How To Crush Any Interview Charisma on Command 2018-03-26 | Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:bit.ly/2RqfK1UHow To Crush Any InterviewThese are great tips on how to crush any interview to get the job! One of the moments in your life where you are absolutely going to want your confidence and your charisma to be on point is when you are sitting in an interview chair because when you've arrived there, they've decided that you have what it takes to get this job but you still have to show the person across from you that you're someone that they like, that they could work with, and that you can communicate the skills that make you a good fit which is why in this video I want to show you exactly how to prep for and crush any interview and that includes answering specific questions like, "Tell me about yourself? What's your greatest weakness and tell me about a time when..." so we're going to jump right into it; I got a lot to say. The first piece is on mindsets. The number one thing that screws people up when they get in interviews besides having not prepped, and you're here so congratulations for that, is that they just get tongue-tied — their confidence is gone — because they're putting so much pressure on the situation. And in order to alleviate this, what I recommend you do and that they do is to zoom out. Imagine yourself at 90 years old. You're looking back at your life. You see the successes, the failures, the happy moments, the sad ones, and I promise you, as you do that and you scan for the most pivotal moments in your life that we're hyper critical, you will not see the interview that you have coming up; there's no chance. It's just not going to crack something that absolutely changes the inevitable course of your life00:37 Your mindset during an interview will get you the job01:51 Preparation before an interview is another key to get that jobConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman
Elite Level Confidence: How To Stop Caring What Other People Think Charisma on Command 2023-11-06 | Join Over 18,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/47f6mBuSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeThe number one regret of people who are dying is "I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me."So let’s spend this video going through how you can do just that.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro1:00 - #1: Find your fire2:25 - #2: Create an inner circle3:10 - #3: Decide your core values4:47 - #4: Leave the validation casino7:09 - #5: Self acceptanceConnect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
How To KILL Your Fear (in 7 minutes) Charisma on Command 2023-10-23 | Join Over 18,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/CoC-FearOfRejectionVideo of Sam asking out 100 women to get over his fear of rejection:youtu.be/mC34TSXNKiY?si=7V2QT4JSu3Hxu-sdSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeFailure might delay your dreams, but fear will kill them. Because fear leads to inaction.So in today’s video, you’ll learn 7 tricks to help silence that voice in your head that fears rejection. That way you can go into any conversation with confidence, knowing you’ll feel completely unphased even if you do get rejected ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:23 - #1: You are not your first impression1:05 - #2: Rejection is inevitable. Shame is optional2:09 - #3: Life is a numbers game2:45 - #4: Amp up your carrot/stick motivation3:15 - #5: Rejections are good for you5:24 - #6: See rejection as a sign that you aren't a good match5:49 - #7: Focus on becoming the type of person who has optionsConnect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
Stop Being A Loner: Tips To Get A Thriving Social Life Charisma on Command 2023-10-09 | Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/CoC-FriendshipsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWe are in an epidemic of loneliness and it’s a real problem.Roughly half of adults report feeling socially disconnected, and science is showing loneliness is associated with a greater risk of dementia, stroke, depression, anxiety, and even has a similar risk of premature death as smoking up to 15 cigarettes a day. On the flip side, you’ve probably heard that you are an average of the five people you spend the most time with. That means with rare exceptions, your happiness and success are heavily dependent on who your friends are.So in today’s video, you’ll learn how to improve in each of the four main phases for making incredible friendships. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:40 - #1: How To Meet New People0:42 - Proximity1:06 - Join A Flock1:41 - Become A Beacon2:10 - Say Yes To Invitations2:20 - #2: How To Turn Them Into Friends2:40 - Focus On The Process3:22 - Bait For Shared Interests4:13 - #3: How To Make Your Friendships World Class4:36 - A Shared North Star6:04 - Being A Lifeline7:55 - Mutual Vulnerability9:32 - #4: How To Maintain Them For Decades9:37 - Constructive Conflict11:37 - The 5 To 1 Rule12:00 - Replace Jealousy With Joy13:41 - Expect And Embrace Change15:02 - Do you want great new friendships?How To Be Happier For The Rest Of Your Life:youtu.be/VTOO_9_ECA8?si=U_G6rMULINOQcEd_How To Make A Great Impression:youtu.be/NzVrmGjsGWo?si=qCLL0JRa4gT_MMjb youtu.be/zDEfjg6ylFA?si=-y5NNf_CskVrS4ZCConnect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
How To Charm People & Make Them Feel Incredible Charisma on Command 2023-09-25 | Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/CoCBradPittSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video, you’ll learn how to be extremely likable, whether you’re an energetic extrovert or a soft spoken introvert.We’ll cover how to make an amazing first impression AND how to turn that first impression into deep relationships with people that love and admire you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:11 - #1: Charismatic body language- Listening With Warm, Soft Eye Contact.- A Duchenne Smile.- Speaking Through A Smile.- Expansive Gestures.1:34 - #2: Capture attention- A Pre-Story Laugh.- A One Line Hook.2:54 - #3: Making someone feel good around you- Laugh When Someone Makes A Joke.- Adding A Light Platonic Touch And Compliment.- Be Universally Kind.- Playful Teasing.6:31 - #4: Be a shield in their shield wall-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #BradPitt--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
