Name: Fearful Avoidant & The Ick: Understanding Attachment Style Signs | HealingFa.com @healingthefearfulavoidant
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Description: Fearful Avoidant & The Ick: Understanding Attachment Style Signs | HealingFa.com

Fearful Avoidant & The Ick: Understanding Attachment Style Signs | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2026-09-25 | Fearful Avoidant & The Ick: Understanding Attachment Style Signs | HealingFa.com

I Want You To Be Lazy and Spoiled | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-10-02 | Do you feel guilty for wanting to rest or for wanting more?
This is nothing more than an old story that no longer serves you: a pattern where you don’t allow yourself to be lazy or to desire abundance, because you were never allowed to as a child. You feel like you always have to prove your worth before resting, receiving, or enjoying life fully. And it's getting in the way of your happiness.

In this video, I explain:
Why being Lazy & Spoiled is actually a good thing
Why denying yourself rest keeps you stuck
How embracing desires heals fearful avoidant attachment
How “too much” can actually liberate you
The role of rest and indulgence in growth

This is a must-watch if you ask:
“Why do I sabotage myself when I want more?”
“Why can’t I allow myself to rest?”
"Why do I always feel like I have to do more?"

#healingfearfulavoidant #lazyandspoiled #fearfulavoidantattachment #selfworthhealing #growthmindset #triggers #allowingcomfort #allowinghappiness

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Video Title: I Want You To Be Lazy and Spoiled

00:00 I Want You to Be Lazy
02:54 I Want You to Be Spoiled
06:09 Embracing Your Desires
11:51 Unlocking Freedom & Growth

This video is about I Want You To Be Lazy and Spoiled, But It also covers the following topics:

Procrastination
Why rest triggers fear
Why you don't listen to your body

✅ Stay Connected With Me.

👉Facebook: http://facebook.com/healingthefearfulavoidant
‌👉Instagram: instagram.com/healingthefearfulavoidant

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉3 Taylor Swift lyrics that show fearful avoidant signs
youtube.com/watch?v=O8xUzlbEIqQ

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

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✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

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Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

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How I Mastered the Art of Neutrality to Heal the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-09-25 | Do you find yourself chasing intense emotions but never feeling fulfilled?
This is what I call the Fearful Avoidant “Intensity Trap”: a pattern where you put passion, highs, or intensity on a pedestal, believing that the more you feel, the more love, success, or happiness you’ll get. You feel addicted to emotions, but they keep you stuck, exhausted, and chasing rather than receiving.

In this video, I explain:
What the Intensity Trap is
Why neutrality and “boring” actually give you what you want
How chasing highs and lows keeps you stuck
Why obsessively saturating what you want works
Real-life examples of leaning into calm and stability
How to build a fulfilling life on neutrality

This is a must-watch if you ask:
“Why do I keep chasing highs and lows?”
“Why can’t I just allow love, success, or happiness in?”
“How do I stop sabotaging myself?”

#healingfearfulavoidant #intensitytrap #fearfulavoidantattachment #attachmenthealing #neutralityhealing #leanintoboring #stopchasinghighs #masterneutrality

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📘 Want the free guide Deactivation vs. Connection Breaking?
healingcards.kit.com/connectionbreaking

🔔 Subscribe for more videos on attachment patterns, trauma-informed love, and the healing path for Fearful Avoidants.

✨ Ready to start healing with clarity and confidence?
Find all my FREE Resource to healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style FASTER and EASIER here:🔗 healingfa.com 💫

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Video Title: How I Mastered the Art of Neutrality to Heal the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style

00:00 What Neutrality Will Give You
03:47 Why “Boring” Actually Works
05:19 Healing the Chase for Good
11:29 Building Your Life on Neutrality

This video is about How I Mastered the Art of Neutrality to Heal the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style But It also covers the following topics:

emotional rollercoaster relationships
push and pull recovery
intimacy without doubts

✅ Stay Connected With Me.

👉Facebook: http://facebook.com/healingthefearfulavoidant
‌👉Instagram: instagram.com/healingthefearfulavoidant

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

© Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant

Why You Need To Stop This One Thing to Heal the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-09-18 | Do you find yourself constantly fixing problems before allowing happiness in?
This is what I call the Fearful Avoidant “Fixing Trap”: a pattern where you manage, control, or perfect everything before you allow love, abundance, or joy to flow into your life. You feel stuck, always postponing the good stuff, because your fear brain tells you it’s unsafe otherwise.

In this video, I explain:
What the Fixing Trap is
Why perfectionism keeps you stuck
How control and fear block your happiness
Why allowing the good in is a mindset shift
Real-life examples of letting go
How to start receiving without fixing first

This is a must-watch if you ask:
“Why do I sabotage happiness?”
“Why do I feel unworthy of love or success?”
“Why can’t I just allow myself to receive?”

#healingfearfulavoidant #fixingtrap #fearfulavoidantattachment #attachmenthealing #controllinghappiness #endlessfixing #perfectionism #lettinggo

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📘 Want the free guide Deactivation vs. Connection Breaking?
healingcards.kit.com/connectionbreaking

🔔 Subscribe for more videos on attachment patterns, trauma-informed love, and the healing path for Fearful Avoidants.

✨ Ready to start healing with clarity and confidence?
Find all my FREE Resource to healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style FASTER and EASIER here:🔗 healingfa.com 💫

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Video Title: Why You Need To Stop This One Thing to Heal the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style

00:00 Stop Chasing Problems, Start Feeling Joy
02:09 The Trap of Perfection
07:35 Mindset Shift: Allow Happiness Now

This video is about Why You Need To Stop This One Thing to Heal the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, but It also covers the following topics:

Obsessive Saturation
Pittfalls of Healing
Living in Abundance

✅ Stay Connected With Me.

👉Facebook: http://facebook.com/healingthefearfulavoidant
‌👉Instagram: instagram.com/healingthefearfulavoidant

=============================

✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

© Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant

How I used Obsessive Saturation to Heal the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-09-11 | Do you spend years releasing trauma and resistance, yet still feel stuck?
This was my experience until I started with Obsessive Saturation: using the obsessive mind that so many fearful avoidants carry, not to spiral in fear, but to rewire your story and finally allow in love, happiness, and expansion.

In this video, I explain:
Why releasing old pain alone isn’t enough for FA healing
How obsession can actually be a gift, not a curse
What “obsessive saturation” looks like in practice
Why fear is a terrible advisor for your life
How to use obsession to collapse time in your healing

This is a must-watch if you find yourself asking:
“Why do I keep healing but never feel happy?”
“Why do I always fall back into the same old story?”
“Can my obsessive mind ever work for me instead of against me?”

Obsessive Saturation is one of the most overlooked tools for fearful avoidants—and it can completely change your healing journey.
#fearfulavoidant #obsessivesaturation #attachmenthealing #traumahealing #fearfulavoidanthealing #selfhealing #healingjourney #attachmenttheory

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📘 FREE FA Trigger and Behavior Map for partners
understandingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔 Subscribe for more videos on attachment patterns, trauma-informed love, and the healing path for Fearful Avoidants.

✨ Ready to start healing with clarity and confidence?
Find all my FREE Resource to healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style FASTER and EASIER here:🔗 healingfa.com 💫

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Video Title: How I used Obsessive Saturation to Heal the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style

00:00 Why Releasing Alone Isn’t Enough
01:35 The Edge of Expansion
02:39 The Value of Obsession
05:13 Obsessive Saturation
08:47 Fear is a Bad Advisor

This video is about How I used Obsessive Saturation to Heal the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style But It also covers the following topics:

Turning obsession into growth
How you can get stuck in Healing
Why releasing trauma isn’t enough

✅ Stay Connected With Me.

👉Facebook: http://facebook.com/healingthefearfulavoidant
‌👉Instagram: instagram.com/healingthefearfulavoidant

=============================

✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

© Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant

The Wall: Why Fearful Avoidants Go Cold | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-09-04 | Do you sometimes go from warm and open to suddenly cold and shut down?
This is what I call The Wall: an invisible shield that slams down when a fearful avoidant feels triggered. One moment you want closeness, the next you’re unreachable.

In this video, I explain:
What the Wall feels like inside the fearful avoidant
Why the Wall happens and where it comes from
Everyday triggers that make the Wall slam down
How partners can respond with compassion instead of panic
The exact steps I used to heal and release the Wall for good

This is a must-watch if you find yourself asking:
“Why do I suddenly go cold in my relationship?”
“Why do I shut down even when I don’t want to?”
“Why do I blame my partner when deep down it’s fear?”

The Wall is one of the core defense mechanisms fearful avoidants carry, AND it’s also completely healable.

#fearfulavoidant #healingfearfulavoidant #attachmenthealing #fearofintimacy #healingthewall #relationshiphealing #attachmenttheory #traumahealing

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📘 FREE FA Trigger and Behavior Map for partners
understandingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔 Subscribe for more videos on attachment patterns, trauma-informed love, and the healing path for Fearful Avoidants.

✨ Ready to start healing with clarity and confidence?
Find all my FREE Resource to healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style FASTER and EASIER here:🔗 healingfa.com 💫

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Video Title: The 'Wall': Why Fearful Avoidants Go Cold

00:00 What Does the Wall Feel Like?
05:34 Why the Wall Comes Up
07:13 Triggers That Spark the Wall
18:42 Navigating the Wall Together
21:11 How I Healed the Wall

This video is about The 'Wall': Why Fearful Avoidants Go Cold But It also covers the following topics:

Why do I suddenly feel numb in my relationship?
Hyper Critical Parents
Why do I crave intense and passionate love?

✅ Stay Connected With Me.

👉Facebook: http://facebook.com/healingthefearfulavoidant
‌👉Instagram: instagram.com/healingthefearfulavoidant

=============================

✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

© Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant

How My Husband Stayed With Me as a Fearful Avoidant | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-08-28 | Today is a very special day: Our 17 Year Anniversary!
And to celebrate, I wanted too share with you a special interview with my husband, Arjen. He shares why he stayed with me through my Fearful Avoidant patterns, moments of crash outs, emotional withdrawal, and push-pull cycles.

