ITSCAROLYNGRAYI wasn’t planning to do another haul so soon after my last one, but some of my favorite brands (and a few new ones!) showed up and showed OUT. Everything in this video was gifted — from fashion to beauty to home — but these are all pieces I genuinely love or have used for years. If you love discovering brands with real edge, quality, and purpose, this one's for you.
🎁 Featuring: fashion gems, home finds, and beauty must-haves 🖤 Some are longtime faves, some are new discoveries ✨ As always, honest thoughts & styling tips inside!
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WAIT… THESE BRANDS SENT ME EVERYTHING | FASHION, BEAUTY & HOME HAULITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-07-04 | I wasn’t planning to do another haul so soon after my last one, but some of my favorite brands (and a few new ones!) showed up and showed OUT. Everything in this video was gifted — from fashion to beauty to home — but these are all pieces I genuinely love or have used for years. If you love discovering brands with real edge, quality, and purpose, this one's for you.
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📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygrayNOT SOFT. NOT NEW. JUST BRILLIANT. BLACK WOMEN REDEFINING POWER IN FASHIONITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-10-03 | At the intersection of storytelling, strategy, and style; this Kinspire NYFW panel dives into the real business of fashion. The Conversation brings together industry leaders and creatives who are reshaping fashion from the inside out. From luxury retail to product development, marketing, and merchandising, this dialogue unpacks what it truly takes to build, lead, and grow in today’s fast-paced fashion landscape. 💬 Panelists — The Business of Fashion Camille Darby – Marketing at Vogue instagram.com/camille.darby
✨ Additional Kinspire conversations for the Art Of Fashion panel included insight from: Tiffany Battle – Content Creator & Storyteller instagram.com/tiffanymbattle
Bobby Trendz – Founder & CCO, The BT Collective; Editor-in-Chief, AoD Magazine instagram.com/bobbytrendz
Whitney Etoroma – Stylist & Fashion Consultant creatives shaping the art, image, and future of fashion. instagram.com/whitneyetoroma
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📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygrayWHAT I SCORED AT NYFW | LUXE FINDS + HOME & STYLE TREASURESITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-09-26 | This haul is unlike any other — a mix of pieces I picked up, was gifted, and discovered during Fashion Week…which also happened to fall on my birthday week! From statement shoes and covetable bags to coffee table books and a few home decor treasures, I’m sharing all the unique finds that made this week extra special. Come through for a little NYFW magic with a personal twist!
📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygrayNOT YOUR AVERAGE NYFW VLOG: CULTURE, PURPOSE & A DIFFERENT POVITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-09-23 | This isn’t your typical NYFW vlog. ✨ Instead of hopping from runway show to runway show, I spent September’s New York Fashion Week showing a new side of things; through culture, connection, and impact. As a content creator in NYC, I balanced my own invites (MOMA with Loewe & Bergdorf, Superfine at The Met with guest curator Monica Miller, intimate collection viewings + pop-ups) with something even more meaningful: helping launch Kinspire, a youth program bringing its first cohort to experience New York in a whole new way. From behind-the-scenes Broadway tours to life-shifting moments for the kids, this NYFW was about more than fashion; it was about growth, inspiration, and what it really feels like to live and create in NYC. If you’re here for raw POVs, culture, fashion, and real New York stories… welcome. 💫 #NYFW #NYC #Vlog #FashionWeek #ContentCreator
This fall, I’m styling timeless pieces that bring ease and polish to your wardrobe. From cozy leisure looks to refined natural fibers, these elevated staples are versatile enough to mix, match, and make your own. Expect styling tips, outfit ideas, and essentials you’ll keep reaching for all season long.
📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygrayHELLO SEPTEMBER! NYC PARTIES, CLOFFICE UPDATES, STUDENT PREP + A 90’S STYLE MOMENTITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-09-17 | SEPTEMBER IS HERE 🍂✨ and the first week was already PACKED! Come along as I prep for my students to land in NYC, keep the gym life strong, and take you inside some amazing events from launches to a throwback 90’s party with my creative crew. We add some new gems to the CLOFFICE, headed to Bergdorf for a powerful brand collaboration, and get a first listen to my students at work.
