Scott's Thailand YouTube Channel The Pretender Thailand 2016-08-28 | Scott Griffiths and his ladyboy partner Paeng have decided after much encouragement from many friends, fans and followers to start a YouTube channel. The channels name is “Scotts Thailand”. I always look forward to catching up with Scott and Paeng and their team at Sensations Bar in Pattaya and I know a number of you are fans of Scott’s and the bar as well. From an economic standpoint - ladyboy bars, along with ladyboy cabaret shows are where the ladyboys of Thailand can earn a decent living wage and where they are treated with respect, dignity and kindness by the owners and their clients. Scott and Paeng have always treated their ladyboy staff well, looked after them and cared about their personhood and it is these qualities that are important in everyones life and especially so in the lives of the ladyboys of Thailand. Scott has a very real opportunity here with his channel to take a leadership role in the public eye representing his bar, his ladyboy staff and potentially transgender issues on a broader scale. I’m sure he will do very well with his new endeavor. Please do check out and subscribe to Scott’s new channel. I’m sure he will fill it with lots of interesting and practical content about the colourful nightlife and goings on in the city of Pattaya.https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCczawWR_0tdrkJlia5rBF8wSupport Jarod via Bitcoin: 196MefANFp2Uiz2w34wpuRXaZUkPwS7S6DSupport Jarod on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=4681434
Passport Power: Why Us Western Men Are So Sought After in Thailand and The Philippines The Pretender Thailand 2024-05-02 | In this video Jarod delves into the intriguing phenomenon of why Western men, particularly those from the UK and Australia, are highly sought after in places like Thailand and The Philippines.
My focus changed significantly after I started working side by side with the Bargirls of Pattaya The Pretender Thailand 2024-02-21 | Jarods focus has changed. Working alongside the Thai bargirls on a business level has changed everything for him.
The Best Bar Investment Opportunity I Never Took The Pretender Thailand 2024-02-03 | My experiences since 2012 with a particular individual that now owns a successful ladyboy bar
An open talk about more of my experiences working in Soi 6 Pattaya Thailand in 2022/2023 The Pretender Thailand 2024-02-03 | This is one of the first open talks about my experiences working on location in Pattaya Thailand for 9 months in 2022 and early 2023.Please feel free to post comments and to contact me if you have any questions about my experiences
Video Recommendation - He sold everything and moved to the Philippines for 'love' (what not to do) The Pretender Thailand 2024-02-02 | Link to video:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N4bh482n3cg
What I learned working in Soi 6 Pattaya in 2022/2023 The Pretender Thailand 2024-02-02 | What are some of the most important lessons I learned whilst doing Bitcoin work on location in Soi 6 Pattaya in 2022/early 2023?1. Practice celibacy. A celibate man is very difficult to manipulate with sex and love bombing. You will be under 24/7 attack from both tactics.2. The bar girls are extremely efficient at their jobs. You must view them as a kind of work colleague that you're rubbing shoulders with whilst keeping them firmly at arms length and not getting involved in their troubles.3. Don't shit where you eat.4. It's a business environment. The people working there are at work. Never forget this.5. There is a large amount of money flowing through the Soi that travels from the pockets of western men and into the pockets of the girls, the bar managers and the bar owners. 6. The bar owners didn't have a method to tap into the remittance money supply itself until Bitcoin was created and especially before BTCPay Server came along. This has very far reaching implications for every red light district in the world. I suspect this is why I get a lot of views on my website from Germany and India whose countries both have large red light districts. 7. The girls skimpy clothing should be seen as their work attire (because it is).8. Avoid walking behind the garbage trucks that arrive around 4 in the morning. It smells really bad (I was waking up at that time I might add).9. Wear clothing with your business branding on it so the people know you're working there. Otherwise you'll be set upon financially.10. The cop station is just around the corner and the boys in brown are stationed at the top of the Soi (so watch yourself).11. The transsexuals in Soi 6/1 were all smiles towards me on day 1, day 2 their smiles turned to suspicion, day 3 to indifference and by day 4 the smiles disappeared and were replaced by looks of complete scorn. All because I acted professionally for after all - I was at work just like they were. Don't ask me about days 5-14 let alone the rest (their attitudes towards me got a lot worse).12. "Concerned citizens" abound and you have to be very careful of them.13. The Queen Vic Hotel has excellent low brow cartoons on the toilet doors.14. The rooms at The Queen Vic Hotel are perfect for a pop up office. You need only peer outside your window to observe all the ridiculous shenanigans and carry on.15. Being a middleman is the way to go when it comes to Bitcoin and a middleman is what's required there.16. If you view everyone around you as out to try to extract money from you, you will be right (almost) 100% of the time.17. Sometimes serious criminals, undesirables and unsavory characters from other western countries will stop and ask you what you're doing. Treat them professionally and with respect. Respect and thinking and responding quickly and appropriately is very important if and when organised crime comes a knocking (which they will). 18. Bitcoin is an open public ledger and it's not a good fit for organised crime (so you have the perfect way out of the conversation when they come a knocking).19. Temptation is all around you everywhere 24/7. It takes great strength to not give in. 20. Don't do steroids (even testosterone) because the increase in sex drive will push you over the edge and you wont be able to work effectively in that environment without giving in to temptation. For other times go right ahead if that's what you want to do. You can buy them at a lot of chemists just by walking in and asking for them.I could go on and on... There are just so many important lessons I learned whilst working there!What other districts in the word can an academic learn such street smarts?It's the world's stage for this kind of stuff!