In this video, I explain:
Why he stayed even when I was halfway out emotionally
How he navigated my moments of fear and distance
What kept him committed and loving throughout our journey
How his perspective can help Fearful Avoidants and their partners

This is a must-watch if you ever ask:
“Why do people stay with me even when I push them away?”
“How can love survive Fearful Avoidant patterns?”
“How can I be there for my Fearful Avoidant partner?”

This conversation gives a rare, real-life view of what keeps a relationship together…even with a Fearful Avoidant.
#healingfearfulavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment #pushpull #relationshiphealing #fearofintimacy #committedlove #emotionallyunavailable #attachmenttheory

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📘 FREE FA Trigger and Behavior Map for partners
understandingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔 Subscribe for more videos on attachment patterns, trauma-informed love, and the healing path for Fearful Avoidants.

✨ Ready to start healing with clarity and confidence?
Find all my FREE Resource to healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style FASTER and EASIER here:🔗 healingfa.com 💫

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Video Title: How My Husband Stayed With Me as a Fearful Avoidant

00:00 Introducing Arjen & Our Story
02:28 How He Handled My Crash Outs
05:35 Staying Warm & Loving Through Distance
16:43 What Made Him Stay Through It All
20:39 Falling in Love & Choosing Marriage

This video is about How My Husband Stayed With Me as a Fearful Avoidant, but It also covers the following topics:

Relationship Advice for FA Patterns
Commitment Through Push-Pull Dynamics
How to be a supportive partner

✅ Stay Connected With Me.

👉Facebook: http://facebook.com/healingthefearfulavoidant
‌👉Instagram: instagram.com/healingthefearfulavoidant

=============================

✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉3 Taylor Swift lyrics that show fearful avoidant signs
youtube.com/watch?v=O8xUzlbEIqQ

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

=================================

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

© Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant

The Judge Brake: What it is and Why it Keeps You From Moving Forward | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-08-21 | Do you get excited about something, but then suddenly stop yourself?
This is what I call the Judge Brake: a start-stop mechanism that slams the brakes whenever you move towards what you truly want. You want to go forward, yet something inside you holds back. You feel desire, yet hesitation. Motivation, yet self-sabotage.

In this video, I explain:
What the Judge Brake is
Where it comes from in childhood experiences and hypercritical parenting
How it shows up physically and emotionally
Why understanding the physical reaction is key to healing
How to release the Judge Brake so you can move freely toward what you love

This is a must-watch if you find yourself asking:
“Why do I hold back when I’m excited?”
“Why do I sabotage myself even when I really want something?”
“Why does moving towards happiness feel so hard?”

The Judge Brake is one of the core mechanisms Fearful Avoidants carry, often without realizing it.

#healingfearfulavoidant #judgebrake #startstop #defencemechanism #perfectionism #selfsabotage #fearofintimacy #attachmenttheory #fearfulavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment

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Video Title: The Judge Brake: What it is and Why it Keeps You From Moving Forward

00:00 What is the Judge Brake?
01:34 Where Does the Judge Brake Come From?
06:58 Understanding What the Judge Brake Feels Like
10:27 How to Release the Judge Brake and Move Freely

This video is about The Judge Brake: What it is and Why it Keeps You From Moving Forward But It also covers the following topics:

How Do I Stop Self Sabotage?
Effects of Hyper-Critisms
Why Am I So Afraid of Making Mistakes?

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

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✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

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Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

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HOW to stop the Push and Pull in a Fearful Avoidant Relationship | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-08-14 | Are you caught in the push and pull of your relationship, unsure how to find stability?
This is the Fearful Avoidant Push and Pull Dynamic, driven by what I call the Extremities Mechanism: a cycle where love feels irresistible yet terrifying, closeness pulls you in, and fear pushes you away.

In this video, I explain:
What the Push and Pull Dynamic really is
How the Extremities Mechanism keeps Fearful Avoidants flip flopping between closeness and distance
Practical steps to stop the cycle and build consistent connection
How partners can support an FA partner without triggering fear
What stable and secure love feels like once you have healed this dynamic

Watch this if you’ve ever asked:
“Why can’t I fully commit?”
“Why do I pull away after feeling close?”
“How can I help my partner feel safe without losing myself?”

This video is essential for both Fearful Avoidants and their partners, giving clarity, tools, and strategies to break the cycle for good.
#fearfulavoidant #pushandpulldynamic #extremitiesmechanism #healingfearfulavoidant #attachmenttheory #fearofintimacy #relationshiphealing #emotionallyunavailable #commitmentissues

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Video Title: HOW to stop the Push and Pull in a Fearful Avoidant Relationship

00:00 Extremities Mechanisms
04:20 Why you Push & Pull
07:27 The Key to Stop the Push & Pull
12:01 What to Do as a Partner
15:47 What it Feels Like to Heal This

This video is about HOW to stop the Push and Pull in a Fearful Avoidant Relationship. But It also covers the following topics:

Fear of Connection
Connection Control
The Fearful Avoidant Shame Dive

✅ Stay Connected With Me.

👉Facebook: http://facebook.com/healingthefearfulavoidant
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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

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✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

=================================

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

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How Old Fear HAUNTS Your Now Reality | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-08-07 | Are you overwhelmed by fear but unsure why? It might feel like you're constantly on high alert, scanning for danger, even when there’s no real threat. This is what I call a fear dominant brain: a state where past trauma takes over your present, and you're always trying to protect yourself, but never fully able to heal.

In this video, I explain:
What the Fear Brain is and how it works
Why old fears still show up today (even if you’re not in danger)
How trauma from childhood projects onto your current life
Why you can’t seem to heal from fear
How to recognize these patterns in your own life
Real-life examples of fear projection (so you can see it for yourself)

This is a must-watch if you find yourself asking:
“Why am I so afraid, even when things are fine?”
“Why do I fear things that don't make sense?”
“How can I finally stop feeling so afraid?”
“Why can’t I heal from this fear?”

Your fear brain is trying to protect you, but it’s also keeping you stuck. Let’s break it down and get to the root of it, so you can finally heal.
#healingfearfulavoidant #fearbrainhealing #fearfulavoidanttrauma #fearprojection #fearfulavoidantattachment #overcomingfearfulavoidance #healingpastfears #attachmentstylehealing #fearofthepast

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Video Title: How Old Fear Haunts Your NOW Reality

00:00 Understanding the Fear Brain
03:21 How Past Fear Shapes Present Fear
17:06 Why Your Fear Isn’t The Truth

This video is about How Old Fear Haunts Your NOW Reality But It also covers the following topics:

Overcoming Money Scarcity Mindset
Why do I feel anxious at work all the time?
How can I cope with fear about global issues?
feeling overwhelmed by world events

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👉Facebook: http://facebook.com/healingthefearfulavoidant
‌👉Instagram: instagram.com/healingthefearfulavoidant

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

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Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

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The Fearful Avoidant Grey Zone: Why Youre Half In, Half Out of Love | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-07-31 | Are you physically in a relationship but emotionally halfway out?
This is what I call the Fearful Avoidant Grey Zone: a state where you're never fully in, but never fully out either. You feel connected, yet detached. Committed, yet doubting.

In this video, I explain:
What the Fearful Avoidant Grey Zone is
Why it feels safer (even when you want full love)
How this pattern relates to fear of abandonment and fear of engulfment
Subtle signs you're in the Grey Zone without realizing it
Real-life examples (so you can recognize yourself)
What healing looks like

This is a must-watch if you find yourself asking:
“Why can’t I just be in my relationship?”
“Why do I stay... but also keep emotionally pulling away?”
“Why does commitment make me anxious even when I want it?”

This is one of the core protective strategies Fearful Avoidants use...without even knowing it.
#healingfearfulavoidant #greyzone #grayzone #halfinhalfout #fearfulavoidantinrelationships #commitmentissues #emotionallyunavailable #fearofintimacy #attachmenttheory #fearfulavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment

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Video Title: The Fearful Avoidant Grey Zone: Why You're Half In, Half Out of Love

00:00 Intro
01:57 What Is The Grey Zone?
11:29 Why Do You Stay in The Grey Zone?
16:14 How Does It Effect Your Relationship?
19:38 How Do You Get Out of The Grey Zone?

This video is about The Fearful Avoidant Grey Zone: Why You're Half In, Half Out of Love But It also covers the following topics:

Why Fearful Avoidants Can't Commit
Push-Pull Relationship
Relationship Anxiety

✅ Stay Connected With Me.

👉Facebook: http://facebook.com/healingthefearfulavoidant
‌👉Instagram: instagram.com/healingthefearfulavoidant

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

=================================

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

© Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant

Connection Control: Why Fearful Avoidants Manage Closeness Constantly | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-07-24 | If you’re constantly managing the intensity of connection with your partner (pulling them in, pushing them away, keeping just enough space to feel "safe") you might be doing what I call Connection Control.

In this video, I dive deep into:
What Connection Control is and why Fearful Avoidants do it all the time
The exhausting internal battle between craving closeness and fearing it
How Connection Control is not the same as Deactivation
The link between emotional unavailability and “controlling safety”
Why connection feels dangerous when you're afraid of losing yourself
How healing allows you to stop managing love—and finally receive it
You’ll understand why being with someone who loves you well can actually feel overwhelming at first, and what to do about it.

✨ If you’re constantly trying to “balance” connection so you don’t feel smothered or abandoned, this is for you.
#healingfearfulavoidant #connectioncontrol #fearfulavoidantpushandpull#fearfulavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment #traumaandrelationships #attachmenttheory #whatisconnectioncontrol

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📘 Want the free guide Deactivation vs. Connection Breaking?
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Video Title: Connection Control: Why Fearful Avoidants Manage Closeness Constantly

00:00 What is Connection Control?
01:45 Why do Fearful Avoidants do it?
03:31 Feeling Responsible
05:50 Feeling Trapped
06:56 Feeling Fundamentally Flawed
09:35 What Connection Control Looks Like
12:51 What This Does to Attraction
18:23 Outro

This video is about Connection Control: Why Fearful Avoidants Manage Closeness Constantly But It also covers the following topics:

Why Do Avoidants Fear Connection
Why Love Feels Unsafe
Emotionally Unavailable Patterns
Self Protection in Love

✅ Stay Connected With Me.

