In today’s video you’ll learn 6 habits that will make people love being around you. With examples from a celebrity that seems almost universally loved: Ryan Gosling.
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0:00 - Intro 0:07 - #1: Have fun 0:21 - Absurd analogies 1:09 - The mind's eye method 1:37 - Deadpan humor 2:52 - The fake walkoff 3:24 - #2: Tell funny embarrassing stories 3:58 - Emphasize you're aware it was embarrassing 4:59 - Call attention to your awkward moments 5:51 - #3: Create authenticity 6:36 - Compliment authenticity when you see it 7:10 - #4: Make people feel good around you 7:22 - Show that you like who they are 8:06 - Combine the compliment with a joke 8:58 - #5: Be playfully humble 10:05 - #6: Self validation 11:26 - How can you gain unshakable confidence? 12:15 - The quickest way to build confidence
In today’s video you’ll learn 6 habits that will make people love being around you. With examples from a celebrity that seems almost universally loved: Ryan Gosling.
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0:00 - Intro 0:07 - #1: Have fun 0:21 - Absurd analogies 1:09 - The mind's eye method 1:37 - Deadpan humor 2:52 - The fake walkoff 3:24 - #2: Tell funny embarrassing stories 3:58 - Emphasize you're aware it was embarrassing 4:59 - Call attention to your awkward moments 5:51 - #3: Create authenticity 6:36 - Compliment authenticity when you see it 7:10 - #4: Make people feel good around you 7:22 - Show that you like who they are 8:06 - Combine the compliment with a joke 8:58 - #5: Be playfully humble 10:05 - #6: Self validation 11:26 - How can you gain unshakable confidence? 12:15 - The quickest way to build confidence
Failure might delay your dreams, but fear will kill them. Because fear leads to inaction.
So in today’s video, you’ll learn 7 tricks to help silence that voice in your head that fears rejection.
That way you can go into any conversation with confidence, knowing you’ll feel completely unphased even if you do get rejected
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0:00 - Intro 0:23 - #1: You are not your first impression 1:05 - #2: Rejection is inevitable. Shame is optional 2:09 - #3: Life is a numbers game 2:45 - #4: Amp up your carrot/stick motivation 3:15 - #5: Rejections are good for you 5:24 - #6: See rejection as a sign that you aren't a good match 5:49 - #7: Focus on becoming the type of person who has options
We are in an epidemic of loneliness and it’s a real problem.
Roughly half of adults report feeling socially disconnected, and science is showing loneliness is associated with a greater risk of dementia, stroke, depression, anxiety, and even has a similar risk of premature death as smoking up to 15 cigarettes a day.
On the flip side, you’ve probably heard that you are an average of the five people you spend the most time with. That means with rare exceptions, your happiness and success are heavily dependent on who your friends are.
So in today’s video, you’ll learn how to improve in each of the four main phases for making incredible friendships.
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0:00 - Intro
0:40 - #1: How To Meet New People 0:42 - Proximity 1:06 - Join A Flock 1:41 - Become A Beacon 2:10 - Say Yes To Invitations
2:20 - #2: How To Turn Them Into Friends 2:40 - Focus On The Process 3:22 - Bait For Shared Interests
4:13 - #3: How To Make Your Friendships World Class 4:36 - A Shared North Star 6:04 - Being A Lifeline 7:55 - Mutual Vulnerability
9:32 - #4: How To Maintain Them For Decades 9:37 - Constructive Conflict 11:37 - The 5 To 1 Rule 12:00 - Replace Jealousy With Joy 13:41 - Expect And Embrace Change
In today’s video, you’ll learn how to be extremely likable, whether you’re an energetic extrovert or a soft spoken introvert.
We’ll cover how to make an amazing first impression AND how to turn that first impression into deep relationships with people that love and admire you.
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0:00 - Intro
0:11 - #1: Charismatic body language - Listening With Warm, Soft Eye Contact. - A Duchenne Smile. - Speaking Through A Smile. - Expansive Gestures.
1:34 - #2: Capture attention - A Pre-Story Laugh. - A One Line Hook.
2:54 - #3: Making someone feel good around you - Laugh When Someone Makes A Joke. - Adding A Light Platonic Touch And Compliment. - Be Universally Kind. - Playful Teasing.