Is it Poindexters job to give money and support to women? The Pretender Thailand 2024-01-31 | Is it Poindexters job to give money and support at his expense to women that would have either ignored him in his youth or openly disrespected and despised him for being a Poindexter? Former party girls who had zero interest in Poindexter during their youth and beauty stage in their 20's but who now looks a better option now during their 40's? A time when Poindexter has more of what they want but they have less of what he wants?As I get older I have noticed more and more incoming requests for money, free labour, free services etc from both civilian women and from sex workers. It's like every second woman has an OnlyFans as well and have come to view all men simply as idiots that will send them money merely for existing. The situation has gotten completely out of control.I'm not the only one that has noticed this either. As a public figure and Z list celebrity I receive messages on a daily basis from other men from around the world telling me they're experiencing the exact same thing and they're checking out of society because of it. Some of these guys are up to the B list in celebrity terms. Certainly well above me. It's like they've gone into hiding. They have excellent jobs, own their own homes, have wealth set aside but they feel like they're under constant attack from women eying their resources. They've developed a siege like mentality. Kind of like in Pattaya when that hooker was banging on my neighbours door carrying on and screaming and crying at all hours of the night whilst he was hiding in his room. Then she tried to barge into my room when I stupidly opened my door and asked her how she was. My kindness will be the death of me.I have taken to replying back with a list of my services and prices along with a link to my website to all incoming requests from women for money and support. Then they stop messaging me. Some also block me. As soon as I turn the tables and ask them for money and support it leaves them bewildered. Certainly in a state of shock and awe. Don't I know my role as a man?Where were these women when us men were younger I might add? When we were out there desperate for their attention?I live a pretty celibate life the majority of the time. I have noticed that when a man does this he avoids a lot of trouble and saves a lot more money.I have this theory that a switch occurred around age 30 and now sadly us men are going to have to deal with this sort of stuff from ageing women for the rest of our lives. Older male friends in their 50's, 60s and 70s tell me it's 100% true and have worded me up on all their strategies on how to look poor by donning the cloak of poverty and how to go unnoticed. A few male friends suggested I stop showering and been seen bedraggled and in dirty/sloppy clothes. One suggested I keep living with my mother as long as possible as it's the number one tactic they used to stop gold digging and support requests in their tracks. He also suggested I put all my assets in my mothers name. Another said be seen around town riding an old bicycle and dumpster diving whilst another suggested I talk endlessly about how bad things are going and then hold up a mirror to these broads and ask them for help constantly. Another said whatever I do don't tell women I'm married as they will see that as a serious challenge and a sign that I'm able to commit whilst another suggested that if I'm at all worried about not passing on my genes that I should contact Jone Donor (that guy who had hundreds of kids by hundreds of different women by donating his sperm) and do what he did but watch myself due to the laws that might put me on the hook for child support. My mother was aghast at the very idea I might add and made me swear I wouldn't do it.I might add - whilst I was renovating my families houses in Port Melbourne over the past 9 months I had more smiles, hellos and chats with women than I have had in many years. I'm the same person. Just the backdrop of living with mother dearest changed to a luxury location and a beautiful park view.You have to get up pretty early in the morning to get one past Poindexter (I was up at 2:30 am this morning for example). For after all Poindexter has spent his entire life thinking, planning, studying, strategizing, traveling, understanding people, chatting with academics and scientists and so on. What he couldn't glean from books and academics he went out onto the streets to learn from pimps, hookers and various hangers on.I'M NOT BUYING.Despite all this I have set forth on a path that due to my Bitcoin work will help hundreds of women in Thailand.And that's the irony I guess.
