Truth Trauma Theology
The Basics of Trauma
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Many of us yearn for a deeper connection with God but struggle to find the time or space to cultivate it in the midst of our busy lives. The daily stress of meeting familial, work, and personal responsibilities leaves us longing to connect with God and find rest for our souls. We crave intimacy with our Creator and the peace that only God’s presence can give.
With God in Every Breath invites you on a journey towards a more embodied and present spiritual life. In this practical book, Whitney R. Simpson offers carefully crafted guided prayers and meditations that provide an accessible way for us to quiet our hearts and a way to enter into God’s presence that engages all of our senses. Whether used alone or in a community, each meditation is rooted in Gospel passages from The Message translation and designed to meet you in your everyday life.
This helpful guide includes:
Guided Meditations: Explore imaginative and sensory-rich meditations that bring you closer to Jesus.
Reflection Questions: Each Scripture-based meditation is followed by a set of questions to help you engage the content more deeply.
Closing Prayers: Each meditation closes with a guided prayer to encourage you to bring gratitude into each of your reflections.
For more information visit: www.whitneyrsimpson.com
Mirroring the biblical Exodus in which the Israelites were delivered out of Egypt—a place familiar but enslaving—Sjoblom’s reflections on her healing journey illumine the unique losses, lies, and failings we can stumble on, especially at midlife. And yet, they also point to healthier beliefs, relationships, and possibilities to carry us forward.
With humor, hope, and hard-won wisdom, Gone for Goodwill help you:
Understand the healing reasons for your desert seasonsTrust that God is a good guide who wants to redeem your painWalk in authentic freedom from the pain of what’s been to the promise of what might be
Sjoblom poignantly captures the exhilaration of new beginnings, the longing for what’s left behind, the grief over our wandering years, and the truths required to leave “Egypt” behind. A good God does indeed allow hard journeys, but there’s redemption on the other side: renewed trust in his character, freedom from the past, and knowledge that it’s never too late to embark on a soul-healing expedition. As Sjoblom demonstrates, when we stay with the lessons until the lessons are learned, God enables us to release our wounds and losses so they’re gone—for good.
For more information about Karen visit karensjoblom.com
Adaeze and Chad―two different people, two different backgrounds―both brought a lot of baggage into their relationship. Adaeze, a black Nigerian American woman who has lived with racism and discrimination her entire life. Chad, a white man with a family from the South who mostly grew up in white spaces. Determined to learn to communicate honestly and effectively, they stepped into tough conversations about their differences. Walls came down and Adaeze and Chad discovered the trust and respect they could have in and for each other. White Boy/Black Girl is an open-handed invitation from Adaeze and Chad to learn:
Why trying to be the “perfect” Black or white person can’t be the goalHow to attempt to get it right when you’re terrified of getting it wrongWhat to do when you’re feeling uncomfortable, defensive, or misunderstoodThat repair is possible even when you’ve flat-out stepped in itThe importance of surrendering our pain and prejudice to the redemptive work of Jesus
Adaeze and Chad provide a safe space for us to eavesdrop on some of the most vulnerable conversations they’ve had about their differences. Their candid and honest back and forth gives us common, usable language to meet each other where we’re at. The path to empathy and understanding isn’t easy―but they promise you, it’s always worth it.
Adaeze and Chad―two different people, two different backgrounds―both brought a lot of baggage into their relationship. Adaeze, a black Nigerian American woman who has lived with racism and discrimination her entire life. Chad, a white man with a family from the South who mostly grew up in white spaces. Determined to learn to communicate honestly and effectively, they stepped into tough conversations about their differences. Walls came down and Adaeze and Chad discovered the trust and respect they could have in and for each other. White Boy/Black Girl is an open-handed invitation from Adaeze and Chad to learn:
Why trying to be the “perfect” Black or white person can’t be the goalHow to attempt to get it right when you’re terrified of getting it wrongWhat to do when you’re feeling uncomfortable, defensive, or misunderstoodThat repair is possible even when you’ve flat-out stepped in itThe importance of surrendering our pain and prejudice to the redemptive work of Jesus
Adaeze and Chad provide a safe space for us to eavesdrop on some of the most vulnerable conversations they’ve had about their differences. Their candid and honest back and forth gives us common, usable language to meet each other where we’re at. The path to empathy and understanding isn’t easy―but they promise you, it’s always worth it.
She’s the Founder & CEO of The Journey and The Process, a private practice with offices in North Carolina & Texas, specializing in complex trauma, with a focus on domestic abuse & coercive control. Tabitha is a nationally known expert & speaker on abuse, providing training to churches, therapists, & agencies. She also helps train domestic abuse advocates through Called to Peace Ministries’ faith-based advocacy training, as well as having served as a co-facilitator for the G5 Men’s Batterer Intervention Group. Tabitha is the author of Body & Soul, Healed & Whole: An Invitational Guide to Healthy Sexuality After Trauma, Abuse, and Coercive Control.
Tabitha is the proud mom to an adult son and currently lives in Dallas, TX.
If you’re a survivor of sexual harm, recovering your sexuality is possible. You are worthy of good care.
The toxic effects of sexual trauma and abuse can be devastating and lasting. Victims’ ability to experience healthy sexuality, even if they free themselves from the abuse, is often shattered.
If sexual abuse, violence, or coercive control is part of your story, certified sex addiction therapist (CSAT) and trauma specialist Tabitha Westbrook wants you to know: you are not alone, and healing is possible. In Body & Soul, Healed & Whole,Tabitha draws on her specialized expertise, her own personal story of abuse, and a deep knowledge of Scripture to create a safe and compassionate place for you to start recovering – or even finding - the healthy sexuality God intended for you.
