Matthew Hussey
Matthew McConaughey’s Dating Advice
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And How You Can Avoid “Relationship Limbo” Once and for All.
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Why is it that we seem to be attracted to certain people who only give us scraps of attention? It often happens when we tell ourselves that someone is so rare and desirable that they’re worth holding on to even if they don’t want the same things as us.
In today’s video, I’ll show you the trap that many people end up falling into, plus one key quality that results in more commitment. Whether you’re sick of superficial situationships or want to learn how to grow closer in your relationship, this is for you!
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Blog → matthewhussey.com/blog
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▼ Chapters ▼
0:00 – 1:35 – If You Want a Committed Relationship . . .
1:35 – 4:51 – Why We Lower Our Standards
4:51 – 6:45 – Chasing the Wrong Metrics
6:45 – 7:52 – What Drives Us
7:52 – 9:43 – Moving Beyond the Superficial
9:43 – 10:20 – Multiple Realities We Can Choose From
10:20 – 12:33 – The Quality That Results in More Commitment
12:33 – 14:04 – Discipline Begets Discipline
14:04 – 17:27 – An Evergreen Respect
If you're ready to take things to the next step with someone but you're not sure how to have the commitment conversation, I have a free masterclass happening virtually on October 22nd that you won't want to miss. In it, I'll give you the 3 core principles for getting the commitment you want without games or ultimatums. Head over to https://LoveLifeTraining.com now for all the details and to secure your spot for free.
While there are many positive reasons to take things slow when dating someone, there are 4 specific scenarios where “just seeing where something goes” can lead to heartbreak.
In the full video on my channel, I walk you through each situation so you can figure out where you stand and move things forward. The sooner you watch this, the faster you’ll know if a relationship actually has potential.
And if you're ready to take things to the next level with someone but you're not sure how to go about it, I have a virtual masterclass called Casual to Committed happening on October 22nd that you won't want to miss. Go to https://LoveLifeTraining.com now to secure your spot for free and learn the core principals to getting commitment without games or ultimatums.
Don’t miss my “From Casual to Committed” masterclass happening virtually on Tuesday, October 22, at 11 a.m. PT / 2 p.m. ET / 7 p.m. UK.
Learn the biggest reason why people struggle to get commitment (and how to avoid it without playing games).
Head over to https://LoveLifeTraining.com and sign up now
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Thank you, @lewishowes for this beautiful conversation.
#Shorts #DatingAdvice #LewisHowes #MatthewHussey
If you want to understand the biggest reasons why some people struggle to find commitment, I have a masterclass happening virtually on October 22nd that you won't want to miss. Go to LoveLifeTraining.com to secure your spot on the event for free.
#DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #MatthewHussey
And How You Can Avoid “Relationship Limbo” Once and for All.
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Have you struggled to find people who actually want commitment? Do you feel like you’re always trying to persuade someone why a relationship is a good thing?
Dating can feel harder than ever in 2024. In today’s video, I explain why so many people are anxious about commitment, give 3 different mindsets on commitment that can totally change someone’s perspective on it, and show what makes someone want commitment with YOU. (Spoiler alert: persuading has nothing to do with it!)
Directed by:
David Kirk
Starring:
Cayley Costello
Benjamin Rawls
Featuring:
Lucia Mária Lukaćková
Frank Carcamo
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▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼
Blog → matthewhussey.com/blog
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▼ Chapters ▼
0:00 – 2:03 – Is This the Hardest Time in History to Get Commitment?
2:03 – 3:32 – Scenario #1: “Everything Is Good Here” (Too Much Choice)
3:32 – 4:33 – Scenario #2: “Whatever You Like” (Uninspired)
4:33 – 6:10 – Scenario #3: “The Thing You HAVE to Get” (Certainty)
6:10 – 7:02 – How This Relates to Your Love Life
7:02 – 9:25 – Looking for Certainty and Safety
9:25 – 11:02 – Being Willing to Recommend Yourself
11:02 – 12:56 – What to Base Your Certainty on
12:56 – 14:13 – An Invitation
The good news is, you can heal. I had the enormous privilege of hosting world-renowned grief expert David Kessler at my Retreat in Florida this year. In the full video (linked), you’ll hear his profound advice for what it really takes to move on and truly heal from our biggest losses.