Transmen are much less visible than Transwomen but why is this so? The Pretender Thailand 2024-01-29 | Transmen are much less visible than transwomen but why is this so?It has everything to do with how we as a collective society value each gender.Women are valued by society on their youth, their beauty and their physical attractiveness. I'm not saying it's right but it's just the way it is. It's reality.Men are valued on their wealth, wisdom, income, work, their ability to provide and to take care of others from their financial resources.You wont see many young transmen dancing around a strippers pole or working in the sex and pornography industries. There's simply no demand. Women don't want that from men and they are certainly not interested in paying for it (in the vast majority of cases). But we see plenty of examples of young transwomen working in the sex and entertainment industries and earning excellent incomes in some cases.Young men are given a hard time by society. That's because young men need resources and energy put into them by older, wiser and more experienced men before they're able to provide value back to society via their work. This is why it sucks to be a young man.Young women in comparison are sitting on a million dollar check just by existing. A young beautiful woman for example is more powerful than the US president. Her looks can attract a large number of men and she can and does use her rejection card to select from and choose the best man her looks can attract. Female hypergamy has been greatly amplified by technology and social media. A woman's selection pool of men is no longer local. It's global. That's why so many men are checking out of society or leaving the western world. They can't find women that are anywhere near as good as their mothers and certainly not on the level of their grandmothers. So these men having correctly identified the issues in their home countries go to places in the world where they're the ones being looked up to vs being looked over in the western world. The western man being greatly valued especially as as a husband and resource provider overseas vs the western women who if they tried it would have a very tough time competing with the local women. This I might add is why passport bros are shamed. Despite not being attractive to western women the passport bro by his actions signals to other men that the grass is greener outside the country. The man who leaves his home country might give richer, more powerful men dangerous ideas that are not in the best interests of the western woman.One of the many reasons I went to Pattaya Thailand (which is on the world stage for the sex industry) was to see if my theories and my years of research on gender issues were correct. I saw and experienced nothing that made me change my views. Nothing. If anything my views were reinforced and made stronger.One of the greatest challenges a transwoman faces is de-transitioning. To go from being valued as a woman to being valued and expected to perform financially as a man and being treated as a utility again. This is my theory as to why we see so much sadness and suicide in the M2F transgender community. Ageing and with it not passing is greatly feared by transwomen. Having the heart, the mind and soul of a woman but not being able to express that physically is very stressful. The world being but a mirror reflecting back to them the worlds expectations that because they now look like a man they will be treated as such and expected to provide. To go from being catered to and provided for to being the caterer and provider is very difficult. I keep telling young transwomen to save and invest the sometimes large amounts of money they earn from sex work and to build a skillset that doesn't depend upon their image, their youth and their beauty. They're going to need both in time. Many have ignored my words until they hit 30. Then my words come back to them. The market signalling to them that their services have declined in value, the market has greatly shrunk and now they're looking towards Poindexter for support. We must remember that the million dollar check a transwoman gains from taking female hormones is not on par with the million dollar check a genetic woman (capable of reproduction) is given simply by existing. The check can only be cashed in by working in the sex industry (in most cases and with some exceptions). I have known and seen a number of transwomen age out of the industry. Only a few have made it. They tended to be the most savvy, the most business minded and the most reflecting and thinking of individuals vs their peers.You can see all this stuff play out very clearly when you work in the transgender community. Especially if you're behind the lens of a camera like I have been in the past and behind the desk of a nightlife/entertainment/sex industry specific Bitcoin digital exchange and remittance provider like I am now.
How I'm dealing with Big Tech censorship and their attempts to silence me The Pretender Thailand 2022-07-18 | Jarod talks about his own computing infrastructure that he has set up in order to be able to publish freely and stay in contact with everyone.Please become a member of the club: https://purpleparadise.com.au/membership.htmlOr send an email to: thepretender@mail.uncensorable.purpleparadise.com.auBy becoming a member Jarod can send you emails and you can view any content he creates in Thailand on his YouTube clone script. This is how Jarod will conduct business if he starts a ladyboy bar in Thailand.
Ladyboy Economics 101 - The importance of the market price of sex vs other activities The Pretender Thailand 2022-06-30 | Jarod talks about the economics of dealing with male to female transsexuals in the western world using a transgender cabaret show as the real world example.
Some thoughts on creating a management framework for sex workers The Pretender Thailand 2022-06-29 | Jarod talks about creating a framework for sex workers that takes into account the nurturing, escorting and emotional aspects of the work
Marriage is low risk high reward for women but it's high risk low reward for men The Pretender Thailand 2022-06-28 | "Marriage is low risk high reward for women but it's high risk low reward for men." Rich Cooper - The Unplugged Alpha.I was thinking about that marriage quote and I then thought to myself ex patting to Thailand or The Philippines is high risk high reward for men and high risk no reward for women (in relationship terms). Western men are highly prized for relationships in the developing world as they provide a source of income and security to the local women but western women marry up and are thus an expense in the developing world to any foreign man that gets together with one of them (which is rare because foreign men in developing countries earn a lot less money than western men in the first world so western women wont hook up with them in the first place).I'm currently trying to find the gender breakdown statistics of Australian expats. There are 20,000 Australians in Thailand for example that are long term expats. I suspect a very high percentage of them are men and I suspect that they have taken this high risk high reward path in large part because they correctly decided that marriage is high risk low reward and that's especially so in the western world.
My Thailand plans for the next 6-12 months The Pretender Thailand 2022-06-27 | Jarod talks about where he is at with the preparation for his upcoming August trip to Thailand and what he is thinking for future developments working with the transgender community.
