Birth During Covid: Podcast Preview Should I Have Another Baby? @estherperel

Uploaded April 2026 | Updated September 2026, 6 hours ago

I'm curious: What are your thoughts on reflecting on our collective experience at the height of Covid, now, in 2026?

In this past Monday's podcast episode, I speak with a woman experiencing PTSD from a traumatic labor and postpartum. One element of her experience is that she gave birth doing Covid.

In this reel, I discuss experiencing major life transitions and rituals alone; and I received varied early feedback. Either: We don't talk enough about this anymore and we're all still feeling it; or, conversely, We're all fatigued from hearing about Covid endlessly for years.

What are your thoughts on this? And, is there a major life event you experienced alone during Covid? Watch the latest episode of Where Should We Begin? on YouTube: youtube.com/watch?v=SfpgVBBACc8

Birth During Covid: Podcast Preview Should I Have Another Baby?

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