In this powerful episode of Your Life, Your Call – Let's Talk, I sit down with musician, author, entrepreneur, and recovery advocate Ezra Vancil to explore a journey through addiction, depression, divorce, identity loss, and ultimately, restoration.
Ezra shares how alcohol addiction nearly cost him everything, including his family, career, and sense of self, before one moment of clarity changed the course of his life forever. Thirteen years later, he reflects on rebuilding from the ground up, reconnecting with his family, creating music with his daughter, and discovering that true success comes from knowing who you are—not what you've achieved.
Together we explore:
🔹 Addiction, recovery, and second chances 🔹 The stories we tell ourselves that keep us stuck 🔹 Why labels can become prisons 🔹 The power of coaches, mentors, and support networks 🔹 Learning to sit with difficult emotions instead of escaping them 🔹 Creativity, music, and finding purpose after pain 🔹 Midlife reinvention and redefining success 🔹 Living in the present without losing sight of your vision 🔹 How silence and self-reflection can change your life
This is an honest conversation about healing, responsibility, creativity, and discovering who you are beneath the noise.
🎙️ Your Life, Your Call – Let's Talk Hosted by Stefan Lindberg-Jones (SLJ Coach)
From Addiction to Purpose | Ezra Vancil on Recovery, Identity & Rebuilding a Life You LoveYour Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-05-30 | What happens when the life you've built completely falls apart?
In this powerful episode of Your Life, Your Call – Let's Talk, I sit down with musician, author, entrepreneur, and recovery advocate Ezra Vancil to explore a journey through addiction, depression, divorce, identity loss, and ultimately, restoration.
Ezra shares how alcohol addiction nearly cost him everything, including his family, career, and sense of self, before one moment of clarity changed the course of his life forever. Thirteen years later, he reflects on rebuilding from the ground up, reconnecting with his family, creating music with his daughter, and discovering that true success comes from knowing who you are—not what you've achieved.
Together we explore:
🔹 Addiction, recovery, and second chances 🔹 The stories we tell ourselves that keep us stuck 🔹 Why labels can become prisons 🔹 The power of coaches, mentors, and support networks 🔹 Learning to sit with difficult emotions instead of escaping them 🔹 Creativity, music, and finding purpose after pain 🔹 Midlife reinvention and redefining success 🔹 Living in the present without losing sight of your vision 🔹 How silence and self-reflection can change your life
This is an honest conversation about healing, responsibility, creativity, and discovering who you are beneath the noise.
🎙️ Your Life, Your Call – Let's Talk Hosted by Stefan Lindberg-Jones (SLJ Coach)
In this conversation, an unexpected connection raises a much bigger question about relationships, timing and continuing with your own life.
Can you allow someone to matter without putting your own journey on hold?
More real conversations and shared wisdom: https://yourcall.life/library
Your thoughts. Your journey. Your call.
#YourLifeYourCall #WisdomConversation #RightPersonWrongTime #Relationships #ShortsRight Person, Wrong Time? | Wisdom ConversationYour Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-08-28 | What happens when you meet someone who feels right — but the circumstances don't?
In this Wisdom Conversation, a 24-year-old woman shares an unexpected connection with someone living in another country.
She wasn't looking for a relationship. The connection simply happened.
But distance, visas, different circumstances and their plans for the future made turning that connection into a life together difficult.
She describes it as:
“Right person, wrong time.”
Rather than trying to decide whether she should hold on or let go, the conversation turns towards her own journey.
She's about to graduate as a dentist. She has ambitions for her career and entrepreneurship. And she also knows that building a family is deeply important to her.
Perhaps the question isn't simply whether this person is the one.
Perhaps it's also:
Who am I becoming, and who do I want beside me on that journey?
Sometimes we don't need to force an answer immediately.
We can allow something to matter while continuing to live our own life, grow, and discover what we want.
A question to take with you:
Can I allow someone to matter to me without putting my own journey on hold?
This conversation is part of the Your Life, Your Call Wisdom Library — a growing collection of real conversations, experiences and shared wisdom that might help you see something in your own life a little differently.
🔗 Explore the Wisdom Library: https://yourcall.life/library
Photo by c k on UnsplashWhen Life Feels Like You’re Standing Still | Wisdom ConversationYour Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-08-28 | Have you ever looked at your life and thought:
Is this it?