3 Stoic Rules For A Better Life Charisma on Command 2023-09-11 | Subscribe to get more videos like this:http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeThis video is about how to be happier for the rest of your life, starting today. We’re going to cover 3 common mindsets that lead to unhappiness. Most people don’t even realize they have these mindsets, or if they do, they don’t know how to stop them. We’ll also discuss some lessons from Stoicism so that you can feel more joy every day. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:16 - #1: Unmet desire4:12 - #2: Isolated upward comparison7:26 - #3: Expectations--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#Stoicism #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Links:“You Are Living The Dream Life” meditation:dynamic.wakingup.com/course/CO6B78897 Waking Up app free trial:wakingup.com/jayshetty Invisible People:youtube.com/@InvisiblePeopleSpecial Books By Special Kids:youtube.com/@SpecialBooksbySpecialKids Breathwork for internally generated peace and joy:youtu.be/hzwVp7W-ghM?si=SBpSlg1SGCJNBmpnCharisma University:charismaoncommand.com/c-university More Celebrities On Being Rich But Unhappy:youtu.be/0N19fJbA6GQ?si=jxW_pdLLPabefakRyoutu.be/6Fvmq638E3Y?si=q71eMer9csvRbEGEyoutu.be/KqtRTc3VYq4?si=jeHrLMenMrjlIhauyoutu.be/WrkT079iRYU?si=oVW1zJzop0p12FQOyoutu.be/1ebEIhS0Zms?si=pKULiWHkQBqOGF_v youtu.be/6RcrnuZg_Z4?si=cWR554On8WzNUlEF youtu.be/Xn9olk63hVE?si=u3og8q_PWrN-nnWHyoutu.be/IHJSWDSlie8?si=22tRnla-xdVpC445youtu.be/Zz5DHufWlCM?si=TGYXIF_PTtb1T9zDyoutu.be/OmWrqelCAJA?si=6Tg45Jum7sJl8G8u Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
Body Language Mistakes That Make People Like You Less Charisma on Command 2023-09-04 | Animation: zeino.tvJoin Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/CoC-ZeinoCharismaMistakesToday, we're delving into 5 pitfalls that can diminish your charisma, and what you should do instead, to steer clear of these mistakes. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - #1: Scanning the room0:27 - #2: Don't let someone interrupt while someone else is talking to you1:13 - #3: Trapping1:37 - #4: Communicating shame2:12 - #5: The eyebrow flash-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #Zeino--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
Words That Win: How To Instantly Influence Anyone (use ethically) Charisma on Command 2023-08-28 | Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/CoC-7TricksPersuasionSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeToday you’ll learn the art of persuasion. Specifically, 7 powerful principles that influence everyone’s decision making. Including your own.You’ll learn ethical ways you can apply these principles, AND just by being aware of them, you’ll now notice when someone uses them on you.I want to credit Robert Cialdini’s book Influence for first teaching me these. If you find today’s video interesting, you’ll definitely enjoy his book.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:16 - #1: Social proof2:38 - #2: Scarcity4:41 - #3: Consistency6:27 - #4: Reciprocity8:11 - #5: Authority9:53 - #6: Liking10:15 - #7: Risk Mitigation10:59 - Only persuade for genuine good.Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
6 Killer Jokes That Make People Obsessed With You Charisma on Command 2023-08-14 | Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/CoC-6JokesSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeToday you’ll learn 6 easy ways to make people laugh and love being around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - #1: Play dumb1:28 - #2: A sincerity fakeout2:14 - #3: The 3 point list3:07 - #4: Exaggerate so much it's impossible to take you seriously4:26 - #5: Elevate the other person5:39 - #6: Self deprecating humor8:03 - Learn how to form connections with anyone-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
6 Toxic Things You Do In Conversation Without Realizing Charisma on Command 2023-07-31 | Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/CoC-CharismaMistakesSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - #1: Bully banter1:53 - #2: Mocking someone's mistakes2:51 - #3: The negative Nancy4:23 - #4: Disrespectful distractions5:36 - #5: Repeatedly talking over someone7:32 - #6: Inauthenticity-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #AndrewSchulz #Fullsendpodcast--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
A Playful Trick To Never Be Boring In Conversation Charisma on Command 2023-07-17 | Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/CoCEmilyBluntSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video, we’ll go over 8 conversational habits that make people love being around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:04 - #1: The false completion technique1:40 - #2: Accept bids for connection2:53 - #3: Add a touch during conversational high points3:56 - #4: Friendly teasing5:17 - #5: Act out your characters6:14 - #6: Pause when you hear laughter6:42 - #7: Take a 3 second punchline pause7:17 - #8: Have go-to stories------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ #CharismaOnCommand #EmilyBlunt #CillianMurphy #Oppenheimer------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
How To Stop Being Boring In Conversation Charisma on Command 2023-07-03 | Join Over 16,500 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/CoCRyanGoslingSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video you’ll learn 6 habits that will make people love being around you. With examples from a celebrity that seems almost universally loved: Ryan Gosling.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:07 - #1: Have fun0:21 - Absurd analogies1:09 - The mind's eye method1:37 - Deadpan humor2:52 - The fake walkoff3:24 - #2: Tell funny embarrassing stories3:58 - Emphasize you're aware it was embarrassing4:59 - Call attention to your awkward moments5:51 - #3: Create authenticity6:36 - Compliment authenticity when you see it7:10 - #4: Make people feel good around you7:22 - Show that you like who they are8:06 - Combine the compliment with a joke8:58 - #5: Be playfully humble10:05 - #6: Self validation11:26 - How can you gain unshakable confidence?12:15 - The quickest way to build confidence-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #RyanGosling--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
