caveat of Commentary Content
Not A Girlie, Not Yet An Auntie (An Honest Convo About Aging On The Internet) Oh! Stephco 2024-11-28 | Go to surfshark.com/stephco for 4 extra months of Surfshark at an unbeatable price!Hello! Just a little conversation about feeling stuck in the middle of just beginning your life, and being deeply settled into it. Any other middle aged people feel the same?Thanks for watching :)Intro: 00:03Auntie Opinions "I'm Not Old Enough To Be Here: 5:20Girlie Opinions "I'm Too Old For This" : 12:42What Am I? : 26:59
Soul Ties, Cancelled Flights, and Lusty Emails: The True Story of My Love Life In 2024 Oh! Stephco 2024-11-26 | Disclaimer: I'm Only Sharing This Because It Was a "Win"...Even if I ended up alone. I Didn't Compromise Myself Or My Standards And That Is A "Win"Well, as it turns out, THIS super single actually had something SUPER STUPID going on in her romantic life this year. But, if we never met up in person, and the love story never fully took off...does it count? I don't know.In this video, I talk about the long distance stress-u-ationship that held my attention for nearly all of 2024. I discuss what attracted me to this connection, what kept me coming back, and finally, what ended it once and for all.WARNING: This story will NOT be relatable for everyone. But, if you've ever had a "soul tie" with someone, you'll relate. If you've ever met someone at a low point in your life, you'll relate. If you've ever held onto something that's not "good for you" because it feels good and you hope that one day it might become good for you lol...you'll relate. And for everyone else...thanks for watching :)
The Ballad Of The Outsider: A Wicked Movie Review Oh! Stephco 2024-11-25 | Alright, it's been a week since I've seen this masterpiece and I have...feelings. Editing here is minimal so, let's treat it like a podcast! If you like lol. Thank you for watching :)
Laterras V. Lyler: A Controversial Conversation, An Empathetic Response (Dear Future Wifey Reaction) Oh! Stephco 2024-11-22 | Hello! Here are my thoughts on the Dear Future Wifey Interview with Tyler from Love is Blind Season 7. I was NOT going to watch this interview, I thought we were DONE with this season, but I decided to anyway and well, I have feelings. Now, I better not see nothing else about this man! If I do, I won't be talking about it. Thanks for watching :)
November 2024 Changed Everything, And Not For The Better. Oh! Stephco 2024-11-18 | Disclaimer: These are my thoughts about the 2024 Presidential election. In this video I talk about Kamala Harris's failed bid for the presidency, How I feel about undecided/uncommitted voters, Trump's plans for Palestine, The 4B movement...and more. By the way, I am not pleased with the results of this election and cannot pretend to be. I am afraid for the United States and the next for years will absolutely be a chaotic and wild ride. But ultimately, it's above me now.
I Was Wrong About (Almost) Everything (LIB 7 Reunion Reaction) Oh! Stephco 2024-10-31 | Not me still talking about this show. Oh well. In this video, I am giving my opinions about the LIB7 reunion. I've had unpopular opinions the whole season. After the reunion Ive realized that some were justified and some were just plain WRONG. Oh well, live and learn! Thanks for watching :)
How To Cope: When They Say Youre Too Much Oh! Stephco 2024-10-30 | In Defense of Marissa...and anyone else who has ever been told they are "too much". Time stamps below!!0:00 Intro/LIB Recap2:16 LIB/A League of Their Own Comparison4:48 Audiences Should Not See Everything6:09 Women's Emotions Are Not Respected8:36 Everything Does Not Need To Be Diagnosed16:28 Let's Talk About Being "Too Much"30:35 Coping... (Or at least What I do)
Our Long National Nightmare Is Over (Love Is Blind Season 7 Wedding Episode Reaction) Oh! Stephco 2024-10-24 | Ladies and Gentleman it has been my pleasure suffering through this dumpster fire of a season with you. However, we have finally reached the end. Here is my reaction to Love Is Blind Season 7 Episode 12 aka the wedding episode. Thanks for watching :)