You work. You come home. You follow the routine. From the outside, life may be functioning perfectly well — but inside, it can feel as though you're standing still.
In this Wisdom Conversation, a caller shares that exact feeling. She has studied, found work, exercised and tried to make positive changes, yet something still feels missing.
The conversation moves beyond simply trying to become busier or more productive and towards a different question:
What is all this for?
Sometimes we don't need another to-do list.
We need somewhere to go.
A direction that excites us. Something we're consciously choosing rather than simply continuing with the life we've become accustomed to.
And that doesn't mean having everything figured out.
It can begin by getting our thoughts out of our head, writing down what we actually want and noticing the internal voice that immediately tells us why it won't work.
A question to take with you:
If you stopped thinking about what you have to do each day, where would you actually like your life to be going?
This conversation is part of the Your Life, Your Call Wisdom Library — a growing collection of real conversations, experiences and shared wisdom that might help you see something in your own life a little differently.
🔗 Explore the Wisdom Library: https://yourcall.life/library
Your Life, Your Call A quiet place to think.
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#YourLifeYourCall #WisdomConversation #LifeDirection #PersonalGrowth #reflection Photo by Chalo Gallardo on UnsplashThe Depression That Brought Me to My Knees | Seth AllisonYour Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-06-30 | Depression doesn't always arrive quietly.
Sometimes it brings life to a complete stop.
In this powerful conversation, therapist Seth Allison shares the moment severe clinical depression brought him to his knees.
Unable to function, struggling with suicidal thoughts, and watching his marriage unravel, he reached a point where asking for help was no longer optional.
His story is a reminder that seeking support isn't weakness.
Sometimes it's the beginning of healing.
In this conversation:
🔹 Living with severe clinical depression
🔹 Suicidal thoughts and feeling unable to cope
🔹 Why asking for help became essential
🔹 The role of therapy, medication, and trauma work
🔹 How surrender became the first step toward recovery
If you're struggling, know that you don't have to face it alone.
🎥 Watch the full conversation on YouTube: https://lnkd.in/dYK9xn6S
#Depression #MentalHealth #HealingJourney #SethAllison #TraumaRecovery #EmotionalHealing #PersonalGrowth #MentalWellbeing #LifeCoaching #SLJCoach #YourLifeYourCall ► Website: sljcoach.com ► TikTok: tiktok.com/@sljcoach ► LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/sljcoachThe Car Cost Him a Fortune… Here’s What He’d Do InsteadYour Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-06-11 | If you could go back and give advice to your 16-year-old self, what would you say?
For franchise expert Greg Mohr, the answer is simple:
Skip the car. Buy the business.
In this powerful moment, Greg reflects on the difference between short-term gratification and long-term wealth, sharing the advice he wishes someone had given him when he was young.
A fascinating conversation about money, mindset, investing, delayed gratification, and the decisions that shape our future.
#GregMohr #FranchiseMaven #MoneyMindset #Investing #WealthBuilding #PersonalFinance #Entrepreneurship #BusinessOwner #SuccessMindset #FinancialFreedom #LifeLessons #DelayedGratification #MindsetShift #YourLifeYourCall #SLJCoach #BusinessGrowth #Leadership #PodcastClip #YouTube #SpotifyPodcastRetirement Isn’t The End. It’s Your Next Beginning.Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-06-10 | When most people think about retirement, they think it’s the end.
The end of work. The end of purpose. The end of being needed.
But what if retirement isn’t the end of your journey?
What if it’s the moment when decades of experience, lessons, wisdom, and resilience finally become your greatest asset?
You’ve spent a lifetime learning, growing, overcoming challenges, and building knowledge.
#MentorsAfterRetirement #Retirement #Purpose #Mentorship #LifeExperience #SecondAct #Legacy #PersonalGrowth #LifeAfterRetirement #RetireWithPurpose #Coaching #Wisdom #NewBeginnings #Entrepreneurship #GiveBack #MeaningfulWork #LifeLessons #RetirementPlanning #SeniorProfessionals #EncoreCareerYou’re Carrying Responsibilities That Aren’t Yours Anymore .Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-06-10 | What if the thing exhausting you isn’t your workload…
It’s the responsibilities you’re still carrying from a life that’s already moved on?
