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HIGHLIGHTS FROM LEADING VOICES ON MARRIAGE: A MUST-WATCH VIDEO
Dear marriage supporter,
This is the first of three compilation videos over the holiday period, featuring highlights from our many interviews throughout the year. The video draws together powerful excerpts from leading international authors and speakers. Their combined wisdom shows us the vital importance of man-woman marriage as the foundation of a healthy society. Watch the full compilation video here. NB links to the individual interviews are given below.
Nancy Pearcey reveals how the Industrial Revolution disrupted men’s traditional “caretaking ethos”, leading to a negative shift in perceptions of masculinity. She asks: “Can we reconnect men to their families, even in an industrial era?”. This theme of restoration resonates through the interviews.
Paul Dirks speaks of the family as a unit of resistance against cultural pressures that undermine its structure. Meanwhile, Revd Matthew Roberts insists that Christian teaching on sex and identity is “incredibly good news” and offers a richer understanding of humanity.
Louise Kirk shares her approach to relationships and sex education, emphasising that it should not do “great damage” to children. She highlights her book Sexuality Explained as a tool for parents to teach these sensitive topics with care and wisdom.
Dr Miriam Grossman warns about the ‘ambush’ of families by trans ideology, stressing the importance of affirming children’s emotions without affirming false beliefs. Katy Faust adds that surrogacy and the commodification of children prioritise adult desires over the rights and needs of children. She asserts: “It’s not about adult fulfilment… This must be evaluated through the best interests of the child.”
Mary Eberstadt highlights the consequences of the sexual revolution, saying: “Many people don’t understand anymore why people lived in families in the first place.” She calls for a renewal of marriage’s benefits across all social strata.
Prof Mark Regnerus explores how ‘cheap sex’ has devalued commitment and diminished the appeal of marriage. Dr Jennifer Roback Morse identifies “divorce ideology” and “gender ideology” as forces that undermine the family, stating: “everyone really, truly wants reliable love”.
At C4M, these voices remind us of the critical role of marriage in shaping a stable and flourishing society. By championing one-man, one-woman marriage, we protect not just the institution itself but the well-being of future generations. Be inspired by these thought leaders and consider sharing their wisdom with others.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so using the button at c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
facebook.com/coalition4marriage
individual video links:
Jan 13, 2024 Nancy Pearcey Part 1 of 2 - marriage and men
youtu.be/_C15Xa26j7E
Jan 20, 2024 The Future of Family: Insights from Nancy Pearcey
youtu.be/ZjmFQG8zAPU
Jan 27, 2024 Family as a unit of resistance – Paul Dirks
youtu.be/-Q3q5MLYZLs
Feb 10, 2024 Identity and the Worship of Self: Interview with Rev Matthew PW Roberts
youtu.be/cXMXGllgT8o
Feb 17, 2024 Alternative RSE materials that won't "do damage" - Louise Kirk
youtu.be/7N8-GjXhWhg
Apr 6, 2024Families are being "ambushed" by trans ideology - Dr Miriam Grossman
youtu.be/MhI8k_an-Gk
Apr 13, 2024Mothers and Fathers have become optional in parenthood / surrogacy - Katy Faust
youtu.be/N-gKv0TLyfU
May 25, 2024 Society is "forgetting elemental human truths" - Mary Eberstadt
youtu.be/XgtBSbk_fWU
Jul 6, 2024 How Marriage Survives our Cheap-Sex Culture - Prof Mark Regnerus
youtu.be/IqAieA-tEOs
Sep 7, 2024 Fix Society by Re-gendering Marriage - Dr Jennifer Roback Morse
youtu.be/9qsqvb_dvd4
HIGHLIGHTS FROM LEADING VOICES ON MARRIAGE: A MUST-WATCH VIDEO
Dear marriage supporter,
This is the first of three compilation videos over the holiday period, featuring highlights from our many interviews throughout the year. The video draws together powerful excerpts from leading international authors and speakers. Their combined wisdom shows us the vital importance of man-woman marriage as the foundation of a healthy society. Watch the full compilation video here. NB links to the individual interviews are given below.
Nancy Pearcey reveals how the Industrial Revolution disrupted men’s traditional “caretaking ethos”, leading to a negative shift in perceptions of masculinity. She asks: “Can we reconnect men to their families, even in an industrial era?”. This theme of restoration resonates through the interviews.
Paul Dirks speaks of the family as a unit of resistance against cultural pressures that undermine its structure. Meanwhile, Revd Matthew Roberts insists that Christian teaching on sex and identity is “incredibly good news” and offers a richer understanding of humanity.
Louise Kirk shares her approach to relationships and sex education, emphasising that it should not do “great damage” to children. She highlights her book Sexuality Explained as a tool for parents to teach these sensitive topics with care and wisdom.
Dr Miriam Grossman warns about the ‘ambush’ of families by trans ideology, stressing the importance of affirming children’s emotions without affirming false beliefs. Katy Faust adds that surrogacy and the commodification of children prioritise adult desires over the rights and needs of children. She asserts: “It’s not about adult fulfilment… This must be evaluated through the best interests of the child.”
Mary Eberstadt highlights the consequences of the sexual revolution, saying: “Many people don’t understand anymore why people lived in families in the first place.” She calls for a renewal of marriage’s benefits across all social strata.
Prof Mark Regnerus explores how ‘cheap sex’ has devalued commitment and diminished the appeal of marriage. Dr Jennifer Roback Morse identifies “divorce ideology” and “gender ideology” as forces that undermine the family, stating: “everyone really, truly wants reliable love”.