👉Facebook: http://facebook.com/healingthefearfulavoidant
‌👉Instagram: instagram.com/healingthefearfulavoidant

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

=================================

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

© Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant

Fearful Avoidant Connection Breaking: Why Fearful Avoidants do it and How To Stop It | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-07-17 | In this video, Paulien Timmer explains Connection Breaking: a specific, often misunderstood pattern in the fearful avoidant attachment style. Unlike deactivation, which is about emotionally disengaging long-term, Connection Breaking happens in the moment. It’s a sudden shift, often during intimacy, used to regain a sense of safety without fully pulling away.

I started calling it Connection Breaking after seeing it in myself and in the thousands of fearful avoidants I’ve helped heal over the past seven years. It’s not about disinterest, it’s about fear. Fear of being seen, of being vulnerable, of connection itself.

Fearful avoidants often want love and closeness, but when it starts to feel too intense, they unconsciously interrupt the connection, through sarcasm, fighting, pulling away, or even humor. On the outside, it may look confusing or hurtful. On the inside, it’s pure self-protection.

In this video, I’ll help you clearly understand what Connection Breaking is, why it happens, and how to start shifting this pattern. You’ll walk away with clarity, validation, and steps to create safer, more stable relationships.

If you’ve ever felt yourself pull away just as things were getting good, this is for you!

Let me know in the comments: Do you recognize Connection Breaking in your own life?
#healingfearfulavoidant #connectionbreaking #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment #breakingconnection #whatisconnectionbreaking

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Video Title: Fearful Avoidant Connection Breaking: Why Fearful Avoidants do it and How To Stop It

00:00 What is Connection Breaking?
12:08 Why do Fearful Avoidants do it?
15:59 How to stop it?
20:04 FREE PDF Connection Breaking vs. Deactivation

This video is about Fearful Avoidant Connection Breaking: Why Fearful Avoidants do it and How To Stop It But It also covers the following topics:

Healing Fearful Avoidant Triggers
Why Do I Pick Fights With My Partner?
Fear of Connection

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✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

Paulien Timmer is an expert on healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, having helped over 3000 Fearful Avoidants heal in the past 7 years, after healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style herself completely. Paulien Timmer's online program Healed & Happy is a proven and measured effective method to heal from the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style. Healed & Happy is the only program fully specialized in healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, with all it's counterintuitive healing pathways. Paulien Timmer's own experience and deep, expansive knowledge of the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style has led to her developing proprietary language to effectively and precisely describe the inner experience of struggling with the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style.

Paulien Timmer is beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where she is now: living a life true to heself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with her husband and looking forward to the future. To her, this is what life is supposed to be like, and it is her honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 3000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

=================================

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

© Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant

The Shame Dive: Why You NEED To Know What It Is And How To Stop It (Especially As Fearful Avoidant)

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-07-10 | In this video, I explain The Shame Dive, a unique pattern I see in the fearful avoidant attachment style. Like the shame spiral, The Shame Dive is a painful descent into shame. But what makes it different is that it’s often conscious. It’s a decision, a moment of self-abandonment made with the hope that feeling bad enough will lead to change.

I started calling it The Shame Dive after seeing this pattern in myself and in the thousands of people I’ve helped heal from the fearful avoidant attachment style over the past seven years. It’s a moment that looks like self-reflection on the outside but is often self-punishment on the inside.

Fearful avoidants have often learned that shame is necessary for growth, that guilt is required to deserve love. But it’s not true. And this pattern, left unexamined, keeps people locked in cycles of push-pull, emotional chaos, and isolation.

In this video, I’ll help you understand exactly what The Shame Dive is, why it happens, and most importantly, how to stop it. You’ll walk away with tools to recognize the pattern, interrupt it with self-compassion, and begin replacing shame with stability, clarity, and genuine healing.

If you’ve ever found yourself “trying to be better” by beating yourself up: this is for you.
Let me know in the comments: Do you recognize The Shame Dive in your own life? #healingfearfulavoidant #shamedive #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment #shamedive #shamespiral #whatistheshamedive

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Get instant access to my FREE 3-day guide—a powerful roadmap to help you understand and heal your fearful avoidant attachment style.
Click the link below to download it now and begin your journey! 💖
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Video Title: The Shame Dive: Why You NEED To Know What It Is And How To Stop It (Especially As Fearful Avoidant)

00:00 What is The Shame Dive?
01:06 Shame as a Correction Mechanism
04:58 How to Heal From This
08:37 Alignment vs. Shame
11:34 All Good People Make Mistakes

This video is about The Shame Dive: Why You NEED To Know What It Is And How To Stop It (Especially As Fearful Avoidant) But It also covers the following topics:

Why do I shut down after a mistake
Fear of making mistakes
How to stop feeling shame

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✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The Shame Dive is a proprietary term coined by Paulien Timmer, an expert in healing the fearful avoidant attachment style. After working with over 3,000 people over the past seven years and fully healing this pattern herself, Paulien created this concept to describe a self-sabotaging cycle that many fearful avoidants unknowingly choose.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
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In the past 7 years, I have guided over 3000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 500 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

✅ For Business Inquiries: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

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What The Abandonment Flip is and why its part of the Fearful Avoidant healing path |HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-07-03 | Have you ever gone from doubting your relationship to suddenly fearing they’ll leave you? That’s what I call The Abandonment Flip—a disorienting but crucial part of healing the Fearful Avoidant attachment style. I went through it myself, and after guiding over 3,000 people through this work, I see it happen again and again. In this video, I explain what the flip is, why it happens, and why it actually means you’re healing. If you’re stuck in relationship doubts or terrified of being left, this is for you. #healingfa #RelationshipDoubts #FearOfAbandonment

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Video Title: What 'The Abandonment Flip' is and why it's a part of the Fearful Avoidant healing journey

00:00 What the Abandonment Flip Feels Like
03:52 Why Does It Happen?
07:09 The Flip Is Progress (Even If It Feels Terrible)
10:56 Exciting News

This video is about What 'The Abandonment Flip' is and why it's a part of the Fearful Avoidant healing journey, But It also covers the following topics:

Why do I doubt my relationship when I love them
Fearful avoidant fear of abandonment explained
Why am I suddenly scared my partner will leave me

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✅ Stay Connected With Me.

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‌👉Instagram: instagram.com/healingthefearfulavoidant

✅ For Business Inquiries: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

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✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

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The role of hope in healing the fearful avoidant attachment style | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-06-26 | If you’ve ever been told that healing the fearful avoidant attachment style is too hard (or even impossible), this video is for you. Because I’m sharing why I believe hope is essential to healing. I’ll walk you through why taking away hope can be harmful and how the right guidance and deep-rooted healing truly can change everything. Healing is not about false promises, it’s about possibility, truth, and transformation. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed or stuck, I want you to know: you are never too broken. There is always a way forward. Always. #healingfa #attachmenthealingjourney #healingispossible

✨ Ready to start healing with clarity and confidence?
Get instant access to my FREE 3-day guide—a powerful roadmap to help you understand and heal your fearful avoidant attachment style.
Click the link below to download it now and begin your journey! 💖
🔗 Get the guide & start healing faster: healingfa.com 💫

Looking for personal support from me as you heal?
Join HEALED & HAPPY, my tailor-made online program where I guide you every step of the way.
✨ Access the program here: healedhappy.com 🔑
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Video Title: The role of hope in healing the fearful avoidant attachment style

00:00 Why Hope Matters in Healing
01:30 The Harm of Taking Away Hope
03:40 How I Know You Can Heal
06:00 You Are Not Too Broken

This video is about The role of hope in healing the fearful avoidant attachment style. But It also covers the following topics:

Why does healing feel impossible for me?
I feel like a lost cause and don’t know if I can change
Is it too late to fix being broken?

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

✅ Stay Connected With Me.

👉Facebook: http://facebook.com/healingthefearfulavoidant
‌👉Instagram: instagram.com/healingthefearfulavoidant

✅ For Business Inquiries: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉3 Taylor Swift lyrics that show fearful avoidant signs
youtube.com/watch?v=O8xUzlbEIqQ

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

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✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

© Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant

Why Fearful Avoidants Get Angry When Their Partner Cant Read Their Mind | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-06-19 | I used to get so angry when my partner didn’t just know what I needed. If they really loved me, wouldn’t they be able to read my mind? But what I didn’t realize was that this dream of having someone meet all my needs without me saying a word… was actually fear. Fear of rejection, fear of being too much, fear of not being loved. In this video, I’ll walk you through why this reaction is so common for fearful avoidants, what’s really underneath the anger, and how you can begin to feel safe expressing your needs. #healingfa #emotionaltriggers #attachmentstyleawareness

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Join HEALED & HAPPY, my tailor-made online program where I guide you every step of the way.
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Video Title: Why fearful avoidants get angry when their partner can't read their mind

00:00 Intro
00:32 Dreams of Having Your Needs Met
03:31 Shame Around Needs
04:42 Fear of Rejection
05:26 Needs Feel Vulnerable
07:18 Why You Experience Anger
09:29 What Healing Looks Like

This video is about Why fearful avoidants get angry when their partner can't read their mind. But It also covers the following topics:

Why it feels safer to be mad than vulnerable
Why I freak out when my partner doesn’t get me
Why I expect my partner to just know what I need

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer – Healing the Fearful Avoidant

Paulien Timmer is the world’s leading expert on healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style. After healing her own attachment style completely, she has helped over 3,000 Fearful Avoidants transform their relationships over the past 7 years.

Paulien Timmer's online program, Healed & Happy, is the only measured and proven method specifically designed to help Fearful Avoidants heal. It’s the only program that fully specializes in Fearful Avoidant recovery, with all its counterintuitive, paradoxical healing pathways.

Paulien’s personal experience and deep, expansive understanding of the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style have led her to develop proprietary language that precisely captures the internal experience of this style.