This video is about how to be happier for the rest of your life, starting today.
We’re going to cover 3 common mindsets that lead to unhappiness. Most people don’t even realize they have these mindsets, or if they do, they don’t know how to stop them.
We’ll also discuss some lessons from Stoicism so that you can feel more joy every day.
Today, we're delving into 5 pitfalls that can diminish your charisma, and what you should do instead, to steer clear of these mistakes.
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0:00 - #1: Scanning the room 0:27 - #2: Don't let someone interrupt while someone else is talking to you 1:13 - #3: Trapping 1:37 - #4: Communicating shame 2:12 - #5: The eyebrow flash
Today you’ll learn the art of persuasion. Specifically, 7 powerful principles that influence everyone’s decision making. Including your own.
You’ll learn ethical ways you can apply these principles, AND just by being aware of them, you’ll now notice when someone uses them on you.
I want to credit Robert Cialdini’s book Influence for first teaching me these. If you find today’s video interesting, you’ll definitely enjoy his book.
Today you’ll learn 6 easy ways to make people laugh and love being around you.
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0:00 - #1: Play dumb 1:28 - #2: A sincerity fakeout 2:14 - #3: The 3 point list 3:07 - #4: Exaggerate so much it's impossible to take you seriously 4:26 - #5: Elevate the other person 5:39 - #6: Self deprecating humor 8:03 - Learn how to form connections with anyone
In today’s video, we’ll go over 8 conversational habits that make people love being around you.
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0:00 - Intro 0:04 - #1: The false completion technique 1:40 - #2: Accept bids for connection 2:53 - #3: Add a touch during conversational high points 3:56 - #4: Friendly teasing 5:17 - #5: Act out your characters 6:14 - #6: Pause when you hear laughter 6:42 - #7: Take a 3 second punchline pause 7:17 - #8: Have go-to stories
One tool they’ll use is gaslighting, a form of emotional abuse that makes you doubt your own reality. This lets them get away with things that most people wouldn’t tolerate in a relationship.
So today you’ll learn 8 signs someone might be gaslighting you.
One important thing to remember, gaslighting is a pattern. Especially with some of the more subtle signs from later in the video, seeing them once doesn’t necessarily mean you’re being gaslit. But be wary if you see these signs repeatedly.
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0:00 - Intro 0:26 - #1: They attack your sanity 0:53 - #2: They rewrite the past 2:09 - #3: They minimize bad behavior 3:01 - #4: They normalize bad behavior 3:40 - #5: They use empathy hijacking 4:35 - #6: They regularly deflect blame onto you 5:59 - #7: They project their negative qualities onto you 6:53 - #8: They make your emotional reaction the problem
Today we’ll go over how to handle it when someone insults you.
We’ll start with a few comebacks that are great at winning over a crowd and embarrassing the person who insulted you. The downside is they can make the target of your comeback hate you.
Then we’ll cover some friendlier, more charismatic responses so you come away looking cool and confident without making enemies.
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0:00 - Intro 0:15 - #1: Use an Aikido insult 0:42 - #2: Point out they're easy to dislike 1:24 - #3: Use a Trojan Horse compliment 1:52 - #4: Genuinely compliment the insult 2:20 - #5: Assume positive intent 3:13 - #6: Agree and exaggerate 4:24 - #7: Be non-reactive 4:33 - #8: Call out their behavior 5:41 - #9: Just walk away 6:06 - #10: Draw a boundary
Dr. John Gottman has developed a model that can watch you talk to your partner and then predict with 90% accuracy if your relationship will end. He does this mostly by looking for four common communication mistakes. So today we’ll go over each one AND the four antidotes that can save your relationship if you or your partner have these bad habits.
In today’s video, you’ll learn 6 habits that instantly make you more attractive.
We’ll do this by breaking down some clips of Jack Harlow, because he has an easy, authentic style of flirting that many women find extremely attractive.
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0:00 - Intro 0:21 - #1: Approach without hesitation 1:59 - #2: Assume good intent 3:37 - #3: Use the push/pull method 5:27 - #4: Be honest in situations where a lot of guys would lie 6:12 - #5: Don't be desperate for a romantic connection 6:57 - #6: Have standards beyond beauty
There are 5 personality types that people obsess over. And if you discover which one best matches your unique individual personality, you will be able to tap into the most confident and charismatic version of yourself.