Join My FREE Masterclass: Casual to Committed LIVE on October 22
Save Your Spot Now at…
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#datingadvice #relationshipadvice #matthewhussey
If, like me, David’s work speaks to you, then don’t forget to grab a copy of his brand-new “Finding Meaning: The Sixth Stage of Grief” workbook by heading to GriefBook.com now.
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Have you ever found yourself in the “casual zone” with someone you’re dating . . . and it seems impossible to escape it? When it started, you were fine with them saying, “Let’s see how it goes,” but you soon found yourself stuck in limbo with all your friends asking if you were in a relationship . . .
While there are many positive reasons to take things slow when dating someone, there are 4 specific scenarios where “just seeing where something goes” can lead to heartbreak.
In today’s video, I walk you through each situation so you can figure out where you stand and move things forward. The sooner you watch this, the faster you’ll know if a relationship actually has potential.
►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼
Blog → matthewhussey.com/blog
Facebook → facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey
Instagram → instagram.com/thematthewhussey
Twitter → twitter.com/matthewhussey
▼ Chapters ▼
0:00 – 1:43 – Being Put in the “Casual Zone”
1:43 – 3:23 – Seeing Where Something Goes
3:23 – 5:40 – The Challenge of Simply Letting Things Unfold
5:40 – 7:40 – #1 When You’re Not Honest With Yourself
7:40 – 8:58 – #2 Saying “Let’s Just See Where It Goes” as a Strategy
8:58 – 11:34 – #3 Not Properly Assessing the Opportunity Cost
11:34 – 12:59 – #4 Using “Being Casual” as a Cover
12:59 – 15:27 – When It Becomes a Problem
15:27 – 17:43 – What Do You Relate to the Most?
It was absolutely incredible and I really don’t want you to miss it.
#Shorts #MatthewHussey #datingadvice #relationshipAdvice
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▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼
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▼ Connect with Esther ▼
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YouTube → @estherperel
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Try Out My Revolutionary New Tool, Matthew AI at . . .
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“Were we even on the same date?”
I’ve heard this more times than I can count when people feel frustrated that their date didn’t ask them many questions . . . or in some cases, any questions at all.
In today’s video, I talk about how to tell the difference between someone who’s self-absorbed vs. someone who is just oblivious but really is interested in learning more about you. I also give you two sample scripts you can use when you want to bring up the issue in a high-value and low-pressure way.
►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
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▼ Chapters ▼
0:00 – 1:57 – When People Don’t Ask Questions on Dates
1:57 – 3:17 – We Don’t Always Have to Fill the Silence
3:17 – 4:24 – “Were We on the Same Date?”
4:24 – 5:26 – Self-Absorbed or Just a Different Communication Style?
5:26 – 6:43 – What to Say in This Situation
6:43 – 7:53 – Taking the Microphone
7:53 – 9:40 – Communicating on a Different Level
9:40 – 11:44 – The Communication You Want to Have
11:44 – 13:18 – An Opportunity for Growth
13:18 – 15:22 – What Do You Have to Lose?
15:22 – 16:47 – Key Takeaways
→ amazon.com/Finding-Meaning-Workbook-Releasing-Remembering/dp/1962305295
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▼ Connect with David Kessler ▼
Get David's New Book → grief.com/sixth-stage-of-grief
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→ http://www.GriefBook.com
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I post new love life advice for you every weekend.
►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
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▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼
Blog → matthewhussey.com/blog
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X → https://x.com/matthewhussey
▼ Connect with David Kessler ▼
Get David's New Book → grief.com/sixth-stage-of-grief
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X → https://x.com/IamDavidKessler?
Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free at . . .
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I post new love life advice for you every weekend.
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►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼
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▼ Connect with Audrey ▼
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Why does dating feel so difficult today? It can often seem like it’s a competition to see who can be more “aloof,” who can care less, who can try the least. And when you put in actual effort, it can feel like it even turns people off!
Everyone seems to be looking for someone “rare and special,” but there’s a right way and a wrong way to approach this. In today’s video, I explore the #1 way to approach dating, advice for texting, and small-but-effective ways to move things forward.
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Blog → matthewhussey.com/blog
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▼ Chapters ▼
0:00 – 0:54 – Why Is Dating So Difficult Today?