8 Clear Signs Someone Is Gaslighting You (with examples) Charisma on Command 2023-06-19 | There are dangerous people in this world who will try to manipulate and control you.One tool they’ll use is gaslighting, a form of emotional abuse that makes you doubt your own reality. This lets them get away with things that most people wouldn’t tolerate in a relationship. So today you’ll learn 8 signs someone might be gaslighting you.One important thing to remember, gaslighting is a pattern. Especially with some of the more subtle signs from later in the video, seeing them once doesn’t necessarily mean you’re being gaslit. But be wary if you see these signs repeatedly. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:26 - #1: They attack your sanity0:53 - #2: They rewrite the past2:09 - #3: They minimize bad behavior3:01 - #4: They normalize bad behavior3:40 - #5: They use empathy hijacking4:35 - #6: They regularly deflect blame onto you5:59 - #7: They project their negative qualities onto you6:53 - #8: They make your emotional reaction the problem-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #gaslighting #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
10 Easy Ways To Make Sure No One Disrespects You Ever Charisma on Command 2023-06-05 | Join Over 16,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/CoC-Insults2023Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeToday we’ll go over how to handle it when someone insults you.We’ll start with a few comebacks that are great at winning over a crowd and embarrassing the person who insulted you. The downside is they can make the target of your comeback hate you.Then we’ll cover some friendlier, more charismatic responses so you come away looking cool and confident without making enemies. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:15 - #1: Use an Aikido insult0:42 - #2: Point out they're easy to dislike1:24 - #3: Use a Trojan Horse compliment1:52 - #4: Genuinely compliment the insult2:20 - #5: Assume positive intent3:13 - #6: Agree and exaggerate4:24 - #7: Be non-reactive4:33 - #8: Call out their behavior5:41 - #9: Just walk away6:06 - #10: Draw a boundary-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
4 Signs A Relationship Wont Last Charisma on Command 2023-05-22 | Join Over 16,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/CU-4HorsemenSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeDr. John Gottman has developed a model that can watch you talk to your partner and then predict with 90% accuracy if your relationship will end. He does this mostly by looking for four common communication mistakes.So today we’ll go over each one AND the four antidotes that can save your relationship if you or your partner have these bad habits. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:25 - #1: Criticism.3:04 - #2: Contempt.6:13 - #3: Defensiveness.8:08 - #4: Stonewalling.-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
How To Make Women Feel Great Around You Charisma on Command 2023-05-08 | Join Over 16,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/CU-JackHarlowSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video, you’ll learn 6 habits that instantly make you more attractive.We’ll do this by breaking down some clips of Jack Harlow, because he has an easy, authentic style of flirting that many women find extremely attractive.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:21 - #1: Approach without hesitation1:59 - #2: Assume good intent3:37 - #3: Use the push/pull method5:27 - #4: Be honest in situations where a lot of guys would lie6:12 - #5: Don't be desperate for a romantic connection6:57 - #6: Have standards beyond beauty--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#JackHarlow #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
Small Changes That Make A Huge Impact To Your Charisma Charisma on Command 2023-04-24 | Join Over 16,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/CU5CharismaTypesSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeThere are 5 personality types that people obsess over. And if you discover which one best matches your unique individual personality, you will be able to tap into the most confident and charismatic version of yourself. But you have to be aware that each type comes with a common pitfall that can wind up pushing people away. So in this video you’ll find the type that best suits you AND learn exactly what pitfalls you need to avoid. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:23 - #1: The funny type2:02 - #2: The energetic type3:36 - #3: The empathetic type4:59 - #4: The self-assured type6:14 - #5: The authentic type-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
8 Psychology Tricks That Make People Obsessed With You Charisma on Command 2023-04-10 | Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/CUPedroPascalSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video you’ll learn 8 habits that make people love being around you. With examples from a celebrity that seems almost universally loved: Pedro Pascal. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:07 - #1: Endearing embarrassment0:59 - #2: Play laugh tag1:54 - #3: Speak in hyperbole2:40 - #4: The fake narcissist joke3:47 - #5: Say this out loud4:10 - #6: Pass the conversational spotlight5:01 - #7: Use a hook that builds curiousity5:54 - #8: Use go to stories-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #PedroPascal #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
How To Always Have Something Funny To Say Charisma on Command 2023-03-27 | Check out our new show, Improv & Dragons:bit.ly/ImprovAndDragonsClick here to level up your charisma:bit.ly/CUBrennanLeeImprov comedians have some of the fastest wit. Getting to that speed is tough, but you can implement just a few basic habits to make people think you’re much wittier in normal conversation. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:36 - #1: Purposely misinterpret2:31 - #2: Create improv scenes5:47 - #3: Lower your filter-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #BrennanLeeMulligan #RussellBrand #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