But you have to be aware that each type comes with a common pitfall that can wind up pushing people away. So in this video you’ll find the type that best suits you AND learn exactly what pitfalls you need to avoid.
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0:00 - Intro 0:23 - #1: The funny type 2:02 - #2: The energetic type 3:36 - #3: The empathetic type 4:59 - #4: The self-assured type 6:14 - #5: The authentic type
In today’s video you’ll learn 8 habits that make people love being around you.
With examples from a celebrity that seems almost universally loved: Pedro Pascal.
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0:00 - Intro 0:07 - #1: Endearing embarrassment 0:59 - #2: Play laugh tag 1:54 - #3: Speak in hyperbole 2:40 - #4: The fake narcissist joke 3:47 - #5: Say this out loud 4:10 - #6: Pass the conversational spotlight 5:01 - #7: Use a hook that builds curiousity 5:54 - #8: Use go to stories
Some people mistakenly think that to be charismatic you have to be loud and energetic all the time, but that isn’t true. So today you’ll learn 7 tricks to be charismatic and make a great first impression even if you’re quiet. We’ll do this by breaking down some clips of Chris Pine, since he’s both soft spoken and incredibly likable.
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0:00 - Intro 0:13 - #1: Active speaking 1:14 - #2: Smile with your eyes & speak through a smile 2:21 - #3: Take advantage of first minute bias 3:17 - #4: Be a likable listener who laughs easily 4:30 - #5: Show your genuine emotional reaction 5:18 - #6: Ask energizing questions 6:10 - #7: Raise your voice to recapture attention
In today’s video you’ll learn 5 techniques to immediately reduce anxiety and stop overthinking. Then we’ll cover 5 mindset shifts that let you instantly feel more confident.
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0:00 - Intro 0:08 - Technique #1: Use your body 0:43 - Technique #2: Use breathing techniques 1:32 - Technique #3: The Snap Method 2:24 - Technique #4: Gratitude Anchoring 4:19 - Technique #5: Own it with a smile 5:00 - Mindset #1: Accept your anxiety 6:30 - Mindset #2: Shift from an outcome mindset to a process mindset 7:20 - Mindset #3: Be willing to polarize 7:48 - Mindset #4: Reframe the situation 8:26 - Mindset #5: Focus on getting options
Tommy Shelby is stone cold confident and seemingly fearless.
So in this video we're going to break down what you can learn from him to be confident in high pressure situations in your own life.
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0:00 - Intro 0:18 - #1: Don't overreact in situations of extreme pressure 1:13 - Exposure therapy 1:51 - #2: Use state breaking questions 3:57 - #3: Align your needs with the other person's 4:25 - #4: View the world from their perspective 5:54 - #5: Give both the carrot and the stick 7:42 - #6: Turn trash into resources 9:19 - Ask yourself this question 9:30 - How do I build social power quickly?
In today’s video we’re going to show you 6 unattractive habits that instantly make it look like you lack confidence. And what you can do instead to command more respect in your conversations.
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0:00 - Intro 0:07 - #1: Avoidant body language 1:31 - #2: Talking tentatively 3:40 - #3: Asking first instinct questions 4:50 - #4: Retreating after a miss 6:30 - #5: Injecting an unnecessary brag into conversation 7:56 - #6: Prioritizing being agreeable over being true to yourself
Narcissistic and manipulative behavior can wind up destroying your life, and it can be tough to spot, especially when it’s coming from someone you trust.
So in this video you’ll learn 5 red flags that you’re being narcissistically manipulated. You can also use these as signs that you’ve slipped into narcissistic tendencies yourself, so you can cut them out before damaging your relationships.
We’ll be using Logan Paul’s reaction to Coffeezilla calling out his cryptozoo project for examples.
0:00 - Intro 0:50 - Red Flag 1: Morphing critisism. 2:15 - Red Flag 2: Spending more time on their feelings than yours. 4:17 - Red Flag 3: Repeatedly insisting on having good intentions. 5:20 - Red Flag 4: Projecting badness onto those poking at their self-image. 6:14 - Red Flag 5: Narcissistic rage. 7:08 - Final Point: Narcissism is not excessive self-love. It’s a lack of self-love.
