"Thank God I'm a Virgin" is an exploration of the logical consequences of a Christian purity culture that places undue emphasis on the status of one's virginity, especially female virginity, over against one's character and heart. It seeks to correct and indict those who would set themselves up as judge of who is in and who is out of the kingdom and community of God on the basis of their sexuality.
Well thank God I’m a virgin! Or he probably wouldn’t want me. I thought as I listened silently While he told me That he just couldn’t be with someone Who had been with someone else, Which is like 90% of adults by the age of 25, So your already limited pool is shrinking very quickly, But don’t let me discourage you. Carry on. Tell me how you saved yourself. How you saved up enough points with God To buy an unspoiled bride And you will not settle for less. Tell me about her white dress, How it will “mean something.” Tell me what it means. Tell me what it’s like to have nothing you regret, To have made it through life unscathed By either bliss or pain. What does that feel like? Is it very lonely? Or does it just feel safe, Like keeping your cocoon heart all wrapped up and tucked away Hoping to God someday it becomes a butterfly Before it dies from the frost. I hope whoever she is, She meets all your expectations. I hope enough of her heart is intact For you to feel like the wait was worth it. I hope she never knows you wouldn’t have wanted her If she wasn’t a virgin. Cause everybody knows a girl is only as valuable As the men who haven’t touched her. Only as desirable as the experiences she hasn’t had. But baby, when you get to her, She better know what to do in bed. She better satisfy your wildest pornographic fantasies, Know all the right ways to move Body parts she has never had the chance to use. Cause God would never fail you, right? You waited on his timing, now he owes you. Anything less is not the bill of goods they sold you. So I hope it works out for you. I really do. But if it doesn’t, just remember what I told you. That a heart cannot be divided into pieces And given away till there is nothing left. That the greatest gift you can give Has nothing to do with your flesh. That love is really just grace. That a lifetime of avoidance Does not prepare one for a lifetime of joy and pain. That “virgin” is not a sexual preference, Nor is it your birthright. Baby, your insecurity is showing. She chose you. What more do you want?
"Thank God I'm a Virgin" is an exploration of the logical consequences of a Christian purity culture that places undue emphasis on the status of one's virginity, especially female virginity, over against one's character and heart. It seeks to correct and indict those who would set themselves up as judge of who is in and who is out of the kingdom and community of God on the basis of their sexuality.
Well thank God I’m a virgin! Or he probably wouldn’t want me. I thought as I listened silently While he told me That he just couldn’t be with someone Who had been with someone else, Which is like 90% of adults by the age of 25, So your already limited pool is shrinking very quickly, But don’t let me discourage you. Carry on. Tell me how you saved yourself. How you saved up enough points with God To buy an unspoiled bride And you will not settle for less. Tell me about her white dress, How it will “mean something.” Tell me what it means. Tell me what it’s like to have nothing you regret, To have made it through life unscathed By either bliss or pain. What does that feel like? Is it very lonely? Or does it just feel safe, Like keeping your cocoon heart all wrapped up and tucked away Hoping to God someday it becomes a butterfly Before it dies from the frost. I hope whoever she is, She meets all your expectations. I hope enough of her heart is intact For you to feel like the wait was worth it. I hope she never knows you wouldn’t have wanted her If she wasn’t a virgin. Cause everybody knows a girl is only as valuable As the men who haven’t touched her. Only as desirable as the experiences she hasn’t had. But baby, when you get to her, She better know what to do in bed. She better satisfy your wildest pornographic fantasies, Know all the right ways to move Body parts she has never had the chance to use. Cause God would never fail you, right? You waited on his timing, now he owes you. Anything less is not the bill of goods they sold you. So I hope it works out for you. I really do. But if it doesn’t, just remember what I told you. That a heart cannot be divided into pieces And given away till there is nothing left. That the greatest gift you can give Has nothing to do with your flesh. That love is really just grace. That a lifetime of avoidance Does not prepare one for a lifetime of joy and pain. That “virgin” is not a sexual preference, Nor is it your birthright. Baby, your insecurity is showing. She chose you. What more do you want?5 Minute Yoga You Can Do In The Bathroom While Hiding From Your FamilyEmily Joy2017-11-20 | The holidays are upon us! We all need to hide from our family in the bathroom occasionally during the holidays. Grab your headphones and move through this quick flow then get back out there - they'll never know you were gone.