0:54 – 2:28 – The Wrong Way to Date
2:28 – 3:47 – The Aloof Approach
3:47 – 6:04 – The Authentic (Awesome) Approach
6:04 – 7:51 – The Principle of Reciprocity
7:51 – 10:32 – What’s Missing in Dating Today
10:32 – 12:01 – All in the Context of Standards
12:01 – 13:09 – Injecting Some Life Into Texting
13:09 – 14:31 – How to Respond to “How Are You?”
14:31 – 16:17 – Little Moments That Move Things Forward
16:17 – 17:37 – What’s Your Question?
17:37 – 18:56 – How to Lead Rather Than Follow
18:56 – 20:28 – Making Others Feel Brave
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▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼
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▼ Connect with Audrey ▼
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And if your question doesn’t get answered by me today, you can still get detailed advice from me that’s tailored to your specific dating situation by going to AskMH.com. I’ll send you the link to ask your question and get the advice you need right away.
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So you like someone but they’re really bad at texting. Or they ONLY want to text and you can’t get them to have a real conversation when you’re apart. Is there anything you can do to move things forward?
In today’s video, I do something a little different. I break down a TikTok video where a woman gets increasingly frustrated with the “bare minimum” guy she’s dating as she reads through their texts. Then I share some different responses she could send to show more of her standards . . . to finally get out of texting limbo. Be sure to let me know your thoughts once you watch it!
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▼ Chapters ▼
0:00 – 1:42 – The “Bare Minimum” Texter (TikTok Video)
1:42 – 3:16 – When They’re MPI: Minimum Possible Investment
3:16 – 4:32 – Protecting Ourselves by Being Aloof
4:32 – 5:39 – Modeling the Behavior We Want to See
5:39 – 6:26 – When He Didn’t Answer the Phone
6:26 – 8:18 – The Opposite Effect of What We Want
8:18 – 11:02 – Inadvertently Enabling Their Behavior
11:02 – 12:03 – A Different Approach
12:03 – 14:42 – What If He Texts Instead of Calls?
14:42 – 16:32 – A New Tool
https://AskMH.com
A few days ago I went live to tell you about the incredible new tool I just released called Matthew AI, and I think it’s safe to say it blew all of our minds. So I thought it would be fun to take a few more questions and see what else Matthew AI has to say...
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Ever been dating someone who suddenly goes cold when they go on a trip out of town? What happened? And how should you respond to this behavior?
Today’s video is all about what happens when we invest too soon, and how someone’s “radio silence” can trigger our insecurity. I even provide two text messages you can send: one for if they reach back out to you when they’re back in town, and one for when they don’t.
BTW, don’t miss our HUGE announcement in this one (it’s right after Audrey’s cheeky cameo). ;) You’ll be one of the first people in the world to try this thing out . . . it’s crazy!
►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
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▼ Chapters ▼
0:00 – 1:12 – Overinvested in Early Dating
1:12 – 1:49 – What Dating Question Would You Ask Me?
1:49 – 2:49 – “When He Travels, I Rarely Hear From Him”
2:49 – 3:33 – “What Does It Mean?”
3:33 – 6:18 – “What Should I Do About It?”
6:18 – 8:20 – Tempering Importance and Expectation
8:20 – 10:25 – What to Say When He Gets Home and Reaches Out
10:25 – 12:18 – What to Say If He Returns and Doesn’t Text You First
12:18 – 15:38 – What I Would Say in YOUR Situation . . .
15:38 – 19:17 – Matthew AI Demo: A Revolutionary New Tool
19:17 – 21:32 – Your Turn
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“I’m always the person they date right before they find the person they marry . . .”
Sound familiar? It can be shocking to find out that someone who always held out on commitment suddenly decides they want marriage and children . . . but only after you break up.
At that point, you might be thinking: “Oh, so they were able to change . . . they just didn’t want to change with me.” So how can you recover from this feeling of not being chosen? In today’s video, I share 3 things you MUST know when you find yourself in this situation and can’t move on.
►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼
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▼ Chapters ▼
0:00 – 1:16 – They Changed for the Next Person but Not Me
1:16 – 2:32 – An Introduction
2:32 – 3:46 – What Could I Have Done Differently?