In today’s video, we’ll break down some jokes from Ryan Reynolds and Ricky Gervais so you can learn how to make people laugh and love being around you.
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0:00 - Intro 0:22 - #1: The Sincerity Fakeout 1:44 - #2: Say the opposite 2:06 - #3: Use an absurd answer 2:49 - #4: Create a ridiculous mental image 5:58 - #5: Tease something that's unlikely an insecurity
We’ve all been stuck in an awkward conversation that feels forced or boring. You want the person to like you, but you have no idea what to say.
So in today’s video, we’ll go over five habits that instantly make conversation more fun and help you connect with anyone.
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0:00 - Intro 0:11 - #1: Set a playful tone early in the interaction 2:31 - #2: Give a genuine friendly compliment 4:25 - #3: Share your imperfections (without shame) 5:42 - #4: Ask open-ended questions 6:37 - #5: Be a likeable listener
Ye has been doing interviews recently, and they have not all gone well :-)
It’s not uncommon for someone to get frustrated in a disagreement. What’s rare is for you to argue with someone and have them walk away liking you MORE afterwards.
But that’s exactly what happened in a conversation between Ye and Lex Friedman.
So in today’s video, we’ll break down that conversation to show you 8 tips to change someone’s mind AND have them love you for it.
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0:00 - Intro 0:25 - First Mistake: Transitioning away from a topic without first listening 0:55 - Second Mistake: Cutting someone off 1:22 - #1: Listen deeply and make the other person feel heard 2:25 - #2: Use a calm, slow voice 4:00 - #3: Criticize specific behavior 4:48 - #4: When you agree on something, tell them 5:39 - #5: Express empathy 6:23 - #6: Be vulnerable when you feel a negative emotion 7:29 - #7: Accept playful breaks 8:18 - #8: Give them a reputation they like and want to live up to 10:35 - Help us make the world a better place
There is a way of gaining respect and power that is not about projecting strength, but the truth of who you ARE
So in this video we’ll be using Viserys Targaryen's dinner speech to show how you can influence effortlessly and command respect you for who you truly are.
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0:00 - Intro 0:28 - Force 1:00 - Manipulation 3:44 - True power 4:35 - #1: Share the complexity of your emotional truth 5:04 - #2: Own clearly when you're asking someone else to behave in a way that makes you feel better 6:06 - #3: Power is most effective when it's consistent 6:51 - #4: Don't pretend your demands are requests 7:34 - How to stop confusing demands and requests 10:41 - How to build social power quickly
We've all accidentally blown it in a conversation that we really wanted to go well.
But that doesn't mean there wasn't potential for a good connection. Sometimes it just means you two talked about the wrong things :-)
Luckily, if you learn to detect the subtle signs of dislike EARLY in a conversation, you can change topics and potentially save the relationship.
Today’s video was a collab with body language expert Logan from the YouTube channel Observe. Thanks Logan for helping spot these 8 subtle signs that someone dislikes a conversation.
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0:00 - Intro 0:23 - #1: Their feet point away from you 0:37 - #2: They cross their leg 1:41 - #3: They're leaning sideways 0:47 - #4: Their torso is twisting away from you 2:03 - #5: Look for self-soothing gestures 3:00 - #6: Look out for compressed lips 3:24 - #7: Watch for a fake smile 3:38 - #8: Their eyes narrow after you've said something
We’ve all had conversations that started out friendly, then suddenly turned into an argument that made us feel attacked. The other person twists your words and uses little tricks to try to make you look dumb.
So today we’re going to break down a conversation just like that between Andrew Tate and Piers Morgan, to show you how to defend yourself in any argument, even if the other person is determined to make you look bad.
This video is NOT endorsing either of these people, it’s simply an analysis to teach you the tactics some people use to assert dominance in an argument.
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0:00 - Intro 0:30 - #1: Spot when they enter "fight mode" 1:14 - #2: Watch for misquoting 2:49 - #3: Beware of derailing interruptions 4:41 - #4: Don't steamroll concessions 5:57 - #5: Catch any logic gaps 7:34 - #6: Draw a conversational boundary 8:39 - #7: Acknowledge any common ground 9:40 - #8: Give yourself permission to change your mind 10:30 - Improve your confidence
Today you’re going to learn 7 easy ways to make people laugh and love being around you.