With honest wisdom and empathetic understanding, Body & Soul, Healed & Whole will help you discover how to:
process your story of abuse―whether it occurred as a child, within marriage, or by someone in a position of power―without shame, develop healthy relationships with God, with ourselves, and with others (including those of the opposite sex),reconnect with your good body and establish a foundation for healthy sexuality, whether currently married or single, identify and address any spiritual abuse that may have taken place within sexually abusive relationships, understand what arousal structures are, how they’re formed and distorted by abuse, and how to shift them when needed for healing, and incorporate practical skills for self-care during your healing process.
Sexuality does not have to be forever broken. Rest assured in a God who understands and loves you in the deepest of deep ways―and begin your journey toward wholeness, restoration and healing.
Tabitha Westbrook, LMFT-S, LCMHC-QS, LPC-S, is a licensed therapist who helps people who have messy, funky pasts (and sometimes messy, funky presents) live amazing, empowered lives today. Tabitha graduated with her BA in Psychology from NC Central University & her MA in Professional Counseling from Liberty University. In addition to being a licensed counselor & supervisor, Tabitha is an EMDRIA Certified Therapist & Approved Consultant, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP), & Certified Christian Trauma Care Provider (CCTCP). She’s also certified in Immediate Stabilization Protocol (ISP), an evidence-based disaster response protocol.
She’s the Founder & CEO of The Journey and The Process, a private practice with offices in North Carolina & Texas, specializing in complex trauma, with a focus on domestic abuse & coercive control. Tabitha is a nationally known expert & speaker on abuse, providing training to churches, therapists, & agencies. She also helps train domestic abuse advocates through Called to Peace Ministries’ faith-based advocacy training, as well as having served as a co-facilitator for the G5 Men’s Batterer Intervention Group. Tabitha is the author of Body & Soul, Healed & Whole: An Invitational Guide to Healthy Sexuality After Trauma, Abuse, and Coercive Control.
Tabitha is the proud mom to an adult son and currently lives in Dallas, TX.
The church should serve as a refuge for people in pain. And yet, we often end up unintentionally causing more hurt to trauma survivors. Theological platitudes and positive thinking aren't simply dismissive to those who suffer, but they inevitably retraumatize the wounded. Does the Bible have anything practical to offer for church leaders as they engage the pain in their congregations?
Biblical scholar Michelle Keener shows us that the book of Job provides embodied and practical answers for the church today. In this incredible tool for ministry leaders and trauma survivors alike, Keener offers:
deep wisdom at the intersection of trauma theory and the book of Job for Christian communities reflection questions for ministry practitioners and those walking alongside those who have experienced trauma engagement with the idea of a shattered worldview and how to overcome the effects of that experience.
Comfort in the Ashes helps leaders navigate their own trauma and gives practical guidance for supporting others whose worlds are falling apart. God meets us in our ashes and our pain. It's time for the church to do the same.
Today I’ve invited Eryn Lynum on for a discussion regarding her new book The Nature of Rest: What the Bible and Creation Teach us Sabbath Living.
Eryn Lynum is author of the book 936 Pennies, and has been featured on FamilyLife Today radio and the Simply Wholehearted podcast, as well as at Proverbs 31 Ministries, MOPS International, and For Every Mom. She lives in Northern Colorado with her husband and four children.
In this six-week Bible study, you'll explore the deep roots of rest found in Scripture and the outdoors while unearthing attainable rest for everyday life. Through nature reflections, scriptural word studies, and guided journaling prompts, you will learn how to
return to God's original pattern of rest and workturn seasons of waiting into restful growthexperience daily rest through selah pausespractice Sabbath in a way that fits your lifestylelive every day in God's restful presence
Donna Pisani, a pastor and Bible teacher with forty years of ministry experience, has a game-changing message for women leaders: the One who loves you most is cheering you on, has given you a voice, and already has a seat at the table waiting for you.
A practical tool for women who are called to leadership roles in any area of life, Entrusted to Lead offers biblical insight and real-life encouragement for how to navigate their leadership journey.
In Entrusted to Lead, Pastor Donna Pisani draws on over four decades of experience to offer a biblical perspective of women in leadership that considers their role an entrusted assignment rather than just an entitled position. Women who wrestle with God’s call to lead, or who don’t have anyone supporting their call, will discover how to:
Embrace their God-given, unique leadership gifts Become alert to the internal lies that make them hesitant to pursue their calling Answer Jesus’ mandate to women to “go tell”—even when no one seems to be listening Understand how Paul empowered both genders to lead and serve together Lean into Jesus’ strength when facing leadership challenges
Generations of confusion keep women from answering God’s call to lead, depriving God’s kingdom of crucial gifts and abilities. Entrusted to Lead shows women what it looks like to lead with confidence in the workplace and in ministry—and why Jesus always wanted women to have a seat at the table.
Donna Pisani is a pastor and Bible teacher with forty years of ministry experience. The author of The Power of Not Yet, she has aMaster of Arts in Ministerial Leadership from Southeastern University and a DMin from George Fox University focusing on women in leadership.
Donna cofounded Capital City Church alongside herhusband and she is a cofounder of the Circle of Twelve, a mentoringprogram for women leaders. Her family includes four adult children,two son-in-laws, and two adorable grandchildren.
From Tijuana, Mexico, to Douglas, Arizona, across North Carolina and beyond, Isaac Villegas cuts a new path through worn-out talking points and bears witness to loving solidarity among Christians—both with and without US citizenship. Along the way, he offers a theologically astute and politically rich vision of beloved community.