Which countries of the world greatly prize western women for relationships? The Pretender Thailand 2022-06-27 | Which countries of the world greatly prize western men for relationships?Which countries of the world greatly prize western women for relationships? It turns out that western men are greatly prized by the local women in many countries of the world but there are no countries other than western countries where western women are highly prized for relationships.
Some thoughts on how the market values transsexuals The Pretender Thailand 2022-06-21 | Jarod talks about the market for trans people and what each gender values and is willing to place a $ figure on.
The Male vs Female Primary Fantasy The Pretender Thailand 2022-05-04 | Jarod talks about the male primary fantasy vs the female primary fantasyThe female primary fantasy is centered around the better homes and gardens dream. A home, white picket fence, marriage, children and a high status, rich husband that will finance the bulk of this dream. Children are very expensive and without a good man (aka - a good provider) single mothers struggle big time.The male primary fantasy is access to young, beautiful women without the risk of rejection. It's the dream of sexual variety at low cost without giving up the bulk of a mans time and financial resources.In the western world when a man dates there is the expectation that he will provide provision and support. That he will finance the primary female fantasy whilst giving up his primary male fantasy of sexual variety. This is why a man is expected to pay on the first date. It's a signal that he's willing and able to provide.In Thailand and The Philippines a western man is able to live out his primary male fantasy at a much lower cost (and much lower risk) than financing the primary female fantasy in the western world. This is why these countries are so amazing for men and why western men keep going back again and again. When the price of living out the primary male fantasy is much lower than financing the primary female fantasy how do you compete with that? When the divorce rate in the west is so high, when the laws are so biased against men and when the risk of losing everything is so high vs the benefits of the male primary fantasy path being so great and the risks of that path being lower in comparison it's a wonder more men don't choose this path.A western man is a walking ATM wherever he is in the world. That's how he's valued. That's the expectation upon him to be a good provider. A western man needs to decide whether he accepts this societal expectation and obligation or whether he will say f*ck that and everyone who tries to place that expectation on him for their benefit at his expense.Feminism has actually empowered men to be able to live out our primary male fantasy. Before feminism and equality men had no choice other than to be a good provider. Feminism has enabled men to see the chains we were bound by. To see the farm if you will. MGTOW men and men that have experience in South East Asia are way ahead of their peers on this. It takes a certain kind of thinking and analysis to be able to see and understand all this but once seen and understood it's impossible to unsee.With the rise of feminism we have seen women unchained from their traditional roles however the expectation upon men to continue being a traditional man has not really changed that much. Men are not really allowed to give up their traditional roles. Society crumbles and comes to a complete halt without men's contributions. There will always be men however that see though the bullsh*t and societal programming and will up and go their own way. Women don't want men to give up their traditional male roles. It's bad for business. When too many men do this It makes it much harder to find a "good man" (read: a man that's a good provider that will provide them with provision and support whilst giving up his dreams and primary male fantasy)."No one is more hated than he who speaks the truth"- Plato. See less
The Link Between Waist Size, Inflammation and Back Pain The Pretender Thailand 2022-04-03 | Jarod talks about his health troubles over the last 5 years which he has only now just got until full control and thanks one of his subscribers who helped his understanding of important health issues and the link between healthy food and inflammation levels and how they affect the body and health
The Tinder Swindler The Pretender Thailand 2022-02-22 | The Tinder Swindler | Official Trailer | Netflixhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_R3LWM_Vt70Watch on Netflix:https://www.netflix.com/title/81254340
Harsh Reality: The Story of Miriam Rivera The Pretender Thailand 2022-02-20 | Harsh Reality: The Story of Miriam Rivera is a 2021 podcast produced by Novel, provided by Wondery. The series is hosted by Trace Lysette and focuses on the show There's Something About Miriam and the life of Mexican transgender model Miriam Rivera.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harsh_Reality:_The_Story_of_Miriam_RiveraEpisode 1:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tOLyr6Cy_yA&t=1sEpisode 2:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mSpYG7vYw3MEpisode 3:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MS-B77hmwK0Episode 4:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q1P06iXDGZwEpisode 5:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a5U8OIVw5rkEpisode 6:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YytGJdlN9dw
The Sex Work Decriminalisation Bill has passed the Legislative Council! The Pretender Thailand 2022-02-10 | The Sex Work Decriminalisation Bill has passed the Victorian Parliament’s Upper House.This is a huge day for sex workers across the state! 😀
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Victorian Parliament will debate the Sex Work Decriminalisation Bill on Thursday 10th February 2022 The Pretender Thailand 2022-02-08 | This coming Thursday, 10 February 2022, the Victorian Parliament will debate the Sex Work Decriminalisation Bill 2021, originally tabled on 12 October 2021. This bill seeks to regulate the sex industry like any other service industry. This follows an August 2021 Victorian Government announcement to decriminalise sex work, a discussion paper and consultation period.The non profit organisation my friend Paul and I co-founded (Chrysalis Australia) made a submission to the review of the industry conducted by Fiona Patten the leader of the Reason Party in June 2020 based on our work in the transgender community and the very frustrating problems we ran into at every step of the way in developing and offering business services to the transgender and the wider Victorian community whilst staying on the right side of the law. We ended up doing volunteer film work (The Trans Showgirls events) because every other thing we wanted to do was far too risky given the current laws and for me in particular I was a federal government public servant at the time and I had to be especially careful on how I proceeded in private non government side work and even in my private life as the simple act of dating a transgender person could land me in hot water under the sex work laws if the person I was