I NEED TO TALK ABOUT THIS. Oh! Stephco 2024-10-22 | Last night, the good seester Jessie Woo teamed up with the chief Love Is Blind tea officer Storytime with Rikki and brought the Love Is Blind community the interview that Netflix WOULD NEVER.So this morning, I took a moment to ramble incoherently through my main takeways. Now, the interview was two hours long, and I haven't even drank my coffee. Expectations need to be low for this video lol.But here we are. Thank you for watching :)0:00 Intro3:20 My Feelings
I Need To Talk About Last Weekend (Love Is Blind Drama, Liam Payne Death, Beyonce!) Oh! Stephco 2024-10-22 | There was so much drama online this weekend I needed somewhere to talk about it. Enjoy this barely edited video where I discuss Love Is Blind Drama, Liam Payne's Death, and Beyonce (of course)00:54 Revisiting Love Is Blind (Tyler Baby Momma, Hannah & Nick, Marissa & Ramses)15:20 Liam Payne's Death22:42 Bey's BackArticles Mentioned:Hannah Drama: people.com/love-is-blind-hannah-jiles-talks-nick-dorka-breakup-being-demeaning-towards-him-exclusive-8729223Liam Payne: apnews.com/article/liam-payne-dies-one-direction-6b7893a56e0d8701096775f611399dd8
You Wont Agree With A Single Thing I Say! And Thats Fine! (LIB7 Episodes 10-11 reaction) Oh! Stephco 2024-10-17 | Ever see a movie, read a book, or hear a song and have a COMPLETELY different take than everyone else? Well, that's me with this season of Love is Blind!Things to know before watching this video:*I got copyright blocked when I tried to use LIB clips so this video is mainly me talking. Hopefully you have a photographic memory and you remember the scenes I’m talking about.*post show Hannah is not reading the room she seems obsessed with being seen as the best, which is dangerous.*Tim has released texts to show what he meant by Alex not responding to his communication. He needed effort she just wasn’t showing.*I said i don’t get helping energy from Alex at all. But we can’t ignore that Alex could also be dealing with other things in her life that impact her mental and emotional health. *If you agree with even one thing I say I’ll be so surprised :)
Well, Just As I Thought...TRASH (Love is Blind Season 7 Reaction) Oh! Stephco 2024-10-14 | This season stressed me out!!! But what's new?? In this video, I yap about my big takeaways from Love is Blind Season 7. Thanks for watching :)Tiktok tea source: tiktok.com/@storytimewithrikkii?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
Since Ive Been Gone... (Reacting to Recent Pop Culture Events) Oh! Stephco 2024-10-14 | Hello! Let's talk Beyonce #sheknowles, Halle and DDG, Kamala on Call Her Daddy & More! Time stamps below:Intro: 0:000:29 #Sheknowles27:41 Halle & DDG Breakup35:41 Kamala, Call Her Daddy & Trump Commenters41:49 Yung Filly Arrested
72 Hours In San Juan (A Solo Travel/Non Stop Yapping Vlog) Oh! Stephco 2024-09-25 | On the surface, this is a vlog about my solo trip to Puerto Rico, but tbh it's a collection of moments where I yapped so much, I'm surprised I didn't pass out.ANYWAY....Summer has been over for twenty four hours...it's officially Fall! I already shared this vlog on my Patreon and meant to post it here months ago...but i didn't. However, I still want to share my little trip I took to Puerto Rico in June of this year...so here it is!Editor's Note: Many times in the video I admit that I do not know NEARLY enough about Puerto Rico and wish I had done more homework before I traveled there. Right now, the Island is in a bit of Political turmoil and, so if you, like me, have very little idea about what is going on, what has gone on, and what will go on...please check out the sources below!Info on P.R.'S Relationship To The U.S.youtube.com/watch?v=Bx_o1PWHdLA&t=18syoutube.com/watch?v=Mk6JrUYLyWwInfo on P.R's Populationyoutube.com/watch?v=3RGqiGHWDrQyoutube.com/watch?v=EmcJMVJt6zo&t=157sInfo on P.R.'S best Attractionsyoutube.com/watch?v=9KFMOCS6c5EInfo on P.R'S Current Political Crisistiktok.com/@senoredison/video/7417897670896782623?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7373716860020360735Time Stamps:0:00 Intro/Getting There5:23 GRWM (Yap Session 1)16:24 Museo De San Juan, Casa Bacardi22:42 GRWM (Yap Session 2)26:36 Breakfast27:08 "Itis" (Yap Session 3)33:59 Pool Time!35:28 After The Pool (Yap Session 4)49:27 Last breakfast, Condado Beach, Del Morro