Centering the stories of people who have been transformed through their dedication to the work of collective wholeness, Villegas begins each chapter “on the ground”—with protests in the streets, hospitality in migrant shelters, and shared meals in home kitchens. He then engages in biblical, theological, and political reflection to explore the significance—for our faith and our world—of these sites of collective work. Migrant God is a stirring read for anyone who wants to shift conversations about immigration toward a more holistic Christian vision of life lived in solidarity with migrants.
1. Why are political discussions about immigrants so polarizing?
Common phrases used to describe the issue are “broken immigration system" and "the crisis at the border”. What are some things to consider when thinking about it this way?
2. In the book you share a story about being arrested after a standoff with Immigration and Customs Enforcement. Why was it important for you to participate in the standoff?
3. How do you lead the reader from the horrors of the border’s violence toward a Christ centered way to thinking?
4. How can the realities of immigration shape our understanding of God?
5. Is a Christian to live in solidarity with immigrants? What does this look like?
Isaac Samuel Villegas is an ordained minister in the Mennonite Church USA who is involved in the work of community organizing and activism for immigrant justice. He is also a columnist for The Christian Century and Anabaptist World.
Evangelical Idolatry: How Pastors Like Me Have Failed the People of God is both a confession and a call to repentance. Reflecting on his twenty-year pastoral ministry with candor and humility, Mikels acknowledges the ways he enabled parishioners to develop destructive loyalties to cultural and political idols. As he works to reform his own worldview and embrace allegiance to Christ alone, he urges evangelical pastors and laypeople to join him in reforming their faith and living out the good news of the true gospel.
Jeff Mikels holds degrees from Wheaton College and Denver Seminary. He has overtwenty years of pastoral experience, leading a church in Chicago for five yearsbefore planting one in Lafayette, Indiana. There, he was involved in the Pastors’Alliance; he also helped establish the Greater Lafayette Gospel Association, which isa network of gospel-focused ministries, and served as its president.
Evangelical Idolatry: How Pastors Like Me Have Failed the People of God is both a confession and a call to repentance. Reflecting on his twenty-year pastoral ministry with candor and humility, Mikels acknowledges the ways he enabled parishioners to develop destructive loyalties to cultural and political idols. As he works to reform his own worldview and embrace allegiance to Christ alone, he urges evangelical pastors and laypeople to join him in reforming their faith and living out the good news of the true gospel.
Jeff Mikels holds degrees from Wheaton College and Denver Seminary. He has overtwenty years of pastoral experience, leading a church in Chicago for five yearsbefore planting one in Lafayette, Indiana. There, he was involved in the Pastors’Alliance; he also helped establish the Greater Lafayette Gospel Association, which isa network of gospel-focused ministries, and served as its president.
Jeff Mikels holds degrees from Wheaton College and Denver Seminary. He has overtwenty years of pastoral experience, leading a church in Chicago for five yearsbefore planting one in Lafayette, Indiana. There, he was involved in the Pastors’Alliance; he also helped establish the Greater Lafayette Gospel Association, which isa network of gospel-focused ministries, and served as its president.
Jeff Mikels holds degrees from Wheaton College and Denver Seminary. He has overtwenty years of pastoral experience, leading a church in Chicago for five yearsbefore planting one in Lafayette, Indiana. There, he was involved in the Pastors’Alliance; he also helped establish the Greater Lafayette Gospel Association, which isa network of gospel-focused ministries, and served as its president.
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About the Author
Liz Charlotte Grant is an award-winning essayist whose work has been published in The Revealer, Sojourners, Brevity, Christian Century, Christianity Today, Hippocampus, and elsewhere. She also writes The Empathy List, a popular newsletter that has been nominated for a Webby two years running. She lives in Colorado.
About the Author
Liz Charlotte Grant is an award-winning essayist whose work has been published in The Revealer, Sojourners, Brevity, Christian Century, Christianity Today, Hippocampus, and elsewhere. She also writes The Empathy List, a popular newsletter that has been nominated for a Webby two years running. She lives in Colorado.
Braiding together encounters with the natural world, Jewish midrash, and art criticism, Grant makes familiar Sunday school stories strange and offers a fresh vision for reading Scripture after deconstruction. For those who have known the book of Genesis as a weapon in the culture wars, Grant interprets the Bible’s inspired book of beginnings as a work of art. Lyrical, insightful, and highly original, Knock at the Sky offers readers a capacious model for seeking God through Scripture even as one’s faith continues to evolve.
“In this book, you too have permission to question the sacred without fearing . . . unbelief. Knock loudly. . . . Reject answers that do not admit complication. Seek the resonance at the base of the story. The seeking is the point. Because there, in your wandering, God is.”
About the Author
Liz Charlotte Grant is an award-winning essayist whose work has been published in The Revealer, Sojourners, Brevity, Christian Century, Christianity Today, Hippocampus, and elsewhere. She also writes The Empathy List, a popular newsletter that has been nominated for a Webby two years running. She lives in Colorado.
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In this Patreon Spotlight Dr. Conny Nussbaum joins the discussion to share insight regarding what the Bible says about shame. Conny previously presented her research during a Patreon-exclusive meeting and I wanted to make sure it saw the light of day! Her research is clear, meaningful, and practical.
About Connie:
Studied PhD in Immunology (Psychoneuroimmunology) at Ernst-Moritz-Arndt-Universität Greifswald and is now studies Clinical Counseling (MA) at Winebrenner Theological Seminary. She formerly worked as a Consultant Scientific & Clinical Editor/Writer. Since 2010 she has worked with grief working as a Certified Grief Recovery Specialist.
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We are excited to announce Kristi and I will be spiritual Directors on the next DT Travel Cruise to Hawaii this upcoming September 21st-28th. Registration closes May 14th, 2024.
