Uploaded May 2024 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago
This is the first half of our conversation. Substack offers the full episode and the complete archive of Subversive episodes, including exclusive episodes and my writing.
You can also subscribe to the podcast sans writing on Patreon for a bit less.
This is how the show is financed and grows, so I appreciate every contribution!
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We chat about the concept of agency and how it relates to women's sexuality, the role of societal norms and expectations, and the importance of personal responsibility. We also touch on the dating market, gender differences, the impact of cultural shifts on relationships, transgender athletes in sports, the optimal rate of divorce, and the challenges of online communities.
Regan Arntz-Grey is a writer with a compelling presence on Substack. allcatsarefemale.com
She also hosts a podcast with Vaishnav Sunil called Moral Mayhem.
Chapters
00:00 Exploring Agency and Women's Sexuality
08:11 Navigating the Dating Market and Gender Expectations
32:58 Transgender Issues and Inclusivity in Sports
43:23 Transgender Athletes in Sports
46:31 The Optimal Rate of Divorce
51:24 Expectations and Realities of Relationships
55:50 The Impact of Online Narratives
59:07 The Possibility of Love and Relationships
01:01:45 Navigating the World of Dating Apps
01:06:19 The Challenges of Online Communities
01:09:09 Explaining Online Culture to Non-Online Individuals
01:13:30 The Aziz Ansari Incident and Discourse
This is the first half of our conversation. Substack offers the full episode and the complete archive of Subversive episodes, including exclusive episodes and my writing.
You can also subscribe to the podcast sans writing on Patreon for a bit less.
This is how the show is financed and grows, so I appreciate every contribution!
Please subscribe at:
alexkaschuta.com
or
patreon.com/aksubversive
We chat about the concept of agency and how it relates to women's sexuality, the role of societal norms and expectations, and the importance of personal responsibility. We also touch on the dating market, gender differences, the impact of cultural shifts on relationships, transgender athletes in sports, the optimal rate of divorce, and the challenges of online communities.
Regan Arntz-Grey is a writer with a compelling presence on Substack. allcatsarefemale.com
She also hosts a podcast with Vaishnav Sunil called Moral Mayhem.
Chapters
00:00 Exploring Agency and Women's Sexuality
08:11 Navigating the Dating Market and Gender Expectations
32:58 Transgender Issues and Inclusivity in Sports
43:23 Transgender Athletes in Sports
46:31 The Optimal Rate of Divorce
51:24 Expectations and Realities of Relationships
55:50 The Impact of Online Narratives
59:07 The Possibility of Love and Relationships
01:01:45 Navigating the World of Dating Apps
01:06:19 The Challenges of Online Communities
01:09:09 Explaining Online Culture to Non-Online Individuals
01:13:30 The Aziz Ansari Incident and Discourse