I Refuse To Date in My 40s! Unless... Oh! Stephco 2024-09-22 | Yes, you heard right. After a lifetime of broken hearts, bad timing, and love affairs that went nowhere I am officially swearing off dating for this entire decade!!! To be clear, that means no dating apps (even though I don't hate them), no activities where the goal is to meet someone romantically, and no participating in connections that might lead somewhere (but ultimately won't)I'm pretty set on this...but there is ONE thing that would change my mind! Time stamps below:0:00 Intro/Disclaimer 0:47 Explanation of "Woe Core"3:48 Why I SHOULDN'T Have Made This Video5:56 Reason 1(I Deserve A Break)23:02 Reason 2 (Dating Was Never Fun)26:21 Reason 3 (I Don't Want The Stress)31:34 Reason 4 (I Don't Know Where To Meet Ppl)34:23 Reason 5 (I Don't Want To Be A Burden)38:29 Reason 6 (I'm Not Interested In Sex)40:49 Reason 7 (I Have No Idea What Age People To Date)47:28 Reason 8 (Tired of Providing "Trauma Content" for my Friendships)53:37 No Dating UNLESS...
“Purpose Burnout”, Diddy The Demon, & Mediocre Men w/Mics Strike Again Oh! Stephco 2024-09-21 | It’s been a long time, I shouldn’t have left you, without a long, rambling somewhat coherent video to step to.0:00 "Purpose Burnout"22:58 Diddy the Diddling Demon43:38 Mediocre Men W/podcasts
Modern Dating Isnt Hard For Everyone.. And Thats Exactly The Problem Oh! Stephco 2024-06-17 | Modern dating might be terrible, but that isn't everyone's story. In this video, I discuss the reality of living in a society where dating might suck for you, but for someone else, everything comes together perfectly. Time steps below!0:00 Intro1:38 When It's Not Hard For Everyone...People Are Invalidated7:24 When It's Not Hard For Everyone...Good Advice Is Hard To Find14:07 When It's Not Hard For Everyone...It's Hard To Find People Who RelateMedia Mentioned:The Cut Article: tinyurl.com/thecutdatingSurvivorship Bias: thedecisionlab.com/biases/survivorship-biasExplosions In The Sky "Have You Passed Through This Night": youtube.com/watch?v=fPdcWom3DXU
Content Creators, Comparison & How To Avoid Crashing Out Oh! Stephco 2024-05-31 | Just a few of my thoughts about a little internet drama with popular tiktok creator Fannita that happened this week. Thanks for watching :)0:00 Intro/Babbling about Dating Apps and Run Clubs (again)9:00 Fannita Opinion Begins
Everyone Hates Dating Apps, Heres Why I Dont Oh! Stephco 2024-05-29 | This video is entirely too long...but I had opinions and personal anecdotes galore! You know how it goes. Lol. Anyway, time stamps below!0:00 Intro1:51 Why Did I Start Using Dating Apps?8:08 Life Off The Apps (My experience)12:21 I Am The Dating App Target Audience (Reason 1)13:52 I Am The Dating App Target Audience (Reason 2)16:51 I Am The Dating App Target Audience (Reason 3)24:35 I Am The Dating App Target Audience (Reason 4)27:57 The Main Reason I Will Keep The Apps28:26 The Battle of The Generations Strikes Again30:45 The Changes I want To See In The Dating App Industry38:30 Clutch (My App Idea)Media Mentioned:Time Article: time.com/6836033/gen-z-ditching-dating-appsNew York Times Article: nytimes.com/2024/03/14/style/gen-z-dating-apps.htmlGen Z Decentering Men Report: businessinsider.com/gen-z-women-abstaining-sex-celibacy-dating-hook-up-culture-2023-4Isiah Carey Bumble Report: youtube.com/watch?v=AmIhVyh5p5c&t=48sToday Show Hinge Report: youtube.com/watch?v=BV4GFvUYB04&t=10s"How To Use Tinder": youtube.com/watch?v=HEe1lbOUZ-kHere's My original "I Quit Dating Apps" Video From Three Years Ago... youtu.be/acRKHc2KiR4?si=k3YVjfzm7TemyGSL