The theme of the cruise this year is “Unburden”. Jesus tells us that those who come to him will be permitted to exchange their burdens for rest. We will focus on Five Burdens. We will first discuss the burden of the inner critic and how to unburden the tendencies of Comparison, Perfectionism, Resentment, and Indecision.
To sign up for the cruise please visit: disciplestoday.org/kyle-and-kristi-spears-to...
About Kyle & Kristi:
Kyle currently works as a Life Coach & Therapist for those working through spiritual and emotional barriers. His ministry includes a YouTube channel, podcast, and blog and as well as a website featuring resources for issues associated with trauma and theology. Kyle has experience as a Licensed Independent Mental Health Practitioner and Certified Marriage and Family Therapist in the state of Nebraska. He has pursued biblical studies from Rocky Mountain School of Ministry and Theology and Harding School of Theology and was formally recognized as a teacher in the Omaha Church of Christ in December 2021.
Kyle was baptized as a teen in 2001 in Kansas City and Kristi was baptized as a teen in 2003 in Omaha. Kristi’s parents and her two siblings are also disciples. After graduating from high school Kristi served in the US Air Force as a medic. Kyle and Kristi met in 2011 during a weekend Kyle visited for a basketball tournament. They dated and were married at the end of 2012. Kristi works as a Physician Assistant specializing in Cardiothoracic Surgery and they are raising their two children Shea and Amya.
In this conversation we bring our series to a close as Tim Sherrill joins to discuss how to use the gifts of the Holy Spirit. Many people do not know what their gifts are or how to use them. One thing is certain, we are made to function using God's Spirit. Tim has conducted Spiritual Gift classes for our local congregation as well as others. His approach to helping people find their spiritual gifts is based in scripture as well as experience.
Tim and Wendy Sherrill were high school sweethearts and were married in 1979. Over the last 39 years, the Sherrills have led in varying capacities in churches in Detroit, MI; Phila, PA; Seattle, WA; Fort Wayne, IN; and Omaha, NE. They and their family have helped churches across the Midwest grow and be healthy.
Today, Tim and Wendy lead the Omaha Church and live to seek and save the lost. When they are not doing that you will probably find them watching classic movies.
They have three disciple kids, two in Texas and one in Minnesota and four grandkids, a daughter-in-law and a son-in-law.
Prior to being on staff in churches before 2008, Tim worked for Progressive Insurance for 23 years moving around to various locations and management opportunities, including working with industry associations and political affairs assignments.
Wendy has worked professionally in real estate and many volunteer jobs at schools.
Tim holds a B.S. degree in Health Administration from Eastern Michigan University (1983) and a Masters in Religious Education in MIssional Leadership from Rochester University in Rochester, Michigan (2019).
Q.What was the Jewish understanding of the Spirit? Definition of ruach? Uses of ruach?
Q. Is the “Spirit" in the OT also “holy”?
Q.How is the Holy Spirit present in creation?
Q.What does it mean when the Spirit came upon various characters throughout the OT? Senses of Ruach? Empowerment?
Q. What happened with the elders of Israel?
Q. What happened with Saul?
Q. What about Saul’s evil spirit?
Q. Is this the spirit of God or something else?
Q. What does this say about Saul?
Q. What are some OT prophecies regarding the Spirit that are fulfilled throughout the NT?
Q. Do the Dead Sea Scrolls have something to say on the Spirit?
Rolan Monje (BD, MMin, DMin) serves as an evangelist and teacher. He is Professor of Hebrew and Old Testament at Rocky Mountain School of Ministry and Theology in Colorado, and also directs the Asia-Pacific Leadership Academy in Manila.
Dr. Monje travels extensively (over 100 cities across 6 continents) and has spoken in countries as varied as Germany, Turkey, Qatar, Greece, UAE (Dubai), Ecuador, Canada, Nigeria, Myanmar, and Australia. He and his wife, Weng, oversee a region of churches in the Philippines and have been on staff over 20 years. They have two daughters, Yana and Stefi.
Dr. Monje's Bachelor of Divinity is in Biblical Languages from the University of London; his Master of Ministry is from the American Bible College in Florida, USA; his Doctor of Ministry is in Pastoral Theology.
Personal website: rolanmonje.com
Published books: www.ipibooks.com
“Into the Psalms” (2010), “Exodus: Making Israel’s Journey Your Own” (2013), “After the Storm: Hope and Healing from Ezra-Nehemiah” (2014),
“Finish Strong: The Message of Haggai, Zechariah, and Malachi” (2016)
Podcasts:
Ten podcasts on Interpreting the Psalms (download at douglasjacoby.com)
How does the Holy Spirit speak to our conscience?
How does the Holy Spirit sanctify us?
How does the Holy Spirit convict us?
How can we grieve the Spirit?
How can we quench the Spirit?
What does it mean to blaspheme the Spirit?
How can we learn to distinguish the Spirit’s voice from our own?
Dr. Bill Moulden has served in the full-time ministry for over 28 years throughout the Southwest, Midwest, and now the Heartland family of churches. He currently serves as an Evangelist and Teacher with the Gateway City Church in St. Louis, MO. Bill has Masters of Divinity and a Doctorate in Ministry from Trinity Southwest University in Albuquerque, NM. Happily married to Kristin Moulden for 28 years and father to three amazing daughters.
The Holy Spirit as a seal?
The Holy Spirit as a deposit, guarantee?
How does the Holy Spirit intercede for us?
How does the Holy Spirit create special intimacy with God (abba)?
How are we temples for the Holy Spirit?