⚡️At the 90’s party, I also share a moment inspired by JANET JACKSON in 1995 at the MTV music awards —an iconic and historical look. DISCLAIMER: I am a huge fan of both Janet and Michael’s artistry. I did not believe the allegations against Michael and, like Janet did, supported him during that time. My styling choice was purely a fashion moment tied to the 90’s party theme. This week was a whirlwind—let’s say hello to SEPTEMBER together! 🖤
📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygraySPEND THE DAY WITH ME: RAW TALK, MISSING PACKAGE & NYFW PREPITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-09-09 | A real behind-the-scenes day in my world 👀 — work calls, outfit planning for New York Fashion Week, and some raw talk about what I enjoy (and don’t) in my corporate role. Of course, drama finds me… a bag I needed for a brand dinner goes missing (yes, I called it before it happened 🤦🏾♀️). We balance it all out with some self-care — come along as I get a luxury facial and prep for the busy week ahead. This one is all about unfiltered moments, fashion energy, and life before the NYFW madness begins. ✨ Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe to join the Cookies fam!
📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygrayFALL TRANSITION STYLE | MY BEST SUMMER INVESTMENTS + BEAUTY MUSTSITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-09-05 | This week I’m sharing a few fashion pieces I picked up over the summer that I’m so glad I invested in—timeless, seasonless items that will carry me straight into fall and winter. These are the kind of statement pieces that make layering effortless. I’m also talking about some beauty favorites I’ve been loving, especially ones that feel even more fitting for the colder months thanks to their hydrating and nourishing nature. Think of this video as a celebration: wrapping up summer, saying hello to early fall, and leaning into that stylish shift in seasons. 🍂✨ If you’re ready for versatile fashion, layering inspo, and beauty picks that actually transition well, this one’s for you.
📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygrayDOING THE WORK: SELF LOVE, MY DIAGNOSIS & DREAMS IN MOTIONITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-09-03 | In this vlog, it’s all about doing. I open up in my kitchen about self love and share my diagnosis, then I bring you with me to a live taping of an inspiring podcast that left me so empowered. You’ll also meet the Kinspire team, see some of my amazing students in action in the fashion world, and celebrate Chee’s birthday (a community fave!). Of course, I also give you a little cloffice update (hello, shoe storage wins 👠) and plenty of FaceTime chats straight from the heart. This one took a while to edit and upload, but it’s packed with love, honesty, and some big life moments. If you’re into real conversations, fashion-in-action, and celebrating life while doing the work, this one’s for you.
📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygraySKIPPING FASHION WEEK…BUT CAN’T RESIST SHOWING MY FIT INSPO!ITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-08-29 | I’m sharing 5 outfits I would wear to the shows I would like to attend. However this year I will barely have the time for it. Sometimes taking a step back from the chaos of Fashion Week is the best move, even if it feels a little unusual for someone in the fashion space. I explain why I’m stepping away this season, and why it’s totally okay to style your favorite pieces—even if there’s no big event on your calendar. Whether you’re a fashion lover, curious about personal style, or just here for some outfit inspo, this one’s for you.
📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygrayVLOG: OUTSIDE, GROWING + GLOWING: BIG HAIR, NEW SHOES + MY PANELIST MOMENTITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-08-26 | Cookies 🍪 this vlog is PACKED with growth, beauty, and full-circle moments. I went from being in the audience last year to the PANEL this year at one of the biggest events for Black women creators in NYC; a dream come true ✨. From Manhattan to Brooklyn, I take you along for the journey. First for my panelist moment, then we hopped in the car to celebrate new life at a baby shower that felt like a miracle. In between, I squeezed in Pilates at Equinox on a Sunday (proud moment!) and, of course, plenty of style chats. I unbox new pieces from Aritzia and share the boots I cannot stop talking about: my new suede over-the-knee Stuart Weitzman boots in a color I never thought I’d wear but am obsessed with 😍. Plus, some boat shoes, partying at Juvia’s Place, and the everyday style updates that keep me feeling inspired. A lot of growing + glowing. Grab a snack because this 2HR vlog is all about fashion, beauty, fitness, and embracing change 💕.
📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygrayUNFILTERED: BEHIND THE SCENES +WHAT I’VE NEVER SHARED ABOUT MY FAMILY…ITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-08-19 | This vlog is a long one, it's nearly 2 hours of real talk with my favorite community (the Cookies 🍪). I take you behind the scenes of what it actually takes to be a content creator, including the hours and effort that rarely make it on camera, plus a sneak peek into a secret project with one of my dream brands. But it’s not just creator life, I also open up about family: traveling back home to Baltimore for my cousin’s 30th, reconnecting with my Guncle whose legacy I deeply admire, and sharing some truths I’ve never spoken about publicly (including a half brother I don’t speak to). I talk honestly about the discomfort I feel around family dynamics, but also how this trip unexpectedly filled my cup. We also touch on race, navigating interactions with white men, eating on camera more than usual (don’t judge lol), and the balance between vulnerability and ambition. This is probably the rawest vlog I’ve done so far so thank you for sitting with me through it. Want me to also put together a set of tags/keywords to help this vlog get pushed out to new viewers, or just keep it at titles + description?
📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygrayHair, Home & Hustle: A Calm but Productive ResetITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-08-15 | In this vlog, I’m taking you along for a little life update : A mix of the everyday and the exciting ✨ From unboxing some impressive new brands I can’t wait to share with you, to refreshing the living room and getting more organized in the bathroom, it’s all about elevating my space and routine. I also take you through a much-needed hair wash day (natural hair care lovers, this one’s for you 🖤), share some business management tips that can help anyone stay on top of things, and finally lace up my sneakers to get back into jogging; something that always brings me calm and keeps me aligned with the woman I’m becoming.
If you’re into fashion, beauty, home refreshes, and real lifestyle moments, this vlog has a little bit of everything. Hope you enjoy hanging out with me!
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👜 Mentioned: Balenciaga Rodeo Bag, Bel Air Tote, Schiaparelli Golden Toe Boots 🎨 Moodboard: camel suede, burgundy, olive, butter yellow, brown-on-brown layering ✨ Tell me your fall fashion character in the comments. I want to hear your fashion story.
📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygrayIVE BEEN HOLDING SO MUCH... THIS WEEK I LET GOITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-08-05 | This vlog is long and so worth it — almost two hours of FaceTime-style realness with y’all as I get grounded and intentional ahead of milestones in September. 🖤 From beauty to boundaries to believing in yourself, we touched everything.
We kicked things off with a game-changing facial by THEE Sean Garrette (yes, skin was skinnnning), then upgraded the cloffice with my curtain moment that y’all already started copying — I see you giving credit, and I love it here. 🙌🏾
We talked about my work with the Kinspire students, the wild art of not overspending in NYC, and the sacred process of making your space yours — even when you're sharing it. I brought you with me to the gym, got real about my yoga grind, and showed off some major home decor finds + storage glow-ups.
We also touched on my current hair journey (the fro is thriving!), the emotional weight of caretaking when it’s not your own family, and how I’m learning to take up space — spiritually, emotionally, and physically. And of course, we talked about GOD. The good. The hard. All of it.
This vlog is a reminder that organizing your space is organizing your spirit. Let’s build the foundation together.
The sold-out twice Coach Kisslock Clutch from the Spring 2025 runway had the fashion girlies (myself included) in a chokehold… until I got it in person. 😬 In this video, I’m giving you my honest, unfiltered review of the bag that should have been everything — but wasn’t.
We’re taking a little field trip to the Coach Soho store, where the staff is always a dream (shoutout to the amazing team there 🫶🏽). I ended up exchanging the Kisslock for a bag that I truly couldn’t stop thinking about since placing the original order — and yes, it’s the one I should’ve bought all along.
This review isn’t just about a bag — it’s about how runway hype can mislead us, and how brands, even legacy ones like Coach, need to start listening to their consumers more. We’re not asking for exotic crocodile skins — we’re asking for what you showed us on the runway! With your in-house production and innovations like Coachtopia and the Restored collection, you can do better.