At C4M, these voices remind us of the critical role of marriage in shaping a stable and flourishing society. By championing one-man, one-woman marriage, we protect not just the institution itself but the well-being of future generations. Be inspired by these thought leaders and consider sharing their wisdom with others.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so using the button at c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
facebook.com/coalition4marriage
individual video links:
Jan 13, 2024 Nancy Pearcey Part 1 of 2 - marriage and men
youtu.be/_C15Xa26j7E
Jan 20, 2024 The Future of Family: Insights from Nancy Pearcey
youtu.be/ZjmFQG8zAPU
Jan 27, 2024 Family as a unit of resistance – Paul Dirks
youtu.be/-Q3q5MLYZLs
Feb 10, 2024 Identity and the Worship of Self: Interview with Rev Matthew PW Roberts
youtu.be/cXMXGllgT8o
Feb 17, 2024 Alternative RSE materials that won't "do damage" - Louise Kirk
youtu.be/7N8-GjXhWhg
Apr 6, 2024Families are being "ambushed" by trans ideology - Dr Miriam Grossman
youtu.be/MhI8k_an-Gk
Apr 13, 2024Mothers and Fathers have become optional in parenthood / surrogacy - Katy Faust
youtu.be/N-gKv0TLyfU
May 25, 2024 Society is "forgetting elemental human truths" - Mary Eberstadt
youtu.be/XgtBSbk_fWU
Jul 6, 2024 How Marriage Survives our Cheap-Sex Culture - Prof Mark Regnerus
youtu.be/IqAieA-tEOs
Sep 7, 2024 Fix Society by Re-gendering Marriage - Dr Jennifer Roback Morse
youtu.be/9qsqvb_dvd4



![Activists want to replace family values in schools. Elizabeth Harewood (ACT) and Tony Rucinski
INTERVIEW: ACTIVISTS WANT TO ‘REPLACE FAMILY VALUES’ IN SCHOOLS
Dear marriage supporter,
The Association of Christian Teachers (ACT), has published deeply concerning findings about how traditional views of marriage and gender are treated in schools. Watch my discussion with ACT’s Lizzie Harewood about this here.
ACT’s investigation was prompted by numerous teachers who felt “forced” into activities counter to their beliefs, such as Pride marches, or who saw their young pupils exposed to “drag-queen story time” against their wishes. It aimed to find out if these instances were isolated or part of a broader trend by speaking to teachers who champion man-woman marriage and traditional gender views.
The research centred on the nature of Relationships and Sex Education (RSE) materials, exemplary practices, and how schools responded to moral objections about resources and third-party providers. Lizzie told me that three startling revelations emerged:
1. A clear “existence of … ideological bias in the curriculum” that neglects traditional views on marriage and gender.
2. The growing marginalisation of teachers upholding these values, leading them into “unnecessary [professional] dilemmas”.
3. A number of educators are being removed from teaching RSE due to their convictions, even when these are presented “in a balanced way”.
Beyond these core findings, many teachers face a looming “state of fear” should they voice concerns or seek a balanced teaching approach. Disturbingly, certain ideological groups seem to believe it’s their right to “replace family values”. Some educators reported that the benefits of children growing up with married parents receive “no mention”.
However, Lizzie highlighted ACT’s unwavering commitment to supporting Christians in education. Its backing for traditional beliefs around man-woman marriage and immutable gender stems from a conviction that these principles result in the best outcomes for all children, irrespective of their faith.
C4M knows that optimal outcomes for both adults and children spring from the gold standard of man-woman marriage. Teaching this to the next generation in a balanced manner should be paramount. We encourage you to share the interview, stand with educators facing these challenges, and advocate for the rightful recognition of real marriage in education and society at large.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so using the donate button on our website at http://www.c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
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![The Church Must Take a Stand on Marriage - Revd Dr Joe Boot interview with Dr Tony Rucinski
THE CHURCH MUST TAKE A STAND ON MARRIAGE
Dear marriage supporter,
Reverend Dr Joe Boot, founder of the Ezra Institute, recently joined me for a must-watch interview, offering essential guidance for all – and especially today’s church leaders. Dr Boot’s intellect and insight shed light on the urgent need for the Church to uphold man-woman marriage. Marriage, he says, is a foundational institution that transcends religious boundaries, with relevance to people from all faiths and none. The full interview is available here, along with a shorter seven-minute clip for those pressed for time - https://youtu.be/Sgu9AP7pTe8
In our conversation, Revd Dr Boot emphasises that “the message of the Gospel” includes “human identity and sexuality”. Revd Dr Boot offers practical advice on how busy pastors can find time to tackle these cultural challenges, stressing that this should be a vital aspect of their ministry.
He does not shy away from the reality that many non-Christians are deeply disappointed with the Church’s stand on these issues. He insists that “we have to show… compassion and kindness without compromising what is true”.
He quotes that marriage is “the cosmological key to the universe”, emphasising the profound significance of marriage to the stability of society.
The cultural attacks on marriage and family are not new, Dr Boot argues. But the Church cannot afford to stay silent. Emphasising the responsibility of the Church to engage in these cultural battles, he asserts: “You can’t leave that struggle to JK Rowling… [and] Sharron Davies”.
C4M believes that the restoration of real marriage will be driven by the silent majority speaking out. To support this effort, please forward this email to any church leaders you know and encourage them to listen to Dr Boot’s important message.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so via the donate button at http://www.c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
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