How can Paul’s understanding of the Holy Spirit inspire us towards greater confidence?
Dr Andrew Boakye Lecturer in Religions and Theology and Member of the Centre for Biblical Studies at the University of Manchester and co-chair of the Paul seminar of the British New Testament Society. He is author of Death and Life: Resurrection, Restoration and Rectification in Paul's Letter to the Galatians (Wipf & Stock, 2017) and co-author of Rethinking Galatians: Paul's Vision of Oneness in the Living Christ (T&T Clark, 2021 with Professor Peter Oakes). He is currently working on the Word Biblical Themes Commentary on Ephesians for Zondervan Press and his research interests include Pauline Christianity, resurrection theology, masculinity studies and intertextuality. He has been consulted on issues of racial harmony and reconciliation across the Protestant communion and is part of a colloquium combating domestic violence in religious spaces. Andy is married to Chi and has two children - Aaron (21) and Storm (19).
In this episode we will be discussing the specifics of spiritual trauma starting with the basics. Dr. St. Jean is a professor of Social Work at King University who has served in churches for decades. He joins the conversation to share the latest from his book 'Spiritual Trauma: A Guide for Healing Your Heart from Church Hurts'.
If you are interested in contacting Sean please visit his website www.seanstjean.com
0:00 Intro
4:20 Why did you decide to write this book?
15:25 What personal challenges did you face in writing this book?
25:00 What do the ABC's of spiritual trauma stand for?
35:00 How has 'conformity culture wounded people specifically?
41:30 How do we reconcile both the good and the bad as we heal?
54:00 How do people lower their defenses and begin to trust after being hurt?
1:00:00 Why would those in leadership want to read this book?
1:10:00 How is it that people can appear one way to upper leadership and another to membership?
Karen Louis of Good Enough Parenting joins the conversation to discuss the concept of Autonomy Granting vs Autonomy Support. This concept helps parents navigate the choppy waters of healthy autonomy.
For more information on Good Enough Parenting please visit goodenoughparenting.com
Sam Youngblood is one of my Patreon Community members who helps to research various topics on the Biblical Literacy Team. This is also part of a new interview series where I interview various members who are in the Patreon Community.
Churches are faced with a constant need to understand the cultural demands around them. Sometimes churches can borrow from the culture in ways that create an unhealthy environment. Of course this is in effort to reach the world for Christ. Sam outlines three keys in conceptualizing church growth.
There are 3 primary ways that churches can emphasize church growth:
1) …by an exaltation of “The Great Commission”
-“The Great Commission” is used for rhetorical power
-That title is a new invention
-Matthew 28:18-20 points to a wider mission (“I have been given all authority…teaching them to obey”)
2)…by missing the big picture of God’s mission
-Old Testament portraits of God’s aims are wider
-Focus on “souls” rather than humans and creation
-Eschatology as an influence on the “then” and the “now”
-What kind of fruit do disciples bear?
3)…by misunderstanding church history
-Paul’s failure to thrust evangelism as the central task of churches
-How the early church following the apostles regarded Matt. 28:18-20 and their growth
-Supposedly almost 2000 years of no movement of true disciples until now
-Impulse of Christ, or Constantine?
For more information and to work with Lisa, email her at lisa.v.euthon@gmail.com or check out her website at www.euthoncoaching.com
Quote from Diane Landberg’s presentation at the Restore 2022 Conference titled Understanding Abuse of Power in the Church. "When you sit with others you are in essence to be a living breathing model of the character of Jesus Christ."
The late Bill O’Brien served as CEO of Hanover Insurance. When asked by Otto Scharmer to sum up his most important learning experience in leading profound change, Bill responded, “The success of an intervention depends on the interior condition of the intervenor”. From Theory U: Leading from the Emerging Future by Otto Scharmer
Morgan Harper Nichols, poet and artist at morganharpernichols.com and @morganharpernichols.
"You are worthy of the time it takes to work through this breath by breath."
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Todd and Patty Assad were full-time ministers for over 36 years, but in their 60s, they retired from the ministry and started over with new careers and a baby. Their adorable granddaughter, Charlotte, came to live with them about a year and a half ago when she was six months old. They became Charlotte's primary caregivers because of family mental health issues and addiction. Little Charlotte has already endured two open heart surgeries and other medical problems. Their lives have changed radically.
Todd is now a realtor, and Patty writes a spiritual but humorous newsletter called “What Just Happened?” at pattyasaad.substack.com.
Interview Outline:
1. Tell us about your background and why you decided to begin writing content?
2. Today I want to focus on the concept of resilience but I’d like to by talking about the expectations that we have about Christian life. People can become resentful rather than becoming resilient, what are some resentments that you have experienced or helped others in dealing with?
3. How do you define resilience? How do you approach building resilience in others?
4. What has ministry taught you about helping people become more resilient?
5. What are some things you have learned about God’s character when facing challenges?
Of course now he's tired of those songs so he's always writing new ones. Like spiritual therapy his soul is renewed by the act of writing songs that express themes of devotion, heartache, exuberance, fellowship, and a desire to change the world. Brian has released several albums over the years and is currently working in the studio on recording his next release.
Brian has a Masters degree in Ministry from Pepperdine University and is currently serving in the LA Church of Christ as an evangelist, teacher, and minister of worship and media. He has a beautiful wife and three kids he's crazy about. He blogs at jbriancraig.wordpress.com and uploads videos to youtube.com/jbriancraig
1. We wanted to connect last year on your album Wait for the Lord My Soul and its relevance to mental health. Tell us about the journey you’ve been on with your health.