This is what happens when the product doesn’t match the promise.
👇🏽 Drop your thoughts in the comments — would you have kept it?
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There’s healing, there’s hustle, and there’s humor, because real life isn’t always glamorous, but it’s always worth capturing.
✨ Thanks for watching and don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe if you’re into slow days, creative storytelling, and cozy chaos in the city.
In today’s video, we’re diving into the art of getting dressed with intention this summer. These five style pillars will help you elevate your warm-weather wardrobe without chasing trends! From thoughtful layering and fabric choices to the way beauty and accessories shape a look. Whether you’re heading into a workday, a summer dinner, or just want to feel like the most refined version of yourself, this is for you.
Special thank you to IDYL for partnering with me on this video. Their modular fine jewelry was the perfect touch to demonstrate how less can do more when styled with intention.
What we cover:
Jewelry stacking that feels layered, not loud Beauty/skincare harmony that supports your outfit Statement accessories that speak The power of fabric, fit, and tailoring Color strategy for a cohesive wardrobe
🎬 This video includes a sponsored mention, but as always, the styling is 100% Carolyn-approved.SHOULD I EVEN BE SHARING THIS? + A CLOFFICE GLOW-UP + SUMMER VLOGITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-07-22 | Hey cookies 🍪💬
This vlog took a turn. We’re starting off strong with content creation energy and getting back into my groove, but then I took a quick 18-hour trip home to Baltimore for a wedding… and it stirred up a lot. BUT ! There’s lightness too! Back in the Bronx, we finally update the cloffice with the curtain track I’ve been dreaming about (and absolutely refusing to settle on), I unbox some seriously cute PR, including a stunning moment from our girl Jenee Naylor and her brand-new brand baby 12PM Studios, and I finish the vlog with fresh flowers that may or may not be trying to kill me.
Think: style, honesty, glow-ups, cute fits, and a chatty safe space with y’all. Let me know how you're feeling about the vlog. I’m so glad to be back in flow 🫶🏾
📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygrayLAZY GIRLS GUIDE TO LOOKING PUT TOGETHER FOR HOT SUMMA DAYZITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-07-18 | Too tired to think but still want to look cute? This is your Lazy Girl’s Guide to getting dressed without the stress. I’m breaking down 3 easy outfit formulas that always make you look put together — with minimal effort. Think: no-fuss, real-life style that still turns heads. 💅🏾
✨ Save this for those “I have nothing to wear” mornings. 💬 Comment your go-to lazy girl outfit formula below!
From monthly luxury wellness days to cutting off hour-long work calls (and clients I don’t align with), I’m sharing what’s really been on my heart lately. I talk about:
Dating and solo dates Personality types and managing relationships with more awareness Why I’m done sugarcoating and ok with being misunderstood The truth about not liking attention And why I just… don’t like people that much lol This one’s a podcast-style episode — feel free to listen while you clean, work, or reset. No fluff. Just a real convo.
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✨ If this resonates, don’t forget to like, comment your non-negotiables, and subscribe for more lifestyle & boundary-rich content. ☕️ Follow me on IG & TikTok: @itscarolyngray
📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygrayA WEEK OF CHAOS, CAMERAS & CLARITY: IF IT’S NOT ONE THING IT’S A WHOLE DAMN OTHERITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-07-01 | This vlog is a whirlwind — a packed workday with one of my favorite brands, a doctor's appointment that left my mind racing, cancelled plans, and a visit from my mom that turned out to be exactly what I needed. There’s frustration, there’s beauty, and there’s truth. I don’t sugarcoat anything in this one — I let the camera see what I felt: unfiltered and in the moment.
⚠️ Heads up: There’s some cussing and venting. This is real life, not the highlight reel.
If you’ve ever had one of those weeks — this one’s for you.
💭 Drop a comment if anything in here resonates or if you’re just here for the chaos + good fits.