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0:00 - Intro 0:26 - #1: Say the opposite 0:51 - #2: Use looney tunes logic 1:44 - #3: Double down on your joke 2:59 - #4: Double down on someone else's joke 4:43 - #5: Use the reverse defense 5:40 - #6: Use the fake out method 6:19 - #7: Use go to jokes 7:35 - Find your personality and charisma style
Breaking Bad has one of the best character transformations in TV history. We watch Walter White go from a weak-looking pushover to a powerful presence who commands respect.
While you definitely don’t want to be like Walt in every way, there are 4 habits you can learn from him to look AND feel extremely confident in any situation.
And even though Breaking Bad is a scripted TV show, all the psychology covered in today’s video will apply to your actual life.
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0:00 - Intro 0:29 - #1: Adjust your body language 2:18 - #2: Speak slowly and uses pauses 3:12 - #3: Build stoic courage 5:23 - #4: Be irreplaceable
Matthew McConaughey gives off an almost effortless feeling of being cool. So today we’ll break down some of the habits that make him so charismatic and how you can incorporate them into your own life.
And it’s worth noting, while Matthew McConaughey is very handsome, his confidence and charisma can apply to you no matter what you look like.
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0:00 - Intro 0:15 - Set the mood 0:17 - #1: Move slowly and don't rush when speaking 0:52 - #2: Greet everyone around you 1:48 - #3: Make yourself comfortable 2:29 - #4: Stay anchored to yourself 3:20 - Be a magnetic storyteller 3:39 - #1: Use a good preframe 4:37 - #2: Share your emotional experience 5:00 - #3: Act out your characters 6:35 - #4: Tell the story with your hands 6:52 - #5: Tell your stories in the present tense 7:48 - How to put this to practice
If you’re an introvert, you may think that you’re destined to suffer socially. But one of today's MOST popular celebrities is a self-proclaimed introvert.
Even more amazing, Zendaya captivates people without pretending to be extroverted, which can feel exhausting and fake.
So today, you’ll learn 4 easy tricks to be charming as an introvert, without changing your personality. Our writing assistant and resident introvert Hadley will walk you through them.
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0:00 - Intro 0:23 - #1: Front load your enthusiasm 1:07 - #2: Use hand signals to capture attention 2:00 - #3: Speak through a smile 2:26 - #4: Listen with the intention of laughing
Today we’ll go over how to handle it when someone insults you.
We’ll start with a couple classic “destroy” comebacks. These are great at winning over an audience and embarrassing the person who insulted you. Be warned though, they may make the target of your comeback hate you.
Then we’ll cover some friendlier, more charismatic responses so that you come away looking cool and confident without making enemies.
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0:00 - Intro 0:17 - #1: The high status reframe 1:40 - #2: Accept the insult and use it against them 2:54 - #3: Insult the insult 3:27 - #4: Draw a boundary 4:31 - #5: The "tit for tat" or "eye for an eye" method 6:25 - #6: Show that you're unaffected 8:18 - How do I build deep, unshakable confidence?
In today’s video we’ll go through common mistakes men make when talking to women they’re attracted to. And what you can do instead to stop being boring and immediately be more attractive.
We’ll do this by breaking down some clips of Craig Ferguson.
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0:00 - Intro 0:25 - #1: Stop thinking of conversation as an exchange of information 2:13 - #2: Stop being excited about everything she says 5:06 - #3: Create an environment where women feel safe being flirty and sexual
In this video we’ll go through the 5 female body language cues of attraction. These are what you should be on the lookout for to see if a woman is intrigued, interested or attracted to you.
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0:00 - Intro 0:12 - #1: Look for the Marilyn 0:53 - #2: She crosses into your intimate zone 2:10 - #3: The direction her toes are pointed 2:52 - #4: Look for a "touch-me" 4:03 - #5: Look for a savor smile
We’ve all had those moments where we wish we could think of something funny to say, but our mind goes blank. It can be frustrating, especially when you’re talking to someone you really want to like you.
So in today’s video, we’ll go through 6 easy ways you can make people laugh or just love being around you.