2. How would you describe the connection between art/music, worship and mental health?
3. What can you share about dealing with loss, faith, and surrender?
4. How does this relate to where we are as a church and where we need to mature?
5. What are you working on now?
After spending a decade researching and going through every mainstream modality of healing to save her own marriage, she found herself 2 kids later, separated from her husband and on the verge of divorce.
At the final hour, she stumbled upon the unconventional game-changer of somatic work that took her marriage from dying to thriving in less than a year and has made it her mission to get this into the hands of every woman possible ever since.
To contact Becky visit idobreakthrough.com
1. Tell us a little bit about your journey and why you started your podcast?
2. As a Trauma-Informed Executive Marriage Coach, how do you approach the challenges of trauma? How do you involve the body?
3. You specialize in healing marriages, what are some factors to lead to emotional separation?
4. On your website you mention the idea of “How You Can Save Your Marriage Without Your Husband Being On Board”, how do you do this?
5. What advice do you have for those in churches who are on the brink of divorce?
What is the difference between being free versus being free AND fully alive?
What’s the first step someone needs to take to embrace his/her story – and why is it so crucial?
How does understanding trauma help us understand sin and brokenness?
Why do we need to lament our places of wounding?
Though it’s difficult—as you note—why is it necessary to talk about the Enemy? How does he use isolation, doubt, and chaos to trap us?
How can you determine if you’re caught in a “cycle of false freedom”? What’s the harm in these often benign behaviors?
What are some biblical references that underscore the power of invitation?
In Pivot, Scot and Laura help churches to implement practices,establish priorities, and cultivate the Kingdom Gospel-centered qualities that form goodness cultures. Readers will find answers to the four most common questions people have about culture transformation:
How can I transform the culture in my church or organization to make it tov?
I believe my workplace has unhealthy values. How do I initiate change?
How do I unleash a culture of goodness in my ministry?
I’m not in a position of church leadership. What are some red flags that indicate a toxic culture, and what can I do if I see them?
Pivot also includes the following practical features:
The “Tov tool,” a survey to help you discern your organization’s culture and to promote spiritual conversations
A “getting to work” section at the end of each chapter with questions and next steps for application
Transformation is never easy. But for the sake of the next generation, we must do it.
Scot McKnight (PhD, University of Nottingham) is a world-renowned speaker, writer, professor, and equipper of the Church. He is a recognized authority on the historical Jesus, early Christianity, and the New Testament. His books have been translated into Chinese, Korean, Russian, and Portuguese. He is the author of The Jesus Creed, The Blue Parakeet, The King Jesus Gospel, Revelation for the Rest of Us, numerous commentaries, and is now writing a sixteen-volume series of reflections called The Everyday Bible Study.
Rachel I. Wightman is a librarian, an educator, and a believer in finding the integration of faith and fact-checking. She is the associate director for instruction and outreach at Concordia University, St. Paul. Prior to moving to Minnesota in 2012, she spent two years as librarian and missionary in Kampala, Uganda.
1. Tell us about your background and why you decided to write this book?
2. The last handful of years have been challenging with the pandemic, politics, and racial tension. What are some observations you have noticed about how people educate themselves on these matters?
-You mention that algorithms influence us in Chapter 1.
-In Chapter 2 you mention paywalls that myth of free information.
3. In Chapter 4 you cover “noticing our emotions”, why is this important?
-In chapter 3 you mentioned that if a comment is removed we can become mistrustful or we label something as fake news out of frustration. Why do we respond this way?
4. In Chapter 5 “learning to evaluate” you talk about lateral reading. Give us an overview of what a healthy information gathering process looks like?
-People have become quite cynical towards supposed “experts”, what might you want people to consider? (It seems like people see themselves as the experts!)
5. As Christians, how do we balance God’s word with the realities of the culture around us?
-Sometimes people can become aloof or culturally out of touch in the name of being separate from the world. This can lead to being insensitive towards those who are hurting or different. How can we balance being not of the world and being all things to all people?
- How has the securitization of schools affected the next gen?
- How the challenges of the pandemic has stripped their hopefulness about the future.
- How can we incorporate practices that help Gen Z become more hopeful?
Dr. Amy McLaughlin-Sheasby is a professor in the College of Biblical Studies at Abilene Christian University, where she specializes in practical theology, homiletics, and wisdom literature. Her scholarship has been published in the peer-reviewed journals Interpretation, Homiletic, and The International Journal of Homiletics, with a forthcoming article to be published in Religions. Her most recent scholarship focuses on the impact of suffering on theological imagination and discourse. Amy and her husband, Nathan, currently live in Abilene, Texas, and are members of Highland Church of Christ.
1. You have written a series called Drawing Near to God. What made you create this study series?
2. How long did it take you? What have you learned from writing this series? What is different?
3. You talk about how the way you teach can impact someone’s thinking, perspectives, etc. How do you see that playing out?
4. Do you want to give a quick overview of your series?
5. This is by far the first complete study about the Holy Spirit in a series. What were your thoughts when you included this in your series? Can you share more about the Spiritual Formation group that you mentioned earlier.
6. I am sure you have used the series to study the Bible with someone. How has that been?
Matt Anjilivelil (pronounced an-jili-vel) has been a Christian for almost 37 years, baptized in the campus ministry. He has served in secular ministry roles in Boston, Los Angeles, Atlanta and Denver. He was part of the mission team to Amman Jordan in 1990 and then in 1999, he along with his wife Sandy and two kids moved to Kuwait to start the church. He led the church for 7 years, while holding a fulltime job. He has worked in the supply chain space for 30+ years. He has been married to Sandy for almost 29 years and they have three adult children including their son-in-law. They have served as shepherds for the campus ministry and young professionals for many years.