Terms she coined, such as the Fearbrain, Crash State, Connection Breaking, Connection Control, and Shame Dive, describe the unique defense patterns, mechanisms and experiences of the Fearful Avoidant.

Paulien is deeply committed to helping others reach the life she now lives: one of freedom, peace, and deep connection. After 14 years of inner work, she now wakes up feeling rested, true to herself, and excited about the future — living a life full of love with her husband.

To her, this is what life is meant to be — and it’s her honor to help you get there too.

In the past 7 years, she has guided over 3,000 people through her Dutch programs (she’s based in the Netherlands), helping them build secure, lasting love. In the past 18 months, another 260 people have gone through the English version of Healed & Happy.

She loves showing people how healing can happen within 3 months — and how normal it can feel to finally feel safe and secure in love.

=================================

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

© Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant

Why do fearful avoidants feel nothing when they should feel something? | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-06-12 | Have you ever thought, "Why don't I feel what I'm supposed to feel?" In this video, I unpack why so many people with a fearful avoidant attachment style feel nothing when they think they should feel something. I’ll show you how emotional suppression is a learned survival mechanism, not a sign that something is wrong with you or your partner. This video will help you recognize your fear brain in action and begin to untangle the emotional "shoulds" that keep you stuck.

#fearfulavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment #healingfearfulavoidant #attachmentstyles #emotionalnumbness #attachmentstyleawareness #nofeelings #paulientimmer

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✨ Ready to start healing with clarity and confidence?
Get instant access to my FREE Fast Track to Healing guide—a powerful roadmap to help you understand and heal your fearful avoidant attachment style.
Click the link below to download it now and begin your journey! 💖
🔗 Get the guide & start healing faster: healingfa.com 💫

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Video Title: Why do fearful avoidants feel nothing when they should feel something?

00:00 Intro
00:46 Why Emotions Can Feel Too Overwhelming
02:30 The Emotional Manager Voice
03:35 Taught Not to Feel "Too Much"
06:25 The Pressure to Feel More
09:55 Why You Might End Up Feeling Nothing
11:43 The Fear Brain and Emotional Meaning
13:38 What Healing Really Feels Like
15:25 Feelings as Internal Validation
18:13 Outro

This video is about Why do fearful avoidants feel nothing when they should feel something? But It also covers the following topics:

How to reconnect with your feelings
Why do I feel numb in relationships?
Breaking the cycle of emotional shutdown

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer – Healing the Fearful Avoidant

Paulien Timmer is the world’s leading expert on healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style. After healing her own attachment style completely, she has helped over 3,000 Fearful Avoidants transform their relationships over the past 7 years.

Paulien Timmer's online program, Healed & Happy, is the only measured and proven method specifically designed to help Fearful Avoidants heal. It’s the only program that fully specializes in Fearful Avoidant recovery, with all its counterintuitive, paradoxical healing pathways.

Paulien’s personal experience and deep, expansive understanding of the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style have led her to develop proprietary language that precisely captures the internal experience of this style.

Terms she coined, such as the Fearbrain, Crash State, Connection Breaking, Connection Control, and Shame Dive, describe the unique defense patterns, mechanisms and experiences of the Fearful Avoidant.

Paulien is deeply committed to helping others reach the life she now lives: one of freedom, peace, and deep connection. After 14 years of inner work, she now wakes up feeling rested, true to herself, and excited about the future — living a life full of love with her husband.

To her, this is what life is meant to be — and it’s her honor to help you get there too.

In the past 7 years, she has guided over 3,000 people through her Dutch programs (she’s based in the Netherlands), helping them build secure, lasting love. In the past 18 months, another 260 people have gone through the English version of Healed & Happy.

She loves showing people how healing can happen within 3 months — and how normal it can feel to finally feel safe and secure in love.

=================================

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

© Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant

Why fearful avoidants feel stress when sleeping next to their partner | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-06-05 | For a long time, I thought something was wrong with my relationship because I felt tense sleeping next to my partner. My fear brain would immediately tell me: “This must mean he's not right for me” But over time, I realized that the stress I felt had nothing to do with him and everything to do with my own nervous system and past trauma. In this video, I explain why sleep can trigger fear for those with a fearful avoidant attachment style, and why it’s often not about your partner at all. #healingfa #SleepAnxiety #attachmenthealing

✨ Ready to start healing with clarity and confidence?
Get instant access to my FREE 3-day guide—a powerful roadmap to help you understand and heal your fearful avoidant attachment style.
Click the link below to download it now and begin your journey! 💖
🔗 Get the guide & start healing faster: healingfa.com 💫

Looking for personal support from me as you heal?
Join HEALED & HAPPY, my tailor-made online program where I guide you every step of the way.
✨ Access the program here: healedhappy.com 🔑
‌
Video Title: Why fearful avoidants feel stress when sleeping next to their partner

00:00 Intro: Why Sleep Feels Unsafe
00:52 Feeling Physically Vulnerable
03:24 Being Awake Alone at Night
05:19 Fear of Looking Foolish
07:12 Pressure to Be Emotionally Available 24/7
09:36 Hypervigilance
11:31 Expectations
12:31 Allowing space to heal

This video is about Why fearful avoidants feel stress when sleeping next to their partner, But It also covers the following topics:

anxious when sleeping next to someone
why sleep feels unsafe in relationships
sleeping problems insecure attachment

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

✅ Stay Connected With Me.

👉Facebook: http://facebook.com/healingthefearfulavoidant
‌👉Instagram: instagram.com/healingthefearfulavoidant

✅ For Business Inquiries: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

=============================

✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

© Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant

Why do I feel like I am not allowed to feel good? | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-05-29 | Why does feeling good sometimes feel bad when you have the fearful avoidant attachment style? In this video, I’ll explain why you might struggle to allow happiness, even after years of healing work—and how that’s not your fault. I’ll walk you through the hidden beliefs that keep you stuck in self-sabotage and how to release the fear of joy, safety, and ease. This might be the missing piece in your healing. It’s time to stop delaying happiness and start allowing it now. You deserve that freedom. So glad you're here! #healingfearfulavoidant

==========================================

FREE RESOURCES LIBRARY:
healingfa.com

==========================================

✨ Ready to start healing with clarity and confidence?
Get instant access to my FREE 3-day guide—a powerful roadmap to help you understand and heal your fearful avoidant attachment style.
Click the link below to download it now and begin your journey! 💖
🔗 Get the guide & start healing faster: healingfa.com 💫

‌
Video Title: Why do I feel like I am not allowed to feel good?

00:00 Why You Struggle to Feel Good
02:56 The Belief That Joy Must Be Earned
08:03 How Happiness Can Feel Irresponsible
13:22 You Deserve to Feel Good

This video is about Why do I feel like I am not allowed to feel good? But It also covers the following topics:

Why feeling good triggers anxiety
Struggling to feel happy after healing
How to allow in happiness

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

✅ Stay Connected With Me.

👉Facebook: http://facebook.com/healingthefearfulavoidant
‌👉Instagram: instagram.com/healingthefearfulavoidant

✅ For Business Inquiries: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

=============================

✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉3 Taylor Swift lyrics that show fearful avoidant signs
youtube.com/watch?v=O8xUzlbEIqQ

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

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Why Fearful Avoidants Pick A Fight After A Good Day (Even If They Really Loved It) | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-05-22 | Do you ever feel the urge to pick a fight after a really good day with your partner? If you're a Fearful Avoidant, this may be more than just a mood swing. In this video, I explain why feeling good, feeling connected, or experiencing joy can trigger fear, self-sabotage, and confusion. We’ll explore the brain chemistry, attachment dynamics, and subconscious patterns behind it and how you can finally feel safe in happiness. You are not broken, you’re healing. Let’s go to the root together. #healingfa #SelfSabotageExplained #TriggeredByConnection

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Video Title: Why Do I Pick A Fight After A Good Day?

00:00 Why We Pick Fights After Good Days
00:47 1. Feeling Good Can Be a Trigger
04:32 2. When Connection Feels Unsafe
05:41 3. Good Hormones Can Cause Fear
08:25 4. The Self-Sabotage Loop
13:08 It's a Trauma Response, Not Who You Are
15:51 Healing the Root Changes Everything

This video is about Why Do I Pick A Fight After A Good Day? But It also covers the following topics:

why fearful avoidants sabotage happiness
fear of connection in relationships
how to stop self-sabotaging love

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👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
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✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

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youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

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✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

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Why Is It So Hard for Me to Take Care of Myself? | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-05-15 | If you struggle to take care of yourself—even with the basics like showering or eating well—you are not alone! As a fearful avoidant, this isn’t laziness; it’s rooted in deep feelings of unworthiness, self-punishment, and emotional exhaustion. I’ll walk you through why this happens, how it connects to your attachment style, and what shifts when you start healing those core wounds. You are not broken. You deserve nourishment, care, and love—even from yourself. Let’s unravel the beliefs that are holding you back and explore what life can feel like beyond the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style. #healing #SelfCareJourney #AttachmentHealing

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Video Title: Why is it so hard for me to take care of myself?