Energizing Questions: Look Charming Without Saying Much Charisma on Command 2023-03-13 | Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/CUChrisPineSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeSome people mistakenly think that to be charismatic you have to be loud and energetic all the time, but that isn’t true. So today you’ll learn 7 tricks to be charismatic and make a great first impression even if you’re quiet. We’ll do this by breaking down some clips of Chris Pine, since he’s both soft spoken and incredibly likable. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:13 - #1: Active speaking1:14 - #2: Smile with your eyes & speak through a smile2:21 - #3: Take advantage of first minute bias3:17 - #4: Be a likable listener who laughs easily4:30 - #5: Show your genuine emotional reaction5:18 - #6: Ask energizing questions6:10 - #7: Raise your voice to recapture attention--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#ChrisPine #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
Overthinking Everything? Here’s How To Find Peace Charisma on Command 2023-02-27 | Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/AnxietyOverthinkingSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video you’ll learn 5 techniques to immediately reduce anxiety and stop overthinking. Then we’ll cover 5 mindset shifts that let you instantly feel more confident. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:08 - Technique #1: Use your body0:43 - Technique #2: Use breathing techniques1:32 - Technique #3: The Snap Method2:24 - Technique #4: Gratitude Anchoring4:19 - Technique #5: Own it with a smile5:00 - Mindset #1: Accept your anxiety6:30 - Mindset #2: Shift from an outcome mindset to a process mindset7:20 - Mindset #3: Be willing to polarize7:48 - Mindset #4: Reframe the situation8:26 - Mindset #5: Focus on getting options-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
How To Build Quiet Confidence That Commands Authority Charisma on Command 2023-02-13 | Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/CoCShelby2023Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeTommy Shelby is stone cold confident and seemingly fearless.So in this video we're going to break down what you can learn from him to be confident in high pressure situations in your own life. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:18 - #1: Don't overreact in situations of extreme pressure1:13 - Exposure therapy1:51 - #2: Use state breaking questions3:57 - #3: Align your needs with the other person's4:25 - #4: View the world from their perspective5:54 - #5: Give both the carrot and the stick7:42 - #6: Turn trash into resources9:19 - Ask yourself this question9:30 - How do I build social power quickly?-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TommyShelby #PeakyBlinders #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
6 toxic things you do in conversations without realizing Charisma on Command 2023-01-30 | Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/CoCLowStatusHabitsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video we’re going to show you 6 unattractive habits that instantly make it look like you lack confidence. And what you can do instead to command more respect in your conversations.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:07 - #1: Avoidant body language1:31 - #2: Talking tentatively3:40 - #3: Asking first instinct questions4:50 - #4: Retreating after a miss6:30 - #5: Injecting an unnecessary brag into conversation7:56 - #6: Prioritizing being agreeable over being true to yourself-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
How To Protect Yourself From Dark Persuasion Tactics Charisma on Command 2023-01-16 | Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/CoCLoganNarcissismSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeNarcissistic and manipulative behavior can wind up destroying your life, and it can be tough to spot, especially when it’s coming from someone you trust.So in this video you’ll learn 5 red flags that you’re being narcissistically manipulated. You can also use these as signs that you’ve slipped into narcissistic tendencies yourself, so you can cut them out before damaging your relationships.We’ll be using Logan Paul’s reaction to Coffeezilla calling out his cryptozoo project for examples.Links:youtube.com/watch?v=8-fugWMBwCg&t=1s&ab_channel=Coffeezillayoutube.com/watch?v=Evs2Hcn3nMY&ab_channel=IMPAULSIVEyoutube.com/watch?v=viiuS8bOuGE⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:50 - Red Flag 1: Morphing critisism.2:15 - Red Flag 2: Spending more time on their feelings than yours.4:17 - Red Flag 3: Repeatedly insisting on having good intentions.5:20 - Red Flag 4: Projecting badness onto those poking at their self-image.6:14 - Red Flag 5: Narcissistic rage.7:08 - Final Point: Narcissism is not excessive self-love. It’s a lack of self-love.-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #LoganPaul #Coffeezilla #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
The Fastest Way To Make Any Conversation More Fun Charisma on Command 2023-01-02 | Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/CoCGervaisReynoldsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video, we’ll break down some jokes from Ryan Reynolds and Ricky Gervais so you can learn how to make people laugh and love being around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:22 - #1: The Sincerity Fakeout1:44 - #2: Say the opposite2:06 - #3: Use an absurd answer2:49 - #4: Create a ridiculous mental image5:58 - #5: Tease something that's unlikely an insecurity-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #RickyGervais #RyanReynolds #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
Question Cutting: The Habit That Makes People Instantly Like You Less Charisma on Command 2022-12-12 | Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/CoCCharismaMistakesSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video we’re going to show you 7 bad charisma habits that will consistently make people dislike you.By becoming aware of these mistakes, you can hopefully avoid making them.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:08 - #1: Vulnerability Dropping0:55 - #2: Conversational Narcissism2:14 - #3: Question Cutting3:17 - #4: Trampling Boundaries5:22 - #5: Teasing Sensitive Topics6:42 - #6: Giving Unsolicited Advice7:42 - #7: Instant Aggression-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
If A Conversation Gets Boring, Play The Opposite Game Charisma on Command 2022-11-28 | Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/CoCSmallTalkSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWe’ve all been stuck in an awkward conversation that feels forced or boring. You want the person to like you, but you have no idea what to say. So in today’s video, we’ll go over five habits that instantly make conversation more fun and help you connect with anyone.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:11 - #1: Set a playful tone early in the interaction2:31 - #2: Give a genuine friendly compliment4:25 - #3: Share your imperfections (without shame)5:42 - #4: Ask open-ended questions6:37 - #5: Be a likeable listener-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