Old obligations. Old expectations. Old stories about who you think you need to be.
In this powerful reflection, Stefan explores why so many people continue carrying burdens that may have been relevant years ago—but no longer serve them today.
Growth isn’t always about adding more.
Sometimes it’s about putting something down.
#YourLifeYourCall #SLJCoach #PersonalGrowth #SelfDiscovery #MindsetShift #EmotionalHealing #SelfAwareness #LifeCoaching #Overthinking #MentalHealth #AuthenticLiving #LifeLessons #Purpose #GrowthMindset #LetGo #HealingJourney #InnerPeace #Transformation #TikTokClip #MotivationThe Best Advice Is Sometimes No Advice At All .Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-06-09 | We live in a world obsessed with giving advice.
But what if the answer isn’t another opinion?
What if what you really need is space?
Space to think. Space to breathe. Space to slow down long enough to hear yourself again.
Advice is easy.
Self-understanding is much harder.
But that’s where the real breakthroughs happen.
Sometimes the most powerful thing someone can give you isn’t an answer…
It’s the space to find your own.
#LifeCoaching #SelfDiscovery #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #MindsetShift #EmotionalIntelligence #InnerWisdom #MentalHealth #GrowthMindset #AuthenticLiving #LifeLessons #YourLifeYourCall #SLJCoach #Coaching #Reflection #Overthinking #Purpose #HealingJourney #Transformation #WisdomWordsWhy Successful People Talk About Their FailuresYour Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-06-08 | Most people hide their failures.
The most successful people learn from them.
In this clip, Stefan and Jeffrey discuss something rarely talked about in the region:
Failure is one of life's greatest teachers.
Every setback carries a lesson.
Every mistake carries experience.
And every failure gives someone else permission to keep going.
#Entrepreneurship #StartupLife #BusinessOwner #Leadership #Entrepreneur #MentalHealth #BusinessGrowth #WorkLifeBalance #FounderLife #MajlisMasters #JeffreyAsselstine #SLJCoach #Shorts #YouTubeShorts ► Website: sljcoach.com ► TikTok: tiktok.com/@sljcoach ► LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/sljcoachThe Hardest Part of Being a Solo EntrepreneurYour Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-06-08 | Everyone talks about the freedom of running your own business.
Very few talk about the loneliness.
In this clip, Jeffrey Asselstine shares one of the biggest challenges of entrepreneurship:
Having nobody to report to.
No boss. No board. No advisory committee.
Just you.
And while that sounds like freedom, it also means being responsible for your own accountability, growth, decisions, and direction.
#Entrepreneur #BusinessOwner #Leadership #StartupLife #Entrepreneurship #BusinessGrowth #MajlisMasters #JeffreyAsselstine #LeadershipDevelopment #BusinessMindset #SLJCoach #Shorts #YouTubeShorts ► Website: sljcoach.com ► TikTok: tiktok.com/@sljcoach ► LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/sljcoachWhy Every Entrepreneur Needs People Who Tell Them the TruthYour Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-06-08 | Success isn't a solo journey.
In this clip, Stefan and Jeffrey reflect on the real reason they created a mastermind group years ago:
Not for networking.
Not for sales.
But to have people who would walk beside them, challenge them, support them, and tell them the truth when they needed to hear it.
Because growth doesn't happen when everyone agrees with you.
#MajlisMasters #Entrepreneurship #Mastermind #Leadership #BusinessGrowth #EntrepreneurLife #PersonalGrowth #Mentorship #Accountability #BusinessOwner #JeffreyAsselstine #SLJCoach #Shorts #YouTubeShorts ► Website: sljcoach.com ► TikTok: tiktok.com/@sljcoach ► LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/sljcoachHow Do Leaders Stay Strong When Everything Feels Uncertain?Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-06-08 | When crisis hits, leaders don’t just carry their own worries.
They carry the concerns of their team, their family, their clients, and the future of the business.
In this powerful conversation, Jeffrey Asselstine reflects on the challenge of balancing business performance with genuine care for the people around you—and why leadership matters most during difficult times.
A thoughtful discussion on resilience, responsibility, and finding balance when life throws the unexpected your way.
