30 Years in an Abusive Marriage: What the Church Got Wrong About Divorce @lifesavingdivorce
30 Years in an Abusive Marriage: What the Church Got Wrong About Divorce  @lifesavingdivorce
Uploaded March 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 hours ago
Karen spent 30 years in an emotionally abusive marriage before she finally saw it for what it was — and the church's silence made it harder to leave.

In this powerful conversation, Karen shares how love bombing, boundary violations, and subtle emotional control kept her trapped — and how the messaging she absorbed from church convinced her to stay silent and endure.

Now a pastoral trauma coach, Karen helps women untangle toxic theology, recognize abuse patterns, and find real healing through faith.

If you've ever wondered whether your marriage is "just hard" — this episode is for you.

Karen DeArmond Gardner is a Pastoral Trauma Coach and Advocate with Mountain City Christian Counseling. She is also the author of Hope for Healing from Domestic Abuse.

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