dating (a Thai citizen) was for instance to turn to sex work (which was very probable due to the big $$ on offer) and not adhere to the law (which is impossible to adhere to in it's current form and is different between states so my relationship would be problematic in South Australia for instance where I also needed to travel to work occasionally). I would have been rubbing shoulders with a criminal which I could not do (or be seen/be perceived to be doing) as a federal public servant.Our non profit work in the trans community together with our knowledge of the nightlife industry in Thailand and the Philippines gave us unique insight and understanding of the problems faced by transgender sex workers (and businesses employing these workers) both overseas and when they come to work here in Victoria. In particular we gained great insight into the problems we faced as a team when we grouped together to work which are almost all caused by outdated and not fit for purpose laws under the Sex Work Act 1994 (outdated not fit for purpose legislation which makes it impossible to comply with the law) , The Migration Act 1958 (cth), The Planning and Environment Act 1987 and other acts of law.Most forms of consensual adult sex work remain heavily criminalised in Victoria, driving most of the sex industry underground (which is why you see all those "pop up" brothels around Melbourne because it's much more profitable to run an illegal sex on premises business than a legal one because of the not fit for purpose laws). The end result is sex workers fearing police, businesses not able to offer legitimate legal services and the clients of sex workers having to be ever watchful on their activities in case they fall foul of the law as well. This repeal bill removes offences relating to consensual adult sex work, while maintaining police powers to crack down on organised crime, illicit drugs, human trafficking, child exploitation and bikie gang involvement in the sex industry.The debates and votes will be live streamed from the Victorian Parliament website. I encourage in particular those of you I know that are working in the sex industry in Victoria to watch this debate. The outcome of this is really very important. A large amount of time and effort has gone into this bill by a lot of individuals and umbrella organisations both not for profit and for profit that have contributed to it as well as by Fiona Patten the leader of the Reason Party who has been tasked with the job of conducting the review and making recommendations to the government on how the industry should be regulated.This is world leading legislation developed right here in Victoria that will improve the lives and safety of people working in the industry and the wider community and will make Victoria a better place.Date: Thursday 10 February 2022.Time: 10am onwards. Debate may go well into the evening. Times are Australian Eastern Standard Time (Melbourne time)Live Stream Link: https://www.parliament.vic.gov.au/video-and-audio/live-broadcasting?fbclid=IwAR2BijEFuL0zBQZLgwbQ8qO03kC_IUQLpNZ23iCQ3LU-WERr-v9ckX0XtOs(choose the Legislative Council option)
Paulina Porizkova Feels ❝Invisible❝ at 56—Even Though She's a Supermodel The Pretender Thailand 2022-01-19 | Article link: https://bestlifeonline.com/paulina-porizkova-aging-news/
Only Fans Leak The Pretender Thailand 2021-12-29 | Jarod talks about the OnlyFans website database leak.One of the things that very much interested me about Thailand was the red light district marketplaces. A market of course is a place where $ signs are attached to products and services (in Thailand of course they use the baht). I wanted to understand more about what happens when a baht figure is attached to sexual services sold by women and trans women to a marketplace of male buyers. Things like - Who would the top earners be? What characteristics would they have? Why did these particular women earn so much more than other women in the same marketplace?Why do some transsexuals earn so much money in this marketplace?I also wanted to see how big the market was for men that sell sexual services to other men and if there was a market where women were ever buyers (there wasn't one that I could see).So anyway - Only Fans had a massive leak recently and all the photos have ended up on a website available FREE to the world. The website is called only fans leaks dot com (Note: Not Suitable For Work). The photos are what we would expect on such a site and quite boring really and similar photos can be found all over the internet (nude, sexual in nature, provocative etc). What is interesting however is the photos have been organised in such a manner that we can see clearly and quickly who the top 10% and top 1% women are - the highest earning women. That's interesting because we can see what specific characteristics these top earning women have that earn the most money from SIMPS from around the world (what men are willing to put a $ figure on) and it 100% confirms my findings from back in late 2012 when I first looked at (what was) a booming market in Pattaya Thailand but this time it's on a much bigger scale.After a very brief glance at the leak my findings (which do not surprise me and please this is by no means a scientific study but I suspect we will see some economist conduct such a study based on the leak):1. The youngest women earn more.2. The most beautiful women earn even more.3. There are no overweight women in the top 10% or top 1%.4. There appear to be no transgender women in the top 10% or top 1%.5. There appear to be no women over the age of 30-35 in the top 1%.6. Many of the women are extremely fit with very little body fat.7. The facial bone structure of the top 1% of women all fit the Marquardt beauty mask very closely (In 2001, Dr Stephen R. Marquardt, a surgeon in California, attempted to scientifically analyze the mathematics of perfect facial beauty and developed facial masks which are widely used in plastic and maxilofacial surgery. The mask was even used on me when I had orthodontics and jaw surgery back in 2008).8. There are no unattractive women in the top 10% or top 1% of earners.9. There appear to be very few feminist type hairstyles (blue, green, etc) with all the women having long hair.10. All of the women have sexualized themselves in order to appeal to a males primary fantasy as defined by Dr Warren Farrell (A man's primary fantasy is access to a variety of attractive women without the fear of rejection). The male primary fantasy is why a site like OnlyFans exists and can make so much money at scale. No website has yet been able to monetise the female primary fantasy (security of a home, a family and a man to earn more than her to help her finance this life goal).11. There are no men in the top 10% or 1% despite the site being available to both female and male creators and enabling both genders to post content.12. Hour Glass figures are over represented with very difficult to unattainable figures / body shapes over represented in the top 1%.For me there is nothing new to see here but it is interesting to see that nothing has changed in the past 10 years in this regard in terms of what men want and are willing to pay for in this particular marketplace.