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A dichotomy is a sharp division or contrast between opposing, often mutually exclusive things. It's confusing, counter-intuitive, a bit of a paradox—and artistically, emotionally, even theologically, this describes Dichotomized, Emily Joy's debut spoken word project, perfectly. As the title implies, it's a schismatic work. Dichotomized chronicles Emily's struggle to come to terms with the truth about God, her past and her future, giving a window into the abject despair and guttural anger that often accompanies the process of wading through the lies to find the truth.
It's is a story of pain, change, call, response, and worship.
It's a devotional...
It's a lament....
It's an invective...
It's a prayer....
It's Dichotomized. credits released 01 February 2013 All pieces written and performed by Emily Joy Allison
Produced, Recorded, Mixed, & Mastered by:
Emery M. Jackson Alter-boy Productions www.alt-boy.comEmily Joy - Rock Bottom feat. Micah BournesEmily Joy2013-02-06 | Poetry by Emily Joy, from new her EP "Dichotomized". www.emilyjoypoetry.com
A dichotomy is a sharp division or contrast between opposing, often mutually exclusive things. It's confusing, counter-intuitive, a bit of a paradox—and artistically, emotionally, even theologically, this describes Dichotomized, Emily Joy's debut spoken word project, perfectly. As the title implies, it's a schismatic work. Dichotomized chronicles Emily's struggle to come to terms with the truth about God, her past and her future, giving a window into the abject despair and guttural anger that often accompanies the process of wading through the lies to find the truth.
It's is a story of pain, change, call, response, and worship.
It's a devotional...
It's a lament....
It's an invective...
It's a prayer....
It's Dichotomized. credits released 01 February 2013 All pieces written and performed by Emily Joy Allison
Produced, Recorded, Mixed, & Mastered by:
Emery M. Jackson Alter-boy Productions www.alt-boy.comEmily Joy - I Want You To Love MeEmily Joy2013-02-06 | Poetry by Emily Joy, from new her EP "Dichotomized". www.emilyjoypoetry.com
A dichotomy is a sharp division or contrast between opposing, often mutually exclusive things. It's confusing, counter-intuitive, a bit of a paradox—and artistically, emotionally, even theologically, this describes Dichotomized, Emily Joy's debut spoken word project, perfectly. As the title implies, it's a schismatic work. Dichotomized chronicles Emily's struggle to come to terms with the truth about God, her past and her future, giving a window into the abject despair and guttural anger that often accompanies the process of wading through the lies to find the truth.
It's is a story of pain, change, call, response, and worship.
It's a devotional...
It's a lament....
It's an invective...
It's a prayer....
It's Dichotomized. credits released 01 February 2013 All pieces written and performed by Emily Joy Allison
A dichotomy is a sharp division or contrast between opposing, often mutually exclusive things. It's confusing, counter-intuitive, a bit of a paradox—and artistically, emotionally, even theologically, this describes Dichotomized, Emily Joy's debut spoken word project, perfectly. As the title implies, it's a schismatic work. Dichotomized chronicles Emily's struggle to come to terms with the truth about God, her past and her future, giving a window into the abject despair and guttural anger that often accompanies the process of wading through the lies to find the truth.
It's is a story of pain, change, call, response, and worship.
It's a devotional...
It's a lament....
It's an invective...
It's a prayer....
It's Dichotomized. credits released 01 February 2013 All pieces written and performed by Emily Joy Allison
A dichotomy is a sharp division or contrast between opposing, often mutually exclusive things. It's confusing, counter-intuitive, a bit of a paradox—and artistically, emotionally, even theologically, this describes Dichotomized, Emily Joy's debut spoken word project, perfectly. As the title implies, it's a schismatic work. Dichotomized chronicles Emily's struggle to come to terms with the truth about God, her past and her future, giving a window into the abject despair and guttural anger that often accompanies the process of wading through the lies to find the truth.
It's is a story of pain, change, call, response, and worship.
It's a devotional...
It's a lament....
It's an invective...
It's a prayer....
It's Dichotomized. credits released 01 February 2013 All pieces written and performed by Emily Joy Allison
A dichotomy is a sharp division or contrast between opposing, often mutually exclusive things. It's confusing, counter-intuitive, a bit of a paradox—and artistically, emotionally, even theologically, this describes Dichotomized, Emily Joy's debut spoken word project, perfectly. As the title implies, it's a schismatic work. Dichotomized chronicles Emily's struggle to come to terms with the truth about God, her past and her future, giving a window into the abject despair and guttural anger that often accompanies the process of wading through the lies to find the truth.
It's is a story of pain, change, call, response, and worship.
It's a devotional...
It's a lament....
It's an invective...
It's a prayer....
It's Dichotomized. credits released 01 February 2013 All pieces written and performed by Emily Joy Allison