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0:00 - Intro 0:12 - #1: Finish someone's incomplete sentence with a joke 1:48 - #2: Surprise them with unexpected absurd answers 2:59 - #3: Pivot to an exaggerated version of your real answer 4:12 - #4: Start saying your positive thoughts out loud 5:09 - #5: Be relentlessly positive 6:34 - #6: Focus on having fun
Actress Millie Bobby Brown has a polarizing but effortless charm that has made her incredibly popular. So in today’s video, we’ll break down 8 habits you can steal from Millie that will help you immediately make people like you.
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0:00 - Intro 0:10 - #1: The magnetic effect of having fun 0:57 - #2: Soften your tease with a laugh 2:17 - #3: Mix in compliments with your teases 3:15 - #4: Use warm platonic touch 3:32 - #5: Make your life relatable to others 5:30 - #6: Give expansive answers 6:34 - #7: Turn the conversation back on the other person 7:30 - #8: Be a likeable listener
People love Tommy Shelby from Peaky Blinders. He’s a quiet, introverted character, and at the same time extremely charismatic.
While you don’t want to be like Tommy in every way, there are 8 habits you can learn from him to instantly command respect from the people around you.
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0:00 - Intro 0:21 - #1: Have slow, relaxed movements 0:57 - #2: Hold eye contact, even during conflict 1:57 - #3: Be non-reactive to hostility 3:00 - #4: Be as big as your audience 3:33 - #5: Show conviction with your words 3:56 - #6: Show conviction with your tone 4:26 - #7: Speak slowly and use pauses between words 6:23 - #8: Use carrot / stick motivation
Johnny Depp’s relaxed confidence on the stand has helped make public perception around his trial with Amber Heard pretty one sided.
But as many other witnesses have shown, staying calm and confident is not easy under that kind of pressure. Which is why in this video we’ll be covering 5 things Johnny has done and that you can do to radiate extreme confidence that makes others trust and like you even in high pressure situations.
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0:00 - Intro 0:32 - #1: Control the cadence of the conversation 1:01 - #2: Maintain non reaction seeking body language 3:28 - #3: Catch and refuse frames you do not agree with 7:03 - #4: Confident people are able to control the emotional tone of an interaction 8:39 - #5: Confidence is easier to feel when you have positive reference experiences
Some people are extremely judgmental about height. And it sucks to be judged for something that’s totally out of your control. There’s no magic formula to get every single person to stop being prejudiced BUT there are tricks you can steal from some of the world’s most charismatic men to help you command more respect from the people around you. Regardless of your height.
This video isn’t meant to be a one size fits all solution. Instead, think of it as a menu to choose from. Pick the advice that fits the charisma style you like most.
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0:00 - Intro 0:25 - #1: Addressing your height 0:39 - Option 1: Go there first 1:09 - Option 2: Talk about it like it's no big deal 2:16 - Option 3: Don't make it a part of the conversation 3:04 - #2: Be a big presence 3:10 - Option 1: Be the loudest person in the room 3:37 - Option 2: Use expansive hand gestures 4:24 - Option 3: Freely use neutral space 4:57 - Option 4: Use platonic touch 5:52 - #3: Celebrate other people's success
Few things can ruin your life faster than a toxic relationship.
But most people hide their issues, so signs of being toxic aren’t obvious right off the bat. That’s why in this video we’ll cover 5 early signs you or someone you love is in a toxic relationship so that you can change things before it ruins your life.
Keep in mind that none of these mean you must break up immediately. Toxicity exists on a spectrum and these are just signs that you need to move things back towards the healthy side or get out.
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0:00 - Intro 0:30 - #1: Using totalizing language in arguments 1:30 - #2: Feeling compelled to gather evidence against your partner 2:04 - #3: Justifying aggressive behavior by making it a sign of love 3:00 - #4: Not believing someone when they show you’re not compatible 5:12 - #5: You don’t know the traumas that formed your childhood experience of love
Narcissists don’t behave like most people. They take advantage of the social rules we expect people to follow and their manipulations are shockingly effective if you’re unprepared.
That’s why in this video we’ll cover 5 tells that you’re dealing with a narcissist, one who is lying in an attempt to gaslight you. That way you’ll be more able to catch them and defend yourself.