🎙️ Majlis Masters with Stefan Lindberg-Jones & Jeffrey Asselstine
#MajlisMasters #JeffreyAsselstine #Leadership #BusinessLeadership #Entrepreneurship #LeadershipLessons #Resilience #BusinessGrowth #EmotionalIntelligence #LeadershipDevelopment #BusinessOwner #EntrepreneurLife #Mindset #PersonalGrowth #SLJCoach #QatarBusiness #SuccessMindset #PodcastClip #LeadershipUnderPressure #LifeLessonsThe Most Dangerous Success Is Someone Else’s Dream .Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-06-07 | What if the life you’re chasing isn’t actually yours?
Some people spend years climbing the mountain of success…
Only to reach the top and realise they were pursuing someone else’s definition of happiness.
The goal isn’t just achieving more.
The goal is making sure what you’re chasing truly belongs to you.
Because success without meaning can feel surprisingly empty.
#Success #Purpose #PersonalGrowth #MindsetShift #LifeLessons #SelfDiscovery #AuthenticLiving #YourLifeYourCall #SLJCoach #Motivation #LifeCoaching #Leadership #GrowthMindset #Fulfilment #SuccessMindset #DreamBig #PurposeDrivenLife #TikTokClips #Inspiration #WisdomWordsShe Quit the Fear, Not the JobYour Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-06-06 | What would you do if you truly trusted yourself?
In this powerful clip, Usha Nagrani explains why she’s never afraid to walk away from a job, change direction, or start again.
Not because life is guaranteed.
But because she believes in her ability to rebuild.
Many of us stay stuck because we’re making decisions from fear rather than faith in ourselves.
When you trust your own resilience, the world opens up in a completely different way.
#UshaNagrani #SelfBelief #Confidence #CareerGrowth #MindsetShift #PersonalGrowth #WomenInLeadership #Resilience #LifeLessons #AuthenticLiving #SuccessMindset #Motivation #Inspiration #YourLifeYourCall #LetsTalk #SLJCoach #Coaching #GrowthMindset #Fearless #NewBeginnings #Qatar #PodcastClip #YouTube #SpotifyPodcastThe Voice In Your Head Is Lying To YouYour Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-06-05 | What if the harshest voice you hear every day… isn’t actually you?
So many of us spend years criticizing ourselves, replaying mistakes, and carrying the weight of expectations that were never ours to begin with.
Sometimes the most important thing you can do is stop, put the phone down, step into nature, and listen deeply.
Not to the noise. Not to the criticism. But to yourself.
Because self-love isn’t about becoming someone else.
It’s about appreciating the journey you’ve already been on.
#SelfLove #HealingJourney #PersonalGrowth #MindsetShift #InnerPeace #SelfAwareness #MentalWellbeing #LifeCoaching #AuthenticLiving #YourLifeYourCall #LetsTalk #SLJCoach #TikTokLive #GrowthMindset #Reflection #NatureHeals #Overthinking #EmotionalHealing #Confidence #LifeLessonsThe Real Reason You’re Tired Isn’t What You Think .Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-06-04 | What if your exhaustion isn’t coming from work, stress, or lack of sleep?
What if it’s coming from carrying a version of yourself that no longer exists?
The relationship ended. The job changed. The children grew up. Life moved on.
Yet many of us continue wearing identities, responsibilities, and expectations that belonged to a different chapter of our lives.
No wonder we’re tired.
Sometimes healing isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about giving yourself permission to stop being who you no longer need to be.
🎙️ Your Life, Your Call, Let’s Talk with Stefan Lindberg-Jones
#YourLifeYourCall #LetsTalk #SLJCoach #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #LifeTransitions #AuthenticLiving #MindsetShift #EmotionalWellbeing #HealingJourney #BurnoutRecovery #InnerWork #LifeCoaching #GrowthMindset #MentalWellbeing #Qatar #TikTokLive #Transformation #Clarity #MoveForwardI Used to Read People… Then Use It Against ThemYour Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-06-03 | Most people think emotional intelligence is always a gift.
But what happens when you learn to read people so well that you use it as a weapon?
In this powerful conversation, John Mollura shares how his ability to understand people became a form of self-protection. Before he learned to connect, he learned to push people away—hurting them before they could hurt him.
A raw reflection on fear, vulnerability, emotional armour, and the journey from protection to connection.