The Challenge for Ladyboys. The Challenge for Western Men The Pretender Thailand 2021-11-13 | Jarod talks briefly about the challenges for ladyboys and western men
Victorian Government Sex Work Decriminalization Analysis The Pretender Thailand 2021-08-14 | Jarod discusses and analyses the Victorian Governments proposed changes to sex work laws.Interested investors please email Jarod: thepretender@mail.uncensorable.purpleparadise.com.auEmails go directly to Jarod privately via his own email server running on his own uncensorable computing infrastructure.
Victoria to decriminalise sex work in world leading move The Pretender Thailand 2021-08-13 | https://www.premier.vic.gov.au/making-sex-work-safe-workThe Age - Victoria to decriminalise sex work in ‘world leading’ move:https://www.theage.com.au/politics/victoria/victoria-to-decriminalise-sex-work-in-world-leading-move-20210813-p58ijn.htmlThe Brisbane Times - Victoria to decriminalise sex work in ‘world leading’ move:https://www.brisbanetimes.com.au/politics/victoria/victoria-to-decriminalise-sex-work-in-world-leading-move-20210813-p58ijn.html?ref=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_source=rss_feedThe Australian - Andrews government to decriminalise sex work:https://www.theaustralian.com.au/nation/andrews-government-to-decriminalise-sex-work/news-story/cab6e8e5b281d6edc54514cb7fe441fbThe Guardian - Bill decriminalising sex work to be tabled in Victorian parliament by year’s end: https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2021/aug/13/bill-decriminalising-sex-work-to-be-tabled-in-victorian-parliament-by-years-endThe Guardian - Victorian government to decriminalise sex work after review hears of exploitation:https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2021/jun/30/victorian-government-to-decriminalise-sex-work-after-review-hears-of-exploitation
Observations on Transsexual Behaviour in the Western World The Pretender Thailand 2021-04-21 | Jarod discusses his observations made whilst working with a group of transsexuals here in Australia comparing and contrasting their behaviour with what he has observed and experienced in ThailandThis video has also been uploaded and will shortly be available on Jarods Uncensorable Computing Infrastructure Virtual Server which is running the Kernel Video Sharing Script (YouTube Clone): https://dev.purpleparadise.com.au/
My new email address on my new private email server The Pretender Thailand 2021-04-10 | Jarod has set up his own email server. This is his new private email address. When you send an email to Jarod it is him and him alone that receives it via his own server which is located right next to him and is not in "the cloud"
Uncensorable Computing Infrastructure - Setup is now complete and online The Pretender Thailand 2021-04-06 | Jarod presents a high level overview of his new uncensorable computing infrastructure which he has set up for a future Thailand nightlife related business. This infrastructure cannot be censored by the big tech platforms and cannot be shut down without a court order and a government representative physically pulling the plug.This video has also been uploaded and will shortly be available on Jarods Uncensorable Computing Infrastructure Virtual Server which is running the Kernel Video Sharing Script (YouTube Clone): https://dev.purpleparadise.com.au/
Uncensorable Computing Infrastructure for my Thailand based business The Pretender Thailand 2021-03-17 | Jarod talks about how he created his own uncensorable computing infrastructure for a future Pattaya Thailand based business. Computing infrastructure owned, controlled and ran 100% by Jarod which cannot be censored, cancelled or taken down
The Pretender Paid Consultations The Pretender Thailand 2021-02-10 | Jarod will not be actively checking emails, messages, chats etc anymore. He will watch his Bitcoin wallet closely however. When Jarod receives Bitcoin to his address he will right away check his Pretender email address: therearepretendersamongus@yahoo.com.au Should you wish to consult with Jarod the procedure is this:1. You will send Jarod $100 AUD to his Bitcoin payment address2. Jarod will check his email address: therearepretendersamongus@yahoo.com.au 3. The subject line of your email should read “PAID Consultation Request”4. The email should include your contact details and the best way for Jarod to contact you. Jarod will then make contact with you as soon as he can. Your email should contain your bitcoin payment address you used to send Jarod bitcoin.5. This buys you an initial 2 hour consultation with Jarod and you can talk with Jarod about anything you like.You don’t use Bitcoin? Start using it – it’s a condition for consulting with Jarod. Learn how to use it. Do. The. Work.