I Just Turned 40…So I Went To Disney World! (Solo Disney Trip Vlog) Oh! Stephco 2024-05-24 | I finally went back to Disney World for the first time in twenty two years and a time was had! Thanks for watching :)
Since Ive Been Gone...(Reacting To Recent Pop Culture Events) Oh! Stephco 2024-05-22 | Long time no see! There's lots to discuss!00:28 Reacting To Diddy Abuse Video/Apology 13:10 Reacting To LIB Clay and Celina 20:12 Reacting To Simone Biles Confronting Social Media29:44 Reacting To The Black Wife Effect36:39 Reacting To Amanda Seales and Shannon Sharpe
Turning 40...The Good, The Bad, & The Ugly (Stephanies Version) Oh! Stephco 2024-04-07 | It's time to discuss a recent milestone in my life...turning 40! I've been forty for about a month now, and well, I have some notes. Especially when it comes to my identity as a content creator, a woman, and as an overall human being. For this video, I've divided that experience up into three segments: The good, the bad, and the ugly of it all. In true Stephanie fashion, I start with the low points, and end on a high note so...navigate yourself accordingly! Also, remember, this is my version of events...yours may differ greatly. And that's ok. Time stamps below!0:00 Intro2:26 "The Ugly"9:38 "The Bad"22:00 "The Good"Other Videos About 40...there's more where these came from!youtu.be/K3QNZZtw3KI?si=JN-K_TrKdAHjpJFMyoutu.be/XUn9VJhIIEw?si=eweRIhNBDQ9YacU0youtu.be/dWH7GF9-7Qo?si=utGZyhqjGtuT1-76youtu.be/_9DWRZy-eT4?si=lDhUZXCT-3JtLP9Eyoutu.be/4IJBYpQ8bFA?si=EYKy8_ea6GIfvr46
Its Been A Week...Lets Talk Cowboy Carter!!! Oh! Stephco 2024-04-05 | If you're not a Beyonce fan, you won't like this one...just a heads up!I love Cowboy Carter (who is surprised) so in this video, I break down why the album is so important to me, what my favorite songs are and more.Thanks for watching :)
Imma Let You Finish, But March 2024 Was The Most Chaotic Womens Month of All Time. Oh! Stephco 2024-04-02 | For a month that was supposed to celebrate Women, this past March was the most chaotic of all time. Well, maybe not of all time lol...but it was still a mess! Did your fave survive? Time stamps below...0:00 Intro1:23 Gypsy Rose Chaos7:38 Elyse Myers Chaos12:38 Jojo Chaos16:09 Girl's Trip Chaos22:08 Baby Mama Chaos26:21 Likeability Chaos30:17 JLO Chaos43:12 Jackie Aina Auntie Chaos51:13 Lizzo Chaos
Amanda Seales, Authenticity & Earning A Seat At The Table Oh! Stephco 2024-03-22 | When actress, writer, podcaster, and online personality Amanda Seales made the decision to express her entertainment industry woes earlier this week, the internet was listening. Soon, her observation that she isn't invited to award shows, included in celebratory luncheons or on the shortlist of other coveted opportunities went viral. Many have already weighed in, so here's my take on Amanda's complaint that the industry doesn't show her love. And what she can do, if anything, to change that. 0:00 Intro/My Third Youtube Anniversary5:54 Amanda's Rant/Woes8:57 Black Media Responds11:37 Who Gets To Be Unlikeable?13:43 Authenticity Might be Your Undoing19:29 Amanda lost Some Valuable Relationships23:57 For Creators, There are TWO Industries25:54 Wanting To Be Validated Is Normal27:20 Final ThoughtsChimdi's Take on Online Creator/Career Safety: youtube.com/watch?v=li8D28oHAjk&t=494s
This Is So Much Bigger Than Bad Photoshop Oh! Stephco 2024-03-18 | Just my thoughts on the photo event that broke the internet last week. Thanks for watching :)
Messy Until The Very End! (LIB 6 Reunion & End of Season Recap) Oh! Stephco 2024-03-17 | Time Stamps Below!0:00 Intro1:46 "Chart Talk" Breaking Down The Astrology of Sarah Ann/Matthew10:30 The Mess At The Beginning18:50 The Mess of JARAMEYE and Laura28:15 The Mess of A.D. and Clay42:26 The Mess of Jessica and Jimmy44:17 The Mess of Chelsea47:02 The Mess of Trevor48:59 The Mess of Jimmy50:50 The Mess of Brittany and Kenneth52:48 Final Thoughts.