For more information on the study series email Matt at matt.anjilivelil@gmail.com
For more information visit https://andrewkitchen.com.au/
Support the channel through Patreon: patreon.com/kylespears
Tell us about your background and why you started your channel
What denomination do you associate with?
How do you interpret Mt. 28:18-20?
How do house churches fit into the Great Commission?
What are some traps churches that are eager to grow fall into in trying to fulfill the Great Commission
In what ways has a corporation culture made discipleship transactional?
What about the concern regarding teaching and appointing elders?
How do you connect with Legacy churches?
Why don’t you take a financial collection?
What do you mean by the “system is broken”?
Resources and Books:
To Dream Again - Robert Dale (church lifecycle)
Tombstones to Cornerstones - Rick Krug (change language from Church is dying to church is finishing)
The Speed of Trust - Stephen M.R. Covey
Multipliers (free ebook) by Todd Wilson. I did not name of this book, but I believe this is where the 99% of churches not live past 100 statistic comes from. multiplication.org/product/multipliers
Curtis Sergeant
https://Zume.training - 20 hours of free dis joke making training. Amazing material!
2414now.net Resources for disciple making and house churches
Revisiting the Master Plan of Evangelism by Coleman free ebook - discipleship.org/shop/revisiting-the-master-plan-of-evangelism
For more content from Matt Dabbs go to his channel! youtube.com/@revolutionofordinaries
Why did you decide to pursue a house church model?
What does the New Testament say about house churches?
Why do you think house churches seem to create tension with modern church movements?
House church vs small group are they the same?
Money/failed church plantings
What are some ways movements and house churches can partner together?
John's Website: fromhousetohouse.org
Books: “House Church and Mission” by Roger W. Gehring
"Relational Revolution: 5 Shifts for Rediscovering Church as Heart to Heart Connection” by White/Daniels/Smith
Academic Papers:
"Ecosystems of Grace: An Old Vision for the New Church" by Dr. Kent Smith - missiodeijournal.com/issues/md-7/authors/md-7-smith
“Economy of Grace: An Early Take on Vulnerable Mission” by Dr. Kent Smith - missiodeijournal.com/issues/md-4-1/authors/md-4-1-smith
John and Barbara were both baptized as college students in the early 1980’s. John was studying Mechanical Engineering at Clemson University and Barbara was a student at Harvard Law School. After graduating, they entered the ministry in 1985. Barbara was part of the Toronto church planting and John served as the leader of the church in Clemson, South Carolina. While still single, they went as missionaries to Mexico City in 1987 where they were married in 1988. Shortly after their wedding, they moved to Sāo Paulo, Brazil to work with a newly planted church; they lived for a total of 9 years in Sāo Paulo, and both their children, Joseph (32) and Jacqueline (30), were born there. They have served several churches in Florida and also lived in the Miami area for more than 10 years, training ministers and missionaries. After being in the traditional ministry for 30 years they decided to step out on faith and do ministry in a different way. Their new ministry is focused on developing a house church model. They currently live in Clemson, South Carolina where they are working to develop this model, train others and provide resources for those interested in planting churches in this way.
Kevin serves as the Senior Pastor of Turning Point Church Los Angeles and an Evangelist and Elder with the Los Angeles International Church of Christ. He has a Master of Arts in Christian Ministry degree from the Harding School of Theology, is a coach in the Racial Justice and Unity Center network, is a member of the Christians Seeking Justice (CSJ) national justice ministry, and mentors church leaders around the United States. He and his wife Tracena have two daughters, Tory and Kennidy, a son-in-law, Tory's husband, Derrick Hinton, and a perfect granddaughter, Mia Love Hinton.
Tell us about your conversion and why you went into the ministry?
What has it been like to be minister and advocate for social justice and openly talk about racism? It has almost been taboo for ministers to talk about it. Why have you decided to take a stand?
There are many folks in the church who feel like racial conversations have created more division than anything else. What would you say to those folks?
What are some ways that churches can begin to engage racism in a biblical manner?
What impact is the churches’ conflict over racism impacting the next generation?
Tell us about why you decided to start your podcast and coaching?
Why is forgiveness so challenging?
What are some ways that forgiveness is taught incorrectly?
What does the forgiveness process look like?
What resources, books would you recommend? Tell us about how we can get in touch with you?
For more information visit Beyondthewallspodcast.com
Instagram page: Beyondthewalls.podcast
Matthew W. Bates is a father of seven and Professor of Theology at Quincy University. His popular books include the award-winning Salvation by Allegiance Alone (Baker Academic), The Birth of the Trinity (Oxford University Press), The Gospel Precisely (Renew), and Gospel Allegiance (Brazos). When he isn't hiking, running, baseballing, or chasing around the seven, he co-hosts the OnScript podcast. Bates holds a B.S. in physics, an M.C.S. in biblical studies from Regent College, and a PhD in theology (New Testament) from the University of Notre Dame. A Protestant by conviction, he enjoys the privilege and challenge of teaching in a Catholic context. Learn more about his books or conference-speaking at MatthewWBates.com
Briefly describe your previous books Gospel Allegiance and The Gospel Precisely?
You begin the book with the concept of Jesus as King, why do believe this is important?
How do you believe deconstruction has affected our understanding of the gospel both positively and negatively?
In chapter 5 you write about a ‘Royal Transformation’, how might this benefit those who are hungering for a deeper understanding of discipleship?
In chapter 6 ‘Good News for the Nones’, on page 141 you mention quality over quantity. Why is this important to the nones?
Order Why the Gospel:amazon.com/Why-Gospel-Living-Jesus-Purpose/dp/0802881688
What does the Bible say about Unity?