3:46 – 6:18 – #1 Don’t Assume the Change Is Real
6:18 – 8:22 – #2 If It Is Real, Then They Weren’t Your Audience
8:22 – 10:58 – #3 Are We Distracting Them From Our Value?
10:58 – 14:21 – A Brave Question
14:21 – 15:22 – If You’ve Made It This Far . . .
15:22 – 16:56 – Being the Hero of Your Own Story
Here’s the good news: There is a path out of this pain. In today’s video, I’ll show you 5 ways you can recover after (what you feel was) a love life mistake. Whether you’re mentally beating yourself up or just can’t seem to move on, I’ll show you how to feel better instantly, and what you can do when you see that person again. (Full video on my channel)
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▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼
Blog → howtogettheguy.com/blog
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▼ Connect with Audrey ▼
Instagram → bit.ly/AudreyHusseyIG
Maybe you’re holding off on happiness until you find a relationship, waiting to feel confident until you reach a career milestone, or postponing joy until you hit a health goal . . .
This is called the “arrival fallacy” and it tricks us into thinking life will begin WHEN . . . rather than recognizing that life is happening right now, in the middle.
If you’re ready to stop deferring your joy and start living your beautiful life, there’s still a small window of opportunity to join me in Florida for my Retreat, September 9-15. Head over to MHRetreat.com to learn more and secure one of the final spots.
#MatthewHussey #Happiness #LifeCoaching
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Do you have the heartbreaking feeling that you lost “The One”? Maybe you’re haunted by a mistake you made, or something you said, or just a feeling that you could have done something differently to save the relationship.
Here’s the good news: There is a path out of this pain. In today’s video, I’ll show you 5 ways you can recover after (what you feel was) a love life mistake. Whether you’re mentally beating yourself up or just can’t seem to move on, I’ll show you how to feel better instantly, and what you can do when you see that person again.
►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼
Blog → howtogettheguy.com/blog
Facebook → facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey
Instagram → instagram.com/thematthewhussey
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▼ Chapters ▼
0:00 – 2:23 – Haunted by a Past Mistake?
2:23 – 4:03 – “This One Moment Ruined Everything”
4:03 – 7:02 – How This Triggers Our Anxiety
7:02 – 10:22 – #1 Stop Shaming the Mistake
10:22 – 13:13 – #2 Do Not Simplify Life
13:13 – 17:25 – #3 Don’t Glorify the Person
17:25 – 20:44 – #4 You Paid the Pain Tax
20:44 – 26:04 – #5 The Strongest Message You Can Send
26:04 – 28:32 – A Preoccupation With Our Mistakes
28:32 – 30:13 – Join Me Live
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Maybe this will sound familiar: After a few bad dating experiences, you say to yourself, “My life is pretty awesome as it is, so why do I even want someone else disturbing my peace?”
The thought of not having to deal with the dating process may feel like a huge relief in that moment . . . but what actually happens when you decide not to put yourself out there anymore (when deep down, you still want to find love)?
In today’s new video, I share 5 ways you can get back into dating that won’t lead to burnout. You’ll see how to maintain your peace while also giving yourself permission to take small (or even big) swings in love. Don’t miss it!
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0:00 – 2:04 – Will Dating Mess With My Peace?
2:04 – 4:20 – How to Date While Guarding Your Peace
4:20 – 8:59 – #1 Comfort & Risk
8:59 – 9:40 – A Lesson From Bruce Springsteen
9:40 – 11:03 – #2 Building Peace
11:03 – 15:44 – “Robust” Wisdom From David Whyte
15:44 – 22:56 – #3 Go at a Pace You Can Sustain
22:56 – 27:36 – #4 Know How to Hit the Reset Button
27:36 – 28:42 – Other Amazing Worlds in Your Life
28:42 – 33:13 – #5 You Can Be “Happy Enough” Exactly Where You Are
33:13 – 34:35 – Venturing Out Into the World With Bold Standards
If you want to learn more ways to protect your peace from narcissistic abuse in relationships, check out the full video on my channel.
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Reflect on all you've overcome to be where you are today—it's incredible.
When I remind myself to look back at my journey, I think, "Wow, if I can overcome that, what else am I capable of?" It's a powerful realization.