#YourLifeYourCall #LetsTalk #JohnMollura #EmotionalIntelligence #SelfAwareness #HealingJourney #PersonalGrowth #MindsetShift #Vulnerability #LifeLessons #CoachingConversation #MentalWellbeing #AuthenticLiving #SLJCoach #PodcastClips #Leadership #Transformation #GrowthMindset #PodcastShortsYour Past Doesn’t Decide Your FutureYour Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-06-02 | You don’t need the perfect education. You don’t need the perfect background. And you certainly don’t need to come from privilege to create a different future.
Some of the most inspiring stories come from people who started in the toughest circumstances—rough neighborhoods, difficult environments, and challenges that could have easily defined their lives.
But they chose a different path.
The real power isn’t in the success itself.
It’s in the journey.
Because when someone shares how they overcame obstacles, doubt, and adversity, they give others permission to believe that their own story isn’t over yet.
Your background may explain where you started.
It does not determine where you finish.
💬 What’s one challenge you’ve overcome that made you stronger?
#SLJCoach #YourLifeYourCall #Inspiration #PersonalGrowth #SuccessMindset #OvercomingAdversity #LifeJourney #Motivation #Resilience #MindsetShift #Authenticity #NeverGiveUp #RealStories #GrowthMindset #BelieveInYourselfThe Voice in Your Head Might Not Be YoursYour Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-05-30 | What if the voice guiding your decisions isn’t actually your own?
Many of the beliefs, fears, expectations, and doubts we carry were inherited long before we had the chance to question them.
Parents. Teachers. Culture. Past experiences.
Over time, those voices can become so familiar that we mistake them for our own.
Perhaps self-discovery isn’t about finding yourself.
Perhaps it’s about noticing who you’ve been listening to all this time.
What voice is shaping your life today?
#SLJCoach #YourLifeYourCall #SelfAwareness #MindsetShift #PersonalGrowth #HealingJourney #InnerVoice #LifeCoaching #SelfDiscovery #Authenticity #ThoughtProvoking #TikTokCoach #MentalClarity #GrowthMindset #ReflectionRelationships Aren’t About Winning the Argument.Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-05-22 | “How do I convince her?” Maybe that’s the wrong question.
In this clip, we explore what happens when relationships stop becoming a tug of war and start becoming a space for understanding.
Sometimes the fear, resistance, or uncertainty we feel isn’t really about the situation in front of us — it’s connected to our past, our experiences, and the stories we carry inside us.
Real connection begins when both people become curious instead of defensive.
Not winners. Not losers. Just two people trying to understand each other honestly.
#Relationships #Communication #SelfAwareness #LifeCoach #SLJCoach #YourLifeYourCall #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalIntelligence #Mindset #Connection #Couples #Healing #TikTokLive #LifeJourneyYour Body Is Trying to Tell You Something… But Are You Listening?Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-05-19 | Most people listen to the noise in their head… Very few stop and listen to what their body is trying to say.
In this powerful moment, Leadership Coach Lionel Moses speaks about intuition, self-awareness, slowing down, and learning to truly listen to yourself before life forces you to.
Sometimes the delays, the exhaustion, the anxiety, and the resistance are not there to punish you… Maybe they’re trying to guide you.
🎧 Listen on Spotify: https://spotifycreators-web.app.link/e/3g89seFJg3b
#SelfAwareness #Mindset #PersonalGrowth #HealingJourney #Leadership #MentalHealth #Intuition #Meditation #Growth #LifeCoaching #LeadershipCoach #Purpose #YourLifeYourCall #SLJCoachYou Don’t Need Fixing. You Need Space.Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-05-15 | So many people are carrying thoughts, pressure, fear, and emotion without ever truly letting it out.
This clip is a reminder that sometimes the most powerful thing someone can give you is space. Space to breathe. Space to speak. Space to finally look at what you’ve been carrying for so long.
Your life is a journey, not just a list of problems to solve. And maybe it’s time to stop taking yourself for granted.
#LifeJourney #SelfAwareness #Healing #Mindset #PersonalGrowth #SLJCoach #YourLifeYourCall #LifeCoach #MentalClarity #Reflection #TikTokLive #EmotionalWellbeing #Growth #CoachingSpiritual Awakening in Business? | Purpose vs Intent with Tassos KotziasYour Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-05-14 | Can you build a business while going through a spiritual awakening?