Why did your congregation leave the ICOC?
In what ways has your congregation embraced unity or uniformity?
How has conformity affected the next generation?
How does culture contribute to an understanding of unity?
About Will Archer:
William Archer is a visionary Lead Pastor with over twenty-five years of experience leading missional communities in diverse ministry settings. He is an innovative Evangelist with a proven capacity to cultivate and amplify theologically sound and culturally relevant messaging across multiple digital platforms. He is deeply devoted to developing healthy communities of faith that engage the business community and community partners committed to helping the least of these in the Commonwealth of Virginia. He has served on several boards nationally and internationally. He is an alumnus of the 2019 Class of Leadership Prince William and of the 2022 Class of Lead Virginia. Pastor Archer has an Undergraduate degree in Public Policy from Arcadia University and a Master's degree from Wesley Theological Seminary in Washington, DC. He is currently a Doctorate of Ministry candidate at Virginia Theological Seminary in Alexandria, Virginia. He has been married to the love of his life, Latosha Archer, for 23 years, and they have two adventurous children, 20-year-old Mekhi and 14 year-old Journey. He serves as the Lead Pastor for the Potomac Valley Church. The Potomac Valley Church is an Independent Christian congregation in Northern Virginia with a deep commitment to serving all people.
Darryl Potter joins the discussion to introduce us to his commentary on Job and how he worked through his own crisis of faith.
Darryl's website is darylpotter.com
Mark DeJesus and Dr. Foluso join the discussion to answer the question of what is spiritual abuse? What practices cause the greatest harm? How can we equip churches to address the harm in a Spirit-led manner?
The event will be live-streamed through Facebook live and Youtube from 7:00 PM-9:00 PM Central Standard Time. The cost is FREE! Simply go to my Facebook page or Youtube channel on the date and time of the livestream.
The first hour of the conversation will provide a basic overview of spiritual abuse. The second hour will specifically answer questions in the comments section during the livestream. Questions will be answered from both Facebook & Youtube.
Mark DeJesus has served as an experienced communicator since the 1990s. As a teacher, author, transformational consultant and podcast host. He brings decades of pastoral and ministry experience to his current work in developing materials to help people experience healing, freedom and transformation. Mark is passionate about equipping people to experience mental, emotional and relationship health. He is gifted in provide grounded perspectives that help others address the core issues that influence the limitations and struggles we face. He is the author of numerous books and hundreds of teachings. Mark and his wife run Turning Hearts Ministries International and their broadcasts can be found at markdejesus.com. Mark and his wife Melissa enjoy raising their precious children Maximus and Abigail.
Dr. Foluso is a licensed psychologist who specializes in evidence-based and culturally informed treatments of OCD (obsessive-compulsive disorder) and anxiety disorders. She is passionate about working with highly motivated individuals who are driven and successful in several areas of life but struggle with anxiety, especially with perfectionism. Coming from a multicultural background myself, I understand that traditional therapy techniques at times can overlook or ignore issues unique to those who come from diverse backgrounds, so my therapy work is culturally inclusive. Regardless of your background, I eagerly work with any individual who is ready to tackle the uncertainty that keeps them from fully engaging in the life as they desire. You can find out more information at skillsetcounseling.com or her youtube channel www.youtube.com/@skillsetcounseling
Mark DeJesus and Dr. Foluso join the discussion to answer the question of what is spiritual abuse? What practices cause the greatest harm? How can we equip churches to address the harm in a Spirit-led manner?
The event will be live-streamed through Facebook live and Youtube from 7:00 PM-9:00 PM Central Standard Time. The cost is FREE! Simply go to my Facebook page or Youtube channel on the date and time of the livestream.
The first hour of the conversation will provide a basic overview of spiritual abuse. The second hour will specifically answer questions in the comments section during the livestream. Questions will be answered from both Facebook & Youtube.
Mark DeJesus has served as an experienced communicator since the 1990s. As a teacher, author, transformational consultant and podcast host. He brings decades of pastoral and ministry experience to his current work in developing materials to help people experience healing, freedom and transformation. Mark is passionate about equipping people to experience mental, emotional and relationship health. He is gifted in provide grounded perspectives that help others address the core issues that influence the limitations and struggles we face. He is the author of numerous books and hundreds of teachings. Mark and his wife run Turning Hearts Ministries International and their broadcasts can be found at markdejesus.com. Mark and his wife Melissa enjoy raising their precious children Maximus and Abigail.
Dr. Foluso is a licensed psychologist who specializes in evidence-based and culturally informed treatments of OCD (obsessive-compulsive disorder) and anxiety disorders. She is passionate about working with highly motivated individuals who are driven and successful in several areas of life but struggle with anxiety, especially with perfectionism. Coming from a multicultural background myself, I understand that traditional therapy techniques at times can overlook or ignore issues unique to those who come from diverse backgrounds, so my therapy work is culturally inclusive. Regardless of your background, I eagerly work with any individual who is ready to tackle the uncertainty that keeps them from fully engaging in the life as they desire. You can find out more information at skillsetcounseling.com or her youtube channel www.youtube.com/@skillsetcounseling
In this discussion we cover:
How do we look at Matthew 28:18-20?
How do we heal from the scars of growth pressures?
How does trauma influence how we witness to others?
What factors have contributed to the historical pressure to convert people?
Here is a link to purchase the book:
amazon.com/Trauma-Informed-Evangelism-Cultivating-Communities-Wounded/dp/0802882358/ref=sr_1_1?crid=36Q77F8ZOF1MI&keywords=trauma+informed+evangelism&qid=1681327008&sprefix=trauma+informed+eva%2Caps%2C107&sr=8-1