Nevertheless, The Mess Persisted! (LIB 6 Episode 10-12 Recap) Oh! Stephco 2024-03-12 | Well...this is LATE. But, here are my thoughts for the latest episodes of Love Is Blind. Time Stamps Below!0:00 Intro1:22 The Mess At The Docks21:39 The Mess Before The Weddings34:10 The MESS of A.D. & Clay
WELP. This Is Some Mess (Love Is Blind Season 6 Episode 1-9 Recap) Oh! Stephco 2024-02-27 | I know the last episodes will be released....tomorrow, but I just got caught up! Here is my recap for the first part of the MESSIEST season of Love is Blind. Also, I Never learned the difference between Jimmy and Johnny's names so I call them both Jimmy-Johnny the entire video. I was frankly too stressed and overwhelmed by the actions of this cast to ever correct that mistake. Thank you for your understanding. Time stamps below!0:00 Intro3:44 The MESS That Happened In The Pods36:52 The MESS That Happened in The D.R.54:07 The MESS That Happened In Charlotte
Reesa Teesa, Storytelling, & The Art of Being Vulnerable Online Oh! Stephco 2024-02-21 | You know her story...all 50 parts of it. Reesa's Viral "Who TF Did I Marry" saga completely took over the internet this weekend, and I suspect, will transform social media, storytelling, and her life.So in this video, I want to specifically take a look at what her experience sharing her story with millions has taught me about the internet, vulnerability, and storytelling as a whole. 0:00 Intro5:37 My Reaction To Reesa's Viral Weekend/Desire to Study Her Success18:21 The First Key To Reesa's Success (She's a valuable and relatable narrator)21:47 The Second Key to Reesa's Success (Her story engendered massive amounts of compassion)25:50 The Third Key to Reesa's Success (Her story was verifiable and others corroborated the events)34:48 The Fourth Key to Reesa's Success (She was built for this)37:25 Final Thoughts
You Could Fail But, Oh Creative…What if You Fly? (The Drew Walls Story) Oh! Stephco 2024-02-15 | Thank you to Ritual for Sponsoring this video. Get 20% OFF your first month Go to ritual.com/ohstephco20 Have you heard of Drew Walls? Otherwise known as the “Target Run Guy?” Well, if not, and you have a few minutes, allow me to share his story. Drew started off like a lot of social media creators posting what he liked, and what he thought would help him build a lucrative brand. But soon, the internet’s response to his content made it seem as if he was doing something very wrong and his career was set to be a short lived failure. Luckily for Drew, thats not how his story ended. I think the way it actually unfolded is truly inspiring, so I wanted to take a moment and discuss it today. Thanks for watching :) *These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease.