00:00 Why Fearful Avoidants Struggle With Self-Care
01:34 Feeling Unworthy of Basic Needs
03:02 Self-Neglect as a Form of Safety
04:43 Avoiding Expectations and Responsibility
06:45 Healing the Root to Reclaim Self-Care

This video is about Why is it so hard for me to take care of myself? But It also covers the following topics:

fearful avoidant self-care
why don’t I take care of myself
feeling unworthy of love

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

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Why Am I Afraid I Dont Have the RIGHT Reaction | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-05-08 | Do you constantly question your reactions in relationships—wondering if you’re feeling enough or responding the right way? If you're a Fearful Avoidant, this video will make so much make sense. I’ll explain why this fear of not having the “right” reaction is deeply rooted in your upbringing, how emotional suppression begins, and how to begin trusting your feelings again. Whether it’s doubting love, attraction, or emotional connection, this is not your fault—it’s a trauma response. Let’s dive into what’s really happening beneath the surface and how you can start healing it. #healingfa #AttachmentStyleAwareness #HealingTraumaPatterns

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Video Title: Why Am I Afraid I Don't Have the 'RIGHT' Reaction
00:00 Why Am I So Focused on My Reactions?
01:15 How Emotional Judgment Starts in Childhood
06:53 Why Suppressing Feelings Feels Safer
08:28 When ‘Not Feeling Enough’ Means Something Deeper

This video is about Why Am I Afraid I Don't Have the 'RIGHT' Reaction, but It also covers the following topics:

Fear of Not Feeling Enough
Why You Don’t Trust Your Feelings
How to Stop Judging Your Emotions

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

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Why Do I Feel an Urge to DISAPPEAR After an Amazing First Date? | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-05-01 | If you've ever wanted to disappear after an amazing date, it doesn't have to mean the date was bad — or that you're broken. This is a common response for those with a Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, and today, I’ll help you understand why. From fear of connection and disappointing others, to anxiety around consistency and making mistakes—this urge is rooted in your nervous system and past experiences. In this video, we unpack what’s really going on so you can move toward deeper connection without fear. Let’s get curious and compassionate together. #HealingFA #FearfulAvoidantDating #WhyDoIRetreatAfterDates

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Video Title: Why do I feel an urge to 'disappear' after an amazing first date?

00:00 Intro
01:43 Why First Dates Feel EasierThan Second Ones
04:59 Fear of Disappointing
06:41 The Pressure to Be Consistent and Perfect
08:53 Fear of Failing or Messing Up
10:25 Rumination and Hypervigilance After the Date
13:19 Why Connection Can Feel Overwhelming

This video is about Why do I feel an urge to 'disappear' after an amazing first date? But It also covers the following topics:

What the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Feels Like While Dating
Why Do I Pull Away After Connection
Why Do I Ghost?

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉3 Taylor Swift lyrics that show fearful avoidant signs
youtube.com/watch?v=O8xUzlbEIqQ

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

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Why do I Replay Every Tiny Mistake? | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-04-24 | If you replay every tiny mistake in your head, it’s not your personality—it’s anxiety, and it's rooted in your past. In this video, I’ll walk you through why ruminating thoughts happen, especially for those with a fearful avoidant attachment style, and how they keep you stuck. You'll learn why you do it, what it’s trying to protect you from, and—most importantly—how to begin healing it❤️‍🩹. It’s time to stop the exhausting self-criticism and start creating real safety in your body. This is the path toward calm happiness and secure connection. I’m so happy you’re here. Let’s dive in. #healingfa #overthinking #rumination

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Video Title: Why do I Replay Every Tiny Mistake?

00:00 Why You Keep Replaying Mistakes
01:13 It’s Not You, It’s a Habit
03:06 How to Break Through the Habit
04:07 Why You Have This Habit
06:04 Ruminating to Stay Safe
07:53 The Shift: Mistakes Are Safe
10:34 How Rumination Blocks Deep Connection
11:42 The Real Freedom on the Other Side

This video is about Why do I Replay Every Tiny Mistake? But It also covers the following topics:

Rumination and anxiety
How to stop overthinking mistakes
Self-criticism trauma response

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

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Why Youre So Self-Conscious (And How Its Linked to Fearful Avoidant Attachment) | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-04-17 | In this video, I explore how self-consciousness is rooted in childhood criticism and the fearful avoidant attachment style—and how it keeps you from real connection. We'll talk about the internalized judgment, the constant need to “do it right,” and how healing can move you from self-conscious to self-aware. This shift creates deep, authentic connection—with yourself and with others. If you're ready to heal and allow in more connection, this is for you. #healingfa #SelfConsciousToSelfAware #FearfulAvoidantHealing

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✨ Ready to start healing with clarity and confidence?
Get instant access to my FREE 3-day guide—a powerful roadmap to help you understand and heal your fearful avoidant attachment style.
Click the link below to download it now and begin your journey! 💖
🔗 Get the guide & start healing faster: healingfa.com 💫

Looking for personal support from me as you heal?
Join HEALED & HAPPY, my tailor-made online program where I guide you every step of the way.
✨ Access the program here: healedhappy.com 🔑
‌

Video Title: Why am I so Self Conscious?

00:00 Intro
00:37 Why You Feel So Self-Conscious
05:57 How Self-Consciousness Blocks Connection
11:36 The Freedom of Healing Self-Consciousness

This video is about Why am I so Self Conscious? But It also covers the following topics:

How childhood criticism creates self-doubt
Fearful avoidant attachment and social anxiety
How to move from self-consciousness to self-awareness

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‌👉Instagram: instagram.com/healingthefearfulavoidant

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=============================

✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉3 Taylor Swift lyrics that show fearful avoidant signs
youtube.com/watch?v=O8xUzlbEIqQ

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

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✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

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Why do I feel like Im FAKING it when I say I love you ?| HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-04-10 | Ever felt fake when saying "I love you"? It doesn't have to mean you are in the wrong relationship. In this video, I walk you through the real reasons why this happens—especially for fearful avoidants. From the fear of rejection, connection, and inconsistent emotions to the unrealistic expectations of love we carry from childhood… we’re unraveling it all. This is your invitation to feel more, fear less, and open your heart to a more stable, calm and rich love. ❤️#healingfa #authenticlove #fearfulavoidant

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Video Title: Why do I feel like I'm FAKING it when I say "I love you" ?

00:00 Feeling Fake Saying “I Love You” – What’s Going On?
01:16 Fear of Feelings & Emotional Suppression
01:54 Fear of Hurting Others
02:43 Fear of Failing & Inconsistency in Love
03:50 Fear of Connection & Rejection
05:17 Unrealistic Image of Love
10:46 Saying “I Love You” Is Vulnerable (and That’s Okay)
11:35 Healing: From Fear-Based Love to Stable and Calm Love
15:04 Outro

This video is about Why do I feel like I'm FAKING it when I say "I love you" ? But It also covers the following topics:

Feelings perfectionism
Relationship OCD
What does Long-Term Love really feel like?

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

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✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

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Why am I bored in relationships? | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-04-03 | Let’s talk about something BIG: boredom in relationships. Is it a sign you’re settling? Or could it mean something deeper? 👀 If you’ve ever felt like a safe relationship was too safe, this is for you. I dive into the fearful avoidant attachment style, Hollywood myths, and how true connection never gets boring. That your relationship feels boring never means that you have to break up, it is only an invitation to look at what is holding you back from making a true and exciting connection. How? Let me tell you all about it in this video! #healingfa #fearofintimacy #happyrelationships

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Video Title: Why am I bored in relationships?

00:00 Welcome
02:51 Why Boredom Feels Uncomfortable
05:21 Why Safe Relationships Feel ‘Boring’
06:39 Overcoming Relationship Boredom
13:12 Deepening Your Connection with Your Partner

This video is about Why am I bored in relationships? But It also covers the following topics:

Fear of connection
Craving highs and lows
Falling for the emotionally unavailable

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉3 Taylor Swift lyrics that show fearful avoidant signs
youtube.com/watch?v=O8xUzlbEIqQ

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

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✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

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Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

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Why you put other people on a Pedestal as a Fearful Avoidant | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-03-27 | FREE RESOURCE LIBRARY:
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Do you constantly put others on a pedestal? It’s not just insecurity—there’s so much more at play. In this video, I’ll help you understand the real reasons behind this pattern, especially if you recognize yourself in the fearful avoidant attachment style. From childhood dynamics to subconscious fears, we’ll uncover what’s keeping you stuck and how to break free. Healing is possible, and when you shift these deep-seated beliefs, you’ll feel more secure, free, and worthy of love. #healingfa #patterns #fearfulavoidant

GET THE FREE 3-day training that will give you a clear roadmap to healing. You can download it right now—just click the link below! 💖✨

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Video Title: Why you put other people on a Pedestole as a Fearful Avoidant

00:00 Welcome & Why This Matters
00:39 1. The Hidden Comfort in Familiar Patterns
04:10 2. How Seeking Approval Shifts Responsibility
07:38 3. The (Subconscious) Fear of True Connection
10:50 Moving Forward & Next Steps

This video is about Why you put other people on a Pedestole as a Fearful Avoidant, but It also covers the following topics:

Idealization & Pedestalizing in Dating
Fear of Intimacy & Emotional Avoidance
Why you are attracted to judgmental people

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉3 Taylor Swift lyrics that show fearful avoidant signs
youtube.com/watch?v=O8xUzlbEIqQ

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

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Why Fearful Avoidants Dont Want to Text Back (Even if you love your partner) | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-03-20 | THE FREE 3 DAY TRAINING: THE BASICS OF HEALING THE FEARFUL AVOIDANT
GET IT HERE: healingfa.com

Have you ever wanted a text so badly—only to feel resistance when it finally comes? 💬 As a healed Fearful Avoidant, I know how overwhelming it can feel to reply. In this video, I’ll explain why this happens and how your fear brain, perfectionism, and abandonment issues might be at play. That you do not want to text back does NOT have to mean you are not into them🌿 So let’s break down why texting can feel like a performance and how to shift into genuine connection 💛 #healingfa #attachmentstyles #textinganxiety

GET THE FREE 3-day training that will give you a clear roadmap to healing. You can download it right now—just click the link below! 💖✨

🔗Get the full GUIDE & start healing faster: healingfa.com 💫

✨The Healed & Happy online program is now OPEN✨
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Video Title: I want them to text me, but when they do, I don't want to reply. Why is that?

00:00 Intro
00:53 Fear of Failure
03:08 Perfectionism
04:10 Having to perform
07:09 Power dynamic
08:32 Expectations
10:22 All this avoids connection
12:12 Outro

This video is about "I want them to text me, but when they do, I don't want to reply. Why is that?" But It also covers the following topics:

Relationship Expectations
Day to day struggles of Fearful Avoidants
Core wounds: Fear of Abandonment

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

✅ Stay Connected With Me.