We’ll be using Jussie Smollett as our example. For those of you who missed out, in 2019 he claimed to have been a victim of a hate crime. But his story quickly fell apart in ways that are instructive for catching narcissistic liars in your own life.
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0:00 - Intro 0:30 - Sign #1: Details that only serve to establish a desirable persona 1:47 - Sign #2: Other people's motivations relate back to them 3:23 - Sign #3: Making skepticism evidence of a character flaw in the disbeliever 5:06 - Sign #4: In the face of overwhelming evidence, they tend to dig in deeper 5:52 - Sign #5: A cost/benefit analysis of a narcissist's lies will probably make no sense to you 6:44 - Bonus Sign: Narcissists tend to be perpetually unhappy due to their image focused nature
Sometimes we know for sure we’ve done something to make people dislike us. But other times it’s less obvious and the slap isn’t the only thing that is causing Will to receive such backlash - there were several more common mistakes that turned people against him.
That’s why in this video we’ll cover 3 of the more subtle things Will did so you can avoid these mistakes in your own life. We will also get into the real reason why Will Smith hit Chris Rock, something I have not seen anyone else talk about yet.
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0:00 - Intro 0:24 - Mistake #1: Triangulating yourself into your significant other's relationships 1:40 - Mistake #2: Dodging ownership of bad behavior 3:12 - Mistake #3: Carrying emotional baggage to your interactions
Volodymyr Zelensky has been extremely effective at getting people and nations from around the world to support his cause in the conflict against Putin’s Russia.
So in this video we’ll break down 5 leadership habits that you can use to command MASSIVE respect and make people want to follow you whether you’re trying to lead in business, politics, or just your social life.
(We’ll also touch on Putin’s approach in regards to these same habits).
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0:00 - Intro 0:37 - #1: Show people how what's good for you is good for them 2:15 - #2: Describe the heaven if they side with you, and the hell if they don't 4:14 - #3: Give your followers a high reputation to live up to 6:20 - #4: Praise people publicly 7:29 - #5: Your own behavior sets the standard for everyone around you
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Some people can say just about anything, tell jokes huge that should be terrible and still make an audience roar with laughter.
That was Norm MacDonald and its why in this video we’ll be breaking him down to cover how you can make people obsessed with you by telling bad jokes that still manage to kill.
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0:00 - Intro 0:27 - #1: Smile while you're joking 1:09 - #2: Explain your jokes 2:31 - #3: The dead bait method 4:09 - #4: Make it obvious you're lying 6:10 - #5: The long, meandering prank joke 7:36 - The Meta Method
We’ve all felt the frustration of arguing with someone that just won’t listen. So in this video, we’ll go through 6 tips to actually change a stubborn person’s mind, without hurting your relationship.
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0:00 - Intro 0:09 - #1: Say two things they’ll agree with before stating where you disagree 1:14 - #2: Use an analogy you know they’ll agree with 3:01 - #3: Maintain a calm conversational tone 3:30 - #4: Allow for playful breaks 4:08 - #5: Clarify the person’s ideas before you disagree with them 5:15 - #6: Debate ideas, not terminology
Tommy Shelby was our most requested video ever. So today we’re doing a breakdown that’s long overdue: his frenemy, Alfie Solomons.
While you don’t want to be like Alfie in every way, there are 4 habits you can learn from him to instantly command more respect from the people around you.
And even though Peaky Blinders is a scripted TV show, all the psychology covered in today’s video will apply to your actual life.
0:00 - Intro 0:41 - #1: Be calm in situations where most people 2:12 - #2: Hold eye contact during conflict 3:30 - #3: Don't let other people dictate where your attention goes 5:02 - #4: Be honest even when it goes against your best interests
In today’s video, you’ll learn 5 steps that will help you connect with, and then impress, anyone. No matter how unreachable they may seem.
We’ll do this by breaking down some tricks used by MrBeast, Tim Ferriss, and Yes Theory to connect with people like Will Smith, Justin Trudeau, Elon Musk, and more.
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0:00 - Intro 0:16 - #1: Find a low traffic connection 1:35 - #2: Be a beacon 2:55 - #3: Lead with value 6:55 - #4: Abandon first-instinct questions 7:15 - #5: Stop hero worshipping