Chit Chat & GRWM: Hair, Dating, & Desirability Oh! Stephco 2024-02-13 | Hello! I'm back with another GRWM and I promise this one won't be deleted! After my video on dating theories the other day, I feel that one in particular, the "hard wig/soft life" theory needs a little more examination. In this video, I'd like to specifically call Black women in so that we can be honest about how our hair affects our dating experiences, why some people might seek acceptance in other communities due to desirability issues based on hair appearance, and whether or not we should ever base our own success in love on someone else's story. Products and time stamps used in the video are listed below!0:00 Intro5:37 Let's Not Forget How Hair = Desirability 12:11 Does Natural Hair Make Interracial Dating Easier?17:06 Is Hard Wig/Soft Life Mean?18:46 Does Hard Wig/Soft Life Ostracize Black Women?21:43 Is Hard/Wig Soft Life...Pick Me Energy?23:48 Why Would I Take This Personal Topic On?25:38 Just Remember...Your Story is Your Story ✨❤️Primer: Topicals Sealed Active Scar PrimerConcealer: Fenty Prowear Concealer (shade 445)Foundation: Lancome Teinte Idole (shade 515 W)Eyebrow: Anastasia Beverly Hills (Pencil and Highlighter Crayon)Blush: Rare Beauty (Shade: Faith)Loose Baking Powder: Huda beauty (shade: Peach Pie)Powder Foundation: Fenty Powder Foundation (shade: 430)Lip Oil: Elf Lip Glow Reviver Lip Oil (shade Jam Session)Hair: amzn.to/42AZtJV (affliate link)
If Beyonce Teaches You ANYTHING , Let It Be This... Oh! Stephco 2024-02-13 | Look at me...feeling ✨inspired✨ again. It's not my fault though, Beyonce announced that The Renaissance Act 2 has begun and I. Am. Ready!! Call her what you want, but make sure you remember she's an icon. And as such, there's a lot ANYONE can learn from her career trajectory and choices. In this quick video I break down a few of those lessons. No time stamps because it's just a quick message. Thanks for watching :)
A Hard Wig Equals A Soft Life? Breaking Down The Internets Most Popular Theory of Love Oh! Stephco 2024-02-09 | The internet is filled with people trying to figure out the science behind finding the perfect match. And in that journey, many love "theories" have been proposed. I've already discussed the red nail theory, the red string theory, the orange peel theory and more. With Valentine's Day just around the corner, I thought I'd pop up again and talk about a few more love "theories" as seen on social media. I also wanted to have a candid conversation about some of my experiences testing these out. Time stamps below!0:00 Intro3:41 The Box Theory7:41 The Taxi Cab Theory11:52 Water Drop Theory (This one's mine!!!)13:36 Let's Talk Interracial Dating (My experience)19:24 Hard Wig/Soft Life Theory23:22 Let's Talk Interracial Dating Again! (My Experience Again!)29:58 Finding "Home" (The Home Theory?)The Box Theory: usatoday.com/story/life/health-wellness/2023/05/23/tinx-the-shift-box-theory-sex-advice/70236142007/#:~:text=As%20she%20describes%20it%2C%20the,nothing%20to%20do%20with%20her.%22The Taxi Cab Theory: purewow.com/wellness/taxi-cab-theory#:~:text=%E2%80%9CMen%20are%20like%20cabs%3B%20when,the%20one%20they'll%20marry.Irene Malin (hard wig/soft life) dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-12161253/Reality-star-Irene-Major-welcomes-NINTH-baby-oil-tycoon-husband.html
Sis, You Have To Keep Going (What it REALLY Takes To Achieve Your Dreams) Oh! Stephco 2024-02-07 | Been feeling INSPIRED lately. And how could you not? There's so much ✨possiblity✨ in the air. With artists like Victoria Monet finally being recognized by the recording academy after 15 years in the industry, it's time to take a look at what it really takes to cross the finish line and make your dreams come true, especially those dreams that don't happen overnight. Time stamps below!0:00 Intro (Grammy Review)1:28 Victoria's Victory5:31 The "COAT" of success13:41 The Other Black Girl...An Unlikely Story of Success18:22 Issa Interlude22:47 Final ThoughtsVictoria Monet Acceptance Speech: youtube.com/watch?v=k9GhN19eItE
Is Love On The Way This Year? Heres How To Know For Sure Oh! Stephco 2024-01-16 | You can never REALLY know when love is in the cards for you, but through the course of my life, and watching and learning from other's people's experiences, I've figured out some signs and events that inform me of when love just might be around the corner. Time stamps below!0:00 Intro2:56 First Sign That Love Is On The Way (Watch What's Happening In Your Community)8:33 Second Sign That Love Is On The Way (How Old Are You?)14:46 Third Sign That Love Is On The Way (Relationship Energy Theory)27:46 Fourth Sign That Love Is On The Way (You Feel a "Knowing")31:22 Fifth Sign That Love Is On the Way (You Feel The "Flow")
2024...Whats The Vibe SUPPOSED To Be? (Updated Numerology Prediction Video) Oh! Stephco 2024-01-15 | You asked...here it is! Remember, you have a personal year, and a universal year. I hope both are great!