This week, I’m taking you through it all: → Navigating some strange dizzy spells and health shifts → New product previews for Graylayers 👀 → Real talk about career pivots and what’s next → Plus unboxings, behind-the-scenes, and moments of deep gratitude
It’s raw, reflective, and honest—creator life uncut. ✨ Grab a drink, get cozy, and spend the week with me.
📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygray Items mentioned in the video: shopmy.us/collections/1595108WHAT IM WEARING IN NYC HEATWAVE + SUMMER OUTFIT IDEAS FOR HOT & RAINY DAYSITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-06-21 | NYC is heating up—literally. I’m sharing what I’m wearing during an extreme heatwave + unpredictable summer rain while juggling events, errands, and real life. Think functional fashion that still brings the looks. I break down the “why” behind each outfit so you can build intentional looks that actually work for summer in the city.
✨ Outfit inspo for hot & humid days ☁️ Tips for dressing when rain’s in the forecast 📍 Real-life NYC summer styling
Let me know which look was your fave—and what you're wearing to survive the heat!
📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygray Items mentioned in the video: shopmy.us/collections/1595108Ask These Questions if you’re thinking about #management #creatorinsight #agencyadviceITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-06-20 | ...A FACE TIME CALL TURNED VLOG: LIFE LATELY, NEW HAIR, BIG CHANGESITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-06-17 | In this vlog, I’m taking you through a day that really mirrors where I’m at in life right now: grounded, stable, but in motion. I talk about finally closing out an agency chapter, stepping into independence, and creating a management team that aligns. Plus, I get a fresh hairstyle with my stylist Lorraine Guity, and yes — we had a surprise (unwanted) visitor that turned me into a full-blown exterminator overnight. It’s giving evolution, it’s giving real life.
Lorraine Guity - booking in her BIO Tiger Set Im wearing Sweatpants I wore in this vlog Zara Summer sweater Old Cheetah Print Pants from Skims
📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygray Items mentioned in the video: shopmy.us/collections/1595108WHAT I BOUGHT THIS SPRING: VINTAGE, SILVER JEWELRY & HOME PIECESITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-06-13 | Welcome back, Cookies 🖤 In today’s video, I’m sharing all the treasures I picked up in Q2—from vintage and thrifted fashion finds to new brands that caught my eye, silver jewelry I’ve added to my growing arm party, and a few curated home decor pieces that elevated my space. If you love personal style with a twist and layering pieces that tell a story, this one’s for you.
✨ Featuring:
Vintage + secondhand fashion picks New small brands I’m loving Silver jewelry + stacking tips A few home upgrades I had to grab As always, drop a comment and let me know what your favorite piece was—or if you’ve snagged any gems lately. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share with a friend who loves the thrill of the find.
#vintagehaul #q2haul #silverjewelry #thriftedfinds #homeupdates #stylehaul #aestheticshoppingMy Go To Slick Back Hair Routine @PATTERNBeauty #summerhairstylesITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-06-13 | ...LIFE RECAP: DIOR EVENT, NYC WEDDINGS, HOME UPDATES & GETTING BACK TO FITNESSITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-06-10 | This week’s vlog is a soft reset in motion. I'm scaling back while still showing up. From Dior events and NYC weddings to finally carving out time to get back into the gym, this one is all about finding balance while life stays busy. I’m also sharing some chic little updates to my apartment and cloffice that are bringing me so much joy lately. If you're into quiet luxury moments, real life reflections, and a stylish return to self then you’ll feel right at home here.
As always, it’s giving FaceTime with your girl. Press play 💬🖤
📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygray Items mentioned in the video: shopmy.us/collections/1595108 1 ON 1 CONSULTATION : https://calendar.app.google/74ofCbonUSEvhSEX7WHAT I WORE THIS WEEK: SUMMER OUTFITS FOR WORK, EVENTS & ERRANDSITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-06-06 | A full week of summer looks, styling decisions, and a little real-life commentary; because the outfit always tells a story. In this video, I’m walking you through everything I wore this past week, from working at home and running errands to attending events and trying on some new wedding guest dresses. I’m breaking down the thought process behind each look, what worked, what didn’t, and even sharing a little lesson learned with a new piece I thought I’d love styled a certain way 👀.