If you want to calm an aggressive person, use these 3 words Charisma on Command 2022-11-14 | Please consider donating to Charity: Water. Donating $40 gives someone access to clean water for 10 years. You can read more about the campaign and donate here: charitywater.org/charismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeYe has been doing interviews recently, and they have not all gone well :-)It’s not uncommon for someone to get frustrated in a disagreement. What’s rare is for you to argue with someone and have them walk away liking you MORE afterwards.But that’s exactly what happened in a conversation between Ye and Lex Friedman.So in today’s video, we’ll break down that conversation to show you 8 tips to change someone’s mind AND have them love you for it.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:25 - First Mistake: Transitioning away from a topic without first listening0:55 - Second Mistake: Cutting someone off1:22 - #1: Listen deeply and make the other person feel heard2:25 - #2: Use a calm, slow voice4:00 - #3: Criticize specific behavior4:48 - #4: When you agree on something, tell them5:39 - #5: Express empathy6:23 - #6: Be vulnerable when you feel a negative emotion7:29 - #7: Accept playful breaks8:18 - #8: Give them a reputation they like and want to live up to10:35 - Help us make the world a better place-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Ye #kanyewest #lexfridman #charismaoncommand --------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
4 AWFUL Habits That Make People Disrespect You Charisma on Command 2022-11-07 | Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/3UCIrpgSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeThere is a way of gaining respect and power that is not about projecting strength, but the truth of who you ARE So in this video we’ll be using Viserys Targaryen's dinner speech to show how you can influence effortlessly and command respect you for who you truly are. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:28 - Force1:00 - Manipulation3:44 - True power4:35 - #1: Share the complexity of your emotional truth5:04 - #2: Own clearly when you're asking someone else to behave in a way that makes you feel better6:06 - #3: Power is most effective when it's consistent6:51 - #4: Don't pretend your demands are requests7:34 - How to stop confusing demands and requests10:41 - How to build social power quickly-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #HouseOfTheDragon #DaemonTargaryen #ViserysTargaryen--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
8 Early Signs That Someone Dislikes What Youre Saying Charisma on Command 2022-10-31 | Get "How To Win Friends And Influence People" from Audible today! New members can try it free for 30 days. Visit audible.com/charisma or text charisma to 500-500.Check out Logan:youtube.com/c/ObserveWithLoganJoin Over 14000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/3SS8vvzSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWe've all accidentally blown it in a conversation that we really wanted to go well. But that doesn't mean there wasn't potential for a good connection. Sometimes it just means you two talked about the wrong things :-) Luckily, if you learn to detect the subtle signs of dislike EARLY in a conversation, you can change topics and potentially save the relationship. Today’s video was a collab with body language expert Logan from the YouTube channel Observe. Thanks Logan for helping spot these 8 subtle signs that someone dislikes a conversation. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:23 - #1: Their feet point away from you0:37 - #2: They cross their leg1:41 - #3: They're leaning sideways0:47 - #4: Their torso is twisting away from you2:03 - #5: Look for self-soothing gestures3:00 - #6: Look out for compressed lips3:24 - #7: Watch for a fake smile3:38 - #8: Their eyes narrow after you've said something-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
How To Effortlessly Defend Yourself In Any Argument Charisma on Command 2022-10-17 | Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/3s2AptWSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWe’ve all had conversations that started out friendly, then suddenly turned into an argument that made us feel attacked. The other person twists your words and uses little tricks to try to make you look dumb.So today we’re going to break down a conversation just like that between Andrew Tate and Piers Morgan, to show you how to defend yourself in any argument, even if the other person is determined to make you look bad. This video is NOT endorsing either of these people, it’s simply an analysis to teach you the tactics some people use to assert dominance in an argument. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:30 - #1: Spot when they enter "fight mode"1:14 - #2: Watch for misquoting2:49 - #3: Beware of derailing interruptions4:41 - #4: Don't steamroll concessions5:57 - #5: Catch any logic gaps7:34 - #6: Draw a conversational boundary8:39 - #7: Acknowledge any common ground9:40 - #8: Give yourself permission to change your mind10:30 - Improve your confidence-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #AndrewTate #PiersMorgan #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
7 Killer Jokes That Make People Love Being Around You Charisma on Command 2022-10-10 | Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/3enzzEQSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeToday you’re going to learn 7 easy ways to make people laugh and love being around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:26 - #1: Say the opposite0:51 - #2: Use looney tunes logic1:44 - #3: Double down on your joke2:59 - #4: Double down on someone else's joke4:43 - #5: Use the reverse defense5:40 - #6: Use the fake out method6:19 - #7: Use go to jokes7:35 - Find your personality and charisma style-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #RyanReynolds #CraigFerguson--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