👉Facebook: http://facebook.com/healingthefearfulavoidant
‌👉Instagram: instagram.com/healingthefearfulavoidant

✅ For Business Inquiries: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

=============================

✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉3 Taylor Swift lyrics that show fearful avoidant signs
youtube.com/watch?v=O8xUzlbEIqQ

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

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The Basics of Healing of the Fearful Avoidant Faster and Easier | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-03-13 | THE FREE 3 DAY TRAINING: THE BASICS OF HEALING THE FEARFUL AVOIDANT
GET IT HERE: healingfa.com

🚀 Want to heal your Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style faster? You don’t have to struggle for years! In this video, I’m breaking down the basics of healing—the exact steps that will help you move forward without feeling constantly overwhelmed. Healing doesn’t have to feel like struggle, it is allowed to feel good!

GET THE FREE 3-day training that will give you a clear roadmap to healing. You can download it right now—just click the link below! 💖✨

🔗Get the full GUIDE & start healing faster: healingfa.com 💫

✨The Healed & Happy online program is now OPEN✨
healedhappy.com

Start your journey to being healed for the rest of your life.
Healed & Happy is created after working with over 3000 fearful avoidants, and is a lasertargeted, personalised way to heal the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, with all the specific things FA's need to heal safely, fast and easy.

Heal your fearful avoidant attachment style
Transform your life
Feel better, calmer, happier
Create deep and lasting relationships and connections

Healed and Happy is an online program, in the form of a tailor-made journey that takes you to unshakable peace, deeper love, connection and safety. Click the link to learn more and sign up: healedhappy.com
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Video Title: The Basics of Healing of the Fearful Avoidant Faster and Easier
00:00 Intro
00:59 New Guide for Healing
02:15 The basics of healing faster
07:10 The basics of healing thoroughly
09:35 The basics of healing strategically
11:38 Outro

This video is about The Basics of Healing of the Fearful Avoidant Faster and Easier But It also covers the following topics:

How to set healthy boundaries
How to get unstuck
Core wounds of insecure attachment styles

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

✅ Stay Connected With Me.

👉Facebook: http://facebook.com/healingthefearfulavoidant
‌👉Instagram: instagram.com/healingthefearfulavoidant

✅ For Business Inquiries: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 500 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

#HealingFA #HealingJourney #EmotionalHealing

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

© Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant

The Healing Myth: Fearful Avoidants dont need to be fully healed to love | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-03-06 | You do not need to be fully healed to be in a relationship or take the next step. Many fearful avoidants believe they must be perfect before committing—but that’s not true. Healing is a journey, not something you have to achieve before love. In this video, I share research insights and personal experiences to help you navigate love, doubt, and emotional security. Learn how to build a healthy, fulfilling relationship while working on yourself💡✨ Don’t let fear hold you back from love—you are enough as you are!❤️

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✨The Healed & Happy online program is now OPEN✨
healedhappy.com

Heal your fearful avoidant attachment style
Transform your life
Feel better, calmer, happier
Create deep and lasting relationships and connections

Healed and Happy is an online program, in the form of a tailor made journey that takes you to unshakable peace, deeper love, connection and safety. Click the link to learn more and sign up: healedhappy.com

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Video Title: Why You Don’t Need to Be FULLY Healed

00:00 Intro
02:03 How to heal while in a relationship?
02:54 1. Taking responsibility
06:27 2. A clear picture of who you want to BE
10:42 3. A clear picture of how you want to FEEL
12:37 Outro

This video is about Why You Don’t Need to Be FULLY Healed, but It also covers the following topics:

Healthy Boundaries
What a Healthy Relationship feels like
How to Fast Track Healing

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

✅ Stay Connected With Me.

👉Facebook: http://facebook.com/healingthefearfulavoidant
‌👉Instagram: instagram.com/healingthefearfulavoidant

✅ For Business Inquiries: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

=============================

✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉3 Taylor Swift lyrics that show fearful avoidant signs
youtube.com/watch?v=O8xUzlbEIqQ

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

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✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

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How Social Media makes healing as a Fearful Avoidant harder | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-02-27 | Social media can fuel relationship anxiety, especially if you have a fearful avoidant attachment style. Seeing "perfect" couples online often leads to harmful comparisons, but remember—you’re only seeing a fraction of their reality. Most people don’t share their fears, struggles, or doubts. Instead of comparing, focus on real-life examples of long-lasting love. I interviewed couples married for over 40 years, and their wisdom was eye-opening! ❤️

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Transform your life
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Video Title: Why Social Media is Making Your Relationship Difficult as a Fearful Avoidant

00:00 Intro
02:19 It's only the tip of the iceberg
06:28 Comparison
08:05 Real life romantic wisdom
12:23 Outro

This video is about Why Social Media is Making Your Relationship Difficult as a Fearful Avoidant, but It also covers the following topics:

Relationship OCD (or R-OCD)
Triggers
Relationship perfectionism

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉3 Taylor Swift lyrics that show fearful avoidant signs
youtube.com/watch?v=O8xUzlbEIqQ

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

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✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

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#healingFA #AttachmentStyles #SocialMediaAndRelationships

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The KEY Thing to Healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-02-20 | Healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style can feel overwhelming, but there’s one key shift that makes the process easier. In this video, I’ll guide you through how victimhood keeps you stuck and how stepping into your power can change everything. If you’ve been working hard on healing but still feel anxious, this might be the missing piece. Join me as we unpack the deep-rooted fears, limiting beliefs, and a simple yet powerful exercise to help you shift into freedom, self-trust, and deeper connections. Which I so happy to share with you!

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Heal your fearful avoidant attachment style
Transform your life
Feel better, calmer, happier
Create deep and lasting relationships and connections

Healed and Happy is an online program, in the form of a tailor made journey that takes you to unshakeable peace, deeper love, connection and safety. Click the link to learn more and sign up: healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🕊️Or Sign up the FREE 3-day course: The Basics of Healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style at http://www.healingfa.com

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Video Title: The KEY Thing to Healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style

00:00 Intro
01:10 Victimhood
03:29 Allowing being powerful
05:17 Why you fear being powerful
07:25 Why victimhood feels more safe
08:18 How this affects your healing
11:50 What being powerful really feels like
13:42 Outro

This video is about The KEY Thing to Healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style But It also covers the following topics:

Fearful Avoidant Parents
Fear of Connection
What to do when you keep struggling

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

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✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

#healingfa #attachmentstyles #healingjourney #fearfulavoidant

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Why you are not allowed to REST as a Fearful Avoidant | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-02-13 | Do you struggle to rest, even when your body needs it? If you're a fearful avoidant, resting can feel unsafe—like you're not allowed to slow down. I'm Paulien, and in this video, I dive deep into why rest triggers fear and how it links to doubts, productivity, and self-worth. I’ll also share how you can release these patterns and truly allow yourself to recharge. If you're ready to heal your fearful avoidant attachment style, check out my program, Healed & Happy🌿

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healedhappy.com

Heal your fearful avoidant attachment style
Transform your life
Feel better, calmer, happier
Create deep and lasting relationships and connections

Healed and Happy is an online program, in the form of a tailor made journey that takes you to unshakeable peace, deeper love, connection and safety. Click the link to learn more and sign up: healedhappy.com

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Video Title: Why you are not allowed to REST as a Fearful Avoidant

00:00 Intro
01:20 What happens when you don't rest?
04:16 Why are you not allowed to rest?
04:28 1. Rest is weak
05:11 2. Being productive equals your value
06:51 3. Rest is lazy
09:15 How do you allow rest?
11:22 Outro

This video is the about Why you are not allowed to REST as a Fearful Avoidant, but It also covers the following topics:

Vulnerability as a trigger
Relationship Doubts as a protection mechanism
Procrastination

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

#healingfa #fearfulavoidantattachment #procrastination

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Why Fearful Avoidants Struggle With Relationships (Thanks to Hollywood) | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-02-06 | Hollywood romantic movies have shaped the way we see love—but have you ever noticed this one pattern? Every time a couple is truly happy, something tragic happens. And this has a bigger influence on your subconscious than you might think. In this video, I dive deep into how movies create emotional scripts that impact our real-life relationships — without us even realizing it. If you’ve ever felt anxious when things are going too well, this might be why!

✨The Healed & Happy online program is now OPEN✨
healedhappy.com

Heal your fearful avoidant attachment style
- Transform your life
- Feel better, calmer, happier
- Create deep and lasting relationships and connections

Healed and Happy is an online program, in the form of a tailor made journey that takes you to unshakeable peace, deeper love, connection and safety. Click the link to learn more and sign up: healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🕊️Or Sign up the FREE 3-day course: The Basics of Healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style at http://www.healingfa.com

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‌Video Title: Why Hollywood made you Hesitant to be Happy in your Relationship

00:00 Intro
01:28 The 1 Thing
03:05 How movies influence us
06:45 Fear of things being taken away
07:46 Negative associations with feeling happy
08:19 Outro

This video is about Why Hollywood made you Hesitant to be Happy in your Relationship, but It also covers the following topics:

Intrusive thoughts
Hormones and movies
EFT Tapping - Emotional Freedom Technique

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• Overcoming Fearful Avoidant Attachmen...

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
• Fearful Avoidant Attachment: 6 Hidden...

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• Unlock Present Moment Magic: How To E...

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
• Breaking The Cycle: 3 Reasons You Att...

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
• Overcoming The Vulnerability Hangover...

👉3 Taylor Swift lyrics that show fearful avoidant signs
• 3 Taylor Swift lyrics that show fearf...

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
• Fearful Avoidants: 4 Reasons They Mak...

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✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

#healingfa #fearfulavoidantattachment #relationshipanxiety

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

Why you judge the Quality of Conversations | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-01-30 | Are you constantly judging your conversations—wondering if they were deep enough, if you were funny enough, or if the other person was really listening? If you're a fearful avoidant, this might be keeping you from truly enjoying social interactions. In this video, I’ll break down why we do this, how it keeps us stuck, and most importantly—how to stop. Healing your fearful avoidant attachment style means more ease, connection, and fun in conversations. Let’s dive in! 💛 Do you overanalyze conversations too? Let me know in the comments!