This is for the girls who treat getting dressed like a daily ritual and want to stay chic while doing the most (or the least).
📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygray Items mentioned in the video: shopmy.us/collections/1595108 1 ON 1 CONSULTATION : https://calendar.app.google/74ofCbonUSEvhSEX7To dads & the moments that bond us. Like matching vibes & walking side by side in great shoes.ITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-06-06 | ...June 5, 2025ITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-06-05 | ...A PRIVATE CONCERT WITH DOECHII | REAL LIFE CHAT | BLACK PROM MAGICITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-06-03 | This week’s vlog feels like a FaceTime call with your favorite friend (that’s me 💋). I pick up my dad from the train station for a special campaign we’re shooting together, and it opens the door to a real conversation about navigating relationships with parents and people we love—especially as we grow older.
I also talk about getting ready for a crazy summer full of projects across every corner of my career: content, fashion, business, beauty—you name it.
Stick around for a prom send-off for my beautiful friend’s daughter (✨core memory✨), a private concert with Doechii + Samsung, cleaning my cloffice (tiny shoe wall update included), and quality time with friends.
This vlog is cozy, honest, and full of life. Come sit with me.
📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygray Items mentioned in the video: shopmy.us/collections/1595108 1 ON 1 CONSULTATION : https://calendar.app.google/74ofCbonUSEvhSEX7Posted but Private!ITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-06-02 | ...CONTENT CREATOR VLOG: MY 1ST BRAND TRIP + BRAND EVENTS & SETTING BOUNDARIESITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-05-27 | This week was full of firsts and big realizations. I spoke at a middle school Career Day as a content creator (dream come true!), went to a rooftop party with a heritage brand I just discovered (41 years strong!), and took my very first branded wellness trip to a spa resort in Massachusetts. From packing soft travel pieces to learning the value of alone time, this vlog is a mix of work, wellness, and some much-needed boundaries. 💆🏾♀️✨ 💛 Thanks for watching, cookies!
📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygray Items mentioned in the video: shopmy.us/collections/1595108 1 ON 1 CONSULTATION : https://calendar.app.google/74ofCbonUSEvhSEX7Trendy But Smart: My Summer Fashion Edit (with Hot Takes)ITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-05-23 | Summer 2025 is heating up, and I’m breaking down the trends I’m actually wearing — and what’s on my personal wishlist. From crisp white tees and mesh flats to the crochet styles I actually love, I’m sharing what’s worth the buy and what I’m skipping (sorry, flip flops in NYC). Let’s keep it stylish, intentional, and wearable.
✨ Featuring picks from Alaïa, Puma, COS, Walmart Scoop, and more. 💬 What’s on your wishlist this summer? Let’s chat in the comments.
📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygray Items mentioned in the video: shopmy.us/collections/1595108 1 ON 1 CONSULTATION : https://calendar.app.google/74ofCbonUSEvhSEX7BLACK GIRL ICON ENERGY: JUNE AMBROSE, TARAJI, MICHELLE + WE OUTSIDE!ITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-05-20 | This week’s vlog is giving Black excellence overload! I found myself in rooms full of brilliance, beauty, and legacy, crossing paths with June Ambrose, Taraji P. Henson, Michelle Williams, and more. I did a lot of peopling (lol), but it was all worth it. From events that fed the soul to a little thrifting and an unboxing, we made the rounds.
Also, heads up: some footage from earlier in the week is missing (blame a rogue SD card 😅) but once I track it down, I’ll add it to the next vlog. For now, come vibe, get inspired, and remember—we’re not waiting to be invited anymore.
📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygray Items mentioned in the video: shopmy.us/collections/1595108 1 ON 1 CONSULTATION : https://calendar.app.google/74ofCbonUSEvhSEX76 OUTFITS I REGRET WEARING & WHAT THEY TAUGHT ME ABOUT STYLEITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-05-17 | In this episode, I’m breaking down 6 outfits I wore that just didn’t hit. From poor fit to styling regrets, I’m getting honest about what went wrong — and what I’ve learned. If you’ve ever looked back at a look and thought, “what was I thinking?”…this one’s for you. Let’s talk timeless fashion rules, personal growth, and getting real about style mistakes.