4 Habits To Get People To Respect You (Avoid Being A Pushover) Charisma on Command 2022-09-26 | Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/CoCWalterWhiteSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeBreaking Bad has one of the best character transformations in TV history. We watch Walter White go from a weak-looking pushover to a powerful presence who commands respect.While you definitely don’t want to be like Walt in every way, there are 4 habits you can learn from him to look AND feel extremely confident in any situation.And even though Breaking Bad is a scripted TV show, all the psychology covered in today’s video will apply to your actual life.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:29 - #1: Adjust your body language2:18 - #2: Speak slowly and uses pauses3:12 - #3: Build stoic courage5:23 - #4: Be irreplaceable--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#WalterWhite #BreakingBad #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
If You Want To Be Attractive, Follow “The Anchor Rule” Charisma on Command 2022-09-12 | Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/3qwGWvWSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeMatthew McConaughey gives off an almost effortless feeling of being cool. So today we’ll break down some of the habits that make him so charismatic and how you can incorporate them into your own life.And it’s worth noting, while Matthew McConaughey is very handsome, his confidence and charisma can apply to you no matter what you look like.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:15 - Set the mood0:17 - #1: Move slowly and don't rush when speaking0:52 - #2: Greet everyone around you1:48 - #3: Make yourself comfortable2:29 - #4: Stay anchored to yourself3:20 - Be a magnetic storyteller3:39 - #1: Use a good preframe4:37 - #2: Share your emotional experience5:00 - #3: Act out your characters6:35 - #4: Tell the story with your hands6:52 - #5: Tell your stories in the present tense7:48 - How to put this to practice--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#McConaughey #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
4 Social Skills To Be Charming If You’re Quiet Charisma on Command 2022-08-29 | Join Over 13,000+ Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/3CzfIMySubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIf you’re an introvert, you may think that you’re destined to suffer socially. But one of today's MOST popular celebrities is a self-proclaimed introvert.Even more amazing, Zendaya captivates people without pretending to be extroverted, which can feel exhausting and fake.So today, you’ll learn 4 easy tricks to be charming as an introvert, without changing your personality.Our writing assistant and resident introvert Hadley will walk you through them. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:23 - #1: Front load your enthusiasm1:07 - #2: Use hand signals to capture attention2:00 - #3: Speak through a smile2:26 - #4: Listen with the intention of laughing-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Zendaya #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
The Perfect Comeback To Any Insult Charisma on Command 2022-08-15 | Join Over 13,000+ Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/3SOo6gTSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeToday we’ll go over how to handle it when someone insults you.We’ll start with a couple classic “destroy” comebacks. These are great at winning over an audience and embarrassing the person who insulted you. Be warned though, they may make the target of your comeback hate you.Then we’ll cover some friendlier, more charismatic responses so that you come away looking cool and confident without making enemies. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:17 - #1: The high status reframe1:40 - #2: Accept the insult and use it against them2:54 - #3: Insult the insult3:27 - #4: Draw a boundary4:31 - #5: The "tit for tat" or "eye for an eye" method6:25 - #6: Show that you're unaffected8:18 - How do I build deep, unshakable confidence?Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
How Attractive Men Start Conversations With Women Charisma on Command 2022-08-01 | Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/3ORkd7DSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video we’ll go through common mistakes men make when talking to women they’re attracted to. And what you can do instead to stop being boring and immediately be more attractive.We’ll do this by breaking down some clips of Craig Ferguson.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:25 - #1: Stop thinking of conversation as an exchange of information2:13 - #2: Stop being excited about everything she says5:06 - #3: Create an environment where women feel safe being flirty and sexual-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CraigFerguson #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
5 Signs That She Might Be Flirting With You Charisma on Command 2022-07-18 | Join Over 13,000+ Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/3OcPZM6Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn this video we’ll go through the 5 female body language cues of attraction. These are what you should be on the lookout for to see if a woman is intrigued, interested or attracted to you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:12 - #1: Look for the Marilyn0:53 - #2: She crosses into your intimate zone2:10 - #3: The direction her toes are pointed2:52 - #4: Look for a "touch-me"4:03 - #5: Look for a savor smileConnect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
The Sentence Finisher: Make People Love Talking To You Charisma on Command 2022-07-05 | Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/3umpdd9Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWe’ve all had those moments where we wish we could think of something funny to say, but our mind goes blank. It can be frustrating, especially when you’re talking to someone you really want to like you.So in today’s video, we’ll go through 6 easy ways you can make people laugh or just love being around you.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:12 - #1: Finish someone's incomplete sentence with a joke1:48 - #2: Surprise them with unexpected absurd answers2:59 - #3: Pivot to an exaggerated version of your real answer4:12 - #4: Start saying your positive thoughts out loud5:09 - #5: Be relentlessly positive6:34 - #6: Focus on having fun--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#ChrisHemsworth #ChrisEvans #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