Yahoo Mail Accounts Lose Ability to Automatically Forward Emails The Pretender Thailand 2021-02-02 | My apologies to each of you who I have been late getting back to on email. If you have emailed me and I have not responded please email me again. Yahoo made a change recently which they apparently warned about in November or so which came into effect on January 1st 2021 which affected me and I had not realised my emails were not getting through to my Thunderbird mail application on my Macbook Pro which is where I view all my Pretender channel emails. I'm now back in the Yahoo web interface and have been steadily working through your emails.
The Pretender Thailand announces he will be ex-patting to Thailand and The Philippines The Pretender Thailand 2021-01-24 | The Pretender announces his semi retirement and his next move which involves ex patting to Thailand and The PhilippinesBTC005: Bitcoin & Michael Saylor - A Masterclass in Economic Calculation:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jwgOVPJ2FnU
Male to Female Transsexual Sexual Market Value Graph The Pretender Thailand 2021-01-17 | Jarod does an original presentation based on his research and time working with the Thai and Australian transgender community and talks about a graph he created based upon this.This is original research created by Jarod - The Pretender Thailand.Download graph: https://purpleparadise.com.au/TransgenderSexualMarketValueGraph.jpgFeedback is most welcome.
Living the dream or facilitating it is currently illegal in Victoria The Pretender Thailand 2020-10-09 | The male dream - access to as many beautiful women as desired without the risk of rejection. Living the female dream - easy, legal, government trips over themselves to make it happen and provide support, the western world is the ultimate place to fulfill this dream, your role is a man is to make that dream possible for a woman at your time and expense. Living the male dream - prepare to travel to third world countries on your own dime and prepare to dodge bullets in your home country mostly in the form of government legislation that says you can't do that if you try to live the same lifestyle here as you do in the developing world.Link to article: https://www.theage.com.au/politics/federal/no-english-no-visa-australia-to-block-visa-for-partners-if-they-don-t-speak-english-20201007-p562o3.html
Sex Work as a Skilled Occupation The Pretender Thailand 2020-10-04 | Jarod re-watches the Star Trek episode “The Perfect Mate” and thinks about sex work as a skilled occupation. Kamala’s behaviour in the episode could be considered to be the gold standard when it comes to pleasing a man. There is a lot that can be learned by a woman or a transsexual from the episode about what behaviours men respond positively to and its essential viewing for any aspiring sex worker, bar or brothel owner or manager.
Uncensorable Computing Infrastructure for a Ladyboy Bar Business The Pretender Thailand 2020-10-01 | Jarod talks about building uncensorable computing infrastructure which is required due to the community standards in the sex industry being at odds with the community standards of the rest of the mainstream community which includes the big platforms like Facebook, YouTube, Instagram and the like.
Lessons I learned spending time in Thailand over the past 8 years The Pretender Thailand 2020-09-26 | Jarod distills some of the lessons he learned spending time in Thailand over the past 8 years from 2012 to 2020.Some people close to Jarod that don't have his knowledge nor his experience think his ideas and lessons learned are wrong.Is Jarod wrong about any of this?He works in a scientific field. What does a scientist do?Asks questions, does background research, constructs a hypothesis, test with experiments, troubleshoot, carefully check their steps and set up, they analyse data and draw conclusions, they see if their results align with their hypothesis, they ask new questions, form new hypothesis, they experiment again and finally they communicate their results.Here's 8 years worth of lessons / results in 6 minutes and 48 seconds
Tomi Lahren ❝Men Are Trash❝ Rant The Pretender Thailand 2020-08-09 | Jarod comments on Tomi Lahrens "Men Are Trash" rant
Jeffrey Epstein and the Unintended Consequences of the Criminalization of Sex Work in America The Pretender Thailand 2020-07-05 | Jarod talks about the Netflix documentary Jeffrey Epstein: Filthy Richand the unintended consequences of the criminalization of sex work in AmericaHere is Jarod's modified version for what he thinks will avoid the trail of destruction and broken lives that is caused by criminalizing sex work in The United States of America: 1. The full decriminalization of sex work in the United States of America. 2. Thai style bars with alcohol in every state of America. 3. Sex Work to be classed as a skilled occupation. 4. The introduction of Sex Worker Class Visas for foreign sex workers. 5. Easier and more straightforward ways to open legal brothels without local government trouble. 6. Legislation that enables American men in relationships with foreign sex workers that want to work in America to do some easily and legally without turning these men into criminals due to no fault of their own (eg: if foreign sex worker goes rogue on them). 7. Brothel owners to be permitted by law to advertise the services their brothel offers, to recruit sex workers and to promote itself.