✨The Healed & Happy online program is now OPEN✨
healedhappy.com

Heal your fearful avoidant attachment style
Transform your life
Feel better, calmer, happier
Create deep and lasting relationships and connections

Healed and Happy is an online program, in the form of a tailor made journey that takes you to unshakeable peace, deeper love, connection and safety. Click the link to learn more and sign up: healedhappy.com

🕊️Or Sign up the FREE 3-day course: The Basics of Healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style at http://www.healingfa.com

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Video Title: Why you judge the Quality of Conversations

00:00 Intro - Why do we judge our conversations?
01:26 1. To have control
07:34 2. You crave fulfilling deep conversations
09:47 3. High IQ
11:11 4. Relationship-OCD
13:30 5. Hypervigilance
14:44 6. You're afraid it means they don't love you
18:39 What is it like to heal this?

This video is the about Why you judge the Quality of Conversations But It also covers the following topics:

How to have deeper conversations
Social anxiety
Relationship perfectionism

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

#healingfa #attachmentstyles #fearofintimacy #fearofconnection #healingjourney

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

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If I dont do this NOW, Ill never do this | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-01-23 | Have you ever had this thought? I used to think this all the time. Fearful avoidants often face urgency triggers—like the thought that if it isn’t done now, it’ll never get done. This mindset ties to perfectionism, fear of laziness, and pressure to be productive to feel valuable. But what if you gave yourself permission to pause, rest, and trust your future self? Reframe your beliefs, tap into healing techniques, and embrace life as a process—not a race. You are enough, right now. 💜 Let’s unpack this together for more peace, freedom, and happiness.

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FREE RESOURCE LIBRARY:
healingfa.com

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✨The Healed & Happy online program is now OPEN✨
healedhappy.com

Heal your fearful avoidant attachment style
- Transform your life
- Feel better, calmer, happier
- Create deep and lasting relationships and connections

Healed and Happy is an online program, in the form of a tailor made journey that takes you to unshakeable peace, deeper love, connection and safety. Click the link to learn more and sign up: healingthefearfulavoidant.com

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Video Title: "If I don't do this NOW, I'll never do this"

00:00 Intro
01:15 Fear of laziness
06:52 Fear of not having energy in the future
08:37 Distrusting your future self
09:33 Perfectionism versus process
11:22 How to allow the process
15:11 Healing the roots

This video is the about "If I don't do this NOW, I'll never do this" But It also covers the following topics:

Performance anxiety
Burnout
Restlessness

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‌👉Instagram: instagram.com/healingthefearfulavoidant

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=============================

✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

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Why you cant be CONSISTENT as a Fearful Avoidant | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-01-16 | Struggling with the pressure to always be consistent? You're not alone, and I’m here to tell you— you can feel safe and worthy, even without consistency. Whether it’s relationships, self-care, or commitments, there’s beauty in embracing inconsistency as part of your journey. Let’s redefine what it means to show up authentically—without fear, shame, or pressure. You are worthy just as you are❤️

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Video Title: Why you can't be CONSISTENT as a Fearful Avoidant

00:00 Intro
02:28 Feeling pressure to be consistent
05:28 Allowing inconsistency
11:33 Naturally being consistent without effort
13:47 Buffers
17:30 Outro

This video is the about Why you can't be CONSISTENT as a Fearful Avoidant, but It also covers the following topics:

Friendships
Phases of healing
Crash State

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youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
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👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

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👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
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✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

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Why you go from CRISIS to CRISIS | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2025-01-09 | Sign up for The Healed & Happy program here: www.healedhappy.com

Do you feel like you’re always going from one crisis to the next? You’re not alone, and it’s not a coincidence. If you have a Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, this pattern makes so much sense—but here’s the good news: you can break free from it! In this video, I’ll explain why this happens and share key insights that can completely shift things for you. You’re not a victim of this cycle; you can choose differently, and I’ll show you how. Let’s dive in.

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🕊️Or Sign up the FREE 3-day course: The Basics of Healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style at http://www.healingfa.com
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Video Title: Why you go from CRISIS to CRISIS

00:00 Intro
00:59 Why do you go from crisis to crisis?
02:55 1. Your nervous system is used to it
04:54 2. It can protect you (from criticism)
09:40 3. Your parent felt comfortable in crises
12:52 4. It allows you to not keep up
15:29 5. Being safe can feel unsafe & boring
18:59 Outro

This video is the about Why you go from CRISIS to CRISIS But It also covers the following topics:

Why it can feel good to be a victim
Why normal can feel boring
Why you crave stress

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉3 Taylor Swift lyrics that show fearful avoidant signs
youtube.com/watch?v=O8xUzlbEIqQ

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

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✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

#healingfa #healingjourney #attachmentstyles

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Doubts are a Protection Mechanism | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2024-12-26 | Sign up for The Healed & Happy program here: www.healedhappy.com

Do I feel in love enough? Do I miss them enough? Shouldn't I be more in love? If you ever had any of these doubts, I want you to know that you are not the only one having these thoughts, and they don't have to say anything about relationship. Relationship doubts used to consume me—I thought they meant my partner and I weren’t meant to be. For six years, I battled endless questions and fears, but I realized those doubts weren’t about us; they came from my own fear and attachment style. There’s a way through it, and I want to help you find it. Watch my video to learn how I overcame it

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Heal your fearful avoidant attachment style
- Transform your life
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- Create deep and lasting relationships and connections

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🕊️Or Sign up the FREE 3-day course: The Basics of Healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style at http://www.healingfa.com
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Video Title: Doubts are a Protection Mechanism

00:00 Intro
01:28 How I realized doubts protected me
06:06 Doubts offered a comfortable "gray zone"
09:01 I was so afraid of rejection
12:55 Doubts don't say anything about your relationship
14:18 Doubts can be healed

This video is the about Doubts are a Protection Mechanism. But It also covers the following topics:

Fear of connection
Abandonment issues
Relationship anxiety

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

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Why you need to fix everything NOW as a Fearful Avoidant | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2024-12-19 | Feeling overwhelmed by the need to fix everything right now? You’re not alone! That sense of urgency—like everything must be perfect or else—is often tied to perfectionism in overdrive, especially for those navigating a Fearful Avoidant attachment style. But here’s the truth: you’re already whole and worthy as you are, even if it doesn’t feel that way. In this video, we’ll explore why letting go of the pressure to be perfect is the first step toward true healing— Let go of the pressure, embrace the process, and uncover the truth: you are enough, even if things aren’t “fixed” yet. Let's release those fears and focus on growth.

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healedhappy.com

Heal your fearful avoidant attachment style
- Transform your life
- Feel better, calmer, happier
- Create deep and lasting relationships and connections

Healed and Happy is an online program, in the form of a tailor made journey that takes you to unshakeable peace, deeper love, connection and safety. Click the link to learn more and sign up: healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🕊️Or Sign up the FREE 3-day course: The Basics of Healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style at http://www.healingfa.com
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Video Title: Why you need to fix everything NOW as a Fearful Avoidant

00:00 Intro
00:52 Sense of urgency
03:14 1. Perfectionism in Overdrive
06:55 2. You feel like you are already behind
07:55 3. Good enough doesn't exist for you
08:57 You don't have to work hard to feel SAFE
11:09 You don't have to be consistent
12:33 Allow healing to be a process
17:02 Outro

This video is the about Why you need to fix everything NOW as a Fearful Avoidant But It also covers the following topics:

How to heal an insecure attachment style
How to fix my triggers
Restlessness

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✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

#healingfa #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #restlessness #feelingunsafe #perfectionism #healingjourney

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

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Why you have an Obsession for Passion | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2024-12-12 | Do you find yourself longing for more passion? You're not the only one! Only, this ideal image of “all-consuming passion” can lead you down the wrong path—into toxic, unfulfilling relationships, or you doubting relationship that are actually loving and nourishing. I used to think passion was everything—until I learned that calm, nourishing love is deeply fulfilling in a way intense drama never could be. Let’s dive into why so many of us crave passion, and how you can cultivate real, lasting love based on safety, intimacy, and friendship.

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healingthefearfulavoidant.com

Heal your fearful avoidant attachment style
- Transform your life
- Feel better, calmer, happier
- Create deep and lasting relationships and connections

Healed and Happy is an online program, in the form of a tailor made journey that takes you to unshakeable peace, deeper love, connection and safety. Click the link to learn more and sign up: healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🕊️Or Sign up the FREE 3-day course: The Basics of Healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style at http://www.healingfa.com
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Video Title: Why you have an Obsession for Passion

00:00 Intro
01:58 I used to believe Intense Passion was Love
05:46 Our Image of Passion vs True Passion
09:58 Why do you Crave Passion?
10:17 1. You put your feelings on a pedestal
11:17 2. Passion is familiar to your nervous system
12:36 3. Perfectionism
14:13 4. You don't want to experience negative feelings
18:20 Outro

This video is the about Why you have an Obsession for Passion But It also covers the following topics:

Drama Addicted
Too Intense Relationship
Self Sabotaging Dating

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✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

#attachmentstyles #intenseromance #healthyrelationships #nourishinglove #allowing #healingfa #fearfulavoidant #healingthefa

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Why you have Break Up Urges | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2024-12-05 | "Are break up urges really my intuition?" If you’ve ever felt an intense, almost physical need to break up, I get it. I’ve been there, too. These break up urges can feel so convincing, but they’re not your intuition—they come from fear and memories of getting hurt. In this video, I explain how to tell the difference and what breakup urges really mean. And I’ll share how healing your deeper wounds can help you feel safe and comfortable in your relationship again. Let me know in the comments if you’ve experienced this, too—I’d love to hear from you! 💖

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Heal your fearful avoidant attachment style
- Transform your life
- Feel better, calmer, happier
- Create deep and lasting relationships and connections

Healed and Happy is an online program, in the form of a tailor made journey that takes you to unshakeable peace, deeper love, connection and safety. Click the link to learn more and sign up: healedhappy.com

🕊️Or Sign up the FREE 3-day course: The Basics of Healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style at http://www.healingfa.com
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Video Title: Why you have Break Up Urges

00:00 Intro
01:52 Is it my intuition?
04:23 Why do you want to break up?
07:13 Negative associations around love and connection
09:06 Ways to release the urge without breaking up
13:39 Outro

This video is the about Why you have Break Up Urges But It also covers the following topics:

When should I break up?
Why do I have the urge to break up, when I don't really want to
Relationship-OCD

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

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Fearful Avoidant: LIVE Recording November 28th 4 pm Amsterdam time (GMT+1) | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2024-11-29 | ✨Another LIVE Recording! And you get to pick the TOPIC **Check the poll in the community**

This Thursday, November 28h, I will be going LIVE at 4 pm Amsterdam time (GMT+1), about your chosen topic. At the end of the session, there will be some time to ask questions as well!

MAKE SURE YOU HIT THE NOTIFICATION BELL! 🔔 Then you will be notified when I go live! It will just be here on YouTube.

Can't wait to see and chat with you! Let me know in the comments below if you're going to be there!

Sign up for the FREE 3-day course: The Basics of Healing the Fearful Avoidant attachment style at http://www.healingfa.com
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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉3 Taylor Swift lyrics that show fearful avoidant signs
youtube.com/watch?v=O8xUzlbEIqQ

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

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✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

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Healing the Fearful Avoidant: Going LIVE November 14th 4 pm Amsterdam time (GMT+1) | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2024-11-15 | Live Q&A! Ask me all your question about Healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style!

Next Thursday, November 14th, I will be going LIVE at 4 pm Amsterdam time (GMT+1). I am excited to chat with you and answer all your question.

MAKE SURE YOU HIT THE NOTIFICATION BELL! Then you will be notified when I go live! It will just be here on YouTube.

Can't wait to see and chat with you! Let me know in the comments below if you're going to be there!
If you can't make it, feel free to leave your question in the comments, and I will try to answer them in the live.

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✅ Stay Connected With Me.

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉3 Taylor Swift lyrics that show fearful avoidant signs
youtube.com/watch?v=O8xUzlbEIqQ

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

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Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

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What do Long Distance Relationships feel like for Fearful Avoidants? | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2024-11-07 | Long distance relationships are complicated. And if you have a Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style it can be even more complicated! In this video, I share my personal experience and explain how a LDR can both trigger and amplify doubts and confusing feelings. Healing your attachment style can make it easier to manage these challenges, allowing you to enjoy your relationship again, without constantly checking if you miss your partner when you're apart or worrying if you are having enough fun when you're together.

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healingfa.com

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Video Title: What do Long Distance Relationships feel like for Fearful Avoidants?
00:00 Intro
01:56 Doubting when you are apart
03:15 Doubting when you are together
08:18 How to feel less doubts?
09:53 Outro

This video is the about What do Long Distance Relationships feel like for Fearful Avoidants? But It also covers the following topics:

Long Distance Relationship Advice
Maintaining Long Distance Relationships
Tips for LDR

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✅ Stay Connected With Me.

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‌👉Instagram: instagram.com/healingthefearfulavoidant

✅ For Business Inquiries: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉3 Taylor Swift lyrics that show fearful avoidant signs
youtube.com/watch?v=O8xUzlbEIqQ

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

#relationships #longdistance #attachmentstyles #healingattachmentstyle #fearfulavoidantattachment

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

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Why you feel BETTER than others (and at the same time WORSE) as a Fearful Avoidant | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2024-10-31 | In today’s video, I’m diving into how Fearful Avoidant attachment style creates this confusing cycle of constantly feeling superior and inferior to others. I’m sharing my personal story—from struggling with this in my marriage to understanding why we put people on pedestals and can then suddenly flip and look down on them. Healing your attachment style can allow you to break through this pattern and feel comfortable being equal and in connection with our loved ones around us.

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healingfa.com

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Sign up for the Fast Track Guide to Healing at http://www.healingfa.com

The online program Healed and Happy: healedhappy.com
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Video Title: Why you feel BETTER than others (and at the same time WORSE) as a Fearful Avoidant

00:00 Intro
01:36 The pattern
04:08 Why you feel worse than others
09:08 Why you feel better than others
11:07 Connection in feeling equal
13:20 Outro

This video is the about Why you feel BETTER than others (and at the same time WORSE) as a Fearful Avoidant, but It also covers the following topics:

Fear of Connection
Limmerence
Why am I attracted to emotionally unavailable people?

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

✅ Stay Connected With Me.

👉Facebook: http://facebook.com/healingthefearfulavoidant
‌👉Instagram: instagram.com/healingthefearfulavoidant

✅ For Business Inquiries: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

=============================

✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉3 Taylor Swift lyrics that show fearful avoidant signs
youtube.com/watch?v=O8xUzlbEIqQ

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================
#fearofconnection #fearfulavoidantattachment #attachmentstyles #flipflop #healingjourney #criticalparents #fearofintimacy #judgmental

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

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© Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant

Hollywood vs Happy Relationships | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2024-10-24 | In this video, I dive into how Hollywood movies and TV shows shape our beliefs about relationships and how these unrealistic images can impact our happiness. If you've grown up without examples of real, happy relationships, you might base your beliefs on romantic films, which can harm your love life. Especially for those with a Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, these media portrayals can deeply influence how we see love. Knowing more about what realistic long & happy relationships look like can help you create lasting & loving relationships by choosing to grow together and invest in each other. And that's what I want for you!

Sign up for the FREE 3-day course: The Basics of Healing the Fearful Avoidant attachment style at http://www.healingfa.com
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Video Title: Hollywood vs Happy Relationships

00:00 Intro
02:02 Hollywood relationships
02:59 Intense feelings
05:14 Drama
06:24 Unhealthy Dynamics
06:37 Hollywood: Happily Ever After
07:26 Long & Happy relationships
07:48 Love is a choice
09:24 Personal Growth
10:58 Being in love grows the rest of your life
11:41 Long & Happy: Happily Ever After
13:23 Outro

This video is the about Hollywood vs Happy Relationships, but It also covers the following topics:

Lasting love
Realistic relationship expectations
Best realistic relationship movies

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

✅ Stay Connected With Me.

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‌👉Instagram: instagram.com/healingthefearfulavoidant

✅ For Business Inquiries: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

=============================

✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉3 Taylor Swift lyrics that show fearful avoidant signs
youtube.com/watch?v=O8xUzlbEIqQ

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

#attachmentstyles #marriageadvice #healingattachmentstyle #fearfulavoidantattachment #fearfulavoidant #expectationvsreality #expectations #lastinglove #lastingrelationships #relationshipproblems

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

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Fearful Avoidant and Money Issues | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2024-10-16 | Free Resources Library: healingfa.com

In this video, I explore how the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style impacts not only relationships but also your relationship with money. I share insights into how emotional highs and lows, characteristic of this attachment style, can influence financial behaviors. Whether you're a great saver or struggle with money issues, understanding the connection between attachment styles and finances can help you heal your relationship with money and become more financially secure.

Sign up for the Fast Track Guide to Healing at http://www.healingfa.com
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Video Title: Fearful Avoidant and Money Issues

00:00 Intro
01:19 Highs and Lows
02:14 Relationship with your Father
03:53 Healing this relationship
05:48 Addicted to Chaos
07:12 Outro

This video is the about Fearful Avoidant and Money Issues But It also covers the following topics:

Addiction to Adrenaline
How to heal your relationship with money
Fincancial volatility
Creating financial safety
Trauma dynamics

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

✅ Stay Connected With Me.

👉Facebook: http://facebook.com/healingthefearfulavoidant
‌👉Instagram: instagram.com/healingthefearfulavoidant

✅ For Business Inquiries: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

=============================

✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=B2r-gvaQBdo&list=PLH58KzHtQAh_O1x1DV9Z5SmE8U6PoI8Ar

👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
youtube.com/watch?v=-yDPqo4iX4M&list=PLH58KzHtQAh8HDHox082B8QBjzw7vIvgK

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 What 'Present Moment Magic' is and how to get their
youtube.com/watch?v=4TME1yUDUuQ&t=8s

👉3 Reasons why you keep attracting the same kind of partners
youtube.com/watch?v=8EC-E4aTR9o

👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
youtube.com/watch?v=uzFFgpSX5Yc

👉3 Taylor Swift lyrics that show fearful avoidant signs
youtube.com/watch?v=O8xUzlbEIqQ

👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
youtube.com/watch?v=WxnP9ZQ32wY

=============================

✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
‌
In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: hello@healingthefearfulavoidant.com

🔔Subscribe for in-depth insights and guidance on the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, finding inner peace, emotional freedom, and healthy relationships that you are genuinely happy in':bit.ly/3p6Sqsu

=================================

#attachmentstyles #financialhealing #financialfreedom #moneymindset #personaldevelopment #healingattachmentstyle #moneyrelationship #healyourfinances

Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research.

Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialog, music, and images that are the property of Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant. You are authorized to share the video link and channel and embed this video in your website or others as long as a link back to my Youtube Channel is provided.

© Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant

Healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style - How My Secure Partner Helped Me Heal | HealingFa.com

Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful avoidant 2024-10-10 | I share my personal experience of how being in a relationship with a securely attached partner has helped me heal my Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style. I'll dive into how my partner’s unconditional love and consistent support created a safe space for me to confront and work through my own trauma. This is not to say that my partner was perfect or that you can only heal if your partner is also securely attached or acts like my partner did. It can be very different for everyone, but when your partner is secure, healthy, loving, unconditional, respectful, and consistent, this can be very healing.

Are you really ready to heal?
healedhappy.com

Sign up for the FREE 3-day course: The Basics of Healing the Fearful Avoidant attachment style at http://www.healingfa.com
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Video Title: Healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style - How My Secure Partner Helped Me Heal

00:00 Intro
02:30 He loved me unconditionally
07:46 He made me feel normal
14:02 He would say wise things
15:42 He gave me space
16:54 Outro

This video is the about How My Secure Partner Helped Me Heal, but it also covers the following topics:

Insecure attachment
Love without conditions
Working through trauma

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✅ Recommended Playlists

👉 Healing fearful avoidant attachment style
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👉The basics of the fearful avoidant attachment style
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👉The Vulnerability Hangover - 5 Reasons why you pull back after being vulnerable
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👉4 Reasons why Fearful Avoidants make amazing partners
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✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.

The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.
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In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 260 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.

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