In this powerful clip, Executive & Holistic Coach Tassos Kotzias opens up about transitioning from the corporate world into coaching, and how discovering a deeper intent completely changed the way he sees work, purpose, and life.
This conversation explores: • Spiritual awakening in business • Purpose vs intent • Internal motivation • Corporate life vs meaningful work • Becoming who you truly are
A deep and honest moment from Your Life, Your Call – Conversations with Stefan Lindberg-Jones.
#SpiritualAwakening #Purpose #Mindset #Coaching #PersonalGrowth #Leadership #Transformation #SLJCoach #YourLifeYourCall #PodcastStop Running. Start Positioning Yourself.Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-05-06 | When survival mode takes over, everything becomes urgent. You stop seeing clearly. You stop seeing yourself.
In this moment from the live, we talk about slowing down, stepping back from desperation, and recognising that your skills, experience, and connections may already be the bridge to your next opportunity.
The world is bigger than the company in front of you. Research. Connect. Learn from those who’ve already made the journey.
Sometimes the answer isn’t to run harder. It’s to move smarter.
#Mindset #CareerGrowth #LinkedIn #LifeCoach #SLJCoach #YourLifeYourCall #Confidence #PersonalGrowth #CareerAdvice #SelfAwareness #TikTokLive #Doha #Coaching #Transformation“You Made Me Mad”… Or Did You? | The Truth About Blame in RelationshipsYour Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-05-05 | “You made me mad.”
It sounds true in the moment. But what if it isn’t?
In this clip from Your Life, Your Call — Conversations, Andrea Dindinger breaks down something most of us never question:
👉 Blame is often just pain… looking for somewhere to go.
Instead of feeling what’s really underneath — fear, shame, hurt — we project it onto the person in front of us.
And just like that… the cycle continues.
In this conversation, we explore:
* Why we blame instead of feel * How emotional reactions get misdirected * The hidden patterns playing out in everyday moments * What it means to respond with awareness instead of reaction
This isn’t about fixing your partner. It’s about understanding what’s really happening inside you.
Because when you see that clearly… you stop repeating the same loop.
🎧 Listen on Spotify: https://spotifycreators-web.app.link/e/1kYgcdGlT2b
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🎙️ Your Life, Your Call — Let’s Talk A space to think.Trying to impress… is exactly what makes you forget who you are.Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-05-01 | In interviews, the moment you start performing, you stop being real. And if you’re not showing up as yourself, how can anyone truly know who they’re hiring?
The right opportunity isn’t about impressing. It’s about alignment.
Show them you.
#YourLifeYourCall #SLJCoach #InterviewTips #BeYourself #AuthenticityWins #CareerGrowth #MindsetShift #ConfidenceYou’re not stuck… you’re holding on.Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-04-30 | Thomas Thatcher shares a powerful truth most people avoid:
You don’t suffer because of others… you suffer because of what you won’t let go of.
Comparison. Validation. Approval. Control.
Like the monkey holding the banana — we stay trapped, not because we can’t leave… but because we refuse to release what’s keeping us there.
#lettinggo #mindsetshift #personalgrowth #selfawareness #lifelessons #healingjourney #innerwork #mentalfreedom #growthmindset #SLJCoachYou Want a New Life… But Do You Know the Vehicle You’re Driving?Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-04-20 | Most people focus on the destination. Very few take time to understand themselves first.
Your habits. Your energy. Your reactions. Your mindset. That’s the engine carrying you through life.
Before chasing the next goal… learn how you work.
#selfawareness #mindset #personalgrowth #motivation #lifecoach #mentalclarity #healingjourney #innerwork #growthmindset #SLJCoachAdvice isn’t listening.Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-04-18 | Advice isn’t listening.
The moment you jump in with advice… you’ve already stopped listening.
Not because you don’t care— but because you’ve left the conversation.
Sometimes people don’t need fixing. They need to feel heard.
#communication #relationships #listening #selfawareness #coachingNo matter your age… you need a plan.Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-04-17 | No matter where you are in life… you need a plan.
Not just the big things.
The small things:
* how you save * how you invest * how you protect yourself * how you communicate and negotiate
Because life isn’t predictable.
The question is — if something changes tomorrow… are you ready?