Stop Trying To Impress Others Charisma on Command 2022-06-20 | Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/3y4zg8OSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeActress Millie Bobby Brown has a polarizing but effortless charm that has made her incredibly popular. So in today’s video, we’ll break down 8 habits you can steal from Millie that will help you immediately make people like you.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:10 - #1: The magnetic effect of having fun0:57 - #2: Soften your tease with a laugh2:17 - #3: Mix in compliments with your teases3:15 - #4: Use warm platonic touch3:32 - #5: Make your life relatable to others5:30 - #6: Give expansive answers6:34 - #7: Turn the conversation back on the other person7:30 - #8: Be a likeable listener--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#MillieBobbyBrown #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
Speak Like A Leader: Make People Respect You Charisma on Command 2022-06-06 | Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/3NondseSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribePeople love Tommy Shelby from Peaky Blinders. He’s a quiet, introverted character, and at the same time extremely charismatic.While you don’t want to be like Tommy in every way, there are 8 habits you can learn from him to instantly command respect from the people around you.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:21 - #1: Have slow, relaxed movements0:57 - #2: Hold eye contact, even during conflict1:57 - #3: Be non-reactive to hostility3:00 - #4: Be as big as your audience3:33 - #5: Show conviction with your words3:56 - #6: Show conviction with your tone4:26 - #7: Speak slowly and use pauses between words6:23 - #8: Use carrot / stick motivation-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #PeakyBlinders #ThomasShelby #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
Relaxed Confidence: 5 Habits To Look Like A Boss Charisma on Command 2022-05-30 | Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/3wYo2SRSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeJohnny Depp’s relaxed confidence on the stand has helped make public perception around his trial with Amber Heard pretty one sided. But as many other witnesses have shown, staying calm and confident is not easy under that kind of pressure. Which is why in this video we’ll be covering 5 things Johnny has done and that you can do to radiate extreme confidence that makes others trust and like you even in high pressure situations. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:32 - #1: Control the cadence of the conversation1:01 - #2: Maintain non reaction seeking body language3:28 - #3: Catch and refuse frames you do not agree with7:03 - #4: Confident people are able to control the emotional tone of an interaction8:39 - #5: Confidence is easier to feel when you have positive reference experiences--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#JohnnyDepp #AmberHeard #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
Tips For Shorter Guys To Look And Feel More Confident Charisma on Command 2022-05-16 | Join Over 13,000+ Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/3MldAd8Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeSome people are extremely judgmental about height. And it sucks to be judged for something that’s totally out of your control. There’s no magic formula to get every single person to stop being prejudiced BUT there are tricks you can steal from some of the world’s most charismatic men to help you command more respect from the people around you. Regardless of your height.This video isn’t meant to be a one size fits all solution. Instead, think of it as a menu to choose from. Pick the advice that fits the charisma style you like most. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:25 - #1: Addressing your height0:39 - Option 1: Go there first1:09 - Option 2: Talk about it like it's no big deal2:16 - Option 3: Don't make it a part of the conversation3:04 - #2: Be a big presence3:10 - Option 1: Be the loudest person in the room3:37 - Option 2: Use expansive hand gestures4:24 - Option 3: Freely use neutral space4:57 - Option 4: Use platonic touch5:52 - #3: Celebrate other people's success----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------#TomCruise #TomHolland #KevinHart #CharismaOnCommand----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
5 Red Flags In Dating You Should NEVER Ignore Charisma on Command 2022-05-02 | Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/3kujtZmSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeFew things can ruin your life faster than a toxic relationship. But most people hide their issues, so signs of being toxic aren’t obvious right off the bat. That’s why in this video we’ll cover 5 early signs you or someone you love is in a toxic relationship so that you can change things before it ruins your life. Keep in mind that none of these mean you must break up immediately. Toxicity exists on a spectrum and these are just signs that you need to move things back towards the healthy side or get out. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:30 - #1: Using totalizing language in arguments1:30 - #2: Feeling compelled to gather evidence against your partner2:04 - #3: Justifying aggressive behavior by making it a sign of love3:00 - #4: Not believing someone when they show you’re not compatible5:12 - #5: You don’t know the traumas that formed your childhood experience of love--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#JonnhyDepp #AmberHeard #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
5 Clear Signs Of A Manipulative Personality Charisma on Command 2022-04-25 | Join Over 12,000 Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/38kih8eSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeNarcissists don’t behave like most people. They take advantage of the social rules we expect people to follow and their manipulations are shockingly effective if you’re unprepared. That’s why in this video we’ll cover 5 tells that you’re dealing with a narcissist, one who is lying in an attempt to gaslight you. That way you’ll be more able to catch them and defend yourself. We’ll be using Jussie Smollett as our example. For those of you who missed out, in 2019 he claimed to have been a victim of a hate crime. But his story quickly fell apart in ways that are instructive for catching narcissistic liars in your own life.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:30 - Sign #1: Details that only serve to establish a desirable persona1:47 - Sign #2: Other people's motivations relate back to them3:23 - Sign #3: Making skepticism evidence of a character flaw in the disbeliever 5:06 - Sign #4: In the face of overwhelming evidence, they tend to dig in deeper5:52 - Sign #5: A cost/benefit analysis of a narcissist's lies will probably make no sense to you6:44 - Bonus Sign: Narcissists tend to be perpetually unhappy due to their image focused nature--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#Narcissists #JussieSmollett #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