The Victorian Government Review Into Decriminalisation Of Sex Work The Pretender Thailand 2020-06-21 | https://www.premier.vic.gov.au/review-into-decriminalisation-of-sex-work/https://reason.org.au/ Donate to the Reason Party: https://reason.org.au/donate-to-reason/The Pretender email address: thepretender@purpleparadise.com.auPlease contact me asap with any ideas you have for the review and I will include them in my submission. Both myself and my business partner are available to meet up in Melbourne with any subscribers that are interested in working with us on our submission.We're advocating for:1. Full decriminalization of sex work in Victoria.2. Thai Style bars with alcohol in Victoria.3. The introduction of a special regulatory zone for a trial of Thai style bars with alcohol in the Melbourne CBD and surrounding suburbs.4. Sex Work to be classed as a skilled occupation.5. The introduction of Sex Worker Class Visas for foreign sex workers.6. Easier and more straightforward ways to open legal brothels without local council trouble.7. Legislation that takes enables Australian men in relationships with foreign sex workers that want to work here in Australia to do so easily and legally without turning these men into criminals due to no fault of their own (eg: avoiding the road to hell being paved with good intentions by said men). 8. Brothel owners to be permitted by law to advertise the services their brothel offers, to recruit sex workers and to promote itself.
Questions for my interview with a Melbourne based ladyboy The Pretender Thailand 2020-01-04 | Please post the questions you would like me to ask in my interview with a Melbourne based ladyboyChrysalis Australia: https://chrysalisaustralia.org.auTrans Showgirls YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsvy3LXkZJUvik7rt45mK1w/videos?view=0&sort=p&flow=gridTrans Showgirls Website: https://transshowgirls.com.auPlease help support The Showgirls - Tip with Bitcoin here: 12TrxdtQLpcJVahvyctNk5k4M9Wv8QWMibThe Showgirls Facebook Page:https://www.facebook.com/transhowgirls/Pride of Our Footscray Community Bar:https://www.facebook.com/PrideofourFootscray/Miss Gay and Miss Transsexual Australia International:https://www.mgmtaus.com/
My Facebook Overnight Success Story The Pretender Thailand 2019-10-03 | Jarod recounts the story of his overnight Facebook success that has put him on the celebrity Z list
Why I never took marriage seriously The Pretender Thailand 2019-09-29 | Jarod briefly discusses why he never took marriage seriously
My volunteer work for the LGBTQ community The Pretender Thailand 2019-09-27 | It’s been 3 months since my last video. A lot has happened in that time and I want to bring you all up to date with what I have been doing and some thoughts I have had based on what I have learned particularly over the last 6 months that i have been performing community work
Reflections... The Pretender Thailand 2019-06-14 | Jarod had an experience with a ladyboy in Melbourne recently that resulted in these reflections. That's all he can say about that for now. Read into it what you will.
A younger lover in the Philippines - motivation for Fernando Manrique to murder his wife and family? The Pretender Thailand 2019-04-14 | Murder-suicide father in debt, having an affair with teenager, coronial inquest hears:https://www.theage.com.au/national/nsw/murder-suicide-father-in-debt-having-an-affair-with-teenager-coronial-inquest-hears-20190408-p51bzo.htmlInquest into Sydney family’s murder-suicide raises questions over fathers intentions:https://www.news.com.au/national/nsw-act/courts-law/the-delivery-clue-before-sydney-familys-murdersuicide/news-story/b5b0422cd395ec56c0a78f4c431f657d'A horrific thing': the death of the Manrique-Lutz family:https://www.theage.com.au/lifestyle/a-report-into-the-circumstances-behind-the-death-of-a-young-family-in-davidson-20161215-gtbhco.htmlSydney father was in affair with teen in Philippines at time of apparent murder-suicide:https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2019/apr/08/sydney-father-in-affair-with-philippines-teen-at-time-of-apparent-murder-suicideIs this the world's worst father? 'Deadbeat dad' abandons four children (including boy with cancer and girl with Downs) for new life in Philippines:https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2168126/Deadbeat-dad-Hans-Mills-abandons-children-new-life-Philippines.htmlWhy Hans Mills May Not Be Such a Deadbeat Dad:https://www.huffingtonpost.ca/lydia-lovric/deadbeat-dad-leaves-canada_b_1652713.html
Transgender Nightclub Membership & Funding Drive The Pretender Thailand 2019-03-29 | Jarod announces the membership & funding drive for The Purple Paradise Club Transgender Nights @ Pride of Our Footscray Bar in Melbourne, AustraliaPlease become a member today:http://purpleparadise.com.au/membership.htmlPlease support our GoFundMe page:https://www.gofundme.com/trans-sunday-eventsPlese consider sponsoring and advertising with us: http://www.purpleparadise.com.au/sponsorship.html