#lifeadvice #mindset #personalgrowth #selfawareness #financialliteracy #sljcoach #yourlifeyourcallEmpty Your MindYour Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-04-10 | Overthinking doesn’t stop on its own. It keeps spinning…
Until you empty it.
Write it down. Focus on now.
#overthinking #clarity #selfawareness #mindset #coachingPain Isn’t the Problem… It’s the SignalYour Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-04-09 | We spend our lives trying to avoid pain.
But what if pain isn’t the problem?
Depression. Illness. Boredom. They’re not random.
They’re signals.
Something beneath the surface is asking for your attention.
#selfawareness #personalgrowth #healing #mindset #innerwork #sljcoach #yourlifeyourcallYou’re Not in Control… Your Life Is on Autopilot.Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-04-07 | Most people think they’re making choices…
But they’re not.
They’re running on programming. From parents. From school. From society. From past experiences.
And before they even realise it… they’re living a life they didn’t consciously choose.
You’re sitting in the car… but your hands aren’t even on the wheel.
This is your moment to pause and ask: Am I actually driving my life… or just going along for the ride?
#SLJCoach #YourLifeYourCall #Autopilot #SelfAwareness #MindsetShift #PersonalGrowth #InnerWork #WakeUpCall #LifeCoaching #Clarity #TakeControl #ConsciousLivingYou’re Not Tired of Work… You’re Tired of Carrying Everyone.Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-04-06 | You’ve been trained well. Your standards are high.
But when you’re the only one holding them… you end up carrying everything.
At some point, you have to ask— is this actually yours to carry?
you’re not here to make yourself smaller just to fit into other people’s expectations.
In this moment, Dr Hanan shares what it means to let go of what was weighing her down — physically, mentally, and emotionally — and start showing up as her whole self.
#YourLifeYourCall #SelfAwareness #Growth #HealingJourney #MindsetYou don’t control people into staying.Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-04-04 | If you’re always trying to control the people around you… look at what it’s costing you.
Tension. Distance. People pulling away.
Then ask yourself— where did you learn that?
#selfawareness #relationships #emotionalintelligence #healing #personalgrowth #coaching #mindset #innerworkStop Trying to Sound Smart in InterviewsYour Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-03-31 | One of the biggest mistakes in interviews? Trying to sound more intelligent than you actually are.
When you force big, complicated words into your answers, you don’t come across as impressive — you come across as disconnected.
It creates pressure. It breaks your flow. And it makes it harder for people to understand who you really are.
Employers aren’t hiring vocabulary. They’re hiring someone they can work with.
Do your research. Understand the role. Then show up as yourself.
That’s what stands out.
#InterviewTips #JobSearch #Confidence #Communication #CareerAdvice #SLJCoachYou’re Not Lost — You’re Running Old ProgrammingYour Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-03-30 | You’re not broken. You’re running patterns shaped by your past.
Your childhood, environment, and experiences created the version of you that exists today… but that doesn’t mean it’s who you have to stay.
At some point, you realise: this isn’t me anymore.
That’s where change begins.
#shorts #selfawareness #mindset #personalgrowth #healing #innerwork #lifecoach #growth #clarity #yourlifeyourcallLoneliness turned into connection. Just like that.Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-03-28 | When you stop listening to the noise… and start listening to yourself.
Today on Live, we made a simple choice: Ignore the head for a moment… and follow the heart.
What started as a day of loneliness shifted into something else entirely—connection, conversation, and genuine joy.
The head will often keep you safe. But the heart is what brings you alive.
Question: Where in your life are you overthinking… when you already know what you feel?
#YourLifeYourCall #SLJCoach #LifeDecoder #FromLonelyToConnected #TrustYourself #LiveWithIntentionHow Will You Know They’re Your Soulmate? (If You Don’t Know Yourself)Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-03-27 | How will you recognise your soulmate… if you haven’t taken the time to understand your own soul?
In this moment from Your Life, Your Call, we explore a powerful truth: we often search for connection outside, while being disconnected within.
Waiting for the “right person” isn’t the problem. Not knowing yourself is.
When you slow down, create space, and truly listen… clarity begins to replace confusion.
Because real connection isn’t something you chase. It’s something you recognise.
If this resonates, sit with it. Don’t rush it.