Practicing self-compassion is an essential part of this process. Instead of comparing yourself to others, focus on your unique journey and achievements, because no two lives are the same, and everyone's battles are different. By truly recognizing your own struggles and victories, you can foster a deeper sense of self-worth.
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You may be about to go on a date and think to yourself, “Oof, I feel so nervous.” Or you get invited to a party and wince at the social anxiety of having to start conversations.
I get that this can feel scary—I’ve been there.
But it wasn’t until I was able to step out of my old mindset that I realized how much my shyness was holding me back. In today’s video, I share the #1 thing that helped me overcome my shyness . . . something that continues to give me confidence, and allows me to make a big impact in any room despite any nervousness. (Plus it’s something you can start doing today!)
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0:00 – 1:37 – Shyness and Social Anxiety
1:37 – 5:21 – My History With Shyness
5:21 – 6:12 – Spark & Connect
6:12 – 8:58 – How We Frame Our Shyness
8:58 – 12:03 – The Desire for Safety
12:03 – 13:45 – An Active Choice We Can Make
13:45 – 14:43 – Quick News Update
14:43 – 17:05 – The Power to Make Someone Feel at Home
17:05 – 18:41 – A Trigger to Change Your Next Social Interaction
18:41 – 20:03 – How to Get Out of Inward Thinking
20:03 – 23:59 – Story: How to Make Others Feel Brave
23:59 – 24:49 – When in Doubt . . .
24:49 – 25:50 – How to Give That Feeling to Yourself
25:50 – 28:01 – Key Takeaways + Join Us
I did a whole podcast episode on this, which I think you’re going to enjoy. Head over to Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen to your podcasts to check out the full episode. (Or click the link in my bio.)
In the comments, let me know if you found it useful ❤️
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Do you attract emotionally unavailable people? Or maybe you have a pattern of meeting good people and pushing them away because “something doesn’t feel right.”
If this sounds familiar, you may struggle to trust your own decisions when it comes to love. This often leads to us looking to others to validate our choices and tell us we’re doing the right thing (which can be dangerous for many reasons).
So how can you get out of this cycle? In today’s new video, I share 7 simple steps you can take to make better decisions in love and start building self-trust again.
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0:00 – 1:15 – Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People
1:15 – 2:36 – “How Can I Trust Myself?
2:36 – 5:12 – Letting External Sources Tell Us What Is Valuable
5:12 – 6:12 – Where Does This Even Come From?
6:12 – 7:44 – #1 Stop Giving Everyone Else So Much Credit
7:44 – 9:49 – #2 Don’t Let Friends Tell You What to Think
9:49 – 12:26 – #3 Know What You’re Optimizing for
12:26 – 14:44 – #4 Give Yourself Permission to Make Wrong Decisions
14:44 – 15:48 – #5 Start Building the Muscle in Small Ways
15:48 – 19:21 – #6 Leaning Into Something Can Make It Great
19:21 – 20:37 – “Love at First Sight”
20:37 – 25:28 – #7 Remember That People Take Their Cues From Us
25:28 – 26:20 – What to Say Next
Of course, this doesn‘t mean that everyone who‘s capable of doing this is a narcissist. But if someone is totally dismissive of your feelings after having hurt you, then even if they‘re not a narcissist, they are not a person who will ultimately make you happy . . . because to them, your feelings and the pain they have caused you are nothing.
If you want to learn more, check out the full video on my channel.
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Ps: Thank you @lewishowes , for having me on the Greatness podcast and for this amazing conversation 👊
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►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
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▼ Chapters ▼
0:00 – 1:34 – The True Signs of a Narcissist
1:34 – 4:00 – #1 They Can Be Great . . . Sometimes
4:00 – 7:05 – #2 Your Empathy Gets You Worse Treatment
7:05 – 11:16 – #3 They Are Able to Move on Impossibly Quickly
11:16 – 14:00 – #4 What Happens When They’re Caught Red-Handed
14:00 – 18:45 – #5 What They Do When You Need Them the Most
18:45 – 21:05 – #6 Their Emotion Comes From a Different Place
21:05 – 24:32 – #7 How Quickly They Can Discard You
24:32 – 25:10 – Some Good News for You
25:10 – 27:17 – Communicating Bold Standards