Common Habits That Make People Like You Less Charisma on Command 2022-04-11 | Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/3v7qh3VSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Sometimes we know for sure we’ve done something to make people dislike us. But other times it’s less obvious and the slap isn’t the only thing that is causing Will to receive such backlash - there were several more common mistakes that turned people against him. That’s why in this video we’ll cover 3 of the more subtle things Will did so you can avoid these mistakes in your own life. We will also get into the real reason why Will Smith hit Chris Rock, something I have not seen anyone else talk about yet.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:24 - Mistake #1: Triangulating yourself into your significant other's relationships1:40 - Mistake #2: Dodging ownership of bad behavior3:12 - Mistake #3: Carrying emotional baggage to your interactions--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#WillSmith #Oscars2022 #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
How To Make People Respect You Immediately Charisma on Command 2022-03-28 | Thank you to Audible for sponsoring this video! New Audible members get a 30-day free trial. Visit http://audible.com/charisma or text "charisma" to 500 500 to try Audible today!Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeVolodymyr Zelensky has been extremely effective at getting people and nations from around the world to support his cause in the conflict against Putin’s Russia.So in this video we’ll break down 5 leadership habits that you can use to command MASSIVE respect and make people want to follow you whether you’re trying to lead in business, politics, or just your social life. (We’ll also touch on Putin’s approach in regards to these same habits). ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:37 - #1: Show people how what's good for you is good for them2:15 - #2: Describe the heaven if they side with you, and the hell if they don't4:14 - #3: Give your followers a high reputation to live up to6:20 - #4: Praise people publicly7:29 - #5: Your own behavior sets the standard for everyone around you--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#VolodymyrZelensky #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
The Power Of The Dad Joke Charisma on Command 2022-03-14 | Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/3w2U7sqSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeSome people can say just about anything, tell jokes huge that should be terrible and still make an audience roar with laughter. That was Norm MacDonald and its why in this video we’ll be breaking him down to cover how you can make people obsessed with you by telling bad jokes that still manage to kill. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:27 - #1: Smile while you're joking1:09 - #2: Explain your jokes2:31 - #3: The dead bait method4:09 - #4: Make it obvious you're lying6:10 - #5: The long, meandering prank joke7:36 - The Meta Method-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #NormMacDonald #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
How To Win An Argument Against A Difficult Person Charisma on Command 2022-02-28 | Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/3tkmj7rSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWe’ve all felt the frustration of arguing with someone that just won’t listen. So in this video, we’ll go through 6 tips to actually change a stubborn person’s mind, without hurting your relationship. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:09 - #1: Say two things they’ll agree with before stating where you disagree1:14 - #2: Use an analogy you know they’ll agree with3:01 - #3: Maintain a calm conversational tone3:30 - #4: Allow for playful breaks4:08 - #5: Clarify the person’s ideas before you disagree with them5:15 - #6: Debate ideas, not terminology--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#JonStewart #BenShapiro #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
Simple Ways To Earn Respect From Almost Anyone Charisma on Command 2022-02-14 | Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/3oP46xbSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeTommy Shelby was our most requested video ever. So today we’re doing a breakdown that’s long overdue: his frenemy, Alfie Solomons.While you don’t want to be like Alfie in every way, there are 4 habits you can learn from him to instantly command more respect from the people around you. And even though Peaky Blinders is a scripted TV show, all the psychology covered in today’s video will apply to your actual life.How To Be Fearless Under Pressure (Thomas Shelby):youtu.be/Hbj4tfokhYc⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:41 - #1: Be calm in situations where most people 2:12 - #2: Hold eye contact during conflict3:30 - #3: Don't let other people dictate where your attention goes5:02 - #4: Be honest even when it goes against your best interests-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #AlfieSolomons #PeakyBlinders #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
How To Impress Someone Of Higher Status Charisma on Command 2022-01-31 | Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University:bit.ly/3IP43ZHSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video, you’ll learn 5 steps that will help you connect with, and then impress, anyone. No matter how unreachable they may seem. We’ll do this by breaking down some tricks used by MrBeast, Tim Ferriss, and Yes Theory to connect with people like Will Smith, Justin Trudeau, Elon Musk, and more. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:16 - #1: Find a low traffic connection1:35 - #2: Be a beacon2:55 - #3: Lead with value6:55 - #4: Abandon first-instinct questions7:15 - #5: Stop hero worshippingConnect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand
