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Learn how the science-backed Gottman Method Couples Therapy approach helped them build better relationship skills for life as they share some of the tips they have learned:
00:02:18 Tip #1: Turn Towards
00:03:10 Tip #2: Fight Right
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Over four decades of research has revealed exactly what separates the “masters” of relationships from the “disasters.” That research has enabled us to build a program that teaches everything we’ve learned about creating the kind of partnership we all hope for.
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As relationship researcher Logan Ury explains, you can choose to TURN TOWARDS your partner in these moments and accept their bids to connect, or TURN AWAY and ignore their bids. Every time you choose to turn towards, you make a deposit in your Emotional Bank Account.
Notice when your partner makes a bid. Show interest, ask questions, nod, listen, and put away your screens.
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As relationship researcher Logan Ury explains, you make "deposits" through positive interactions and you make "withdrawals" through negative ones. In healthy relationships, the ratio of positive behavior (showing interest, asking questions, being kind) to negative behavior (criticism, anger, hurt feelings) is 5:1. Keep your balance high by doing nice things every day for your partner and recognizing when they do nice things for you.
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Developed from Dr. John Gottman’s research on emotional intelligence, Emotion Coaching builds emotional awareness and creates positive, long lasting effects for children. Easy to learn, and used by parents, educators, and care-givers, it supports kids through life’s ups and downs in a way that builds confidence and helps them grow socially, emotionally, and intellectually. Learn more: http://bit.ly/2b4NGds
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Developed from Dr. John Gottman’s research on emotional intelligence, Emotion Coaching builds emotional awareness and creates positive, long lasting effects for children. Easy to learn, and used by parents, educators, and care-givers, it supports kids through life’s ups and downs in a way that builds confidence and helps them grow socially, emotionally, and intellectually. Learn more here: http://bit.ly/2b4NGds
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Packed with new exercises and the latest research from The Gottman Institute, this completely revised and updated edition remains the definitive guide for anyone who wants their relationship to attain its highest potential.
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Packed with new exercises and the latest research from The Gottman Institute, this completely revised and updated edition remains the definitive guide for anyone who wants their relationship to attain its highest potential.
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Dr. Gottman is a world-renown relationship researcher and author of 40 books, including the New York Times bestseller "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work."
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