By The Way, THIS Is How You Talk About Your Wife... Oh! Stephco 2023-12-30 | Mr. Simone Biles, may have missed the memo, but Mr. Kendall Taylor (Fantasia Barrino's husband) did not!
Lazy Girl Vlogmas Day 4: Cookies, Cocktails & Christmas Day Oh! Stephco 2023-12-26 | Look at your neighbor and say "We made it!" Lol. Thank you for coming along on this journey with me. Here's my last entry for vlogmas and my last vlog until 2024. It's LOONG lol. Anyway, Merry Christmas 🎄🎄🎄🎄✨0:00 Christmas Eve Intro8:01 Making/Eating Breakfast!9:24 Christmas Card Photoshoot12:38 Christmas Cocktail15:46 Christmas Cookies (For Sebastian)21:39 Roast Dinner Plans24:27 Trying The Cocktail/Settling Into Christmas Eve27:08 Christmas Morning! Unwrapping Gifts 30:44 Final Thoughts
Lazy Girl Vlogmas Day 3: Pictures W/Santa, Christmas Lights, Life Updates Oh! Stephco 2023-12-24 | A little late...but worth the wait (I hope). Time stamps below!0:00 Intro8:36 GRWM, Sweater Chronicles, Picture W/Santa14:37 Editing & Errands18:49 GRWM (again lol), Life Update, and Lights!
Wait a Minute...Whos The Prize??? Oh! Stephco 2023-12-22 | Taking a break from my holly jolly vlogmas posts to discuss this...nonsense. Time stamps below!!0:00 Intro/Thank you for watching Vlogmas!!2:24 What Was Said??9:41 I Wasn't Surprised Actually...15:08 The Podcast Hosts Handled It Well17:37 A Different Way of Looking At Things...19:35 Should Women Make The First Move? (No)22:36 So, Who's The Prize??Pivot Podcast Episode With Jonathan Owens: youtu.be/wmdb0RzvG7c?si=jzMGP-8xPaQB8pwq
Lazy Girl Vlogmas Day 2: Decorating, Shopping, & GRWM For A Date?? Oh! Stephco 2023-12-21 | There is...nothing...and I repeat nothing lazy about this little endeavor. This is, hands down, the hardest I've ever worked on youtube dot com. Time Stamps below!!0:00 Intro9:56 Shopping/Decorating13:27 A FRENZIED GRWM27:41 A Cute Little Date ❤️❤️❤️29:21 Final Thoughts
Lazy Girl Vlogmas Day 1: Morning Routine, Christmas Shopping & Youtube Reflections Oh! Stephco 2023-12-19 | Hey there! Trying something new for this holiday season! Is it good? I don't know, but it's here! I didn't do traditional vlogmas because I didn't really know what it was. When I found out I was like, "Oh no, that won't work. That's WAAAYYY too much." But doing it this way might be my answer. Anyway, I hope you enjoy my attempt at following a youtube trend. Time stamps below!0:00 Intro/ What is Lazy Girl Vlogmas?4:27 My "Morning Routine"6:24 A Little Christmas Shopping and A "Haul"17:15 Youtube Reflections "What Would I Do Different?"
Stories I Dont Mind Telling Episode 1: Middle School & The Hairpiece from Hell Oh! Stephco 2023-12-08 | Get a 7-day free trial and 25% off Blinkist Annual Premium by clicking here: bit.ly/OhStephcoDecember23A story I can get behind retelling...thank you for watching :)