#SLJCoach #YourLifeYourCall #Soulmate #SelfAwareness #PersonalGrowth #InnerWork #HealingJourney #MindsetShift #EmotionalWellbeing #Clarity #AuthenticLiving #LifeCoaching #RelationshipsYou’re Not Broken… You Just Haven’t Had Space to BreatheYour Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-03-25 | Most people don’t need fixing.
They just need space.
Space to pause… Space to think… Space to finally hear themselves without all the noise.
In a world where everyone is talking, advising, and telling you what to do… very few people actually give you the space to just be.
This moment is a reminder: sometimes the most powerful thing you can do… is slow down and breathe.
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If this resonates, don’t scroll past it. Sit with it for a moment.
#MindsetShift #SelfAwareness #MentalHealth #InnerWork #PersonalGrowth #LifeCoach #SLJCoach #YourLifeYourCall #Overthinking #BePresent #EmotionalWellbeingYour Mind Is Lying to You.Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-03-22 | Most of what you’re feeling right now… isn’t truth.
It’s your mind reacting.
Creating headlines. Creating fear. Filling in the gaps with worst-case scenarios.
I know what my head is like… and if you’re honest, you do too.
We don’t pause. We don’t question it. We just react to whatever shows up.
But you don’t have to.
Just breathe. Slow it down. Go for a walk.
Come back to what’s real… not what your mind is trying to convince you of.
#MindsetShift #Overthinking #AnxietyRelief #MentalClarity #SelfAwareness #EmotionalRegulation #InnerWork #BePresent #PersonalGrowth #LifeCoach #SLJCoach #YourLifeYourCall #TikTokLive #StressManagement #GroundYourself“I Was Crying in Bed… Now My Business Is Growing” | Real Coaching Moment #mindset #podcast #sljcoachYour Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2026-03-16 | Recorded live on TikTok on 16.03.26
A guest returned to the show to share what happened after our first conversation. When she first joined the live, she was exhausted, overwhelmed, and lying in bed wondering why everything felt so heavy.
But something shifted.
Instead of giving up, she decided to stand back up and move toward the life she wanted. Months later, she returned to share the result: her business is growing, she has a team around her, and she hasn’t given up since.
Sometimes the breakthrough isn’t complicated. It’s simply remembering who you really are.
This is what happens when someone reconnects with their own strength.
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That was the ego talking — the one that wanted to prove something. But fulfillment doesn’t come from proving. It comes from listening — to your heart.
When I finally did that, I found coaching. And for the first time… I felt whole.
#SLJCoach #YourLifeYourCall #Fulfillment #EgoToHeart #LifeCoach #MindsetShift #Purpose #Transformation #Authenticity #Healing #CoachingJourneyYou’re Not Lazy — You’re Just Tired of Living the Same Story.Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2025-10-29 | You’re not lazy. You’re just tired — tired of repeating the same story, living the same loop, carrying the same weight.
It’s not lack of motivation… it’s exhaustion from playing a role your soul has outgrown.
The moment you choose a new story — even a small shift — everything changes.
#SLJCoach #Mindset #Healing #Growth #Transformation #YourLifeYourCall #Clarity #Energy #Motivation #SelfAwareness #ChangeYourStoryWhen Your Mind Freaks Out: Stop Listening to the Noise and Start Listening to Your Heart.Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2025-10-28 | Ever notice how your mind sometimes freaks out? It starts replaying the old stories — “What a waste of time this journey’s been.” “Look who you used to be… and now you’re not.”
That voice gets loud. It wants control. It wants certainty. It wants the past to make sense.
But when that noise rises, pause. Take a few deep breaths. And gently say to that voice: “Hey… let’s take a break.”
Then turn inward — and start giving space to your heart. Because the heart doesn’t need proof, it just needs room to breathe.
#SLJCoach #MindsetReset #InnerPeace #Healing #Transformation #LetGo #SelfAwareness #PersonalGrowth #Mindfulness #Clarity #HeartOverEgoThe Real Reason You’re Stressed Today | Face It, Don’t Carry It Forward.Your Life, Your Call with Stefan Lindberg-Jones2025-10-27 | The stress you’re feeling today… is the result of what you didn’t face yesterday — or last week.
You kept pushing it down, hoping it would disappear. But stress doesn’t vanish — it compounds.
So instead of blaming today, ask yourself: “How can I show up better for myself next time?”