📍 Let’s connect! 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/itscarolyngray 🎶 TikTok tiktok.com/@itscarolyngray 💌 Business Inquiries: gray@itscarolyngray.com 📰 Newsletter : itscarolyngray.substack.com 🛍️ Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygray Items mentioned in the video: shopmy.us/collections/1595108 1 ON 1 CONSULTATION : https://calendar.app.google/74ofCbonUSEvhSEX78 OUTFITS THAT TURNED HEADS & BOOSTED MY CONFIDENCE (STYLE BREAKDOWN INCLUDED)ITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-05-13 | These are the 8 outfits that had people stopping me in the street and made me feel my most confident. I’m breaking down exactly why they worked: from silhouettes and styling tricks to unexpected details that made them pop. Watch for inspo, tips, and ideas to elevate your own looks.
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Shop for Items Mentioned in the video here :shopmy.us/collections/1664108FROM CAMPAIGN BTS TO MET GALA MAYHEM: A WEEK IN MY CREATIVE LIFEITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-05-09 | This vlog is all over the place in the best way! We’re bouncing from behind-the-scenes campaign moments with a special guest lol, to getting real about my creative process, celeb run-ins before the Met Gala, and styling myself for a Met Life after-party.
Somewhere in between, I have a personal, vulnerable moment after meeting one of my favorite designers — not for pity, but to remind anyone watching that growth and grit go hand-in-hand.
Plus, I’ve been carrying the Capture Bag by Aest Studios throughout the chaos — it was gifted, but I’ve truly been loving it. It's sleek, durable, and such a must-have for creatives on the move. →Aest Studios Official Website: tinyurl.com/hphp5nf8 Capture Large Shoulder Bag: tinyurl.com/2s3r2mzj
Also: I may or may not have been running around NYC trying to find Rihanna and A$AP Rocky by the end of it. lol. Enjoy the ride!
Hope this episode inspires you, not to feel sorry for the journey — but to keep going, stay soft, and stay bold.
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Shop more of my favorite products here: shopmy.us/itscarolygrayMET GALA 2025 RECAP : BEST DRESSED, WORST LOOKS & BLACK STYLE EXCELLENCE UNPACKEDITSCAROLYNGRAY2025-05-07 | This year’s Met Gala was the Blackest it’s ever been—and I loved every minute of it. It was a landmark event, honoring Black style, tailoring, and cultural storytelling. In this video, I break down the night's standout moments across three categories: Best Dressed – Celebrating those who embodied elegance and excellence and embodied the theme. Best Storytellers – Highlighting ensembles that narrated powerful stories through fashion. Looks That Missed the Mark – A candid look at outfits that didn't quite align with the theme. The 2025 theme, Superfine: Tailoring Black Style, drew inspiration from Monica L. Miller’s book Slaves to Fashion, spotlighting 300 years of Black sartorial influence. This year's co-chairs—Pharrell Williams, Colman Domingo, Lewis Hamilton, A$AP Rocky, and Anna Wintour, with LeBron James as honorary chair—brought diverse perspectives to the event, marking a significant moment in Met Gala history. A heartfelt nod to the late André Leon Talley, whose legacy continues to influence and inspire the fashion world.
Images and footage sourced from Instagram, Vogue, and Getty. I'd love to hear your thoughts:
Which looks stood out to you? Who truly captured the essence of the theme? Any surprises or disappointments? Share your opinions in the comments below!
In this video, I break down how to be strategic with your wardrobe budget during these short-lived seasons. We’re diving into what’s worth the splurge, what to skip, and how to approach seasonal shopping with intention and style longevity in mind.
Even if you're in a warmer climate year-round, I want to hear from you too! What are your go-to staples? How do you build a spring/summer wardrobe that works all year?
🔗 Don’t forget to check out my Shop My Closet and LTK shopping guides for curated picks that make sense for the season — links will be in the Community tab when they go live, so stay tuned!
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